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1. What does your role entail as Chief Scientist at Arria NLG?
As Chief Scientist I spend a lot of time developing Arria's core NLG technology. I have worked as a researcher in NLG since the late 1980s, and was one of the founders of Data2text in 2009. My challenge as Chief Scientist is to translate conceptual ideas about NLG (including lots of great ideas from Arria's developers) into workable and useful code. There is a huge amount Arria can do in NLG, the biggest challenge is probably prioritizing.I also work with clients, especially on projects in oil and gas and medicine. I have worked on oil and gas NLG projects since 2009, and medical NLG projects since 1995. I think there is enormous potential to use NLG in both of these areas, and I really enjoy working with clients and Arria's delivery teams to design and build solutions.
2. What excites you about Arria NLG Technology?
NLG humanizes information. There is an enormous amount of information which has the potential to help us, but the reality is that we often end up drowning in information rather than benefiting from it. This is true for professionals such as doctors and engineers, and even more true for ordinary citizens. For example, in many countries people have the right to see their medical record, but a record full of incomprehensible acronyms and numbers is not going to help many people, indeed it may scare people. NLG technology allows us to build systems which summarize and explain information, in understandable language, for different audiences; I believe that it will revolutionize how people interact and use data.
3. You've been instrumental in a number of Arria patents, which are you most proud of and found to be the most innovative?
Like most writers, I am most excited by the patents I am currently developing, not the ones that have already been published. That is, novelists are always most excited by the new novel they are in the process of writing, not by a novel they wrote several years ago; the same is true for me as a patent writer.
But with that said, I am very excited by the latest patent we have announced, on the generation of referring expressions. This is an area which I have worked on for many years as an academic; indeed my 1990 PhD was partially about reference (a different kind from the Arria patent). It is very satisfying to see my decades-long interest in reference leading to patents as well as academic publications, and I also believe that reference is something which is essential to high-quality narrative, and which Arria does better than anyone else.
4. What would be your ideal Use Case and why?
I personally am hugely excited by the potential of using NLG to help people manage their own health. By this, I mean apps that take in medical data (medical records and sensor data), and produce easy-to-understand texts that help people live healthier lives (e.g. diet, exercise, smoking), manage chronic conditions (e.g. diabetes, asthma), and comply with treatment regimes (e.g. take medication appropriately). The biggest challenge in healthcare in 2016, at least in the developed world, is to help people manage their health better, and I think NLG can make a tremendous contribution here.
5. Where do you see NLG technology in 5 years?
There are a lot of great ideas floating around in Arria and the wider NLG world, and of course it's hard to predict which ones will take root and grow. For what its worth, I think that in 2021 we will be much better at producing high-quality narratives, because we'll be using better models of narrative coherence and structure; these will be motivated at least in part by research on narrative in psychology and literature. We willl be much better at personalizing narratives and texts for different users depending on their task, expertise, personality, etc. Also we'll be able to automatically derive personalization models from corpora (e.g. we'll create a personalization model for a user by automatically analyzing his/her emails). Finally, Arria will be much better at producing multimodal interactive documents which integrate narratives and visualizations; this will be driven by a better understanding of the strengths and weaknesses of these modalities for communicating specific types of information and messages, which will come in part from psychological research.
Prof. Ehud Reiter is the Chief Scientist of Arria NLG, and also a Professor of Computing Science at the University of Aberdeen. He has worked on natural language generation for the past 30 years, and has published 125 peer-reviewed academic papers and been awarded 5 patents; he also is the author of a widely used NLG textbook. In his university role he has been involved in several medical projects, and has published papers in British Medical Journal and other leading medical journals.


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34 Seconds Kindle .99 Cents Sale
It looks like my week was too busy for me to advertise the Kindle sale on 34 Seconds. It's on sale for .99 cents for the next several days.
You can pick it up here. 34 Seconds .99 Cents Kindle Sale
I'd appreciate it if you'd tell your friends too because my week was too crazy ass busy to tell anyone
This has been the craziest week since the big move to a mile south of the sun. My broken foot hurt worse this week than it did the week I broke it. It is now wrapped and inside the silly shoe. I'd like to say stupid shoe, but it has a purpose and things with purpose can't be stupid. With one job, there are few opportunities for it to fail.
Sunday night I went to bed knowing our cat, Beethoven, was sick again. I missed the signs last week. If only he could talk, he would have told me he had a tummy ache. I might have asked him if he'd pooped today, and he might have said, "I haven't pooped in a week." But because he's a cat, none of that happened, and I had to see him doing three things before I knew. One of those things was him squatting in the middle of the room straining to poop. I figure that was his way of getting my attention and saying, "See? I could sit here and push…and nothing. I got nothing. I can't poop." He was at the vet's office for four days this week. He spent one overnight there and did not look happy when I asked him how his sleepover was. Evidently, they didn't play pin the tail on the donkey or Twister. But they did shave his tail and twisted him in several positions to force out the poop….this after three days prior with at least three enemas each day and several X-Rays. Now he's home. And he's stinky. But he didn't die. And since I am the one who saved him, he won't leave my side.
Add to that four eye doctor's appointments for me and my children and new glasses for me, one school assembly, and one daughter who lost her contact after it fell out of her eye in the middle of class, library books due, lunch out, picking up my wedding band from a store an hour away, and all the normal things I do each week. It was simply a crazy week.
And I missed out on marketing my own sale.

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Sonya is extremely gentle and knowledgeable, having studied both in Australia and China. When you get to know Sonya you will understand why she is so passionate about acupuncture that she reads text books for bed time stories.
Along with traditional acupuncture Sonya will often include healing treatments such as cupping, moxibustion, electro acupuncture and gua sha (skin scraping) as required. Unlike some acupuncture clinics that charge extra for any of these services, you can rest assured with peace of mind that Sonya will do whatever it takes to heal you without any extra or hidden fees… although if you require any herbs to take home they will be an extra.
We have created the ultimate relaxation space with 2 private treatment rooms, one specially set up for couples treatments (perfect for making sure both of you are at your best)
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First left at the top of the hill, you will see the sign out the front. Simply park under the tree and be prepared for healing.
To book an appointment please txt 0435641710 with your preferred day and time, txt is easier as Sonya is always busy treating patients.
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If you'd like to see a list of things that Acupuncture can treat, have a look at our resources page.
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Even if you are an accidental NBA follower, as I am, you know that this is their time. The NBA Championship Finals are on the small screen now and there are two MAGIC stars. The Orlando MAGIC that are battling the L.A. Lakers for the #1 title, are front and center. However, also commenting from the sports desk is another MAGIC…..basketball icon, Magic Johnson.
Well……Magic is not the only star in the Johnson household. Cookie Johnson, wife of M.J., has always been connected to fashion. She was tired of the void that existed in fashion denim for the curvaceous ladies, so she teamed up with Michael Glasser, of Seven for All Mankind, Citizens for Humanity and Rich & Skinny to transform many of their best jean styles for Girls with Curves! Now, women of all ages, shapes & sizes that want premium fashion denim can find ALL the popular fashion styles; bootcut, straight leg, boyfriend, leggings and more, to fit their bodies!
The name of the collection is CJ by Cookie Johnson and can be found exclusively in Houston at DIMENSIONS, 6100 Westheimer.
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Schools Need More Computer Science Education, Earlier
Career Path : Education News
James Flynn, a former resident of Newfoundland and current University of Toronto student says that had he learned computer science skills earlier on in life, he would have taken programming in university.
Despite the growing demand of programming and other computer science-related professionals, some provinces are lacking in terms of high school computer education. Flynn says that Newfoundland is one of those places.
About HTML courses offered in today's school, he said, "People don't take it because they want to learn computer science, they take it because they want to do nothing in class."
Flynn is now the founder of Code NL, where he and other programmers are rallying to improve computer education in Newfoundland schools. According to him, only 22 students graduated from Memorial University's computer science program this year. Paired with Newfoundland's high unemployment rate (13.9%), it seems that the lack of computer science education is holding today's students back from future career options. Computer science careers are estimated to have about 1.4 million job openings by 2020.
How do you think high schools can implement better computer science programs?
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#1208 Ready for Robots?
January Series guest
As people have fewer phone conversations, choosing instead to use texts and on-line social networking, anthropologist Sherry Turkle has noticed something. Director of the MIT Initiative on Technology and the Self, she researches how people interact with experimental sociable robots. People are growing more receptive to robots taking the place of some human relationships as we become more accustomed to our narrowing human interactions. Hear this and other observations from her book Alone Together: Why We Expect More from Technology and Less from Each Other. Karen Saupe hosts.
