['I was pretty upset at my friend when he ran away from a fight.  I was actually standing up for him against two guys talking crap but he ran away like a little wuss', 'Well that still makes you a great friend!', 'Thanks.  Got 6 stitches on my face from a corona bottle when they blindsided me lol...but I still managed to knock out one of them so I was happy']
Sounds like you all should stay away from bars lol. But if it keeps you acting good at home, then so be it. Your friend sounds like he needs a crack too
I'm pretty laid back.  The only time I'll be upset at someone is if they talk a big game but don't live up to it