["I've got thick skin and can trade crass, classless, and politically disturbing jokes all day...but if someone insults my family with malice I go livid and deny all responsibility for whatever happens next", 'I hear you.  Jokes are one thing, family is another.', "A name carries honor and I'm willing to kill for it"]
I dunno if I'd go quite that far, but you do you :P
I'm a guy with pretty thick skin.  I can take the most politically incorrect or classless jokes and dish them back...but I become livid when someone insults my family for no reason