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#1212 Creative Farming
January Series guest
"Organic is just the beginning: why stop there?" asks Joel Salatin, entrepreneur and owner of Polyface Farm in the Shenandoah Valley of Virginia, known for its unique approach to sustainable farming. His home-made inventions rely on creative problem-solving and hi-tech materials to gain the most wholesome use of his land and livestock. Featured in Food, Inc. and Omnivore's Dilemma, Salatin sums it up with his latest book title--Folks, This Ain't Normal: A Farmer's Advice for Happier Hens, Healthier People, and a Better World. Karen Saupe hosts.
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#1117 Exchanging Gangs For Jobs
Finding a job may not seem the highest priority for most gang members, but Father Greg Boyle learned otherwise when he befriended gang members in his parish and started the largest gang intervention program in the U.S. His book Tattoos on the Heart: The Power of Boundless Compassion describes his personal experience working with Homeboy Industries in downtown Los Angeles for over twenty years, and he shares what those experiences have taught him. Shirley Hoogstra hosts.
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#1303 Molestation: Breaking the Silence
There's a life-altering trauma that 1 in 5 American children experience, yet it rarely comes up in conversation: molestation. Survivor Nicole Braddock Bromley started an organization called OneVOICE Enterprises to break the silence in our families and in society. She discusses conversations she has had with hundreds of victims on her speaking tours, and experiences related in her books, including Hush: Moving from Silence to Healing after Childhood Sexual Abuse. Shirley Hoogstra hosts.
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#1309 Restoring Hearts in Iraq
In Iraq, the alarming rate of children born with birth defects is actually opening doors to collaborations that never existed before. Jeremy Courtney & Cody Fisher, co-founders of the Preemptive Love Coalition, describe their adventures bringing together foreign doctors and sick children with some amazing results. Along the way, they've found that the hearts that have changed most have been their own.
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#1204 Moral Injuries in War
We know that soldiers can be injured physically, or suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder. But there's a third kind of injury that results when soldiers engage in actions that violate their own moral principles; it's known as "moral injury." Herman Keizer, chaplain for the U.S. Army for over 40 years, tells about a movement seeking to change how the military regards and addresses injuries to the conscience. Karen Saupe hosts.
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#1018 Bringing Hope to Prisoners
Imagine being asked to take charge of one of the bloodiest prisons in America, where cell-mates chose to sleep in shifts in order to protect each other. Burl Cain, Prison Warden of the Louisiana State Penitentiary (also known as Angola) was given this charge, and became committed to changing the reputation of the prison. He describes his winning mixture of devotion and discipline. Shirley Hoogstra hosts.
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#1019 Feasting at a Food Pantry
Out of curiosity, a woman walks into a church. She's offered communion, and it changes her life. She ends up turning the feast into a food pantry, which nurtures others (as well as herself) beyond what she ever imagined. Sara Miles, director of St. Gregory's Food Pantry in San Francisco, shares thoughts from her memoirs Take This Bread and Jesus Freak: Feeding Healing Raising the Dead. Karen Saupe hosts.
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#1020 The Power of Writing
We hear about prisoners, but not so often from prisoners. When bestselling novelist Wally Lamb (She's Come Undone, I Know This Much is True) tried his hand at teaching prisoners to write, he had no idea how many lives would be impacted. Hear how their compelling personal stories were published after considerable opposition from the prison. Karen Saupe hosts.
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#1314 A Wounded Warrior Finds Hope
Are soldiers prepared for the life-altering sacrifices they may have to make? Captain Scotty Smiley enthusiastically joined the army, graduated from West Point, and then lost his eyesight when an Iraqi car bomb exploded in front of him. Hear about his journey back to wholeness, as described in his memoir Hope Unseen: The Story of the U.S. Army's First Blind Active-Duty Officer. Shirley Hoogstra hosts.
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#1007 Accommodating the Autism Spectrum
With the definition of autism now encompassing a wide range of behaviors, more people find themselves daily encountering those diagnosed with some version of this disorder. How can we make more room for differing styles of relating? Laurel Falvo of The Gray Center for Social Learning and Understanding provides ideas for improving communication on all sides. Shirley Hoogstra hosts.
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#1107 An Orphan's Story
When a child has been abandoned by his or her parents, it leaves a wound that is hard to heal. Those nearby may feel there is nothing they can do for so deep a need. Rob Mitchell, author of Castaway Kid: One Man's Search for Hope and Home, describes how several people made a difference during his childhood in an orphanage. Shirley Hoogstra hosts.
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#1008 Pornography's Destructive Path
Although viewing pornography is often dismissed as a rite of passage into adulthood, Michael Leahy,author of Porn Nation and Porn University, hears a different message from thousands of college students. Many are not prepared for the guilt, altered perspective, and addiction that often follow in pornography's wake. Leahy describes the destruction from first-hand experience, and suggests ways to begin rebuilding. Karen Saupe hosts.
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#921 True Community Development
When families climb out of poverty, they often leave their old neighborhoods behind. What can help an at-risk population when it loses its stabilizing core? Today we'll hear from long-time civil rights activist and author John Perkins, who holds 9 honorary doctorates for his tremendous success building up poor communities across the country. Shirley Hoogstra hosts.
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#908 Silent Racism
Is racism a thing of the past or is it still with us, something many people try to will away and out of sight? Barbara Trepagnier, sociology professor at Texas State University-San Marcos, discusses the subtleties of prejudice in her book Silent Racism: How Well-Meaning White People Perpetuate the Racial Divide. Karen Saupe hosts.
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#1110 Making it to College
For too many students, the hurdles to getting a college diploma are nearly insurmountable. Brandy Johnson, Michigan director of College Access Network, describes the national program designed to support, inform, and encourage students so they have a better chance at career choices and salaries they'd like. Karen Saupe hosts.
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#906 Clothing Matters
Buying a shirt? Basing your decision on the look and price? Shopping for clothing may feel like a straightforward venture, yet the story behind each garment is complex. Activist and entrepreneur Marta Swain, owner of a community-minded apparel store in Grand Rapids, weaves stories of sustainable farming and labor practices with advice for benefiting everyone involved in your purchase. Karen Saupe hosts.
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But mind you: it is a luxury version because of the amount of tiles it needs!!
And I needed to make sure that the house can actually cope with the weight...
I decided NOT to have two layers of tiles (bottom and top) but to fake this only at the endings.
Reasons: the roof would have become too heavy and it is difficult to keep the tiles straight without the guidelines of the cardboard. Because there are no reverse tiles at the bottom, I had to arrange them a little closer than usual. This way, the cardboard is not visible. I covered about 1/2 to 2/3 of the underlaying tile with the next one. I needed 120 tiles for an area of 20x20cm!
The materials I used:
- Packaging cardboard (preferably not 'sandwiched' but open on one side, or peel off one side) with a 1cm wave.
- Clay roof tiles from Indalchess.com. The size I used is: length 3.5cm, width 1.6cm to 0.6cm (narrowest side). Exact description: Arab miniature tiles 35mm long. Ref. 3500771 Keranova.
1:10 scale is too large, I tried that..
- Chalky paints to color the tiles
- Wood strips for the facia, stained
- White glue
- Acrylic terracotta paint
1. I tiled the roofs before glueing them onto the house: glued the packaging cardboard onto 5mm foam board.
IMPORTANT: makes sure that you have an EVEN number of ridges.
2. Glue facia on sides, making sure it is wide enough at the front to add guttering if you want to.
Glue facia on side ensuring that the top is level with the ridges of the cardboard - to make an additional ridge on both sides.
Tip: if you want to attach guttering, the facia must be wide enough...
3. Stain or paint facia boards
4. Color the 'valleys' of the cardboard with terracotta shade crayon, feltpen or acrylic paint.
5. Color the clay tiles. I used white chalky paint, partially watered down or added other shades to create an uneven colored, lively roof.
6. If the underside of the roof is visible, best to now glue the faux roof underneath. Here one to download.
7. Lay roof tiles, using any glue. The white wood glue worked perfectly well for me.
Start at the gutter side and let them protrude minimum 1cm (try and see if the the guttering fits).
I used 17mm spacing laying these tiles.
I waited with attaching the last row of tiles in case I need to trim them.
8. Fake endings: I cut the tiles with my table saw and glued the small pieces under the first row of tiles.
9. Glue roofs onto the building. For added stability I insered wire rods through the roof into the side walls.
I hope that this helps someone interested in Mediteranean mini roofing!


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I love my wife and our sex life is great but I am also sleeping with two other women
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Dear Deidre
I LOVE my wife and our sex life is great but I am also sleeping with two other women. My life is out of control.
I'm 34 and my wife is 35. We have been married for eight years and have two boys aged seven and five.
We have a great relationship but even so, there are these two other women in my life.
The first one works in my building and we have a connection like no other I have ever known.
We tell each other everything. We don't see one another every day but we never fail to send each other daily messages.
We have amazing romps and also practise tantric sex when we have the chance to be together in that way, which is usually four to five hours each week.
