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Each Sugar Daddy has their own no-go circumstances when it comes to their personal taste in Sugar Babies. You can't be everyone's cup of tea. But this also rings true for the Sugar Daddies. While each Sugar Baby has her own personal preferences, there are some universal deal breaking faux pas that can be agreed upon.
Nothing can end an evening faster for a Sugar Baby than finding out her date is pure salt. More than likely, he has never had a true arrangement and is not willing to agree upon one. There are other dating sites for you, but SeekingArrangement isn't it.
Whether it's another drink, not being able to make a date, or even when it comes to intimacy, not feeling heard or downright ignored is never okay. A Sugar Daddy that simply can't grasp the meaning of no is not only disrespectful, but a red flag down the road. Check please.
Being a gentleman comes at no cost to a Sugar Daddy, and says a lot about him as a person. Many times Sugar Babies find themselves seeking an older gentleman instead of the immature boys their age for a reason. They want to know that chivalry isn't dead, don't place a nail in the coffin.
Nothing is as unappealing as an individual who has been well over served. Women aren't the only ones capable of being sloppy. No one has time for a man who doesn't know his limits, or is a careless mess that has to be taken care of. Arrangements are prided on being drama free, these circumstances are a breeding ground for an unwanted mess for everyone involved.
While this may not be the case with all Sugar Babies, some have their own reasons for passing on the opportunity to jump into an arrangement with a wife in tow. But hiding the fact that you have a wife is a sure fire way to get even the most understanding and open minded Sugar Baby walking. No one likes to be kept in the dark, so be open from the start.
Are you guilty of any deal breakers?
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Sugar Babies have rights, and they should be treated with respect always. We should all agree on that and hopefully we all do. But Sugar Daddies are human beings and no one should go out of their way to insult, injure, damage, or treat them like dirt simply because they are men over 30 years of age. If you don't want someone to hurt your feelings or denigrate you then you shouldn't be trying to hurt or denigrate someone else.
Only met 1 potential sd in person. He scored a big plus point with me saying he would agree to a sexual hea lth check, this mattered so much more than anything he wanted to offer. His sexual tastes were not like any past boyfriends, but he was very open and non threatening. I had chatted online with him so had a good rapport. Travelling distance put a raincheck on further development. Will leave site with a soft spot for a stranger.
Its so strange. I just signed up. Im getting a ton of profile views but hardly any messages. Anyone know why?
That's par for the course. Lots of window shopping or your profile is not good.
Also a list of sexual expectations that are risky from the beginning.
Why are "regulars" dishing so much advice to a ho aka iStacy?
Wondering the same thing ….
I love how you guys don't know me from a can of paint I simply asked a question and many of those tips I took I actually came back to this blog post to say thank you and I took you guys advice but to call me names yet I'm the "ghetto and classless one" wow anyway thank you to everyone who had positive input happy holidays
Don't worry about those who you don't know from a can of paint.
Because this is still a blog that is supposed to be informative about sugar.
So my advice was not only directed to @Stacey, but to all SBs that come here and complain about lack of success because of age, race, physics etc. without any selfcritisism.
I am tired of people playing victim and blaming others.
So that's why I posted what I posted and tried to give it a positive message.
It was @Stacy now, but it could have been anybody else.
this article reminds me of the dangers of being a cute sugar baby lol
Try a mental experiment. The Book of Mormon is a musical on Broadway, nor exactly flattering of religion but there are no white Mormon males from Utah protesting or fighting. What would happen if the musical is The Book of Quran?
Am not sure I understand how your example supports the implication that Muslims=Terrorists.
Maybe you should read a bit about things like per capita or probability.
Statistician, eh? Mighty fancy, sir.
Probably page 5 of the following document is a good starting point for you.
Let me know 🙂
So about Charlie Sheen…
Some of these men, you fuck once and then you just gotta drop the mic on that one and walk off.
