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"Are you ready to talk about this?"
Your voice was so calm and smooth. I, on the other hand, blanched with panic, knowing full well what you were asking. We were supposed to be working on my college homework assignment, for goodness sake. But apparently you had other plans.
"Talk about what?" I asked, trying to sound innocent over the thudding in my chest.
"Us," you said.
No, I was not ready to talk about "us." I thought we'd keep dancing games around our mutual attraction for months to come.
But you're not a guy to play games, are you?
I actually told you, "No, I'm not ready." But that didn't deter you. You plunged ahead.
And that was the beginning of us.
That night you set our relationship on the course that has us celebrating a decade of marriage today.
Ten years and now we're two people rolling over to turn off morning alarms.
Ten years and somehow we have three humans we've grown ourselves.
Ten years and we're in the middle of potty training, forever potty training.
Ten years of life side by side. Ten years of moves and flights and plans and dreams and study and play.
Ten years and you come home at night, walk into the kitchen as I stir dinner, and I think "Gosh, there's no one in this world I'd rather see right now than you."
Because you and me, we make us. And I love us.
I love us even on the days when all our brokenness hangs out, because there's something beautiful in knowing all the broken bits of each other and saying, "I love you still. I choose you still."
Today I want to remember, Love. I want to live all the million moments that have made us, us. Let me pen it down, so that decades from now, when we're all wrinkled and trembly, and our minds have grown foggy, I can reach my hand for yours, and we can read and remember. We'll remember the first decade of us.
Remember driving away from our reception (and heading to Taco Bell, yes Taco Bell), just the two of us? Remember the tears that fell, because the day had been just completely perfect? The bubbles had been crusty dried bottles (perhaps that's why they were clearanced??) and we never ever even saw the food table. But none of that mattered. It had been a day full of magical moments. And now what remained was the celebrated bliss of being Mr. & Mrs.
Remember how we stood on the beach of Mackinaw Island and I told you of the ache I felt? That this love I had for you was so strong it hurt, that I couldn't imagine being happier than I was at that moment ever.
Remember wandering through the streets of Venice, and listening to pure music echo off cathedral walls?
Remember how we must go back to Italy one day and not eat off the menu touristico?
Remember that day when I cried on your shoulder in a parked car in Missouri, pouring out tears for the way you were helping me awaken to grace, beautiful grace. I think that's when I knew I needed to marry you.
Remember the blinding rain that made us pull over into that countryside driveway, how a quiet dark car set the mood, how the farmer turned on his lights and opened his door, and we peeled out before he could holler at us to stop making out in his driveway?
Remember standing at the airport check-in counter, frantically rearranging bags to get them under weight? Such precious novices about to board our first flight to China.
Remember how in the dormitory room during orientation to China, I raged sick with fever, and you climbed into the little rock-hard twin bed with me and we held each other tight, wondering if moving to China was the biggest mistake of our lives?
Remember the number of students that could squeeze onto our first China couch? Those rowdy games of spoons, losers punished by singing? I think that's when we first began to think, "You know, maybe we'll stay."
Remember standing outside the shopping mall, waiting for it to open? Waiting to purchase the stick that would tell us if we were parents? The instructions were only in Chinese, so I had to pull aside a giggling Starbucks employee to explain to me how to take the test. We rushed home, much to the relief of my waiting bladder. Then that little pink line said, "Yep, you're lives are forever changed."
One by one these three little people entered the equation of us. There was the agony of waiting for Ellie to arrive. "Will she ever come?" There was rush of "Get to the hospital NOW!" for Aiden, my head in your lap in the back of a taxi. There was the gasp of "It's a boy!" for Titus.
And always, there was the hushed awe in the hospital room, after everyone would leave, when just the three of us would bask in the wonder of it all, the scent of new life in the air.
Three babies born in three countries. Fun to say. Loads of paperwork though, huh?
These ten years have been a lot about finding the you and the me of us. It's been the discovering and stepping out in faith into what we're each meant for.
Remember the YMCA hotel room when you first spoke the letters "PhD"?
And can you think of how we would have laughed if someone told us I would one day be the founder of an online community? Yeah, ME, the girl who has always run to you for the slightest computer glitch.
Let's think for a moment of all the times we've questioned our sanity, all the times when our life and travel and dreams and children have stretched us beyond ourselves and we've wondered what in the world we're doing.
There have been some of those times, haven't there?
Times when we don't know how to keep on with it all.
Even in those hardest of times, we've always believed in each other, believed for each other.
And now we're entering this new season, a season of pruning, of cutting back, and finding what we need for wholeness.
We're finding us again, not the old, younger version of us, the ones with honeymoon stars in our eyes, but a new, deeper us. An us that knows the stretched out parts of ourselves.
I like this us.
I like who you are and who you help me to be. I like this family of ours, the beautiful, loud, crazy lot that we are.
Let's remember we won't always have wriggly little bodies climbing all over us while we watch our wedding video every September 18th. They won't always be there bobbing their heads to the music and squealing with delight at "the kiss."
So let's bottle up the memories of these days. Exhausting though they may be, they are glorious.
All the moments of today are making the us of tomorrow. I think I will like that version too.
I've said it at least a million times, but let it ring with depth today…
I love you.
I love the dish-washing, gift-giving, tender-hearted, wisdom-anointed man that you are.
I love that you are mine and I am yours and that we get to be us. Because I love us.
Here's to 10 years, the first decade of many. A lifetime just begun…