I love this woman in a very different way to my wife.
I feel we are soul mates and should be together. If it wasn't for my children I think we would be.
She is 33 and married but she has told me loads of times that she does not love her husband.
The other woman in my life is my wife's sister.
She is 32 and single.
We don't get on that well but we seem physically attracted to one another.
We meet up once every couple of weeks and it is just for one thing — sex.
She has an amazing body and is not afraid to try anything.
She's very adventurous and I just can't say no to her.
It may seem bad but I don't feel guilty about what I am doing to my wife.
I feel as though I am cheating on my lover at work with my wife and her sister.
I know this is a train wreck waiting to happen but I am scared that if I finish with my wife's sister, she will go and tell my wife everything.
Do I come clean and leave my wife, finish with her sister and concentrate on building a new life with the woman at work?
I really love my kids and don't want them to get hurt, but I don't know how to stop this.
DEIDRE SAYS: You do, but it will take willpower.
You know you can't have it all.
Even if we're in a great relationship, we all feel attracted to other people sometimes but we don't have to act on those feelings.
Your wife will be devastated if she discovers what is going on with not just your colleague but her sister too.
She's been doubly betrayed by two people she thought she could trust.
The best plan now is to tell your colleague that you need to sort out your marriage one way or the other.
Agree you can't see one another, at least for now.
Steer clear of your wife's sister from now on, too. It's unlikely she'll really confess to your affair as she would come out of it looking bad too.
Try to make your marriage work for your children's sake. Your little boys' lives will never be the same again if you end your marriage.
My e-leaflet Can't Be Faithful will help you.
Dear Deidre
MY daughter has told me that I can only see my granddaughter twice a week.
I'm heartbroken.
I've always put my family first.
I am 46 and my husband is 50.
My daughter is 25 and my granddaughter is three.
I gave up work to care for her when she was born.
My daughter has always used me as a crutch to lean on.
She broke up with the father of her child, who always put her down, but is now with a guy who is very controlling.
She's told me I can only look after my grand-daughter twice a week and says she doesn't want to see me, her dad or her brother.
Her new boyfriend has threatened me and my family, too.
I love my daughter so much and I have spoken to her but she says her life is better without me in it.
DEIDRE SAYS: What a worry.
This man sounds abusive but your daughter probably feels defensive about the relationship.
Don't argue with her or she may cut all contact with your granddaughter, who needs you especially now.
Tell your daughter you love her and are always there for her.
You can find ongoing support at Grandparents Plus (grandparentsplus.org.uk, 0300 123 7015).
Dear Deidre
SINCE he started smoking loads of weed, my boyfriend has changed so much.
Now I wonder if I'd be better off without him.
He was such a charmer when we first met.
He showered me with affection and I felt like his princess.
Sex was always great and we felt that we were made for each other.
When he started smoking weed, he stopped being as interested in me.
He used to be my rock but now doesn't seem to care.
My fella is 30. I am 28 and have a five-year-old son from a previous relationship who thinks the world of him.
My boyfriend started to spend more time in the bookies and lost his job and our house due to gambling.
We split up and I had to move into a refuge.
We got back together and I am pregnant but I don't get any support from him.
He's still on the weed and fights with me for no reason.
DEIDRE SAYS: He has a serious drug problem and his behaviour is damaging for you and your son, and will be for your baby.
Only he can choose to stop smoking weed and there's no sign he's going to do that.
Best walk away – and be firm this time.
Get support through Adfam who help families affected by drink and drug problems (adfam.org.uk).
He won't let me check his phone
Dear Deidre
WHEN I asked to see my boyfriend's phone he said I was breaching his privacy.
He's been chatting to other women but says they're just friends and that I'm paranoid and jealous.
I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 25.
A friend told me that he was on a dating site and his page there said he was single.
He admitted it was on his phone but said he hadn't used it.
Then I discovered his ex had contacted him.
He tried to say he hadn't replied – and he hadn't on Facebook but he was still texting her and another girl who had said she loved him.
I don't mind him talking to females, except his ex or any girl who's after him.
Yes it is OK for him to have some female friends.
But their chats should be friendly not flirty, the sort he would be perfectly happy to share with you.
DEIDRE SAYS: Tell him that he is either open and trustworthy and lets you have unrestricted access to his phone, or you will leave him to his own devices.
I advise you to give him another chance, but make sure it's his last.
Wife's not keen on a threesome
Dear Deidre
I WANT to watch my wife make love to another woman to spice things up. But should we do it?
I am 36 and my wife is 34.
We have been married for eight years and our sex life and our married life is great.
I would also like my wife to receive an erotic massage while I watch.
I have talked to her about this but she isn't very keen.
I love my wife but sometimes it is as if we have got stuck in a rut.
She can be quite adventurous in the bedroom and I think involving someone else will make our love- making more exciting.
Or should I just accept things as they are?
DEIDRE SAYS: You are asking for trouble as soon as you involve outsiders in your sex life.
It can often result in real pain and lasting resentment.
Your wife isn't keen and nobody should ever feel forced into doing anything sexually against their will.
It would be better to improve sex within your marriage.
My e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex has lots of good suggestions – for two.
His folks take all his cash
Dear Deidre
WE need to spend money on our home – but my partner's family expect him to fork out for everything.
I am 37 and have been with my boyfriend for two years.
He's 32 and in every way we get on better than ever now we are living together – except for the way his family treat him.
He has a large family and they seem to want him to pay up every time they want something.
His mum will go on about needing new curtains, his sister expects him to help pay for her kids' shoes – she's a single parent.
But they have never appreciated what he does for them and they never will.
They keep asking because he never says no but they all work and have their own money.
If I try to talk to him about it, he just gets annoyed.
DEIDRE SAYS: This is something you're going to have to come to terms with.
Treating his family makes your partner feel valued and loved.
He enjoys being generous to them.
Trying to change him could cause a rift between him and his family and he might never forgive you.
But suggest you start planning your monthly budget together (without mentioning his family) so he will have a better idea of what cash he actually has left to spare.
Topic 4 Today
THE G-spot, supposed source of intense sexual pleasure for some women seems to go in and out of fashion with sex experts.
It varies from being seen as fairly irrelevant or the ultimate in sexual fulfillment.
The truth lies somewhere in between and is explained in my e-leaflet Understanding The G Spot.
Email me at firstname.lastname@example.com.
Dear Deidre
I REALLY miss my stepdad since my mum and he divorced.
I never knew my biological father and my stepdad was brilliant with me while I was growing up.
I was only ten when he met my mum and for the next 14 years he was my dad.
I am now aged 27 and have no contact with him.
I sent him a message saying thanks for everything and how – regardless of what happened – he was my dad for the most important part of my life and that I missed him dearly.
I know he read the message but didn't respond.
The divorce was messy and I didn't feel it was right to attempt to speak to him again.
He's since met someone new and my mum's moved on too.
But I wonder whether he just put up with me because I was my mum's son.
DEIDRE SAYS: You have a dad-shaped hole in your life but I'm sure your stepdad loved you for yourself.
He couldn't pretend for 14 years.
The trouble is he is hurt by the break-up.
Try contacting him again and explain how much you miss him.
If you still get no response, give it six months, say, and then try again – when his feelings may have moved on.
What about your biological dad?
Could you ask your mum about him and then decide if he is someone you'd want to meet?
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Dream Destinations – Photography in Paradise:
'The Very Best of Thailand'
An expedition led by award-wining photographer Cameron Hansen
With over one thousand kilometres of coastline the western seaboard of Thailand offers the discerning traveller the ideal destination for exploring the wonderful Marine National Parks that glitter like strings of emeralds in the turquoise Andaman Sea. With thousands of pristine islands, countless stunning white beaches, bountiful mangrove fringed creeks and imposing craggy headlands, combined with an ancient cultural heritage, this area is a visual feast for all.
Join Cameron Hansen aboard the gorgeous luxury yacht, The Siam Junk, for an adventure holiday and the photographic opportunity of a lifetime – an invitation to experience an unforgettable and mystical journey touring some of the most picturesque and interesting sites in the world.
An invitation to modern adventure travellers
The incredible biodiversity, pristine tropical rain forests and crystal clear waters will be like a breath of fresh air for all nature lovers – quite literally. The islands are home to a vast collection of extraordinary coral formations, replete with technicolour marine life, an array of rare aquatic marvels and a multitude of exotic wildlife.
Join us aboard our gorgeous luxury yacht, The Siam Junk, for an adventure holiday and the photographic opportunity of a lifetime.
The Siam Junk
The Siam Junk is a magnificent hand-crafted wooden junk rigged motor yacht built to deliver modern western comforts with traditional Asian features. She boasts five well appointed suites below deck, each fitted with comfortable king-sized double beds. Even the tallest of clients appreciate the 2.5 metres of headroom in these spacious cabins – the four junior suites each have a generous floor area of 24 square metres, while the VIP suite offers over 30 square metres.