Long story short ladies. It matter not what is I between your head. Only what is in between your arms (preferred bolt on's). If your pussy if fat and your waist is slim. Work out, stay toned and smile and nod. Memorize the above, repeat and burn any other thought. There is no value in this world except for your looks. When the men start in on this stupid blog that, the above is all you have to offer and they try to demean you for it…spray your tight tan ass or pastey white skin (whatever God gave you) down with perfume, massage the smell into your skin and whiff the smell of nature and know that your looks are all you have. Once they fade, you have nothing.
I'll try to get around to that, but I'm kinda busy this week.
Quote of the day fellas. When I told my kids Sant was not real and that there will be no Santa for them this year,one child responded. "That's ok. If Santa would lose weight, he would fit in his sleigh so that he could come see us and give us presents. It's not our fault he is fat. We were not on the naughty list, so maybe he will be on a diet by next year and come see us."
That is a remarkable response from a child while my neck was embraced as tightly as one could dream and I was told Christmas was about family and those who love you, as long as we are together. From a 2nd grader.
I wish grown men still thought like little children.
You're in luck; they do!
You are funny TVC..like, no shit. It's obvious the men of this blog think that way, but In a twisted mind.
They say to themselves, "that's right bitches, you keep thinking that way.so that way we can slide our dicks in and out o you and zip up and out without giving you a dime or a breadcrumb. It's no trouble. It happens all the time. Our intentions are to squeeze and please the life out of you women, while we exalt ourselves and leave you in squalor. Holler bitches, bc we will be when we high five the boys back at the club house on how we made the "joke on you". And then you wonder why women make blogs that condone twit behavior while they hope your neck is eaten with acid to the core of your esauphegous, as they step on your raw insides spewing, with their stiletto and call a cab on their way out your door, after they raided your wallet. You leave the women in hideous dresses and insult them at every turn. Eventually they become like you. Cruder said it best…he taught his SB on how to handle men appropriately after him. He checked for consistency and realized he had a proper candidate to pump and dump and mind rape in manipulation until she became wise, then he gel his hand high in the air in order to hail a taxi cab on the way out to the next hottest piece of ass before it caught his on fire with stds. Welcome to the wide world world of reality. Life will eat you up and spit you out unless you open the car door and kick their ass out first. Right boys? Either your hanging or slanging. If it is limp, your a wimp and your date is sealed. We won't care how many times you call…call Viagra before you call us because we have another stop to get off at on this bus.
get back on your meds – we only want to help.
Even on an Internet full of stupidity, this story stands head and shoulders above the rest: {http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-town-rejects-solar-panels-amid-fears-they-suck-up-all-the-energy-from-the-sun-a6771526.html}
This is pathetic. A guy with a bizarre pic of brad (?) adulating to an old rat indian face. and according to this ugly rat, this likes "die antwoord" (?) who cares? lol
the weirdest thing, i've ever seen actually
"i try to be smart guys, but i can't because i fail all the time with some wrong and pathetic arguments of course because my brain doesn't work properly but i still think i'm smart, sadly"
by the indian rat! it's just a quote guys, SORRY!
This is really not cool, sugarbabymonkey.
It's only hateful ranting. Can you not refer to Kore's race in combination with insults.
She's actually been very gracious in response to your and Dave's racial slurs.
It's really old, quite stale, and does nothing but demonstrate your own ignorance and insecurity.
Spare us, maybe?
Didn't know that @sugar baby monkey = @batshit = @LadyScarlet = @mms2014 was that racist and that crazy.
Maybe because she isn't Scarlett?
@ YGTBK and work violence
This was the most disgusting racist rant you just wrote. And the numbers are still completely of mark.
Spoiler alert! Spoiler alert!
Outside of the cave is a puppeteer 🙁
Not here to fight or convince anyone of anything. The data is there if you care to access it. People will take the parts of truth that appeal to and benefit them. And even worse, the truth theyre told…without question.
Believe what you will 🙂
I remember the days of trips or Christmas for me and my family when my SD cared…then, I remember when my SD traded me in for a newer model. He has been traded his women in ever since.
Now, I get called when he is drunk and bored. He doesn't remember me on Christmas anymore and never worried or cares if I even have a gift for Christmas under a tree for me anymore.