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Grand Old Police Blotter: Menace to Sobriety Edition
Ohio continues its long tradition of exporting its drunks to Indiana. I know some Buckeyes will blame this matter on the poor quality of Ohioan strippers, but the Party of Personal Responsibility never would:
CINCINNATI -- The Dearborn County Prosecutor's Office released video Friday from the arrest of Ohio State Rep. Robert Mecklenborg.
The video begins with Mecklenborg being pulled over by an Indiana state trooper just before midnight on April 22 on U.S. 50 in Lawrenceburg for a broken headlight.
The trooper then asked the woman to step out of the car and began to question her. He asked how she knew Mecklenborg.
"We've been friends for a while," the woman replied.
The woman in the vehicle reportedly works at a strip club in Lawrenceburg.
Mecklenborg is married with three children.
A judge ordered a blood test on Mecklenborg, which showed his blood-alcohol content level at .097, which is above the legal limit for operating a motor vehicle. The toxicology report showed Mecklenborg also tested positive for Viagra.
Well, it's not like Mecklenborg is a current prosecutor who sits on the State Senate's Judiciary and Ethics Committee.
(The arrest video is at the first link. For those who have witnessed passive-agressive whining, there's no need to watch the arrest video.)
In a shockingly uncharacteristic manner, the Ohio G.O.P. circles the wagons for Mecklenborg to fall off of. Because it's not like he killed anyone from Ohio, or twittered his dick:
Alex Triantafilou, chairman of the Hamilton County Republican Party, said Thursday that party leaders are "assessing" the matter.
"It's a tough situation," Triantafilou said. "Our thoughts and prayers are with Bob and his family."
Ohio House Speaker William G. Batchelder, R-Medina, said in a statement late Thursday that he was "shocked and disappointed to learn of the difficult situation that Rep. Mecklenborg and his family are facing."
"We are working with Rep. Mecklenborg to find a solution that is in the best interests of the representative, his family and all concerned," Batchelder said.
It's hard out there for a diminutive Republican drunk. Since the arrest happened in April, the G.O.P. has had two months to assess the matter, work out a solution and pray. But the arrest became public, so their prayers weren't answered.
And what does Governor Kasich have to say?
Gov. John Kasich has not called for Rep. Mecklenborg's resignation.
"Not from me," Kasich said. "This is tough for him. It's something I've thought about but I'd like to keep those thoughts to myself. We have to stop pounding people when they make mistakes."
Plus, the cop was a moron.
But no one feels more sympathy for Representative Mecklenborg than the true victim in all this:
The Enquirer learned of the arrest Wednesday, nearly nine weeks after it occurred. Asked whether he had any idea how and why it finally had surfaced, Mecklenborg said: "When you're in public office, you've got a bull's-eye on your back."

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I have been writing about the Philippine Cybercrime Act for years. I have always been for the idea behind it. Who shouldn't be for the idea of protecting women and children? Who shouldn't be against child prostitution? Who shouldn't be for fighting the transnational crimes the bill hopes to fight against. And we should give our government and our law enforcement every bit of weapon against the likes of those. I have been against this law from the very beginning because though those are the intent, the language and the direction that the law suggests walk a different path. It fails to recognize the culture and the ecosystem of the Internet. The proponents of the law fail to grasp the nuances of the packet and the data, or that these very internet thrive on argument and debate.
In the past few days, Anonymous has taken action against Philippine Government Websites. The attacks intensified in the last few hours. While I believe the Philippine Cybercrime Act is an affront to democracy, the same could equally be said of Anonymous. Anonymous believes it is doing right by Filipinos. Anonymous believes that by engaging with a war of DDoS can it convince the powers that be, to relent. I can tell you right now, no one wants a gun in their head. Bullying, vandalism, and threats have never made anyone sit down and hash things out. It does quite the opposite.
I can tell you right now, as one of those against the Philippine Cybercrime Act— and this blog— in fact is a member of the broad coalition called the Philippine Internet Freedom Alliance, Anonymous threatens the very goal we all set out to accomplish: have the law changed.
We have a government that does listen. We have senators coming out to say: let's talk. These are the very people who passed this law. And they are coming out to ask: if we did wrong, tell us. Let's talk. Let's hash things out. Let's fix it.
I believe these dialogue, and reaching out is the first of many. I believe that maybe we can bridge the digital divide. We can bridge the power of those of us experimenting on the Internet, and the legislative branch.
These people while they do represent us, can not be expected to understand every nuance of our digital lives. While they are our leaders and representatives, I believe it is cognizant on our part to tell them what ails us.
The Constitution has provision to express our grievance. We've tweeted about it. We've written letters on this. And many of us have taken to sign a petition before the Supreme Court to be heard. And many of us took to the streets in protest.
The system works. It isn't perfect. But it works when citizens stand up for what they believe is an affront. When they take to do so in an informed debate.
So keep telling government why the Philippine Cybercrime Act is wrong. Do it in the most creative way you could think of. Engage responsibly, not in hysterics, but in a real, informed discussion.
What anonymous does is simply to fire a gun. What they've done quite frankly hurts only the system administrators and the network administrators who had to stay up all night defending those sites as best as they can with the tools that they have. Have you ever stopped to think that those guys believe that this law is also an affront? Do you guys think they're not fighting it tooth and nail to get the point across to their bosses, and their friends? Do you think those guys have better things to do than sit behind their desk doing their best to defend their sites? They are only against decent people trying to make a tiny dent in the universe.
Ideas not DDoS will win the day.
Constructive debate, not DDoS will win the day.
Both the Philippine Cybercrime Act of 2012 and the actions of Anonymous are an affront to me. They are an affront to common decency, to an informed debate, and to transformative action that many behind the scenes are tirelessly working on to have a clear resolution on this matter.
I believe that the next steps will be crucial. I believe that the only way we can get our message across the digital divide is to come up with a magna carta. A magna carta on Internet Freedom that balances our rights and responsibilities as citizens with the protection afforded to us by government. I believe that such a law must be balanced between fairness and equality for all.
This is why Anonymous is wrong. So I urge you, if you are against the Philippine CyberCrime Law there are many things you can do. First: denounce the action of Anonymous. We do not need Anarchy. We do not need Anonymous to fight a shadow war for us. We do not need hooligans in action. So I urge you to join me. Denounce Anonymous.
This is what we need right now. We need fairness and equality. Second: sign a petition before the Supreme Court, if you can not, call your representatives, write to them— or even the President, and make them care. Third: inform and educate people about the Internet. Why is this law wrong? Fifth: Engage government in constructive, and well-informed debate. Lastly, join us in crafting a magna carta for Internet freedom. This is transformative action. Ideas, not DDoS will win the day.


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I always think about what it means to wear eyeglasses. When you get used to glasses you don't know how far you could really see. I think about all the people before eyeglasses were invented. It must have been weird because everyone was seeing in different ways according to how bad their eyes were. Now, eyeglasses standardize everyone's vision to 20-20. That's an example of everyone becoming more alike. Everyone could be seeing at different levels if it weren't for glasses.
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by Thornton Burgess from Old Mother West Wind
Thornton Burgess loved nature and liked to write about its beauty. He wrote "Old Mother West Wind" in 1910. The book has many stories about interesting characters, including Peter Rabbit,, Jimmy Skunk, and of course, Old Mother West Wind who is the wind that blows from the west. Below is a passage from the book about one of her children.


