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So, just what is this speckled fruit that looks like a plum and bears a similar, yet funny name?
Pluots are a member of the (delicious!) stone fruit family. They are a hybrid fruit developed in the late 80s that are 75% plum and 25% apricot. They resemble plums with smooth skin, and a similar shape and texture.
If you've never tasted a pluot you're in for a treat! The flavor is intense, and I say that in the best way possible! Pluots don't have the bitter taste that you can sometimes find with plums. Instead, their flavor is brimming with sweetness.
There are quite a lot of pluot varieties, most of which bear interesting names, like Dapple Dandy, Dinosaur Egg, Flavor Grenade and Flavorglo.
How to Select a Pluot
Select pluots just as you would a plum. Look for fragrant-smelling fruit that's firm but gives to the touch, and is free from blemishes. Pluots come in a variety of colors — choose the most vibrant looking fruits among each variety, as those will be the sweetest. Stay away from plots that feel especially hard, they won't ripen well.
Storing Pluots
Store ripe pluots on the counter for up to 3 days or in the refrigerator for up to a week.
Eating a Pluot!
Clearly the most important part — how to eat this magical stone fruit. Pluots are simply wonderful eaten fresh. You can also bake them into pies, crisps, cobblers, tarts and cakes.
→ Make an upside-down cake with pluots: Recipe: How to Make an Upside-Down Cake with Almost Any Fruit
Have you ever tried pluots before? Do you eat them straightaway, or do something a little more fancy with them?
Updated from a post originally published September 2008.
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I bought some pluots the other week out of pure curiosity. They were great, but I wished there was a little more apricot in the mix....
I must have had very bad luck with pluots. The outsides are lovely, but the flesh near the stone in the ones I've had has always been mealy and bland.
I'm loving pluots! I just wish I could eat all the way through the middle. Working around it makes it somewhat difficult to eat.
Meh, I've always found the flavor of pluots to be really bland - just sweet, no tart.
Dapple Dandy is my favorite variety! Pluots were actually originally developed like 15 minutes from my house :) Kind of fun to be able to say!
I love pluots. We were super excited when we saw them in our farmer's market recently. Sweet inside with a slightly tart skin. Yum!
I love pluots!! I discovered them at my favorite produce market when I lived in Los Angeles, where they often had different varieties to try. Unfortunately I don't remember what my favorites were, but some were definitely better than others!
I made a pluot sorbet last summer, was delicious. Hmm will have to do that one again!


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Why on earth the one you love will still do things that will hurt you most? sucks! if I can only finds my way out to get rid from this hurtful situation, then I will. I love you, but you don't seem to value me. It hurts me to think that way. But it's reality. you said you love me, but you give her importance than my feelings. I hate you for that!
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First time I heard this song, I was all ears because 'twas so funny - with all these things his girlfriend is doing to get rid of him , he's still just slightly suspicious and not really sure if what he's sensing is right. But the message here, I think, is not that he's a slow wit but he's crazy in love over this girl so he doesn't want to let go. Very nice song!!
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the song is funny.. but if you read between the lines its actually sensible and truthfull. its a funny way of telling something bthats both hurtful and factual
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I gave this dude a dollar to get a smooch from his bird. Spent four days in L.A. last week; this was probably the highlight of the trip. Santa Monica Pier, California.
Here's a little documentary I did on a huge time crunch about my two little pet bunny rabbits, Buddy and Dude. There are obvious flaws, but I think it's somewhat interesting to someone who knows me and the little guys.
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Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not here; I did not die.
For weeks, a patient had been ambivalent, struggling with the decision between full medical care or comfort care only. It was only a matter of time between the disease would make that choice for her.
Everything we could do to prolong her life had been done. There was no process left to reverse. The disease was reaching its ultimate conclusion. With great reluctance, the patient agreed to comfort care.
It pained me to see her struggle because I knew how much it chewed her up inside, to leave behind her family and friends, to be confronted with the threshold of death. It was obvious she loved dearly and was dearly beloved.
I saw her briefly again today after finishing my rounds, passing through our hospice. After seeing her struggle for so many weeks with this decision, I was relieved to find her smiling, having finally found peace in these last hours, surrounded by friends and family. As they gathered to look at old photo albums and share stories under the warm winter glow, her eyes flickered with joy as she laughed with her grandchildren.
For a moment, our eyes met as she caught a glimpse of me by the nursing station. Quietly, we acknowledged each other.
Hospice Care.