He only texts random sex texts when he is
drunk or lonely off his ass and no one will pick up or reply to a text, but of course, me. Then, he tells me to dress In a white naughty sexy lingerie outfit and get ready for him. Funny thing is, he has never taken the time to buy me a sexy white lingerie outfit. He has never remered my address so he can order me one or have one shipped to me.
Santa, can I please have a decent sugar daddy who's teeth are not rotted out with greed and the bling of the world of all the smelly fish he has deposited his money into their stockings. Can he give the hookers coal and can you bring me shiny things this yet that make me smile, instead of the typical dust o another woman's coal?
I never was bad, nor mean or ugly. And perhaps through the years, I became sad with a wee bit of fat to call "pudgy". But never once did I deserve the lights to go dim or ever to be forgotten…not from you and certainly, not from him.
The one who asked for tooth front teeth as a child. A missing SB who apparently lost her action.
If he wanted a wife, he would marry you. NSA means no strings attached. If another woman caters better to his needs, he could and should move on.
And so should you. Obviously, being pudgy is a great start to attract a new man into your life.
Notice, kind anonymous friend. I am well aware what NSA means. NSA. Means, there are "no strings attached." However, if you desire me to wear a sexy, naughty white lingerie set for you at 2:00am, when you are drunk and ask I "I'm awake?" And I reply (oh gee, looks look who has been turned by everyone one from his newfound zoo), it means.. There are no strings attached and I owe you nothing. I owe you the sexy white lingerie outfit you keep professing you need and desire see me in bc the woman whom you are obsessing over that apparent wore it for you, still won't return your phone calls. But, the Pinocchio catch is…if you never care to leave string in the first place, so that as you throw this rod and reel of "fishing" to me in your lonely hour o need…well gee, I have nothing to hold onto either, nor a sexy, white, naughty lingerie outfit that I would adore to own and bring to your knees out of fun and spark that talks to anyone's heart. But, you Nate desired that string, hence you jumped at the first sign of bling.
Why taunt me and torment when a temptress you could have, instead, it is not different than eying kicked out of Daves car and say, no, that's not my "Daddy"…I hear other call him a worthless man coined as "Dad." Sad, to hear your fear, and the demise you inflict in another's ear.
If she were so good and kind, catering to his needs as an external "prime" …then why does my phone still ring? When she finds a shinier man to call her Daddy and alone he finds my number to once again remember to "ping" in order to have a soul who cares enough to once again make his empty soul sing. See what I mean?
Block his number.
Sorry, sugar. You answering his calls is your doing, not his. As the blogger beliow suggests, block his number. Block him and move on. If you are still answering his calls, you hope he will come back. Not impossible, but unlikely.
@ Anonymous
What if I search a platonic kept woman? 🙂
You will have hundreds of thousands to choose from.
@ Anonymous
As to semantics, a concubine to me implies live in situation, a mistress implies a married man involvement. How about kept woman?
What exactly is transphobic?
Fear of Trans Fats.
Seriously though Transphobia is another one of these made up Politically Correct terms that they use to try and shame anyone who disagrees. It used to work but like anything Left Wing they use it so often and for anything that no one gives a fuck anymore.
You can always call her "lover".
I nominate the following as contenders for the SA theme song:
Just an Old Fashioned Girl, Eartha Kitt – {https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UeRSqekHh1g}
Sugar Daddy, Patsy Gallant – {https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y_s8omko70s}
Any other nominees?
Kanye West, Gold Digger – {https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vwNcNOTVzY}
Marilyn Monroe, Diamonds Are a Girl's Best Friend – {https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IUGfC7GYi18}
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AIXUgtNC4Kc] Fatty Boom Boom because its so messed up!
Nina Simone sugar, I want a little sugar in my bowl
* Nina Simone, I want a little sugar in my bowl
What, nobody said Eartha Kitt – Santa Baby??
This blog smells like a tuna fish sandwich that's been sitting out in the sun for 3 days.
Time for a new sandwich.
"Foreploy: any misrepresentation about yourself for the purpose of obtaining sex."
@ ks
Courtesan, mistress?
