['I was only married for 4 weeks when I learned my husband was having an affair and ongoing after the wedding. I got him back by sleeping with a close family friend. I felt guilty and ashamed because it was out of character.']
Yeah that sounds really sad. I am sorry for what you went through.
After learning my husband of only 4 weeks was cheating on me I did the same to him. Not only was it before our marriage but I had found texts of him contacting her for sex after. To make it worse I slept with a close family friend of his.