['I loaned my friend a good bit of money, but he does not seem to be in any rush to pay me back', 'If you report him to his wife, the shame will make him pay you back', "He doesn't have one (go figure) so that won't work. I just wish I had considered it more beforehand"]
Then talk to someone that he respects maybe they will talk senses into his head
My friend borrowed a good sum of money from me, but I guess he doesn't feel that paying me back is a priority. It makes me sad to know that my incoveinence isn't important enough.