Or maybe a lady having a generous BF. The semantics is complicated. If a 45 y/o wealthy single guy is dating a much less wealthy lady 20 years his junior, I am sure there will be luxury travel, gifts, wining and dining. So what would make him a SD? I think it is the formal negotiation about expected monetary value of gifts and/or cash stipend.
@AA There is a huge amount of ambiguity and very little definition of terms such as Mistress, SB, SD, Courtesan, escort, etc . As long as the mutual agreement between parties does not meet the legal definition of prostitution then adults can play. Its really the expected monetary value of gifts and/or cash stipend that complicates matters. I see the term Mistress as being less problematic when paying expenses to offset the cost of the relationship especially when it is a longer term fairly exclusive arrangement. The term SB/SD seems to be a fairly recent term given that older men-young women relationships have existed since history was first recorded.
How about Concubinage? Any thoughts on how that differs from other terms?
1. a woman who cohabits with a man to whom she is not legally married, especially one regarded as socially or sexually subservient; mistress.
2. (among polygamous peoples) a secondary wife, usually of inferior rank.
3. (especially formerly in Muslim societies) a woman residing in a harem and kept, as by a sultan, for sexual purposes.
Your numbers about probability of being killed are completely of mark. But this is a SB/SD forum, so let us avoid politics.
When Muslim people shoot people, they are terrorists.
When black people shoot people, they are thugs.
When white people shoot people, they are mentally ill.
As it pertains to mass shootings and workplace violence, the number of those committed by "mentally ill" ie white people are greater than those committed by Muslims…commonly referred to as terrorists.
Not one a global and per capita basis.
You mean just on a national U.S. basis, SingleWhiteMale? Yes, the FBI concurs 🙂
It's ok, though. I'll still date white men.
Besides, mental illness might be easier to manage than terrorism.
Ride that mentally ill cock like it's going out of style. Reverse cowgirl. Call me a wrangler.
Sugar babies are women who are financially compensated by wealthy men in exchange for companionship. Sugar daddies are men who provide financial support to women in exchange for a relationship. The women are usually younger than the men, and the relationship or companionship almost always involves sex.
So how does the sugar daddy / sugar baby relationship differ from the client / prostitute relationship? One of the most popular sugar baby "dating" sites, seekingarrangement.com, is vehemently against any notion that the sugar babies using their site are prostitutes, and they argue the distinction between prostitution and sugar babies in a blog post. They raise four points that, they feel, clearly distinguish sugar babies from prostitutes. A closer look, however, reveals that there's not as much of a distinction between illegal prostitution and sugar babies as Seeking Arrangement would lead one to believe.
Calling prostitutes "sugar babies" is like sticking a flower in a bunghole and calling it a vase. Shakespeare said in Romeo and Juliet: "A bunghole by any other name is just as stinky".
There, is that crystal clear enough for you? Stop beating a dead horse.
I think that @kore is really pretty…but it is neither here nor there for me as I don't intend to pursue her as I only pursue women within a very short distance.
However, if I were in her country of residence I would definitely pursue her. 😉
@sugar baby monkey
"lol @Josh fell in love with the ugly indian @kore13. i see, he tends to like that type of retarded and submissive woman.
i'm not feminist =D"
The @sugar baby monkey = @batshit = @kms2014 = @LadyScarlett.
This woman is racist and has used "blackitude" in the past to show her racism toward blacks. It is unfortunate…but it is what it is.
i see, you can't stop writing my name. and blackitude? you have issues man, i've never been racist with black people nor any other "race". you don't have nothing to prove this hence shut up
and it's clear that you have a very disgusting taste, first the disgusting indian body with her old indian rat face. then the transgender breast of jay though her breast were natural or not, she looks like a transgender, sorry but it's the truth
You are racist. You're also transphobic.
If you use racial terms as insults you're racist. If you use trans terms as insults you're transphobic. If you use gay terms as insults you're homophobic. If you use female terms as insults you're a misogynist.