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The pilot of a single engine aircraft escaped injury after making a hard landing in a field in Franklin County. It happened just before 5 pm this evening in Greene Township near the 3500 block of Airport Road.
The pilot attempted to return to Chambersburg Airport for an emergency landing after the aircraft's motor stalled out. The plane made a controlled "hard" landing in a field just short of the airport. The FAA is investigating.


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Our Roots in Stone
All are welcome to the launch of Luke Baxter's "Our Roots in Stone" at 9pm this Friday, 6th December in Lyons Red Pub. "Our Roots in Stone", published by Luke Baxter in association with Ardagh Tidy Towns Committee, documents the gravestones and memorials in the lower churchyard (opposite the community centre) and in St. Patrick's Church of Ireland churchyard, both of which were the burial grounds for the people of Ardagh prior to the establishment of Ardagh Cemetery at St Brigid's Church in 1906. The book will be launched by Irish Times political editor, Stephen Collins, whose mother May Farrell is a native of Graffogue.
St. Vincent de Paul.
Edgeworthstown branch of St Vincent de Paul will hold church gate collection at all Masses in Edgeworthstown on Saturday 7th and Sunday 8th December. Your support is very much appreciated.
Tidy Town Lotto €4,050
Numbers drawn 6, 10, 25, 27. No winner €25 each to Helen Leavy, Cross; Peter Farrell, Moydow; Jimmy Farrell, Cross. Bingo every Tuesday night at 8.30pm.
Life Time Membership
In recognition of our success this year in winning the Intermediate Championship and to go towards the completion of our Parish Walkway, the club is now offering the opportunity to become a Life Time Member of St Patrick's. Life Time Membership will mean that you are a member of the club for the rest of your life and will never pay an annual membership fee. Life Time members will be permanently recognised on a plaque at Keenan Park and will also be entitled to attend all club meetings and AGMs. Life Time members will also be entered into a draw for All Ireland Football and Hurling Final tickets every year. Funds raised from this initiative will go toward the completion of our Parish Walkway which is now under construction at our grounds. The Walkway will be for the benefit of all the community in Ardagh and will be open to everyone in our village and surrounding areas. So in addition to becoming a Life Time member of our GAA club your contribution will also benefit the community as a whole in Ardagh for many generations to come. The last time Life Time Membership was offered was in 1980 when, in tough times, many members of the community dug deep to ensure St Patrick's had its own pitch to play on after 90 years of depending on the generosity of local farmers in kindly lending the club a field to play on - the club is still very grateful to them. And now, 34 years later, this opportunity has come around again. Perhaps you would consider becoming a Life Time Member of Ardagh St Patrick's? Or perhaps gifting Life Time Membership to a loved one or family member at this Christmas time? Life Time Membership is priced at €200 per individual membership and this offer will be open for a limited period only. All Life Time Members will receive a Permanent Certificate of Life Time Membership of St Patrick's GAA Club for your records or for display or as a gift to pass on. Life Time Membership can be purchased for yourself or for another individual. If you would like more information please contact Declan Kenny, Chairman (087 2995920), Mary O'Brien, Secretary (087 2718154), Imelda Keenan, Treasurer (086 3825449) or Martin Keane, Treasurer (087 9976899).
Afternoon of Christmas
Ardagh Ladybirds, Brownies and Guides invite everyone to an Afternoon of Christmas; Brownies present: Gold to Bethlehem; Guides bring you a Medieval Midwinter traditional Mummers Play and join the Ladybirds for a sing-song of Christmas favourites! Saturday, 14th December at 3pm in Ardagh Community Centre. Adults €5, children free - under 14s must be accompanied by an adult. Refreshments and Raffle. This event is a fundraiser for activities for all three girl guide branches for the coming year, all support greatly appreciated. Tickets contact Carmel on 0863939513.
Fun run
2nd Annual Ardagh 16K Challenge & 5K Fun Run. Mark your calendars now Saturday, December 28, run through Ardagh Village and over Ardagh mountain. Advance booking now open, contact Michael Hayden for details.
Community Games
Chess & Draughts for AMG Community Games will be offered for the next two weeks to get some practice in before Christmas break. 5-6.30pm in the Heritage Centre on Friday December 6 and Friday December 13. All children interested in doing these two activities please attend. Our Community Games Youth activities on Friday evenings will start up in the New Year for table tennis, chess, draughts, etc. Congratulations to Brigette Lynch Scott, Leslie Finnan and all involved with AMG Community Games on their National win for their Healthy Events project. Over 20 people from Co. Longford travelled to the National Community Games Achievement Awards Night in Derry where AMG had the unique honour to receive the very 1st Healthy Events trophy for this brand new competition. Also recognised were the County winners for Longford: Killoe- Involvement Award, Turlough Farrelly (Killoe) Adult Recognition and Michaela Cox (Killashee) Youth Volunteer. Community Games would not be able to provide the wide variety of opportunities for children without all the dedication of its volunteers so a genuine thank you to everyone who gives so generously of their time to Community Games in Co. Longford.


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Today, Pennsylvania Congressman Patrick Murphy (D-8th District) announced a new round of federal funding that he recently secured for improvements to Stoopville Road . The $950,000 will ensure construction and improvements continue on Stoopville Road from Durham Road to Washington Crossing Road in Newtown Township and Upper Makefield Township.
Congressman Murphy has successfully secured $2.84 million in federal funding for these improvements, including $1.4 million from the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act.
"Congressman Murphy continues to deliver on his local promises- this ensures that the Washington Crossing Cemetery and the roadways leading to it are given the care and attention that this important site deserves," said Jerry Schenkman, Newtown Township Supervisor.
"I'm proud to fight for funding that creates jobs in Bucks and, most importantly, ensures that this project finally gets done," said Rep. Murphy.
The Washington Crossing National Veterans Cemetery will draw thousands of new visitors to the area. Rep. Murphy has worked closely with members of the townships' Boards of Supervisors to find ways to devote resources to traffic calming measures that will keep local residents, commuters, and school-children safe. Planned improvements include landscaped medians and gateway treatments along with a pedestrian/bicycle path to promote safe and efficient travel along the roadway and to access adjoining land. The ability to secure these federal funds was a critical factor in ensuring that Bucks County was chosen as the location for the National Veterans Cemetery .


