['I have been with my boyfriend for nine years now', 'Congrats! How is it going?', "I think I'm going to break up with him. Nine years and last week he ordered a pizza for us covered in black olives."]
That seems very trivial but do you mean that he still doesn't seem to know you?
I can't believe I let my boyfriend order the pizza for us. Nine years and he doesn't know what I like on a pizza?