['I once saw my partner talking to her male colleague in a coffee shop. To be honest, i kind felt mad because of being jealous', 'I would be more than jealous, but maybe I am not super sane about that kind of thing', 'I think i should go easy on her as I am right now. She does not deserve such treatment from me']
That is probably true, but the stories we hear do not help
I saw my partner talking to her male college friend in the coffee shop. I became a bit mad at her