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When I think back over the last 30-odd years I believe I have spent more time and energy working on things for other people... things I had to do and very little time and energy working on the things I want to do... the things that rest my brain and give me energy.
This feeling has been strong for the last few weeks and especially last Saturday. I was exhausted. Just trying to get done what I needed to and feeling like a zombie.
But I decided to take 45 minutes and visit a Textile Exhibit at the Lincoln Center in Fort Collins.
They asked that no photographs be taken in the gallery. It was difficult to comply, knowing that my phone was in my pocket. ;-)
There were so many beautiful and interesting pieces... a Go Bag inspired by the High Park Fire, a 3-dimensional piece that was made only of zippers, a pair of antique glove-stretchers that had been used in a Dream-Catcher-like crochet piece, and my favorite which turned out to be the Best in Show.
|Brochure with the Best in Show piece on the cover
From a distance this pieced looked like a white-on-white weaving with black paint. But up close you could see that the black was part of the weaving.
I would love to have this piece in my home.
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People coping with depression should avoid foods that may contribute to the condition, which include refined sugars, artificial sweeteners, foods high in sodium, hydrogenerated oils and processed foods, according to Psych Central. Alcohol and caffeine may also worsen the symptoms of depression.Continue Reading
Refined sugar and artificial sweeteners can block the production of serotonin, leading to insomnia, headaches and dips in mood, as Psych Central explains. Refined sugars can also cause a dip in blood glucose levels that are linked to sleep disorders, plummeting energy levels and mood disruptions.
Processed foods and carbohydrates in pastas, snack foods, bread and cereal also cause an initial boost in insulin, which can result in irritation, sadness and fatigue, as detailed by Psych Central. People who consume hydrogenated oils are more prone to depression because the oils in fried foods such as fries and fried chicken may prevent blood flow to the brain and clog the arteries. Excess sodium can disrupt the neurological system, and it can also lead to bloating and fluid retention.
WebMD recommends a diet rich in nutrients, antioxidants and smart carbohydrates for people with depression. Smart carbohydrates produce a calming effect on the mind and body, and essential antioxidants work to prevent cell damage and brain dysfunction. A diet high in nutrients such as vitamins and minerals helps reduce any deficiencies while also supporting wellness, repair and growth.Learn more about Mental Health


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David Goldstein (SLOG):
I've had my bit of fun this morning over at HA (we'll see how long it takes for my trolls to realize I'm just quoting Sharron Angle), so I thought I'd post my real post-election reaction here on Slog, the gist of it being that if you're looking for meaning in yesterday's election, don't.Howie P.S.: I must be pretty stupid. I took his earlier post seriously.


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The URL of a proxy service can be customized. If you want to get an understanding about proxy services refer this post (http://achala11.blogspot.com/2012/07/proxy-services-with-wso2-esb.html).
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Reporting from New York — Fourteen people died early Saturday morning in the Bronx when a tour bus flipped on its side on a highway and slid into a pole, the New York City Fire Department said. The metal pole for an overhanging sign ripped through the windshield and sheared off most of the top of the bus, according to media reports.
About 20 passengers were taken to hospitals; at least six were listed in critical condition, the Fire Department said.
Firefighters said they had to cut out parts of the bus to rescue several passengers trapped in the mangled vehicle, which was carrying about 33 passengers.
The bus left the Mohegan Sun Casino, a southern Connecticut gambling complex, at about 3:45 a.m. and was headed to Chinatown in Manhattan, according to media reports.
The large casino is about two hours from the city and has become a popular destination for brief excursions for many New Yorkers, including those from the immigrant communities of Chinatown.


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Friday, April 15, 2011
We are all busy cleaning everything and boxing up stuff to give away and I am loving it too much clutter and things we never use. WOW it feels so good not to be weighed down with stuff! We are doing all this for Passover getting rid of the sin in our lives and focusing on how YHVH wants us to live each day and all that he has done for us. We are also looking to him for the miracle he gave us on April 28th 2009 Isaac X Finch was given to us and showed us exactly what God can do when men say there is no way. He is a fighter and although he may be small there is nothing that little man can do when he wants to do it. Oh how the past 2 years have flown by and not a day goes by that I don't thank YHWY for showing us the love of a child and blessing us with children to raise in his way. Shabbat Shalom!
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text: On Tuesday, Walt Disney CEO Bob Iger discussed some of the reasoning behind the purchase of Lucasfilm Ltd., the film company behind Star Wars. He said that the Star Wars films have "more than 17,000 characters inhabiting several thousand planets and spans 20,000 years" – giving "infinite inspiration and opportunities" for Disney artists to work with. When you look at your life, interests and business, you'll discover that you too have a lot of inspirations[…]READ MORE


text: Muti to Lead Chicago Symphony Italian personality had been pursued by NY orchestra, others By Kate Rockwood, Newser Staff Posted May 5, 2008 2:23 PM CDT 0 comments Comments Riccardo Muti received widespread support from the CSO musicians, as well as a unanimous vote from the board of directors. (KRT Photos) View 2 more images (Newser) – After four years of searching for a new music director, the Chicago Symphony Orchestra has finally found its man: Italian maestro Riccardo Muti. He will take over for the 2010-11 season on a five-year contract. In September, Muti rejected the idea of an American music directorship because of hefty administrative duties, but a month of guest conducting changed his tune. "I would like to make this last engagement as music director in my life something that can enrich people," Muti told the New York Times. In 2005, an internal spat caused his ouster from the Teatro All Scala, where he was the music director for 19 years. He's since been principal guest conductor at the New York Philharmonic, a role he says will likely shrink. View 2 more images