A reader asked me what hospice means. To understand hospice, I need to discuss its purpose.
Hospice care is very specific to a terminal patient. It involves palliative or 'comfort care' for life-limiting illness rather than curative treatments. It involves professional medical care, advanced pain and symptom management, and emotional, spiritual and practical support based on the patient's wishes and family's needs. In Canada, the terms 'palliative care' and 'hospice care' are often used interchangeably. The word 'hospice' is sometimes used to refer to a home-like place where people spend the last days or weeks of life.
Please do everything. I do not want to die. I am not ready.
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Macoto Murayama's first solo exhibition includes color soaked renditions of flower specimens alongside imaginative botanical diagrams, conflating the worlds of history, engineering, science, art, and digital design. (via Designboom)
Aerial photo (sorry about the grainy quality) of #OccupyOakland's General Strike - thousands of protesters take over the road and the port.
Not an image which made it onto the mainstream press, eh? They seemed to favor closer images which gave the impression that it was only a few dozen or a few hundred people.
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I absolutely love the finial! Would also love to see a tutorial on that!:)
What about making it out of Corian or one of the comparable products? No finish would be needed. Just glue up some pieces, flat, face-to-face, then turn and sand to 600 or so. If you want...
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Same here. The Creek's the greatest place in the virtual world for turners. I have only posted a few times, but follow it almost daily. I too have learned much from the many sages who post here. ...
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Steve,Here's what I built to go under/in my Jet 1236. And, of course, I turned the knobs for it. :) I would advise you to layout your "stuff" on a clean surface first so you can decide which...
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Bernie, I too am curious as to how the diagonal / spiral lines were done. They are a very nice addition to the birdhouses. And I think the burn lines showing "shingles" is fantastic. Another great...
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I've found that the secret is to touch the piece to the various wheels as lightly as possible. This minimizes/avoids heat build-up (which can ruin your finish (don't ask me how I know that)) and it...
I got all three of mine from Don Pencil, and use them on every bowl. They are quite easy to use and produce excellent results.
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" It's all relative to your age, body weight, height, gender, and so on. The general rule of thumb is, for every 25 pounds of weight you have on your frame, you will burn an additional 50 calories an hour provided you work out at the same intensity for the entire hour.
For example, I weigh 120 pounds — which is almost 5 groups of 25 pounds — so if I multiply 50 calories by 5 for 250 calories, then divide that per-hour amount by 60 it comes out to slightly more than 4 calories a minute." - Jillian Michaels
ie: Someone weighing 200lb, (200 / 25 = 8) that's 8 groups of 25lb, so...... 50 additional calories x 8 = 400 calories,
THEN 400 / 60 minutes = 6.7 calories are burned a minute (I rounded up from 6.666666666)
Yes, those who have more to loose have higher calorie burn (you're moving more mass which equates to more force and effort that results in great amounts of calories being burned).
My challenge/ question:
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2. To all those without HRM, does this formula come close to either MFP calorie count? OR if you use a machine with a calorie burn tracker, does it match your calories burned per minute?
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Gorant: Will we ever see Congressional host the Open again?
Shipnuck: Let's hope not. This course is criminally boring.
Morfit: Todd Hamilton was telling me this didn't feel like a U.S. Open course. He added that every hole on the back nine called for him to hit the same 4- or 5-iron into the green.
Lipsey: If the answer is yes, it's only because it's near D.C., and that is a cool place to play a U.S. Open. The course is definitely not Open worthy, though.
Herre: Yes, if for no other reason than D.C. is a terrific golf market.
Van Sickle: Yes. The Washington market is big and lucrative and desirable. The fans here brought a definitive buzz. Still, the late weekend finishes saw streams of fans leaving for the shuttle buses after 7 p.m. because they'd had enough golf for one day.
Garrity: I've always described Congressional as unmemorable, but this Open changed my mind. The new par-3 10th hole, and making the old 17th the new finishing hole, gives it a character it didn't possess before.
Herre: Yes, John. That bowl around 10 and 18 is awesome. It rivals the area around the 17th at Sawgrass.
Godich: The view from behind the 10th green was spectacular. Just wish they'd have found a way to bring the water more into play there.
Garrity: Phil found a way.
Van Sickle: Garrity is right on. The new 10th hole, with the theater around that green and the 18th, is one of the most exciting spots in major championship golf. There's electricity in the air there, a real buzz. Plus it looks great on TV.
