['When my dad passed away, it was just really sad. It happened so sudden that I was not prepared.', 'Sorry to hear about your loss. Sometimes its better for it to be sudden rather than wait 6 months for the cancer to destroy you', 'I guess so. It made me a better person, but it did suck at the time.', 'everything passes with time', 'Indeed it does, good or bad.']
so decide wisely how it is spent :)
When my dad died randomly a few years ago, it really made me sad. I was just not ready for it to happen.