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The 1850s pose considerable difficulties for historians. The decade after 1848 saw both the principles and practice of Chartism undermined[1]. Radical protest was stifled by the increasing affluence of the economy, the growing importance of self-improvement among working people, especially the skilled artisan and the ineffectiveness of radical organisations largely because of the growing confidence of the middle classes. The move to liberalism, in this scenario, is seen, Taylor argues, "not as a political development but a retrograde step in class-consciousness". Chartism in the 1850s was an after-thought. For the historians of Gladstonian Liberalism, radical politics of the 1850s has been largely ignored. John Vincent, for example, focuses on an analysis of the party between 1859 and 1874[2]. Studies of Palmerston's governments in the 1850s and 1860s[3] see his approach as important because it anticipated Gladstone's style of leadership. Both Angus Hawkins and E. D. Steele accept that there was a significant degree of discontinuity in British politics in the 1850s. Radicalism declined and liberalism emerged because the Anti-Corn Law League was successful in 1846 and Chartism failed in 1848.
Behind this widespread assumption is the Marxist belief that the fundamental feature of change in capitalist society is class struggle. The issue of working class liberalism is explained away as an interlude between the early socialism of the Chartists and the revival of socialism in the late nineteenth century. There has, however, been an alternative viewpoint stressing the continuity of radical politics across the 1850s. Frances Gillespie's study of the influence of organised labour on the politics of parliamentary reform between 1850 and 1867 was published in 1927. Simon Maccoby recognises continuities in radicalism between the 1760s and 1914[4]. Historians have neglected both. More recently, however, they have recognised they have underestimated the extent of radical continuity between 1832 and 1867. This has occurred because of two major developments in the historiography of early Victorian politics.
Gareth Stedman Jones argues that there were strong links between Chartism and the older radical critique of the political system that can be traced back to the mid-eighteenth century[5]. The issue, he suggests was not the denial of democratic rights or the exploitation associated with industrialisation, but the corruption associated with uncontrolled executive power. This critique of the 'Old Corruption' sought to prevent the executive using its "public position for private gain"[6]. The best way to do this, reformers like John Wilkes and James Mill argued, was to extend popular control over the executive. This, it was maintained, would make it accountable to the electorate. Stedman Jones goes further than this and maintains that the success of Chartism in the 1830s lay in the ability of its leaders to extend this analysis to include the unequal tax burdens shouldered by the working population. This gave their cause considerable breadth and appeal. Peel's reform of indirect taxation in his 1842 and 1845 budgets and major company and banking reforms led to this radical argument losing its attraction and so "the movement fizzled out"[7]. This conclusion, according to Taylor, has two important implications for an examination of the 1850s. First, it suggests that the success of Chartism and the radical movement in general did not depend on their class composition, or on their ability to express the interests of a single social group. Secondly, Stedman Jones has revived interest in a 'radical tradition' that remained largely unchanged between the mid-eighteenth century and the outbreak of war in 1914 despite changes in Britain's economic and social structure. At the heart of this tradition were popular governance and public accountability and responsibility. Stedman Jones and subsequent historians have restored politics to the radical agenda and weakened some of the focus on class found in earlier work. It does not, however, go far enough in rethinking the chronology of mid-nineteenth century radicalism. Stedman Jones, however, still accepts that a major break occurred in radicalism in the 1840s after the critique of the 'Old Corruption'[8] lost its relevance unlike historians such as Biagini, Joyce[9] and Vernon[10] who, though in different ways, recognise a unbroken continuity in popular politics across the Victorian period.
This tension, Taylor suggests, may be resolved by looking at a second area of historiographical development, new work on liberalism between 1820 and 1850[11]. This suggests that the modern Liberal party did not emerge overnight in the 1850s but developed gradually in the decades after the Reform Act. The amalgamation of Foxite Whig tradition with Peelite or liberal Toryism brought two important strands to liberalism. The Whigs brought a belief in popular government. Liberal Toryism provided a concern for "efficient, cheap government and moral reform"[12]. The 1832 Reform Act may not have greatly increased the electorate but it certainly increased the power of the House of Commons over the executive. The increase in the number of elections, especially in the 1830s, the growing number of contested constituencies, the expansion of parliamentary petitioning and the emergence of pressure groups like Chartism and the Anti-Corn Law League raised people's expectations of the reformed parliament. This understanding creates a broader context in which to place radicalism between 1830 and the 1860s. The driving force behind radical politics derived not just the radical critique of the state, as Stedman Jones suggests, but from the growing popularity of parliament and the popular desire to control the executive that through the House of Commons.
These two revisionist developments provide a different framework within which to consider the Chartist movement between the 1830s and the 1850s. It is clear that there were continuities in radical ideology. There was also continuity in personnel. The political activists who dominated the Chartist leadership in 1848 were in their early thirties or forties. Many carried their radical politics into the 1850s and 1860s. Pressure group politics also showed considerable continuity. Pressure groups in the 1850s built on the tactics of organisations like the Anti-Slavery Society and the early experience of many mid-century activists lay in campaigns of the 1830s like those for colonial reform and the repeal of the stamp duty. Where there was not continuity was in political strategy. The mass platform disintegrated in 1848. But this was merely one type of political strategy. Alternative strategies were available and perhaps historians need to address the issue of the continuities in strategy between the 1830s and 1850s. The focus on the mass platform and its vigorous defence by O'Connor, however justifiable, may, in some respects, make the break in 1848 appear far greater than in fact it was.
[1] For what follows I have relied heavily on M. Taylor The Decline of British Radicalism 1847-1860, Oxford, 1995, pages 2-9.
[2] John Vincent The Formation of the British Liberal Party 1857-1868, London, 1966.
[3] For example, E.D Steele Palmerston and Liberalism 1855-1865, Cambridge, 1991.
[4] S. Maccoby English Radicalism, six volumes, London, 1935-1961 and S. Maccoby (ed.) The Radical Tradition 1763-1914, London, 1952.
[5] Gareth Stedman Jones 'Rethinking Chartism' in his Languages of class: Studies in English working class history 1832-1982, Cambridge, 1983.
[6] Taylor The Decline of British Radicalism 1847-1860, page 5.
[7] Taylor The Decline of British Radicalism 1847-1860, page 5.
[8] W.D. Rubenstein 'The End of the "Old Corruption" in Britain, c.1780-1860', Past and Present, volume 101, (1983) is a useful survey of the break in the 1840s. It should be supplemented by Philip Harling The Waning of 'Old Corruption'. The Politics of Economical Reform in Britain 1779-1846, Oxford, 1996.
[9] P. Joyce Visions of the People: Industrial England and the Question of Class 1840-1914, Cambridge, 1991 and P. Joyce Democratic subjects: The self and the social in nineteenth-century England, Cambridge, 1994.
[10] J. Vernon Politics and the People: a Study in English Political Culture 1815-1867, Cambridge, 1993 and J. Vernon (ed.) Re-reading the Constitution: New narratives in the political history of England's long nineteenth century, Cambridge, 1996.
[11] P. Mandler Aristocratic Government in the Age of Reform: Whigs and Liberals 1830-1852, Oxford, 1990, J. Parry The Rise and Fall of Liberal Government in Victorian Britain, Yale, 1993 and T.A. Jenkins The Liberal Ascendancy 1830-1886, London, 1994 and Parliament, party and politics in Victorian Britain, Manchester, 1996 are valuable summaries of current thinking.
[12] Taylor The Decline of British Radicalism 1847-1860, page 7.