Morfit: I was standing on the tee when McIlroy almost aced the 10th. Very cool scene. In his presser he called it the biggest moment of his round because Yang had just birdied nine to close the gap. (Okay, he only closed the gap to eight, but ... oh, never mind.)
Wei: I was standing by the green too, and I thought for sure it was going to roll back in the hole. The atmosphere was incredible. I had chills!
Tell us what you think: Should the U.S. Open return to Congressional?
Gorant: What happened to the young American studs? Is Matt Kuchar the top homeboy currently playing?
Wei: Americans Who? We can always count on Kuchar to roll in with a top 10, but it is about time he seriously contends in a major.
Morfit: I loved Robert Garrigus's reaction to making that par putt on 18 to finish tied for fourth. Maybe it was the putter he stole from Toys 'R' Us, but it made me laugh. He's great. America's best hope may be that Cantlay kid who won low am. Talk about a gorgeous swing.
Lipsey: There were no young American studs, just guys with lots of hype. Studs win titles, and the non-Americans are winning all the major titles.
Shipnuck: Kuchar ain't that young. I could see him winning one major, but no more. Same with Stricker, who's running out of gas. The only Yank out there with Rory's kind of talent is Dustin Johnson, but we have reasons to doubt how much he wants to be The Man. All I can say is thank goodness this isn't a Ryder Cup year.
Herre: The hard truth is that the current crop of Americans are terrific players, but they're no longer world-beaters. I am optimistic about some of the young American amateurs who played so well at the Open. The game may be global, but the stardom thing is cyclical. We'll be back.
Dusek: Right now Kuchar is the best, most consistent American player out there. I could see his Georgia Tech mojo giving him a little boost at Atlanta Athletic Club for the PGA Championship. Anthony Kim, Dustin Johnson and the other American young guns just haven't shown their best games in the majors.
Walker: I agree with everything said about the Americans, but I find it just as compelling, and maybe more compelling, to watch McIlroy, McDowell and Yang as it is to watch Kuchar, Stricker and Johnson. These international players have done a great job of connecting with an American audience. That's fortunate, because we're going to be seeing them win a lot of majors.
Tell us what you think: What happened to the Americans at the U.S. Open? Who's the best American golfer today?
Gorant: The "young stud from UCLA" no longer refers to Shipnuck. How much hope should we place on some of the real youngsters we saw this week, Patrick Cantlay of UCLA and Russell Henley of Georgia in particular? And is Kevin Chappell, also of UCLA, the real deal?
Shipnuck: They're all nice prospects, but they have a long, long way to go. Although being Bruins should stand them in good stead.
Lipsey: Good players, all of them, but I don't see any global studs among them. Not yet, anyway.
Godich: I'll give them this much: they didn't blink on one of the game's biggest stages.
Wei: I think Kevin Chappell is the real deal, but he needs a few more years of experience on Tour. Golf Channel's Jerry Foltz, aka Mr. Nationwide, thinks so, and he's the expert. Last fall at the end-of-year dinner, Foltz said there would be five players who would either win or never play on the Nationwide again: Keegan Bradley, Jhonattan Vegas, Kevin Chappell, Jamie Lovemark and Chris Kirk. Not bad.
Tell us what you think: Cantlaey, Henley, Chappell ... anyone a future star?
Gorant: And what about the much-hyped Euro stars? Whither Donald and Kaymer and Casey and the rest? The Italians? Even McDowell was never really in it.
Herre: How can you diss the Euros when one of them won? Westwood looked pretty good in his bridesmaid way, and Sergio had a nice Open, too.
Godich: Good point, Jim. And lest we forget, nobody else was really in it by Friday night.
Van Sickle: Right. Only one player was in contention all week, and that was McIlroy.
Shipnuck: As of last year, a Euro hadn't won a U.S. Open since Tony Freaking Jacklin. Now they've won two in a row and three of the last five majors overall. So I'd say the week was a success for the boys from across the Atlantic.
Dusek: The biggest-name Euros may not have come through, but Rory won, Fredrik Jacobson was around the top for a while, and Henrik Stenson was spotted on the leaderboard for a while on Sunday. Europe's depth was certainly on display.
Gorant: Everyone was handing the trophy to Donald two weeks ago, and 10 months ago we were talking about Kaymer the same way we're now talking about McIlroy. McIlory's win doesn't make their performances irrelevant.
Walker: Jim, I can't hear you. The "Rory! Rory!" chants are too loud in here.