Our on board facilities, entertainment and services
All rooms have the following amenities:
Flat screen TV
DVD player
Air-conditioning (except the Sea Breeze Suite)
Roomy en-suite toilet
Powerful full sized spa shower
Clothes storage and hanging space
Dressing table
In addition we offer our guests the following services:
A la carte dining
Bar with a full drinks menu
Tea and coffee making facilities
Karaoke system
Massage services
Waterskiing, wakeboarding and fun rides
Sea kayaks
Fishing equipment
Snorkelling gear
A large DVD library
Games console
Board games, playing cards etc
Books and magazines
Optional facilities by prior arrangement:
Diving equipment
Qualified Dive Master
We have a sumptuous communal lounge/dining room with a well stocked bar incorporating a 42" flatscreen TV with DVD player, a full music system and two bathrooms. The total deck space is over 200 square metres with shade provided by removable sunbrellas, sun loungers and comfortable seating for guest. Our powerful tender is available for water sports and fishing in those areas where these activities are permitted.
Your Dream Destination
We have created the following itinerary around our personal favourite destinations combined with the most popular routes our clients have enjoyed: the tour includes the internationally renowned Marine National Parks of the Similan and Surin archipelagos, along with some of the most scenic islands in the highly photogenic Phangna Bay. If you require more time for snorkelling, for beach exploration or trekking etc, The Siam Junk team will be delighted to advise you on creating a customised version of this itinerary, or assist you in creating an entirely new one to meet your requirements.
Let the mystical journey begin…
The Similan Islands
This group of islands can be found some 90km north west of Phuket and, despite its proximity to the mass tourism there, the archipelago has benefited greatly from its protected status as a Marine National Park since official designation in 1982. The waters surrounding the Similan are crystal clear and teeming with vividly coloured tropical fish grazing on beautiful kaleidoscopic coral. The area offers some of the best diving in the world for those who like to explore deeper waters, although snorkelling with turtles and swimming with dolphins can be experienced even by the least adventurous guests.
There are stunning palm fringed powder white beaches to explore, often experienced with no other travellers in sight, and steep winding mountain tracks to trek for those willing to exert themselves to experience the most spectacular views. Guests can also enjoy water sports and fishing when the yacht is moored just a few kilometres out from the islands.
The Surin Islands
This marine national park is the northernmost Thai archipelago and is adjacent to Burmese waters (Myanmar). The Surin Marine National Park is uninhabited apart from a handful of park rangers and a small community of Chao Lay (Moken) Sea Gypsies. These nomadic sea people continue their relatively primitive way of life as, in many ways, time has stood still for them, allowing Cameron's guests a unique insight into ancient Thai culture, glimpsing a slice of 'living history.'
In fact Time itself is a vague notion to the Chao Lay people as none of them wear watches, they don't know their own ages as such a concept is of no use to them, and living their simple life means they have no need (nor ability) to count beyond the fingers on their hands.
Yet they are at the same time a highly advanced civilization and truly skilled in the areas that are essential for their survival: they fashion and build extremely sturdy ocean going boats using the simplest of tools, they catch fish by hand – literally – and they are famous throughout the world for their amazing ability to dive for pearl oysters, remaining underwater for several minutes at a time without the use of scuba tanks. They are a unique and highly interesting people who deserve and receive our respect.
The Surin Islands themselves consist of two main islands with numerous off-lying islets and rocks. The incredible coral formations and crystal clear waters are of world class standard. Between the two main islands there are coral reefs that are simply amazing, offering an unforgettable experience for snorkellers and divers alike. Dazzling white beaches shimmer and sparkle in the sun, while lush jungle vegetation awaits those who want to experience more than merely fabulous diving or snorkelling…
Krabi & the Phi Phi Islands
The amazing beaches and limestone formations of the Phang Nga Bay and Krabi region are iconic images recognisable from the many movies and advertisements filmed here and broadcast throughout the world, and many visitors agree that the level of natural beauty here is unsurpassed.
Koh Phi Phi and the Krabi area constitute a geographic extension of the karst sea mountains of Phang Nga bay, yet being further south offer deeper, clearer water than the mangrove swamp fringed northern islands.
This is a stunning area, again offering exceptional snorkelling, diving, trekking and photographic opportunities. In these final days of the expedition guests can explore the wonders of Koh Phi Phi Lay, the famous Maya beach (the location of the 1999 movie 'The Beach'), and Koh Phi Phi Don with its beautiful hilltop view points. The Siam Junk will cruise north to Railay beach – which can only be reached by boat – and the beautiful Koh Hong.
Let the mystical journey begin…
Photography in Paradise: 'The Very Best of Thailand'
A Five Night / Six Day Itinerary
Day 1 – Departure
At around 18:00pm our crew will welcome you aboard the beautiful yacht, The Siam Junk at our mooring Chalong Bay, Phuket. Complimentary drinks will be served in the salon during a short safety briefing and then a welcome talk by our special host, award winning professional photographer Cameron Hansen.
When everyone is settled in we will get underway for our overnight cruise to the Similan Islands Marine National Park, serving dinner and cocktails as the sun sets on the horizon.
Day 2 – The Similan Islands Marine Park
5:30am – Koh Similan
Keen photographers will want to be up shortly after 5am to be in time for a tropical sunrise session from The Siam Junk aft deck. Cameron will be available to offer assistance and advice with fstop / shutter and ISO speeds for these hand held shots – tripods are not required for this shoot. Cameron will help you learn to react quickly to the changing light conditions with the objective of capturing sharp images from a moving vessel in low light conditions.
A delicious breakfast of fresh fruits, cereals, fried to order English breakfasts, tea, freshly ground coffee and fruit juices will be available.
The guests can choose to be led ashore and guided by Cameron who will be on hand to offer tips on composition and use of available light whilst capturing beautiful images of a deserted palm fringed beach.
A light lunch aboard The Siam Junk will be followed by a leisurely afternoon. The yacht's powerful tender will be available to everyone, allowing guests to step ashore to explore the island, snorkel and swim from the fabulous beaches, and enjoy the stunning scenery.
Sea turtles are often willing to be photographed here, especially when tempted with a banana or two!
The crew will be on hand to offer training on snorkelling techniques for those who need assistance and life jackets are available at all times.
A sunset photo shoot will be organised before dinner. The exact location will be decided on the day to ensure the best vantage points for both composition and colour, given the prevailing light conditions. Cameron will be on hand for those willing to learn how to maximise the use of a tripod and how to utilize slow exposures. A tripod and camera bag will be required for this shoot, as well as sturdy footwear as some rock scrambling may be involved.
Dinner will be served after sundown, followed by a seminar style discussion about the techniques and methods Cameron uses and a slide show of his favourite images from the past 10 years. The session will include a DVD about Moken culture while the yacht begins her overnight journey to their home in the Surin National Marine Park
Day 3 – Koh Surin Tai Island and the Moken People
Breakfast aboard The Siam Junk.
Photographers will be able to choose which one of two groups they wish to join for a shore expedition to the Moken village with Cameron. The second group will arrive ashore some 30 minutes behind the first to ensure small numbers and a variation of images. A Thai English speaking guide will be on hand to answer questions and to offer local interaction with the photographers.
Light lunch followed by a relaxation period before snorkelling and an underwater photography session exploring the fabulous coral fields.
Cameron has three underwater digital cameras and housings available for those who would like to try their hand at underwater photography but lack the necessary equipment. Guests can snorkel amidst the stunning coral with its teeming shoals of multi-coloured fish and a tender will be on hand to ferry those back to The Siam Junk at any time.
The afternoon will be spent resting on The Siam Junk or at Surin island bay area. Photographers are given the opportunity to capture images of their choice, laze on the pristine beaches or explore the national park area. Some beautiful sunset shots can usually be taken from this location too.
The fragrant scent of exotic spices and a sumptuous dinner of freshly caught seafood will welcome our guests back on board as the tropical twilight finally fades.
Day 4 – Surin Islands Marine National Park
Breakfast aboard The Siam Junk
Cameron will lead a walking tour through the Surin Island Bay – sandals and a decent camera bag are necessary as the route entails walking on rocks through knee deep water. Photographers will learn to step outside of their comfort zones and sharpen their composition skills in order to create better landscape images. Tripod are not necessary for this session.
Lunch aboard The Siam Junk.
Depart Surin Island to return via the Similan Islands, pausing at islands along the way to take advantage of any photographic opportunities..
Cameron will organise a sunset shoot from one of the west facing beaches in the Similan Islands. A tripod and camera bag will be required for this shoot as well as sturdy footwear as some rock scrambling may be involved.
