 when my mom is dying I dont know what to do. I felt scared for the next thing will happened to her and to us. 
seeing your love one dying frightened me. I cant control myself to think about it.
user
What even made you think about that?
assistant
well, for one I am not prepared and for two this is the first time I felt this.  
user
Think of positive thinks instead, you have control over that.
assistant