Tell us what you think: Westwood, Donald, Kaymer, McDowell ... who was the biggest disappointment?


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I made an appointment to see our accountant, who also does business valuation tomorrow at 1pm to discuss. WW insists she needs to be ther because it is about business. OK. Makes sense.
I have not seen her since. This will be the first time. How do i handle this? Any tips? Cold and professional is my plan, but I am afraid of the emotions it might cause. Please suggest some practical tips to cope. I wish I didn't have to see her.
Count to ten before each time you open your mouth. What will want to come out of your mouth will be emotion and pain. Stop. count to ten. Now answer slowly and calmly.
Avoid eye contact. If you have to show any emotion, make it disdain.
you need to show strength and respect for yourself before you have a hope of her showing any. however, the more I read about your WW the less I like her. This sounds like the only things she is interested are those things that threaten her position. That's pretty shallow.
[This message edited by LonelyHusband at 8:29 AM, June 3rd (Monday)]
Have you told the accountant that WW is having an affair? I think the accountant needs to know the situation in order to advise you. I would stress that you'd like to go through each option and it's ramifications for you. The ramifications for WW are not your concern.
[This message edited by sailorgirl at 8:41 AM, June 3rd (Monday)]
Have you told the accountant that WW is having an affair? I think the accountant needs to know the situation in order to advise you.
My personal opinion about ^^this is that the accountant doesn't need to know personal details like this. But that's just me.
I agree with the others, keep it detached and business like. Treat it as any other meeting with clients. Don't talk about anything personal before or after the meeting with your wife. I also like the 10 second rule before speaking. It helps.
Good luck.
You will be so focused on trying to keep yourself from looking at her, thinking about it, talking to her, that whatever your accountant tells you about your options will not even sink in and you wont hear a thing
Try to do this on your own, it is for your own good to find out where you stand with this business, she can meet with him after if she wants to, no decisions are going to be made at this meeting, just advice so she really doesn't have to be there, does she????
If not just be cold and business like, it'll be hard, I know.
I wish there were a better answers for you.
LonelyHusband: I hear you. As each day passes, I am liking her less and less too. The women I thought she was has become someone else. It's as if she has already made up her mind and trying to make it easier for me to make my decision. It is. I never would have guessed in a million years she would have an affair. I was wrong. Then I would have never guessed that when she was caught, that she wouldn't fight to win me back. I was wrong again. At this point the only thing I am right about is that she is damn good actress!
[This message edited by Shockedman at 9:49 AM, June 3rd (Monday)]
"I don't understand the world today I don't understand what she needs I gave her everything she threw it all away" tom petty
Also, I am seeing my lawyer the day before the accountant and all I am looking to do is to get some info and then sit with it. I don't paln to do anything with it just yet.
The shitty thing, is my WW has been making plans with this guy she has been cheating with for 7 months. Normal bullshit. Love at first sight, soul mate, deep emotional and sexual affair. Planning our future together. That trumps our 17 year relationship and 10 years of marriage. Then she is indignant with me because I am making a plan for my future. Whatever my future holds, with or without her, running a business together is out of the question. She said to me the other day that she thought I was bigger than that and exes can run business succesfully.... I laughed and said "maybe exes that split amicably and were still friends, but thats not us."
Does that give any insight into where she is at? I think her mind is already made up and she checked out long ago. This is now the formalities stage....
[This message edited by Shockedman at 10:39 AM, June 3rd (Monday)]
Perhaps something along the lines of "we are here to discuss the business. We need to focus on this for now. It would be best to wait on discussing our m at another time."
I know its easier said than done but you have been very strong. I believe you can do it.
Deep breaths and good luck.
[This message edited by 1Faith at 10:42 AM, June 3rd (Monday)]
Her response after I refused this 5 times:
After some very careful thought, prayer, and consideration it seems that for you, it comes down to what I did. Period. It comes down to what you need financially to move forward. Period. I was staying in the original plan of individual counseling, MC counseling, running the business and household as we move through this first step. My thoughts have been with 17 years and 10 years of marriage. With 11 years of building our home. I felt as though if we tried to work through some of the emotional end of all of this we would find out if there was something worth saving. But now you have moved so hastily I can't even give time to think about the things above. Now I've moved into your time line...your idea of how this should work. You say I've lost my rights to come home, sleep there and to be in the home when I need to. The home I built too. This is not for you to decide. No matter what I did, that right still remains. I'm coming home to sleep on Tuesday and Wednesday night. I will work outside of the house. Make other sleeping arrangements.