Any questions?
i've never insulted to anynone, i just wrote the truth. whether you think my adjectives were insults then is your issue. but anyway
If you really think saying someone looks transgender isn't an insult, then why did you faux-apologize for it?
i didn't "faux-apologize" for that, hence there were not insults.
don't bother anymore specimen
"Sorry but it's the truth" isn't a faux apology? I better brush up on my French.
sorry for other thing, not for an insult, because there were not insults
The moral of the story is, never argue with a sugar baby monkey.
From Sheri's Ranch, a legal Nevada brothel
The jargon of the illegal prostitution industry is changing. As escort websites like myredbook.com are being exposed as resources for illegal prostitution and getting shut down by the FBI, a new type of "dating" site is rapidly gaining in popularity and emerging as the prostitution platform of the 21st century. Websites that arrange relationships between sugar daddies and sugar babies, scenarios where wealthy gentlemen provide money and other resources to young women in exchange for intimate relations, are turning a considerable profit in their attempt to rebrand illegal prostitution into something slightly more palatable.
This seemingly effective "work around" to avoid being designated as a prostitution-related website has not only caused numerous sugar dating sites to pop up, but also motivated pre-existing online escort directories and punter forums like naughtyreviews.com to remodel and re-imagine their prostitution resource as "dating for sugar daddies and sugar babies."
Owners of this site need to pay attention and remove such idiotic messages.
Psycho Killer. The fact is that brothels and escort sites have taken a significant hit in their income stream and revenues due to the emergence of this SD/SB phenomenon. Why would anyone go to some used up old overpriced high mileage prostitute when you can have a young naive college coed for pennies on the dollar?
Duh ????
Filthy lucre does soil the relationship into one of prostitution. No matter the name
Thanks for the clarification. Your work here is done.
Ad charity – it is always possible, but it seems to be very awkward. There are many better recipients for charity and of course true charity does not expect reciprocation.
Ad clients – yes, it is a perennial topic here. I know there are exclusive arrangements with true feelings, that would survive an economic disaster on SD's part. But I would guess that they are a distinct minority. I am afraid that majority of arrangements fit to the category of "entertainer on retainer".
Charity from an SB if Daddy's fortune vanishes is about as likely as Charity from an SD for Platonic "friendship" I guess it happens but so do tits on a Boar.
More or less like a courtesan? mistress?
They're clients if you take their money to provide a service for them
No, they are not.
Escorts have "clients" aka "Johns".
But I am tired of explaining the difference, so believe whatever you like.
I think the biggest difference between an escort and an SB, that you have obligations towards SB. If you cannot meet and she is available, her weekly installment should be hers, regardless. With escort, one has no obligations of that sort.
The rest is pretty similar.
Not to that point, no. But if you see someone every week for a few months, obviously you develop some bond. Still, the escort does not expect anything if you do not see her, as you are not her only source. With SB often you are. So she should be able to rely on her allowance being steady as soon as she makes herself available.
…intent and feelings is a very female thing to say. No matter how complicated intents and feelings are, she either puts out or she does not. She is either compensated or she does not. There could be millions underlying circumstances that have little influence on the outcome…
The blog has gotten stale I would say.
So I noticed that I got favorited by a girl whose Profile Pic showed her tongue sticking out. Who the f*ck would think that is attractive or sexy ? Unfortunately for her she is not attractive in any way shape or form . There should be a vetting service for newbies to have someone critique their profile . We all know that it won't be done here .
A tongue sticking out is a girl saying she loves to suck dick and swallows. They can't say that on their profile so they have to give you visual cues. Dude don't you watch porn? That's the position they take for the money shot as you splooge all over their mouth, lips, teeth and tongue.
geeze, welcome to High School Hallway Hangouts!
High School is when these sluts begin their real education in life. They are only good for three things: an open mouth, pussy, and bunghole.
ick ! I don't get the fascination with splooging someone . I like to place it out of sight as deeply in a vagina as I can. I have no desire to watch it flow . I did enough of that as a kid-on on the pages of Playboy
Well if you like the disappearing act then she can swallow every last drop. Personally I like to watch how slowly it dribbles from the mouth to the chin then to the floor. Then make her clean it up as you get back in bed, grab the remote, and turn on TV to see if football is on.
