['When my spouse was out of town, a friend tried to kiss me!', 'wow, i do not know either to say, way to go or you better not', 'I said no and made the friend leave. I only like my spouse.']
that's good to hear, and if your spouse finds out she would be proud and mad at the friend
When my spouse was out of town for work, a friend stopped by to visit. This friend offered to kiss me, but I declined and asked the friend to leave. I only have interest in my spouse in this way.