DISEASE CHARACTERISTICS: Any of the following diagnoses eligible: Acute myelogenous leukemia beyond first complete remission Acute lymphoblastic leukemia Chemotherapy resistant non-Hodgkin's lymphoma Chemotherapy resistant Hodgkin's disease Multiple myeloma Primary refractory acute leukemia Secondary leukemia Chronic myelomonocytic leukemia No chronic myelogenous leukemia, aplastic anemia, or myelofibrosis HLA identical related donor required