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The New Year is here, and I want to wish to you and your families Health, Happiness, Love, and in general I hope that all your wishes will come true. Let's hope that this new year will be better than the previous one, and in the end of it we will have many great memories!
Have a wonderful 2013 everybody! :)


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On this winter day in January, my husband and I ventured out and up to our summer cottage to see if everything was OK. Back in the fall I learned there was an eagle nest in one of the neighboring trees, so I deliberately took my camera to capture a picture of it. As we drove up the EMS lane I snapped a picture. As we got closer I snapped another to see how large it actually was.
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According to www.Baldeagleinfo.com, "Bald eagles build their nests in large trees near rivers or coasts. A typical nest is around 5 feet in diameter. Eagles often use the same nest year after year. Over the years, some nests become enormous, as much as 9 feet in diameter, weighing two tons. Even when a nest tree falls or a strong wind blows a nest down, the established pair usually rebuilds at or near the site within a few weeks if it is near the breeding season. The nest may be built in a tree, on a cliff, or even on the ground if there are no other options available."
|Eagles profile
|Eagle and large nest
As we were leaving, my husband caught my attention, the eagle had come back and was perched in the tree top by the nest. Oh, what a beautiful site, I grabbed my camera and started snapping off frame after frame. That eagle siting made my day. What an awesome bird.
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Source: The Ross Report
As noted, WWE Hall Of Famer Jim Ross interviewed current WWE Universal Champion Goldberg on The Ross Report in anticipation of his main event match against Brock Lesnar at WrestleMania 33 this Sunday. Among many other things, Goldberg talked about his family being proud of him during his present run with WWE, feeling "horrible", telling Vince McMahon that he will remember everything he is supposed to do when his stint with the company ends, whether he planned on appearing at WrestleMania, his first WrestleMania match against Lesnar, and whether he would consider another run with WWE in the future.
"I truly believe that they're I think they're proud, man. And I think it's cool for them to get a little piece of it. And that's why I did it." Goldberg continued, "I don't want to be corny, but I've got to thank everyone involved because they gave me the ability to be one of the coolest dads on the planet."
"And, hey, each and every time I go out, whether it's Monday or this coming weekend, man, I treat it like it's my last one. And to look back at the opportunity that I've been given, to do what I used to do, 13 years removed when I have a family, I am forever indebted to every human being who has positively received me because they've contributed to the picture that my family is able to see and experience."
When asked how his body is holding up, Goldberg replied that he feels horrible, as he always does.
"I feel horrible, man. I always feel horrible. I'm the type of person, J.R., and most of are in the wrestling world, have a little bit of vainness in them." Goldberg added, "we try to be at our best at all times and, all things considered, partner, you'd think that 13 years removed from hanging up the tights and the boots, that I'm actually to a point where I can look myself in the mirror and not be completely terrified about wearing my drawers in front of all these people and trying to be and it's not just that. It's not just the physical appearance, which is a lot of it, it's the ability to do what I did."
Apparently, Goldberg told McMahon that he will remember everything that he did in his previous run when it is time for him to leave WWE again.
"It's funny, I told Vince, I said, 'you know what? I'll probably remember all the stuff that I've forgotten right when it's time to say 'goodbye' because I forgot I chewed gum in the ring. I'd forgotten the sequence of my old pyro. There [are] just so many things that I completely spaced out on that are being pieced together as we speak, in realtime, each time I go out there."
Goldberg admitted that his original deal with WWE was supposed to be "one-and-done" and he had no plans of appearing at WrestleMania.
"Absolutely not. I had no intention of trying to put myself on the WrestleMania card, or thinking I was going to be put on it, or thinking it was even a possibility. I mean, I was one-and-done. I agreed to come in and do my thing and I guess they were pleasantly surprised and they extended it a little bit."
Goldberg suggested that the Universal Championship match at WrestleMania this year is redemption for their prior WrestleMania bout, which was unfavorably received in general.
"There were a lot of things contributed to it and I think I had a lot to do with it too." Goldberg recalled, "it was very unfortunate that that was the setup, man. Us two at that time? If the circumstances were different, my God, almighty. Hey, but here we are now! It's a strange world, man, and I'm happy to be living in it."
Goldberg indicated that he would consider a return to WWE after his current run ends, possibly coming back for SummerSlam (2017) or WrestleMania 34, as Ross suggested.
"I'd consider it for sure. Forget about what I've been through. It doesn't matter. I'd do it all over again. The ability to put my son in the stands and my wife in the stands again, I'd go through just about anything for that. And I surely didn't say that 13 years ago. My priorities have completely changed."
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one of my friends introduced me to chanology a while back. since then ive decided to do a documentary on it for my final project, i just hope i can pull it off. found out i missed a protest (by days at that, damn!) and therefore prime footage, looks like im going to have to look for other venues of acquiring material.
school anonPosted in General on April 30, 2009 by tallimar
separatedPosted in home life on March 6, 2009 by tallimar
i struggled against it for a while, but in the end i gave up. we're still married legally, but she apparently wants to go with other guys. i guess that lets me back on 'the market', but will i even be able to find a GF? guess im stuck being alone at least for a long while…
my thoughts on worlds' patentPosted in politics on January 3, 2009 by tallimar
ive been reading on several different sites about virtual worlds (worlds.com) sueing ncsoft over this patent apparently. to put it simply, im a layman when it comes to patents and the legalese that it comes with so i cant really say much beyond the fact that im going to watch how this plays out. after reading though the abstract on that patent though, it pretty much reminds me of the backend architecture of just about every triple A title MMO from UO on up. if they manage to successfully sue NCSoft, who's next? Blizzard-Activision(WoW)? EA(UO/KOTOR MMO)? Sony(SWG/PSO)?
reminiscing old timesPosted in General on November 16, 2008 by tallimar
i dont know why, but for some reason events from a certain day in my childhood (well ok, teen-hood) suddenly came flooding back to me today. i remember dennis, tammy, and steve, but i dont remember who that other girl was, just that she really had a crush on me and i was too afraid of being found lacking at the time to venture into the dating scene. because of that fear, i had gone and closed myself off in a car listening to a radio station and challenged her to come talk to me in privacy, mainly because i was sure she wouldnt come out. dennis and tammy kept trying to hook us up, but steve had another idea. steve liked her and i remember telling him that she didnt have it in her to overcome my 'challenge' and that 'he could have her'. looking back now i realized that i probably sounded like an ass-hole when i said some of that, but i was really afraid that i'd actually just be a disappointment to her, she was really cute. i wonder now how things would've gone had they turned out different, had i not been such a coward.
i dont know why im remembering this… those times are so far gone…
re-enrolledPosted in General on October 24, 2008 by tallimar
ill be heading back to school here starting the first of december after taking a little hiatus during a bit of a tumultuous time period. its going to be hard trying to balance full-time work, full-time school (3 classes/week) and family, but since im so close anyways it'd be a shame to give up on my bachelor's now.
meta-betaPosted in General on October 14, 2008 by tallimar
this is cool, i got in to the metaplace closed beta (first time i was accepted into a closed beta too). since i agreed to an NDA, i really cant say much about it yet. anyone interested in more info should check out the website's blog or stop by raph's blog and poke around or ask about it.
writer's block: rethinkingPosted in writer's block on October 10, 2008 by tallimar
ive been looking at what ive typed out so far of my current story compared to my last story (left incomplete for the time being, ill probably pick it up again another time) and realized why it just hasnt felt quite right; its lacking a lot of color… i like some of the plotlines i have floating in my head for it, but for some reason it just wasnt catching my own attention and now i know why. i know i have more skill than that and will have to completely rewrite it. the other problem is that i think it's sucking because im trying to throttle the creativity out of me when i have time instead of trying to throttle the time out of me when i have the creativity.
another thing i need to do is give the book a name, i think that might help me give it more direction. what should i name it though? should i go with the trend and just use a one or two syllable word as the name or maybe i could dome something cliche and give it some multi-part name that includes legend/chronicles/etc. as is stereotypical of book with a fantasy setting (even more so with RPGs). i also think that at some point i should read some political fiction book as a sort of research thing. i wont be weaving in a lot of political intrigue, but i think it could be used to add a nice dash of mystery and diversity to the setting.
anyways, im going to end this one here. too much sugar and too little sleep…


