['I am feeling a bit of trepidation about today actually.', 'Why is that, is there something scheduled today that you really are trying to avoid?', "Yes,  My partner was being a bit rude and he can explode easy, so it's hard."]
My first marriage was much like that, I hope you have a very calm day and no arguing.
I am feeling a bit of trepidation about today actually. My partner was being a bit rude and he can explode easy, so it's hard