['My old roommate got a boyfriend, and obviously, she started spending a lot more time with him than at our apartment.', 'That happened my freshman year with my best friend. It really sucks at first, but eventually you get used to it.', "I eventually did, but I didn't realize how I really felt about her instead she was never around."]
I'm still friends with my old roommate, but I found other people to spend my time with.
When my old roommate got herself a boyfriend, I didn't realize how I really felt about her until she started spending more time with him.