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Christmas was fun for the kids. Tiring for me. Exhausting more like. The day after we went to a PADS shelter to serve breakfast to those less fortunate. It was the children's first real experience there.
Leaving the house was an experience in an of itself...the roads were sheer ice. It was like driving on a sheet of glass. Driving my SUV was scary. But we made it. Took longer than I thought.. but we made it.
once inside we waited for the other volunteers...and proceeded to make breakfast bacon, eggs, sausage, coffee, juice, toast, bagels...etc. Princess was so excited to help out. She loved it. The other family had a little girl too..older than Princess but not a lot. Both of them were happy to help. That was refreshing. It made my heart happy to see my child so anxious to help and enjoying it. It was somewhat embarrassing when she told a guest that "I came here this morning to help people who do not have a house like we do".
The two hours flew by. Soon it was time to leave. We loaded back in the car and ice skated home. My heart filled and refreshed. I am already looking forward to going and helping next month.
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Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Posted by Just Me at 6:15 AM
a full heart
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- felicia said...
Isn't it the best feeling ever?!? :)
Coordinating the shelter stuff is stressful and time consuming, but that drive home after serving dinner and making beds is so wonderful. It's like a bath of warm, happy, contentment and light that just washes over your heart and makes you feel so damn good.
- December 30, 2008 at 9:22 PM
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Crafting on a wet bank holiday, what could be better?... only the fact that it was a crafting birthday party! Victoria was 10 yrs old yesterday and I spent the afternoon making handbags and notebooks with her friends and family, we all had a lovely afternoon. "Happy Birthday Victoria". A stampin' up lady couldn't go to a birthday party without taking a card, so here is one I made earlier... sorry it is not using stampin up products but a brilliant stamp from lavina stamps, they are beautiful. If you would like your own crafting party for children or 'mummies' then please get in touch firstname.lastname@example.com
Here is a picture of the handbag and notebook that we made. The papers used were from the lap of luxury range and the cardstock pink pirouette and concord crush, I really love this combination. The swirls and butterflies were created using the embosslits and the big shot found in the new mini catalogue.Click here for a link to make the flower using the scallop punch.


