['My husband takes it out on me when he gets woken up and it makes me so mad.', 'I think he should exercise more self-restraint when it comes to your relationship', "I agree, but he doesn't think he is doing anything wrong."]
That is very dangerous attitude to have. I would be very cautious as it may bring much unintended social consequences
My husband gets cranky when he gets woken up and takes it out on me.