Your attitude is exactly why you are such "client" and will always have to pay for the "services" of "Sugar Baby providers".
Still cheaper than marriage then getting divorce raped. I believe in equality for women.
Yes, me too.
Since Radical Islamic Terrorists have been in the news lately, I'm curious if these Sugar Babies would service Muslim clients or not?
Any thoughts from the Sugar Baby providers?
Hell no.
My thought is that I wouldn't call SDs "clients".
These radicals would cut their hands, at least it's what they claim…
Not all muslims are radicals…
i wrote "muslims"? @elaine really, i thought you were a bit more intelligent
I agree w Kore and Elaine
I also wouldnt consider intimacy or companionship w an SD as "servicing" him.
Mostly though, I think this post is intended to excite fear of an entire group of people when only a small fraction are radical, and an even smaller fraction are terrorists. One is more likely to die in a mass shooting or workplace violence by a white American man. In that, why not ask how many SB would consider dating a white American man…being that, statistically speaking, they are more likely to go batshit crazy and shoot people than even the most hardened j1had1st.
Of course no one wants to date a terrorist, genius. Not a Muslim terrorist, a white American terrorist, a Christian terrorist, not any kind of terrorist. Quite flawed to make the association as if dating a Muslim means dating a terrorist.
In other words…you continue to suck.
"Sugar Baby providers."
You make me sick, actually.
at least Kore admitted she is a train wreck .
@Jay's boobs look great. Bolt-on boobs don't look like that in the position the photo is taken.
I was waiting for someone else to notice that. Probably why she posted that picture. anyone who's accustomed to having a woman with real breasts under you in bed would be able to tell hers are real.
As far as I can see she is wearing a bra in her gravatar pic. How do you know what her breasts look like?
weak, very weak, SlimFast Fat
When you exclusively like real boobs of any size and when you have been horizontal with enough women with real boobs then you know how real boobs behave.
You have an amazing ability to know how real boobs behave from looking at a picture of a bra.
One possibility is that @Jay's has sent you a video of her bouncing boobs. Another (and more probable) possibility is that you are simply talking shit.
Have a nice day :-).
come on slim fast fatty, you can do better than that
LMAO For God's sake. With all the things to lie about to impress people on a sugar blog why would I pick this. I could make up stories about flying to exotic locales, I could lie about shopping sprees, fancy cars SD provides for me, My substantial allowance, but no I choose real boobs. That makes a lot of sense. :-))
one day ill realize that i was wrong because i will give birth to a daughter and some SD will get her knocked up and ill have to take care of the baby because he is locked up for throwing her out of his car.
Dave is a strange name for a woman.
look up Princess Jasmen, real name jasmen nichole. this was a doozy .. her place stunk of sweat and marijuana . she claims to be a model. most models on tv do not have " live free or die" tatted on their stomach . while in mid sex doggy style she got a call from her mom who was about to come over and drop off her dog . talk about a boner killer. so i made an excuse to go to the bathroom and bolted …. she was blowing up my phone demanding the money.. what nerve
Such a non exhibite of a real SD mantra call there Dave. You exude nothing more than a limited liabity policy of what SA started out as to avoid.
No worries, if a few encounter you, with a self respect that will unearth after meeting you…they will have your DNA tracked down, your car rental (when used), your tag, I would say your semen (but we all know it's lacking), and any other existent hair trace available, bc we can almost guarantee your bald. Let the ladies test drive you on once, and based on performance, they will will be calling the police for their money back, for a refund.
You are not packing and if they have any discernment, since you are so certain that they are money hungry, trained dogs don't bark anymore. I guess you don't speak Dutch, because they only know dutch commands and they can tell you don't speak their language out of the gate. Got your multivitamin out Dave? You will need it moving forward. Soy sauce and couture cookies of wisdom of cheap skate plates, can't help you now son. Long horn?
Yeah, it's not Daves steak house. Because Dave can't fake steak. Dave is like a chia pet. Cha, cha chia! Now, in new Dave variety with miracle grow. ____miracle grow is now on back order, however our Dave variety will be delivered via free shipping and handling of you act now, money back guarantee. Why is this offered in his commercial ladies? Because, they know you will need it. Any further questions? Eyes peeled, legs closed.