I find it hard to believe that you can't see why I would start making plans for my life and future. For the past 7 months, you have been making plans for your future and NONE of them included me. I am in the info gathering stages now. Meeting wioth our accountant was to gather info about our options so when we are ready to make a choice, we know where we stand. It has nothing to do with what I need financially. In fact the opposite. Do you think I want to give up a business I worked so hard for? If we want to have and chance of reconciling, I think taking the business out of the picture will make it easier as we have one less thing to deal with and can focus on our marriage. At this point you are keeping you options open and can't even commit to trying to work on our relationship. If you were commited to trying, you commit to really trying. Meaning No Contact and transparency.
I will not leave Tues and Wed, so if you want to sleep here it will have to be with me in the house.
Now its a power struggle...what should I do?
Lay out a blanket of the basement floor. If she conplains, throw her a pillow.
Away you will go, sailing in a race among the ruins.
If you plan to face tomorrow, do it soon. Gordon Lightfoot
And because you have moved it so fast in this direction all I can think is that you want a divorce. This is the kind of action someone takes when they don't want to be married anymore.
And my response:
Unlike having an affair where you plan your future with another person?
Making plans to safeguard my life is logical. I am meeting with lawyers and accounts to know my rights. My actions have nothing to do with our marriage, rather they have to do with the logistics and assest of our life. The less we have to deal with, the more we could focus on our problems. You are simply seeing however you want to see it. I gave you the plan of action and now I am following through. You are welcome to see it however you wish. I know I am just preparing myself for whatever direction our relationship goes.
Now its a power struggle...what should I do?
It has been a power struggle for her the whole time. She wants to remain in control. I said it in my last post to you. Your wife doesn't like feeling like she isn't in control of the situation. If you look back on your marriage, you'll probably find this has been true for a long time.
You make YOUR decisions based on what YOU want. Don't let her make decisions for you. She doesn't get to decide what is best for you. If she shows up at the house, then she does. Legally it is her house too and you can't keep her out. Have her sleep in the guest bedroom. Stand your ground and draw your boundaries.
Make a list of what you need from your marriage. The first step is NC. Why would she be unwilling to take that stand if she is all in for the marriage? Next step is transparency. Those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. Then the work of IC/MC.
What do you want from your marriage?
What do you want from your marriage?
I have been spending a lot of time thinking about this lately. What I want is already gone, so I am not sure. I wanted a loving, commited partner to share my life and passion with,but that is gone. I also think I want children and she does not. That is likely the deal breaker for R. I told her in the past I was willing to give up having kids to be with her because our 17 relationship was more valuable. Not any more.
This may have been an exit affair for her. She is quickly moving the context of her communication with you towards divorce - even though she says its you who wants it (this is typical of the WS, not at all unusual to see it coming).
I have said that I will go to therapy and MC. That is effort toward some sort of end. That is a process to see if we both have it in us to move forward in our marriage, to see if we should still be married, to see if you can forgive. No, I am not being a coward. I was going through the first step to see if our therapists even think, like you said, whether we should even go to MC. You have not made your decision. You cited things like whether we reconcile or don't it's going to be very difficult to move forward. You cited in conversations that you don't even know if you can do the work to reconcile or even want to. Your signs to me have all been related to a separation plan. That is now the space you have put us in. I was still in the first phase. I thought we would move in a direction when we had the answer. When when our emotional status is in a better place to make decisions then we would then take the proper steps to move in whatever that direction would be.
We don't even know what direction we are moving in. You cited that you too, have been unhappy for quite some time. I didn't even know this. You didn't communicate that with me at all. I thought you were alienating me due to my family problems. I thought that was the problem or else I would have asked otherwise. So I still have yet to hear what that even means.
And you going to an attorney, real estate agent, valuation appointment has ALOT to do with our marriage. It is what we have built in our marriage. And you are trying to figure out what your rights are, what money there is for you to move forward WITHOUT ME. That has everything to do with our marriage.
You said: I know I am just preparing myself for whatever direction our relationship goes.---- You don't know what your direction is either. How are we supposed to know this when I have gone to 1 therapy session and when you have gone to 2 since the affair has come out.
It is not how I see it. It is what it is. You are moving forward with a separation plan. What you have said to me in texts shows me that I don't stand a chance in redeeming myself.
I have said that I will go to therapy and MC. That is effort toward some sort of end.
