['I am having to be strong and not respond when it comes to a person I care about at times.', "Yeah, it can be tough. Especially if you're in a heated argument.", 'Yes or when they try and bait you.  It is hard to not be an enabler sometimes. It requires a LOT of strength and tough love.']
I know right?!? Sometimes it's just best to be quiet, even though you know you are right, to help things get better.
I am having to be strong and not respond when it comes to a person I care about at times. It is hard to not be an enabler sometimes. It requires a LOT of strength and tough love. I