All I'm saying is that sometimes, subconsciously a person will put themselves in a situation, perhaps even create it to have an arena in which to work out an unresolved issue. It's a covert way of addressing a problem.
Csak, hogy néha, tudat alatt, valaki olyan helyzetbe keveredik, sót, ő teremt olyan helyzetet, hogy a problémát ne tudja megoldani, de legyen mentsége.