You have said you will go to therapy and MC, but you did not say you wanted to. As you said, you agreed to it. I made that decision. You cant commit to No Contact, so you are really not committed to trying to work it out. I would be looking at this different if you had. This may be an exit affair for you. You are quickly moving the context of your communication with me towards divorce - even though you say its me who wants it.
You cited things like whether we reconcile or don't it's going to be very difficult to move forward. You cited in conversations that you don't even know if you can do the work to reconcile or even want to.
I am being real and honest. You damn well know it will be hard for me to forgive you. I never said it was impossible. That is being real.
That is now the space you have put us in.
This is the space YOU have put us in. Making a plan for my future is not wrong and I will not apologize for it. I am in the info gathering stages. I did not file for divorce. You are just seeing how you want to see it and cant relinquish control. I am not doing things the way you want, but rather the way I want and that is OK.
It does not. Our marriage is about you and me and our relationship with one another. It is not at ALL about the money. Material possessions are not important. Again, making a plan. Never said I was putting the house on the market tomorrow, but IF and WHEN that time comes of does not come, I want to be prepared to move forward and not have to start the whole process then.
It is not how I see it. It is what it is. You are moving forward with a separation plan. What you have said to me in texts shows me that I don't stand a chance in redeeming myself.
You have not showed me yet that you even want to redeem yourself. You wont commit to trying, you are just weighing your options. If you were seriously trying to redeem yourself, then you would drop the attitude and control and commit to NO contact. Instead you act indignant and say things like I have a right to privacy. That is not an option if you want this work.
She is bantering with you to get a reaction. She does not appear remorseful in the least more scared of losing all she has.
That is a consequence of her poor choices.
You can't negotiate with a terrorist and you can make sense of nonsense.
Keep it simple and limit communication at this point.
Good luck. Stay strong.
What she's doing is a classic cheater switcharoo.... Instead of taking the blame, doing NC and being part of the solution she's trying to get you onboard with her "magical" thinking... She's trying to buy time to continue cake eating to keep you as her backup plan...
In her mind, she's lost control and the only way she thinks she can regain it is to keep you towing the "us, we" plan as she needs to reclaim the "you" backup plan...
I'd bet dollars to donuts that when she was in the middle of her A and planning her new world of rainbows and unicorns with the OM she was sure she'd keep you under her thumb...
Her thought process most likely went something like this...
"If" I get caught with the OM, BS won't divorce me! He can't because we've got so many ties together like the business and the house... I've got him over a barrel so fuck him.... I've got that backup plan by the short hairs...
Ok, now that she sees you actually moving forward her backup plan isn't cooperating one damn bit... She really thought you'd be there and so she's bringing up the "us,we" crap...
Keep doing what you're doing... Protecting yourself from her destructive actions and thoughts...
You can't trust her...
I know this... If a person I do business with will cheat on his/her spouse they'll cheat me in a heartbeat...
James Taylor
I think it will be better for you, and more effective, now that you've laid it out, to tell her there is no need for more discussion until she ends the affair. Really no point in "exploring" the potential for the M while she is in another relationship. Then communicate only about business and financial necessities until she indicates she is willing to do so. If she cannot do that, file.
I know this is really tough, but the NC with AP is just non-negotiable. Without that, nothing else can happen.
No more long messages. Only short specific ones about finances/business/property that are absolutely necessary.
I wouldn't discuss the lawyer or accountant any more with her. You have tipped your hand, it would have been to your advantage to pursue that without her knowing. That way, you are exploring your options for YOU and not being questioned what your motives are. She may now try to sabotage your efforts (meet with as many lawyers as she can to prevent them from representing you, file first, take all the money and run, etc). Don't include her in any other plans. She doesn't need to know. She only needs to know if you move money, file, etc and that is after you have the legal blessing of your L and after the fact. If she was truly considering R, she would still try no matter what you did, and she's not.
[This message edited by hathnofury at 12:43 PM, June 3rd (Monday)]
Stick to facts and reality.
Fact is that since its a marital home you cant refuse her access or residence. OK it IS possible that IF you file you could seek residence while the divorce goes through but since you dont have kids and there is no physical threat to either of you I doubt it will be granted.
You have also stated that you dont want the house. That IF this ends in D you are offering her option of buying the house. So why hang onto it? Why not simply allow her to move in and you move out? The collateral in the house might enable you to buy her out of the business IF this ends in D.
I would seriously consider giving your wife (well, at least offering it
) what she is asking for.
