["My girlfriend and I recently broke up.  It's hard being in a house by myself all the time", 'oh its really frustrating and not fair', "I used to be really good at being by myself, but I got so used to having someone around that it's weird for me now"]
ok don't feel bad be happy and search for your future behalf
My girlfriend and I recently broke up.  For the first time in 5 years, I have been in a  house all alone every single night.