A spectacular barbeque banquet will served.
An overnight crossing to Koh Phi Phi (leaving the Similan Islands at around 7:00pm to arrive Phi Phi at about 8:00am).
Day 5 – Koh Phi Phi Lay (Maya Bay) and Krabi (Railay Beach)
Cameron is invariably up early to take advantage of the amazing sunrise photo opportunities of Koh Phi Phi and Southern Phang Nga bay. Guests are once again invited to join him.
Breakfast aboard The Siam Junk.
Maya Bay (made world famous by the film 'The Beach') is hugely popular as a tourist destination but, by arriving early, guests can take shots of the deserted beach and spectacular bay before the hordes of speedboats arrive. As soon as they hove into view The Siam Junk heads off to Krabi.
Lunch aboard The Siam Junk at Krabi beach.
Guests can be transferred by tender to Railay Beach for some stunning landscape shots. This area is home to some of Cameron's favourite locations in the whole of Thailand and several of his most popular pieces have been shot here.
A short cruise to Koh Dam Hok (Chicken Head Island) will be followed by a brief Q&A session with Cameron in preparation for stunning sunset opportunities provided by the pristine tidal spit which separates the two islands at low tide.
Sunset shots.
A final dinner aboard The Siam Junk will be followed by a presentation from Cameron including a slideshow of images taken during the trip. Each guest can submit up to twenty images of their own for inclusion in this seminar style discussion: the photographer who is judged to have presented the best image will be awarded a unique prize:
Cameron has created a limited edition print, a signed copy of one of his favourite images, exclusively available only to those who have experienced The Siam Junk photographic expedition as his guest.
Day 6 – Koh Dam Hok (Chicken Head Island) and Koh Mai Thon
Breakfast aboard The Siam Junk.
Cameron reveals the winner of the best image and awards prizes.
Depart for Koh Mai Thon.
Lunch is served en-route to Mai Thon.
Arrive at Koh Mai Thon for swimming, snorkelling and photo opportunities.
16:00pm Depart for Chalong Bay.
Disembarkation from The Siam Junk at Phuket:
Arrival at Chalong Pier is usually around 18:30pm. Onward VIP transportation can be provided by arrangement with The Siam Junk team.
All meals, snacks, some soft drinks, tea and coffee are included. Alcoholic drinks will be available from the bar at our standard prices – please see our menu. Please notify us of any special dietary restrictions at the time of booking to ensure we can fulfil your requirements.
Diving, waterskiing, wakeboarding and other motorised water sports are all undertaken at the clients' risk. Water sports will be charged by the hour.
This special Dream Destination Photographic Expedition includes fuel, although we reserve the right to impose a surcharge if the local price of diesel rises above 25 Thai Baht per litre on or before the date of departure (currently 20 Baht during May 2009).
Please treat this itinerary as a guide only: all times, destinations and departure points need to be flexible to account for tides and prevailing weather conditions.
Onward connections and transfers are by arrangement with.
More details can be found at www.thesiamjunk.com
TOUR COST – Prices in Thai Baht
All tours are subject to a 'one off' Acceptance Payment/Deposit of £200.00.
* Minimum 2 persons traveling together.
* The tour prices include service and government tax.
Photography in Paradise – Broker Information
'The Very Best of Thailand'
5 Night / 6 Day inclusive packages from only 100,000 Baht (2,200 Euros) per person
Prices include Asian style breakfast and buffet lunch, soft drinks, fuel, mooring fees and exclusive use of the yacht's facilities, excluding the upper deck cabin, and with restricted use of the private upper sundeck (the upper level Sea Breeze Suite is reserved for Cameron Hansen). National park fees are included. Additional snacks, alcoholic beverages and a la carte dining will be charged at advertised rates – please see our menus for details.
Pricing is based on each of five lower deck rooms:
One Bow VIP Suite for up to four people sharing (one king sized double, two single bunk beds)
May only be booked as an entire room – so one, two, three or four people sharing will pay a total of 400,000 Baht
(8,800 Euros)
Two Executive Triple Suites for up to three people sharing (one king sized double, one single bunk in each)
May be booked by individuals prepared to share with strangers (same sex) for only 100,000 Baht
(2,200 Euros) per head, or as a whole room for one, two or three people paying a total of 300,000 Baht
(6,600 Euros)
Two Executive Double Suites for up to two people sharing (one king sized double bed in each)
May be booked by a couple sharing a bed for only 300,000 Baht
(6,600 Euros)
A single person with exclusive use of the room 200,000 Baht
(4,400 Euros)
Deposits, Refunds and Supplements:
Clients may reserve a whole room or a share of a room by paying a deposit of 25% of the above rates. See full payment schedule below.
In the event that there are too few passengers to undertake the expedition then the clients will be informed and offered the tour at a supplement. If the clients do not wish to accept the supplement then all deposits will be repaid in full.
A fuel supplement will be levied if the local price of marine diesel exceeds 30 Baht a litre (price at the time of printing is 23 Baht per litre).
Broker Commissions and Terms of Business:
The above rates include commission of 20% which can be deducted in proportion as the clients' funds are received by the agent.
If a tour is cancelled by The Siam Junk Team due to insufficient bookings the client's deposit will be refunded to the agent for onward transmission to the client. NB There is no commission payable in this event. However, The Siam Junk Team will endeavour to ensure the minimum number of clients for a viable trip and, if there is the likelihood of cancellation, we will offer reduced rates through our agents as the departure date approaches.
Clients and agents will be given at least sixty days notice of any such cancellation.
Payment schedule is as follows:
- 50 % to confirm the booking
- 50 % no more than one month before client departure date
Cancellation by the client will incur the following charges:
- One month or more before departure date 50%of the appropriate client rate
- Less than one month before departure date 100% of the appropriate client rate
NB Commission is only payable on funds actually received from the clients
Photographic Expeditions
Schedule 2009 / 2010
|'The Very Best of Thailand'
|Days Nights
|Per person from
|Depart Chalong, Phuket
|Similan, Surin, Phi Phi, Krabi
|100,000 Baht
|'The Very Best of Thailand'
|Days Nights
|Per person from
|Depart Chalong, Phuket
|Similan, Surin, Phi Phi, Krabi
|100,000 Baht
|Itinerary To be confirmed
|Contact us for details of our
|Andaman Island
|and Myanmar tours
|'The Very Best of Thailand'
|Days Nights
|Per person from
|Depart Chalong, Phuket
|Similan, Surin, Phi Phi, Krabi
|100,000 Baht
|'The Very Best of Thailand'
|Days Nights
|Per person from
|Depart Chalong, Phuket
|Similan, Surin, Phi Phi, Krabi
|100,000 Baht
1. On acceptance – £200 per person, Acceptance Payment/Deposit (non refundable) by cheque payable to "S W & M Miller".
Your Contract for all tour arrangements is directly with our Associate Company in Thailand to whom payment for the tour is made.
2. You pay eight weeks prior to arrival in xxxxxx, or on Acceptance – 50% of the total in US $, by Credit Card or International Bank Transfer.
3. On arrival in xxxxxx– the balance of 50% is payable, in US $, by Credit Card or Cash.
Please Note: A credit card charge may apply in certain countries.
Cancellation Charges
35 days prior to arrival a cancellation fee of US$200 per person will be applicable.
30 days notice of cancellation a fee of 25% of the total amount will be applicable.
25 days notice of cancellation a fee of 50% of the total amount will be applicable
Less than 25 days notice incurs the full amount.
Acceptance Payment non refundable
Included in the Cost
- Accommodation on a twin sharing basis in the hotels mentioned above or equivalent – subject to availability.
- Any single room subject to supplement shown.
- Room and breakfast basis – or meals as indicated in the itinerary (B), (L) and (D)
- Full board if applicable.
- All transfers, sightseeing and excursions by air-conditioned vehicle where appropriate.
- Transfers by boat where appropriate
- Services of an English speaking local guide (or a naturalist in National Parks)
- Entrance fees at monuments and parks where applicable
- Train journeys where applicable
- Domestic economy airfares, indicated in the itinerary, are subject to change.
- Basic porterage at airports, rail stations and hotels (not tips).
- All currently applicable taxes.
- Where US$ are quoted the UK pounds price shown is for comparison only and is subject to change.
Excluded from the Cost
- Expenses of a personal nature such as table drinks, laundry, telephone calls, Internet charges, mineral water, tips, shopping etc.
- Any other meals or services not mentioned in the itinerary or 'includes' list.
- Any international airfares to India and Asia
- Any airport taxes where applicable in each country
- Any subsequent increase in airfares, fuel costs, monuments/sightseeing fees.
- Any other taxes subsequently introduced by Government, State or Tourist Ministry.