Look at what she has been telling you over the years:
You are not meeting her expectations. She isnt happy with you. She has refused you sex. She has refused to be part of a marriage. She has shown she seeks fulfillment elsewhere.
Look at what shes telling you now:
If shes allowed to deal with her infidelity on HER terms shes willing to get professional help to see if MAYBE she could accept you despite the earlier comments.
Look nearly EVERY WS here on SI has tried to get to end the affair on their terms. Its like an alcoholic that tries to stop drinking without outside help; it WONT WORK.
You have to remove each and every excuse she has for compromising on how she works on the marriage and leave her naked except for the ONLY excuse there should be: She wants to work on the marriage because she WANTS to.
Get that? Not because divorce would affect the job. Not because you have a neat house as a couple. Not because she can tolerate having sex with you every third month. Not because you to would have to make financial compromises
You have to take each and every one of her excuses and refuse it:
Yes honey. If we divorce we wont be friends. Its not that I dont want to or that I will be your enemy. Its just that this is what happens when people divorce. I plan on moving on and creating a new life. Look around; how many people do we know that are good friends with their ex?
Yes honey. I dont think we will be working together. There is too much attachment between us and its better for both of us to put distance between us.
Yes honey. We will have less spending money when we have to pay for separate houses, groceries and so on, but thats just what happens.
Im going to copy/paste from my first post on your thread:
You care too much for her to constrain her. If she is so uncontent with you then you wont stand in the way of her leaving. You arent happy with it but it beats feeling like you are her warden and DEFINITELY beats sharing her.
That you can accept that there might be things you do that could contribute to her discontent. BUT those things will NEVER justify her decision to have an affair. The affair is totally 100% her bad.
If she wants to work on the marriage then she has to tell you so in a clear and concise way. You wont force her. She doesnt have any excuse or reason to remain, nor excuse or reason to prevent her leaving. Its totally her call.
Remove each and every excuse. Leave her standing there with no other reason for being in the marriage other than she WANTS TO.
nothing will change until you change it. Take your life back.
[This message edited by LonelyHusband at 1:29 PM, June 3rd (Monday)]
"Don't tell me who I'm taking action for. MC isn't taking action for us????????? I've already answered your question in re: to no contact. Drop the no contact agreement. I'm not signing anything unless you hand me a divorce paper."
I guess I will give her what she is asking for. My heart is broken.
I responded:
So you are saying you will sign it if I serve it? Why do I need to drop the no contact? If you weren't having contact it not be an issue? Right? I thought after 17 years together and 10 years of marriage, the LEAST you could do was to commit to stop talking to your lover while we try to settle our marriage. I see you are unwilling to do that now, so what are we even trying for?
I've already answered your question in re: to no contact. Drop the no contact agreement. I'm not signing anything unless you hand me a divorce paper."
^^This sounds like she's just told you what she wants without coming straight out and saying it. She doesn't want to go NC with her AP. I guess the big question is why. Is it because she's still talking to him? Don't be surprised if she comes out and says, something to the effect of "This divorce is what you wanted." or "I've tried to (fill in anything here) and you couldn't see my efforts." Those see to be classic WS lines.
It may be in your best interest to go NC with her. Maybe tell her that you'll only discuss the business and that's all...
Good Luck.
Right now she's either delusional, or she's playing you for more time while she finalizes her exit strategy. Either way, it's not in your interest to engage with her.
I would suggest you continue IC. When the date for that MC session comes around, attend it. If she shows, fine. If not, fine. Just don't let the MC'er or your WW rugsweep or blame-shift or pull any other bullshit about the A. Know your bottom lines and stick to your minimal requirements for R. Lay them on the table early and don't waver from them. You can't control her, but she can't control you either if you don't let her. Specifically, she can't dictate under what conditions the M continues. Either one of you are legally empowered to pull that plug at any time. Marriages only continue to exist by mutual consent. A NC letter is very, very far from being a ridiculous or unreasonable requirement - and even if it were so, you'd still retain the legal right to end the M. Showing up to MC with good information on how assets would likely be divided in case of D will be beneficial for you. It will show you mean business and can provide factual material to discuss productively if R is not in the cards.
You're doing very well so far. Just try to de-escalate the drama, follow the 180, and keep posting/reading here.
Your actions have clearly revealed her intent.
Continue to gather knowledge and treat her like the untrustworthy stranger that she is.
Logically you must realize you are on the D path. When you have all the knowledge you need on your rights and options, file for D.
