["Had to attend a funeral of a family member in another state.  I haven't seen some of my family in a couple years or more.  It was nice getting to see them again.", 'It was nice seeing them dead right? Just kidding, I know you meant other people at the funeral haha', "haha yeah.  I didn't really know the deceased that well but my closer family asked me to be a pallbearer.  It was about a 5 hour drive to get there so it wasn't bad.  Haven't seen those people in forever."]
What is a pallbearer??
Just the other day went to a funeral