I once admitted to a friend my feelings for a girl i was in love with, letting him in on a deepest secret 
Hey there, I have feelings for this girl
user
That's a wonderful situation to be in. Are you planning to tell her?
assistant
I think so, but it's a little scary
user
That's understandable, but you won't know her position on the issue until you bring it up. Either way it's your call.
assistant