['Someone asked me for some money to donate to their charity and I told them no. I feel so terrible but I have such a low income that I have to think about my family.', 'I totally understand that. Sometimes the most important charity is your own.', "I just feel awful and can't shake the feeling.  I work two jobs though and I have tons of medical bills but I always want to help others."]
I like to think that if you get yourself right financially now, you'll be more able to help more in the future.
Someone asked me for some money to donate to their charity and I told them no. I feel so terrible but I have such a low income that I have to think about my family.