['My spouse gave me a gift, a watch. A friend of mine wanted to borrow my watch but I could not lend it to her. It values a lot to me', 'If it is a treasured gift, your friend should not be asking for it! how did you feel when she did ask you?', 'I was surprised because she knew who gave me the gift, but she insisted.']
Did she understand when you gave her the reason you didn't want to lend it to her?
I was given a gift from my spouse, someone wanted to borrow it but I could not lend it out.