You can still call the D off if she chooses to change and become remorseful.
One question, what about the OM's and his BW? Did they R or seperate?
"Affairs are not mistakes, they are a series of deliberate choices." - CrappyLife
Read the book "No more Mr Nice Guy"
You really need to. In all Communications with your WW you keep going on the defensive, explaining yourself falling for her manipulation and controling.
You need to snap out of it.
Stop explaining your actions. If anything just state your actions, don't explain them, don't argue them with her. Don't fall into her manipulations and controling.
Her refusing to write a NC letter that "YOU" should mail shows Everything. She either has no plan at all to get back to you or beleive you are week and will allow her back regardless of what she does.
There is a common saying in these circomstances. It goes like this: "If you want to have a chance of getting your WS back you need to be prepared to loose Him/Her"
She is still running the show and in the fog. You need to run the show and you need to snap her out of the fog.
The normal actionplan for this is to actually file for D. If she snaps out you can Always stop the D. Filing will give you the answere you want. Either she snaps out and comes begging back to you or she shows her colors. Either way you will be allowed to move on woth your Life.
Another thought I had is she has been talking with someone who has btdt or an attorney. That's why she's pushing to get back in the house because she foun out she can, probably telling her parents that you are working it out.
Have you tracked her? Her denial for NC is bs. Try to keep communication to a minimum and when she asks why you are doing this simply state that she has done nothing to help you even begin to think R is something you can try, NC AND passwords/access to all phone email is a must. She will most likely go apeshit. Just walk away.
Deep breaths. You can do this. You will get through this.
I learned a breathing technique once to help cope with stress, I want to share it because it may help during your accountant meeting - it has helped me keep my cool under pressure before.
It's very simple. You take one slow, deep breath, and imagine that you are breathing in goodness, peace, self control, composure, health, happiness, whatever you need to breathe in at the moment. When you release your breath, slowly, you imagine that you are breathing out all the tension, anger, stress, hurt, disease, anything that feels out of control, anything you need to breathe out at the moment.
So the basic concept is: Breathe in good, breathe out bad. It can help lower stress (and even blood pressure) if done alone for about 20 mins during quiet times, but in the context of a pressure cooker situation, when anything triggers you to be upset in ANY way, allow yourself the space to breathe in and out, that one deep breath before responding. It takes seconds, but can be a self-control life saver.
I hope it helps you. I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I know the first days after discovery are such a whirlwind. Stand up for yourself!! I hope things get better for you.
As others have said, you need to 180 hard and stop these long replies to her utter, cake-eating, gaslighting nonsense. So she is willing to go to MC (probably on your dime) while fucking some other man's dick? This is her "working on us" LOL.
Start looking at things realistically and don't get suckered into this drama and bullshit she's looping you into.
When she checked out of the marriage, she checked out of the marital home AND checked out of you giving a shit. PERIOD. If you feel the need to answer her in anyway, keep it to short but sweet messages such as that: "When YOU decided to check out of the marriage, YOU also decided to check out of the marital home AND from any of my attention."
When she is willing to beg for forgiveness, go NC with confirmed NC letter, go for full transparency (all passwords, emails, accounts, GPS, VAR, etc. etc.), as well as IC/MC, only THEN can R even be SLIGHTLY considered.
Do the 180 friend and protect yourself and start taking care of ONLY yourself. There is no way she is going to come out of her fantasy fog bubble if you play into her dramatics of ludicrous non-NC offerings and her obvious misunderstanding that she jumped on another man's dick so SHE has NO say in any bargaining. SHE is the one that fucked up, so SHE is not in the drivers seat here any more and should be served divorce papers immediately (even if you don't divorce) to make it clear where this is headed if things don't change DRAMATICALLY and IMMEDIATELY.
Good luck friend!


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keywords for 2012
not in any order:
- University application
- Whatsapp (actually supported by my Nokia phone)
- work
- choir - yes 6 different choirs
- girlfriend of army boy
- A level results
- NUS Law interview
- clubbing (ha ha ha might have been my first and last time)
- NUS Arts and Social Sciences!!
- NUS Choir
- Chinho! Happy 2 Years!
- hello iPhone
Armed with all the current lovely people in my life, I'm ready for 2013!
Especially since I'm equipped with my NEW iPHONE (Since my Nokia died on 23rd Dec ), 2013 planner and the new water bottle that I just bought today
Goodnight 2012, Good morning 2013!