["Detachment from the outcome is key to my personal success. Because even though I don't get my way one time, I know the odds will be better the next couple of times around it's how lady luck works", "You sound like you'd be a good therapist.", "Thanks.  I've just learned the hard way so many times that I've had to flip my paradigm on it's head and eat humble pie"]
It's been to be humble than rude or mean, that's my motto.
I'm always detached from the outcome of any scenario.  Because even though I don't get my way one time, I know the odds will be better the next couple of times around it's how lady luck works