- Travel Insurance
- Visa Fees, if applicable, in any country
- Any Christmas, New Year and Gala Dinners
General note:
- All elements included in this quotation are subject to availability until the booking is made. The hotels/ services as quoted may change when giving you the final confirmation, based on current availability.


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Timber Ridge at Talus is located in one of the most beautiful places in the U.S., but what truly distinguishes us from other retirement communities is our multiple residential solutions. As a Life Plan Community, Timber Ridge allows "planning" and "living" to merge. Having a plan allows for living life to the fullest. Services are customized to suit your lifestyle and changing needs so you're a part of the dynamic and vibrant Timber Ridge community through every phase of senior living.
As a resident, you have access to several residential options including independent living, assistance-in-living services, rehabilitation services and skilled nursing care. We provide a continuum of care by offering assisted living and memory care residences, featuring the Heartfelt CONNECTIONS – A Memory Care Program® – all designed to help you be engaged in life to the fullest.
At Timber Ridge, you'll have the benefit of working with a Health Care Navigator who will connect you with health and wellness professionals, services and amenities to help you reach your health goals. In addition, our nursing care and rehabilitation services are administered by leaders in health and wellness to ensure you receive the care and attention you deserve. Our team also includes a registered nurse available to help with nutritional consultations.
As a resident, you will have access to ongoing expert care through our on-site health care center, Briarwood Health Center at Timber Ridge. The Medicare-certified center also offers physical therapy, occupational therapy, and specialist services all at a significantly lower cost than other area health care options available to seniors.


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On the face of it, one would think that when you're dating or attracted to someone, love conquers all. But do we consciously or unconsciously eliminate people who are not from the same race or skin color as ourselves when we seek to date or are even attracted to someone?
While historically in the United States, the thought of interracial dating was taboo, the perspective gradually changed. Trends are changing and surveys have indicated that so too are people's mindsets. While the older generation is not as opposed to it as they used to be, they may still not exactly be in favor of it. The youth though, are seen to be more open to the idea of dating crossing the boundaries of race, culture and religion.
Interracial dating has been more popular among those who have had greater exposure to individuals of different races. It could be through their neighborhood, having grown up with multicultural influences as part of a larger community. When you are constantly exposed to people of different races, you tend to integrate and even imbibe certain attitudes, which make you more open, as you mature, to exploring relationships with people outside your own race.
TIP: Match.com has many single men and women looking for interracial partners.
If you went to a school that encouraged and incorporated different races, you may often find yourself looking beyond the color of the skin or the geographical influences of the culture, and focus on the person himself. And once you do that, you realize that after all, that is what a relationship is about. Finding someone you can relate to on a deeper level than the surface physicality.
Often, those who shy away from exploring an interracial relationship or dating someone from another race, do so either because of a deep-rooted stigma or a deep-seated need to date someone from the same race. Parental opinion or what their family or friends would think if they overstepped the norms, may also influence them.
There are also certain fears about whether he/she will be ridiculed or judged harshly for displaying this penchant to date someone from another race. Jim, a single white male in his late thirties complained that when he was dating a black woman, a few years ago, his friends often ribbed him. They thought he was indulging in some sexual fantasy of sorts and hence was drawn to her. While he says he never outwardly displayed his feelings to them, he was deeply hurt by their attitude. He genuinely liked Nicole and couldn't figure out why his friends couldn't look beyond the color of her skin and see the obvious intelligence and wit that he was drawn to.
Christine, 35, says her true-blue American parents couldn't figure out what had gotten into her when she was dating her black colleague. They didn't bother too much about it at first, thinking it would just die a natural death. But when things begun to get serious, she was shocked to find them turn sceptical and then downright nasty. Every time she went over, they would ask her what she saw in him and why couldn't she just date a nice all-American kind of guy (meaning white, of course!). They even began trying to fix her up with their version of the ideal guy. Until she told them, in no uncertain terms, that she really liked Steve and what they could do with their antiquated ideas.
Sometimes, couples that indulge in interracial dating don't actively seek it. It's just something that happens and once they get acquainted with the person within, the other meaningless details fade into obscurity. And often, when two individuals allow themselves to think beyond the narrow confines that society imposes the rewards are tremendous.
James, a British tourist found himself captivated by the traditions and culture of India on a visit there, last year. But he found himself taking back with him a lot more than just memories of the place and the people. He had found love. He met Priya at a party and was instantly drawn to her vibrancy and interest in his country. She took him around and showed him the sights, and he was treated warmly by her family too. The genuine warmth shown to a complete stranger touched him, something he had never experienced before.
If you are open to new experiences and feel the sentiments expressed by Michael Jackson when he sang 'It don't matter if you're black or white', check out the following sites which specialize in interracial dating. Alternatively, you can also search for people from a particular race using advanced search methods in most dating web sites. The challenges may be significant, but the rewards will be, too!


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They called him Two-Gun Johnny. The Patton of the LAPD. A real cop's cop.
It says so in Joseph Wambaugh's best-seller "The Onion Field." He was that well known.
John William Powers, the third-generation street cop who spent 31 years with the Los Angeles Police Department in the rough-and-tumble era from 1940 to 1971, has died. He was 90.
Powers died Nov. 15 of cancer at his home in the little town of Cool, Calif., not far from Sacramento.
He got the first nickname because of his bravado and derring-do in his first year on the force.
On Jan. 20, 1941, he was shot by a 15-year-old robber. Powers, sure he was a goner, pulled out a second gun and killed his assailant.
For 20 years, he made it a habit to carry two guns. Everywhere. Only in 1961 when he made the rank of inspector did he reduce his arsenal to a single snub-nosed .38. And he carried a .45 in his retirement, even to his daughters' weddings.


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Jezebel (owned by Gawker media) have some of the worst, overfed writers in history who enjoy lolz-ing at the concept of beating their boyfriends, and this is in a personal relationship where you're only permitted to be loving and kind. Just because women line up at prisons in droves to propose marriage and conjugal visits to criminals and violent men, doesn't mean men are into the same nonsense.
Thankfully, big name advertisers like Mercedes and BMW are pulling away as result of the recent #gamergate nonsense, potentially costing them millions in lost revenue, and rightfully so. Men have had enough of this s~~~, and the above example is just one.
Violence is unacceptable. Just like chivalry is unacceptable.
What does it take to teach them violence is not acceptable? Violence? Doesn't that defeat the purpose? Or is violence a requirement to defeat the people who think violence is acceptable. When a woman initiates the social rule that slapping people who accidentally bump into her is permissible, she should expect others to follow her social convention. She established a new rule and it would now be rude not to return the favor. However, the same women who watch Gone With The Wind and KFC commercials too many times (while thinking they are all Scarlett O'Hara and can waltz through life with zero consequence) are oddly never prepared for Karma to even up that score.
You've got millions of clueless adult women on dating sites, who are also bad writers and have nothing interesting to say about themselves. So they artificially inflate their desirability, quote Marilyn Monroe and think this must somehow attract a man. As if presenting herself at her worst is how to been seen at her best. This genius deduction comes from from the kind Jezebels who – at their very "best" – wouldn't even resemble Marylin Monroe at her very worst.
Princess Cupcake believes a man should be interested in first slaying her dragon (read: inner bitch) for the opportunity to climb to the highest room in the tallest tower just to get near her. But a MGHOW would be more rewarded to keep her fire-breathing dragon as a pet, rearrange the furniture, kiss her and leave. Eventually, she'll snap out of it. We she finally wakes after her expiration date, she can log on to another dating website and gripe about having zero prospects for anything more than a shag. Rinse and repeat.
Ask her what she thinks, and the same girl wants to be "treated like a lady". But there is only one way to treat a lady: according to her own behavior. Any woman who has a problem with that is only trying to get away with s~~~ty, second-class and violent behavior.
Going Your Own Way is a pretty good option when the alternative is to be with a shrew.
Handle you at your WORST? What the hell for?
Men are not your personal Petruchio, ladies. Shakespeare. Look it up.


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How to Store Celery
Celery should be kept in the refrigerator, but it often goes limp within a few days. While you can use celery long after it becomes limp, it is best when it is still fresh and crisp, especially if you're eating it raw. Fortunately, there is a simple storage technique to keep celery fresh longer than just a few days after purchasing or harvesting.
Select a fresh bunch of celery, which is essential to longer storage. Bunches should be compact. The stalks should be light green, firm and crisp, not wilting or like rubber. The leaves should be bright green.
Cut off the base of the celery and leaves. Throw out any damaged stems. Rinse the stalks in water to get off any dirt and sand.
Place the stalks in a plastic bag. There's no need to dry them as they will keep better slightly moist. Put the celery in the vegetable storage bin in your refrigerator. Keep the bag toward the front of the drawer because often, celery freezes near the back of the refrigerator, rendering it limp and watery after thawing. Celery stored in this manner should remain fresh and crisp for about 10 days.
