['I was very apprehensive about someone coming to my house this weekend.', 'How come you were worried about it?', "Because I have been working on trust with this person and it's just at the beginning. I felt very uncomfortable and like I would be stepping back in too old patterns."]
It sounds like it might be time to consider moving on without them
I was very apprehensive about someone coming to my house this weekend. I felt very uncomfortable and like I would be stepping back in too old patterns