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I find myself in disagreement with Tea Party members and state Assemblyman Allan Mansoor (R-Costa Mesa) when it comes to many things. But the idea of Caltrans ignoring the wishes of nine Orange County cities along the 405 freeway corridor that are against the installation of toll lanes–funded with Measure M money voted in by Orange Countians for a list of transportation projects that included expansion of that very FREEway–makes me want to dress up like Paul Revere, lock arms with the politico I've dubbed Mansore and sue the beejesus outta the state for this rampant example of taxation without representation.
Fortunately, Mansoor has a cooler head in this situation than yours truly and instead of resorting to stunt suing, he submitted the following "opinion editorial:"
Here We Go Again
By Assemblyman Allan Mansoor
After successfully convincing the Orange County Transportation Authority to shelve the 405 toll lanes proposal, Caltrans is coming in and hopes to use Orange County sales tax revenue to tax us even more.
Orange County voters have twice voted for Measure M, the half-cent sales tax, to pay for transportation needs in Orange County. The Measure M promise was clear: a new lane in each direction on the 405 from Costa Mesa to Seal Beach. Caltrans, like OCTA before it, wants to use Measure M funds to further increase revenue through the addition of toll lanes on the 405.
While support for toll lanes is seen primarily among special interests and government bureaucrats, many elected leaders have remained silent. They seem unwilling to draw the ire of special interests that want toll lanes so badly for their own benefit. I'm open to a variety of ways to finance new construction, but converting existing lanes that we've already paid for into toll lanes is wrong.
There are other problems as well. While toll lanes will improve commute times for those who are willing to pay as much as $15 per day for the privilege, no one else would receive the benefit of Measure M taxes because the toll lane proposal will result in the same number of free lanes as there are now.
Even worse is the fact that local residents will be unable to use the toll lanes (if they want to) because there will be limited entry and exit points along the Costa Mesa to Seal Beach route. In addition, local businesses that rely on out-of-town consumers will suffer when commuters choose the toll lanes and are unable to exit the freeway along the toll lane corridor.
I will continue to advocate for taxpayers and standup to ensure that the Measure M promise is kept. Taxpayers were promised a free lane on the 405, and they should get it. Even if we can't stop Caltrans from building toll lanes, we can make sure they don't use Orange County tax revenue to do it.
Leadership on this issue requires more than sending one letter. My focus, now and in the future, will be on protecting Orange County taxpayers from the 405 toll lanes money grab. To help in this effort, like our Facebook page, Stop the I-405 Toll Lanes, and visit www.keepthe405free.com for more information.
Amen, brother.
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Ordinary life in extraordinary circumstances. Living with a rare chronic illness, but at the same time trying to be a domestic goddess: baked and knitted goodies abound here.
Friday, 22 June 2012
The Pain Olympics
What I mean by the 'pain olympics' is the competitiveness that I've occasionally witnessed from other people with chronic illnesses or disabilities, as though there's a gold medal for the 'most disabled'. The conversation might go something like this:
Person 1: I am paraplegic (paralysed from the waist down). This is the worst thing that has ever happened to me.
Person 2: I am tetraplegic (paralysed from the shoulders down). You're hardly paralysed. Call that an injury? It's just a slap on the arse. Get yourself a band-aid and a cup of tea and you'll be fine.
With some paraphrasing, this is a conversation that I have heard many times in real life.
I have to admit that it's tempting to squash the complainers. The people who have a cold and whine for a week. A broken toe? A cut that needed *gasp* two stitches? There are times when I want to tell them to look around and try to gain some perspective; to tell them that they have no idea what 'serious' pain is like.
But I don't.
Because where do you draw the line?
What counts as serious and 'worthy' of sympathy? There will always be someone in a worse position - more paralysed, in more pain, more limited by their disability, in hospital for longer, requiring more care or more surgical intervention. There will always be someone younger, more courageous, more inspirational; achieving more against the odds.
Complainers, we love you and want to be supportive, but think carefully about what you're saying, and who's on the receiving end of your whining. Telling someone with digestive tract paralysis who is totally unable to eat about the awful morning sickness that is putting you off your organic muesli may not earn you much sympathy.
Sick people, try not to be too judgemental. Imagine how much we could achieve if we supported each other instead of thinking up new and original cutting remarks to put people in their place if they dare to complain about something as minor as, say, childbirth.
For me, the progression of this illness is the worst thing (or one of the worst things) I've ever experienced. I know that there are people in a worse position than me, and I can't imagine how strong they must have to be to get through each day. I rely on these people to inspire me to find the inner strength that I need to seek out the joy in life when it seems impossibly hard. I am so grateful that they don't belittle my experience, though it's nothing in comparison to what some of them are living through on a daily basis.
There is no gold medal for having the most serious illness. The only achievements in life are those we earn, despite our circumstances, not because of them.
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- Anonymous24 August 2012 at 01:24
I hope many people read this and understand it. Sometimes my friends hesitate to talk about their problems, saying they're nothing compared to mine, but I try to assure them that their problems are bad for them, and that my situation makes theirs no less real. It's the same way that my concerns are no less valid just because someone else is in worse shape than I am. You are so right that everyone's problems are real and valid and we must respect that.ReplyDelete
Thanks Stephanie!ReplyDelete
Hi Chronicrants, and thanks for your comment. I have the same thing with friends; that they don't want to tell me about their health (or other things) because they feel that it's insignificant in comparison to my illness. I tell them that I love them and want to be a good friend, supporting them through their hard times. I want all the friendship responsibilities - not a censored friendship!


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Pasta is always easy and fun for toddlers, so it's always on my short list. This recipe comes from Double Delicious by Jessica Seinfeld. Since the cheese is cooked and part skim we decided to try it on Little Asher, no horrible reactions just some lower stomach issues.
- 1 (15 oz) can white kidney beans; drained and rinsed
- 1/2 cup canned pumpkin
- 1/2 cup part skim ricotta
- 1/4 cup grated Parmesan
- 3/4 garlic powder
- dash of salt
- 1 egg
- 72 wonton papers
- cornstarch
- Your favorite marinara sauce microwaved until warm
- Fill a large pot with water and bring to a boil.
- Place beans, pumpkin, ricotta, Parmesan and garlic in a food processor and purée until smooth.
- In a small bowl beat the egg with a tablespoon of water.
- Sprinkle a baking sheet with cornstarch.
- Set wonton papers on a cutting board. Place one tablespoon of the pumpkin mixture into the center of the wrapper. Brush the edges with the egg wash. Top off with another wonton paper. Press firmly together.
- Place the ravioli on the baking sheet. When all the ravioli is ready, carefully place them in the lightly boiling water using a slotted spoon.
- As soon as the rise to the top of the pot, about five minutes, they are done. Divide among 6 bowls and top with marinara sauce. Serve immediately.
Tip: Next time I make these I will use ONE wonton paper and half the filling to make the ravioli smaller and easier for toddlers to pick up. I will fold the wonton paper in half vs using two papers per ravioli.
Storage: After cooking, 3-5 days in the fridge. I recommend refrigerating IN the sauce. I froze some uncooked ravioli a for quick meal in the future.
Timing: 10 months; super easy to chew!
Difficulty: 4 out of 5; It's only high on the difficulty scale because filling the ravioli is time consuming and once out start making this recipe you can't really stop for long.
Epicutie Rating: (see left side of page for descriptions)
- Little Asher: Yummy In The Tummy; holy gobble fest!!!!! After I cut I the ravioli he devoured three!
- Little Joy: Yummy In The Tummy; Little Joy quickly ate two ravioli without prompting. She even loved it left over. Little Asher wasn't as big a fan of the left over version :)
- Kelly: love it!!!!!!
Ready to serve
Cutting her first bit; this was a messy food---bib required this time!
Trying it!
"HMMM Mommy!"
I didnt get his first reaction but as soon as I took Little Joys picture---look how much he had eaten!


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