Freeze cooked celery in freezer bags. Boil cut celery for about 2 to 3 minutes, drain and cool. You can use frozen celery for soups and as an added ingredient in recipes such as chicken and rice. Use frozen celery within a year.
How to Grow Celery Indoors
Fill a wide planter with rich potting soil. Celery does best in nutrient-rich soil.
Mix the celery seeds with sand and spread them evenly over the potting soil. Then, cover the seeds with a thin layer of potting soil.
Put your planter in a north- or east-facing window. Keep the soil moist, but not soaked.
After about 2 weeks, transfer the sprouted plants into individual containers. Pull them out carefully to avoid damaging the roots.
Fertilize the celery with a fertilizer such as the one linked to below. Add it according to instructions.
Let the celery grow for 100 days. Then, harvest it by pulling the whole plant up.
When to Harvest Celery
Celery stalks should be harvested when they are 12 inches in length; entire celery plants should be harvested when they have reached 3 inches in diameter.


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Friday, October 30, 2009
The Horrors - Whole New Way (video)
"A new beginning"
Brand-new track and video from The Horrors, not even included on the excellent Primary Colours album. A bit softer than usual, this one is all about building a poetic ambience with a simple melody and some electronic sounds, until a beautiful climax comes in to send the song into the stratosphere. So basically they have been letting some light in, while playing a bit more with their recent influences. Judging by what we've been hearing, this is a literally amazing way to evolve.
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Monday, October 26, 2009
Jamie T - Kings & Queens
Talk about living in a constant state of emergency... everything in Kings & Queens, the second album from 23-year-old south-Londoner Jamie Treays, makes me believe that yes, this guy lives life at full speed and you bet he does it with a smile. And even when not taking things too seriously (which he doesn't), his songs exude a sense of vitality that sounds too damm contagious to become indifferent. Starting things the most charming way possible, a voice repeats "He's three hundred / three hundred and sixty eight"... which, for a fact, is the amount of beer needed to reach inebriation. And from here on, the party never stops, with each song sounding like a gigantic anthem on its own, touching everything from punk to hip-hop to folk and including a multitude of textures and layers of addictive sounds. Hook after kook, we're taken into a travel narrated by a real-life guy with a big will to tell us some amazing stories. And at the same time, he's also guiding us through a roller coaster that goes from one so-damm-catchy chorus to another, while never abandoning a witty sense of humour and cockney attitude that we've seen in The Streets' best days. The fact that everything seems like a highpoint is not to be overlooked. This really feels like a once-in-a-lifetime experience, at least when it matters most, i.e. right now. Talk about living the moment... (9/10)
Jamie T - The Man's Machine (video)
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Saturday, October 24, 2009
Ellie Goulding - Under The Sheets (video)
"Clothes were never off"
Forget about the Little Boots or La Roux of this world. Ellie Goulding is the real deal. With an album on the rocks produced by Frankmusik and your future-favourite-producer Starsmith, we'll all hear a lot more about Ellie in the not-so-far future, just make your bets. In the meantime, have a look and listen to the pop-brilliance of the video above. Killer melody, unique voice, awesome lyrics, over-the-top production, sweet looks... isn't she just the bomb?
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Thursday, October 22, 2009
Julian Casablancas unveils 2 new tracks
The new album from Julian Casablancas, the much anticipated Phrazes for the Young (drops by November 2nd) is turning out to be quite an eclectic document. The first single, the wonderful 11th Dimension, has been online for days and it's just this really well crafted blend of rock and electronics that is sure to make a bang on the airwaves. And now we find another track, River of Brakelights, on Julian's website. This one is more what you'd expect from The Strokes, with drums, guitars and Julian's voice mixed together in a state of emergency. Very very good, can't wait for the record.
Check both tracks on his myspace.
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Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Memory Tapes - Seek Magic
Nostalgia is a world, and a special one, sometimes even better than the real thing. How about some music that evokes summer times now that it's getting colder and the days are getting shorter? In this breathtaking debut full-length by Philadelphia's Dayve Hawk (the man behind projects like Memory Cassette, Weird Tapes or Memory Tapes), the main thing is to dream about sunny memories that belong to the past...or maybe they didn't even happen but we just pretend they did. Could there be anything with more beauty than that? This collection of 8 fuzzy dance-pop songs is so involving and includes so many achingly gorgeous details that I'm tempted to answer: no. With jj being the summer soundtrack of a few people including myself, and now this, I'd say that melancholy has never sounded so damm bright and warm. (8,5/10)
Memory Tapes - Green Knight (mp3 via Transparent)
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Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Erik Hassle + Yes Giantess = ♥
"So deep into this shit I can taste the earth"
When you join together two names that are single-handedly broadening even further my perception of how good pop music can be, the result can only be one: some next-level shit of atomic proportions. The emo wonders of Swedish heartthrob Erik Hassle immersed in the synth-tastic rainbows of Boston newcomers (and, in my book, already winners) Yes Giantess, is what this is all about. It's obvious that this track could only become something of hottest-thing-ever level and so it is: absurdly infectious and also a brand new definition for ecstatic perfection.
Erik Hassle - Don't Bring Flowers (Yes Giantess remix) (mp3 via Neon Gold)
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Monday, October 19, 2009
Cold Cave - Love Comes Close
The first album from this Philadelphia project is a bit of an anachronism: every element is recognizable, every influence is obvious, but still, there's something taking these 9 songs into a place of their own. Not really much related to the present, but also not entirely a pastiche of the past, so let's call it an object living in an unique world, eh? Think 80's industrial sounds, lots of noise and static, a drum machine, infectious melodies and tense gothic atmospheres and you will get an idea of what's in store for you. Effusive darkwave synth pop for the most sinister dancefloors. (7,5/10)
Cold Cave - Love Comes Close (video)
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Sunday, October 18, 2009
New N.E.R.D. with Santigold!
Via pitchfork (via Kanye West's blog), here's the new N.E.R.D. song featuring Santigold. Very punk rock, Santi still reminds me of early Blondie, she could be have been doing this stuff on CBGB's in the late 70's early 80's. Amazing really. Click here to check out Soldier.
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Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Prince - LOtUSFLOW3R + MPLSoUND
Before you read any further, you should probably know that I'm a big fan of this man. Even if his output since the nineties has been a bit irregular (which I'd say is inevitable when you have recorded more than 30 albums in your career), I don't really think that he is capable of making a bad record. And then, he's also responsible for what is, in most days, my current favourite album of all time, (1984's Purple Rain), along with a few more genius moments that sit very closely to it, like Sign o' The Times, Parade, 1999 or Dirty Mind. Actually, he has more than earned the privilege to be eternally adored, right? Right. (And only if someone could do something about those hideous artwork concepts, the world would be an even better place...).
So maybe he hasn't produced any groundbreaking record as of lately, although 3121, from 3 years ago, and particularly its ridiculously good song "Black Sweat", prove this theory wrong... But, even if this claim was true, who cares? His output from the last years has been consistent enough to not bleach his reputation, which in his case, is more than enough. And that is exactly what happens with this double release.
LOtUSFLOW3R is pure guitar-hero Prince, the same one that has given us what is arguably one of his best records from the nineties - the riff-loaded The Gold Experience. This time he got more elegant and polite but, on the other hand, the urgency, excitement and sense of catharsis that abounded on that record is now more reserved. Full of sophisticated midtempo songs that show his more "virtuoso" side, think of it as a decent new-age wallpaper. (7/10)
Now if you want some vintage Prince, then your best choice is, for sure, MPLSoUND. No one can funk like he does, and that's exactly what happens in here, with the extra bonus that the word "dirty" is also added to the equation. Full of mouth-watering details that give more than a few nods to his most-famous classics (that beat! those synths!), these 9 songs are still very much in touch with the present (is that auto-tune I hear somewhere?), but a present seen through his own wise and experienced eyes. With an unique balance between experimental, catchy and infectious doses, these are jams just perfect to celebrate how great this man is. (8/10)
Prince ft. Q-Tip - Chocolate Box (video)
P.S.: Still about the whole amazingness of the Purple Rain album, Cokemachineglow has written a very good piece about it, which you can find here.
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Monday, October 05, 2009
Silkie - City Limits Volume 1
Maybe not the instant classic that some were expecting, but City Limits Volume 1, while being a good indicator of the current state of impasse that dubstep is living, still does that in the best way possible, and on its way it almost takes things one step forward. So this means that we have here the more abstract and liquid sounds that are starting to define this genre as of lately, a bit like what happened to jungle when it mutated into drum'n'bass back in the nineties - when eventually everyone started going too far into the softer side of things, killing the whole fun in the process. But, on the other hand, the beats are as fierce and powerful as ever, while the juxtaposition of different layers and the scientific attention put into every single last detail has reached an hallucinating degree of mind-travel-inducing sounds. (7,5/10)
Silkie - Purple Love (mp3 via Passion of the Weiss)
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Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Rain, Rain and LOTS of rain
One morning we woke up to the water looking quite similar to my morning coffee (I take it with milk and use the local panela or light-brown sugar). There was so much dirt/earth/soil from the runoff from the island in the water! It wasn't until hours later when the rain stopped that I could get out and take a photo and by then it was already clearing. Within 24 hours it was again clear enough to see the bottom and the scuba dive boats were out on the reef. Fast!
