['My husband told me last year that he wanted a divorce.', 'Sorry to hear that how did things turn out did you two make it work or going through the process now?', "Well, he didn't have a real reason honestly - just said he wasn't happy.  But it's a  year later and he's still here so - LOL!"]
He has to be happy if he still there marriage is important and he has to be open in communication with you instead of pulling the divorce card.
My husband told me last year that he wants a divorce.  Not real reason IMO, just said that he's unhappy.