Did I say rusty steps? Yep. Especially the bottom steps which I have pictured here. All the steps were rusty and many had rusted clear through and had holes. So, as we climbed (and descended) we had to step on the far left and right sides of each step where the metal was more intact. So we waddled up the steps, carefully cross the wooden boards on the top, and waddled down the other side.
And then there's the sand art to study. Hmmmm.
Up this spiraling wooden staircase is a full house, complete with plumbing. You can see the structure in the 2nd photo. How cool is that? Of course this takes hauling your groceries up to a new level.
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Thank you, Terry, I sure enjoy reading about your and Jonesy's life of travel. Also thanks for the mystery knitting, I do that, too. Have a great day and I am glad you are in a safe area. DeeKnitter fm ks
I've enjoyed clambering over the "Swiss Family Robinson" tree house at Disney World, and have wished it was a real house (and mine). The tree house you pictured looks like a hoot!
Hey girlfriend...... I love this West End - fun and alittle bit of heaven. Enjoy your bit of paradise..... lots of envy. BUT yes a but, as wonderful as it is, please do not let your guard down.... sometimes too good to be true could be just that too good to be true...... miss you!!
Thank you Terry for yet another view of paradise that the average tourist would never see. Love reading your blog. DarrellPost a Comment
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PartyGeneral Secretary Nguyen Phu Trong on February 7 held a reception for adelegation of overseas Vietnamese (OV) who returned home to join the "Xuan Quehuong 2018" (Homeland Spring 2018) programme.
Party General Secretary Nguyen Phu Trong meets overseas Vietnamese on February 7 - Photo: VNA
The delegation included 90delegates from 25 countries and territories worldwide, representing 4.5 millionoverseas Vietnamese living in 109 foreign nations and territories.
At the meeting, GeneralSecretary Trong extended his warm Tet (Lunar New Year) greetings to OVs andapplauded their contributions to building and developing the country as well asstrengthening solidarity among Vietnamese expats and promoting theirintegration into host nations.
The Vietnamese Party andGovernment consistently consider the overseas Vietnamese community as anintegral part of the nation, he affirmed, informing them about significantevents in the country in 2017 with the delegates.
He added that the Party andGovernment will continue supporting and creating favourable conditions for OVsto integrate into host countries and make further contributions to the nationaldevelopment.
The OV community expressedtheir delight at the country's achievements in various fields and pledged tomake concerted efforts to strengthen solidarity and promoting traditionalcultural identity, towards the homelands.


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Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Playful Stripes Girl's Hat ~ A New Crochet Pattern!
I crocheted the Playful Stripes Girl's Hat just a few weeks ago. It turned out even cuter than I imagined, so I decided to write up the pattern. It took me all afternoon, but it's finally ready!
The back of the brim folds up so it is comfortable to wear lying down. This means it would also make a nice gift if you like to crochet hats for cancer charities. Actually, the hat pictured here is on it's way to Craft Hope and will hopefully put a smile on the face of its new owner.
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From a financial standpoint, the acquisition of a diamond easily lies within the price range of acquiring a new car. Yet, the value of goodwill associated with a diamond ring is almost incomparable to anything else from a groom's perspective.
Given the amount of money involved in a jewelry transaction, it is only natural for people to worry about the authenticity of their diamond purchase. After all, you are going to place this token of love onto the finger of the person you are going to spend your life with.
For many consumers, spotting a fake diamond might sound like a difficult task since the majority of people have no gemological knowledge. However, it isn't that tough to identify the fakes once you learn what to look out for. Here are some tips and tricks to help you get a good and genuine deal.
The diamond industry is not struggling and probably won't experience a declining situation anytime soon. They have cartels that maintain the value and apparent rarity of diamonds by controlling supply to the market.
Back in the 1960s, a potential threat to the market of natural diamonds emerged when synthetic stones were first introduced. Fearing such a scenario to occur and to regain consumer confidence, the world's largest diamond cartel, Debeers, invested huge amounts of money into research and developing gemological equipment for accurate identification of synthetic diamonds..
Fast forward today, every major gemological institute is well equipped with advanced equipment to detect synthetic stones accurately. As the analytical equipment becomes more affordable with better technology, more and more small time labs and private appraisers now have access to proper gemological tools too.
For a consumer, the best form of assurance to buy diamonds which have independent grading reports from labs like AGS or GIA. A reliable grading document not only subjects the diamond to a vigorous test, it also provides a correct representation of the diamond's qualities (4Cs).
With huge leaps in technological advancement, scientists and engineers can now create artificial diamonds which cannot be differentiated from a natural diamond with the naked eye. This is why you need to inspect the diamond with a loupe or microscope to help you ensure the diamond's authenticity
Unless you are buying a flawless stone (if this is the case, you are probably rich enough to hire an army of gemologists to ensure its authenticity), ask your jeweler for help in examining the stone under magnification. You want to accurately identify any characteristic inclusions and blemishes of the diamond. If these details matches up with the information shown in the grading report, that's a good sign.
Unlike cubic zirconia (the most commonly used material for simulants), diamonds possess a very quick and intense heat dispersion. Here's a simple test you can perform by yourself.
First of all, you have to clean the gemstone's surface with a cloth to remove any layers of oil or dirt. Next, place the stone in front of your mouth and try to fog the surface by breathing on it.
Unlike a mirror or other simulants, a real diamond should not be fogged by the heat from your breath – at least the fog should disappear by the time you could actually notice the change. Cubic zirconia stones will usually fog spectacularly and require some time to dissipate the heat exerted on them.
A word of caution: this is not a scientific test and may be unreliable depending on the environmental conditions you are in.
The relationship of real diamonds with CZ "fakes" would be best described using a car analogy. Diamonds range from Porsche Boxsters to top-notch Ferraris whereas CZ stones are the Toyota Priuses of jewelry. Even though most people may dream of driving Ferraris, some people are very happy with driving their reliable Priuses.
The problem arises when unethical jewelers try to package these Priuses as if they were Ferraris. That is, cubic zirconia jewelry should not be sold as diamonds or be used to mislead consumers. The point I want to bring across here is that you should be paying the correct amount of money for the type of product you receive.
To be safe, the process of identifying fake diamonds is best left to the experts. No matter how many amateur tests you perform on an unknown stone, there would still be a possibility of errors occurring and misjudged sentiments.
The bottom line is, you should not even think of buying a diamond if it does not have a proper GIA or AGS certificate. When in doubt, you should hire an independent appraiser to examine the stone and seek professional advice.
Getting insanely cheap deals – is it too good to be true?
Perhaps the easiest method which involves the least cost is to purchase a simple diamond tester ($10-$15) from eBay. Based on the simple principle that diamonds are super conductors of heat, modern testers with copper touch probes can be used to analyze the heat conductivity of an unknown gemstone.
This method is so easy to use that within seconds, common simulants like CZ or strontium rutile can quickly be identified. While a diamond tester can eliminate 95% of the known "fakes", it doesn't detect another modern day simulant called moissanite. This is because moissanite exhibits physical properties similar to that of diamonds and requires you to perform an additional step to confirm its identity.
On the next page, I will show you how to identify and differentiate moissanite from a real diamond based on an optical property called double refraction. Once you learn to do that, you would be well equipped with the knowledge to avoid fakes and simulants.


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My maternal grandfather was an Orangeman from Belfast who
I only started celebrating the holiday after meeting my husband. He also introduced me to the Irish music. Here we are with the Wolfe Tones at the Gentle Annie's pub in Ottawa as newlyweds in 1993. That same year was a good one for shows, we were "lucky" saw the Chieftains and the Hothouse Flowers too!
Since we have had kids, my husband has put on an annual St. Patty's sing-a-long at the pre-school. This year, he has coordinated the sing-a-long with a little birthday celebration for Evangeline Hope. In anticipation, I whipped up some skirts using Hickety Pickety's "Quick and Easy No-Hem Skirt" tutorial. I added some thrifted trim because the girls are really into embellishment right now. If I get a chance, I will update this post with a few photos, but tomorrow will be a busy day.
There was enough fabric left over for a scalloped bunting.
The girls are looking forward to the sing-a-long. Regardless of whether you are celebrate or not, may the wind always be at your back,