WTF??!! you must have been on pcp when you composed that fine literary piece
Wouldn't fuck Jasmen with your dick Dave. Didn't know you're into that sort of thing. She would not show up on my profile search. Make sure you get tested though. She looks questionable.
Where the hell did you learn to write?
Where the hell did you learn to write from? As in which collage did you attend or are you attending?
jaybirds prized charities that she donates to include , " maximum security wives", "blow up boobs for you" , "the social security swindle",
and "i brake for old hairy man balls"
Revenge of the Rinser
I met a POT last week. She wants to gain trust/get to know me before we can seal the deal. So I said fine; you won't get allowance, but we can go on platonic dates. We were supposed to meet up Saturday but canceled due to car issues (red flag). So, we were supposed to have dinner today (Sunday).
Last minute, she wanted to confirm if she's NOT going to get allowance. I was already on my way and I confirmed with her. After that, text silence. I waited 5 min and I split. Mind you, it took me 1-h to get there. On the way home, there was a huge traffic jam. I was moving 3 miles per hour. I decided to exit the highway and find a place to eat. The traffic was still bad. I had to take a big detour to get home. All in all, I wasted 5 hours plus 1 hour to get ready.
The upshot is, I did not waste money on this POT. She was a good actress: pretending she did not care for the allowance; limited number of sex partners.
It's all a lie.
one day you guys will understand why i decided to one up their bullshit.
@ The Real Dave:
I enjoyed reading your (old) posts. Now I know why you did what you did. I should contact 10 POTs on the site and tell them they'll get 2k just for showing up. Then I do the text silence thingy!
Wouldn't it make more sense to do that the girl who stood you up instead of someone who hasn't wronged you? How would making someone else feel the same way you felt teach the person who flaked on you a lesson?
because none of you f****ucking females can act right. not even 1 . let me guess , your answer will be "i dont do that"
yes do that! message a few today, especially any single mom or 2 girl profile and stand their azz up . it willl male you feel better . give them a taste of their own medicine
they wont believe $2k , do $400 for a coffee date . they will drool and . make sure they also have to drive 30 to 45 min
@ The Real Dave
Yeah, 400 is more reasonable. Good suggestion…thanks!
U probably already sent her too many angry messages. Otherwise, u could have just texted her, you changed your mind about allowance. Tell her to meet you, so she has to drive. Keep texting with her, as if you worry she will flake.
Obviously, once she shows up to collect 300, neither you nor 300 are there.
Yikes. As a SB, it's a red flag when there is no allowance given before sex. It's pretty average to expect that 1) A SB will not have sex without being given an allowance. Period. A POT who has a problem with giving before getting is salty, they're not sugar daddy material. As a young female, it is a huge risk to engage in an intimate situation with no guarantee of being taken care of. If a POT becomes irate when denied immediate sex, they're probably a salty fucking jackass. And since you lead on single moms in order to release your pent up aggression, I reckon that these girls who have stood you up did so in their best interest. You don't seem like a safe and secure person to be around. Sugar babies deserve to be well taken care of – and that means feeling safe and secure.
How much do you weigh?
not as much Goodyear. i can make a solid guarantee on that
Hmmm "a few extra pounds" in your profile and no body shots, only face pics. Methinks you are fat.
one thing about post wall (over 35) women on this site is that they give it up rather quickly
Correct. Just get them going on kegel and you're good to go.
Don't allow your SBs to reel you into their daily fiscal, and other, life challenges beyond the arrangement.
@ Jay
We see that you are still a desolate cat lady with your comments of single mom, welfare living, Medicaid speech of ignorance.
Obviously you are not educuated with the billionaires and investing philanthropists of today's society setting the new ground rules that you cannot compete with. Called, Mark Zuckerburg and his wife, Bill Gates and his wife. Setting up foundations and avenues for the less fortunate. Yes, there are the inevitable tax credits that come along with that, no different than the free meal on the corporate e company credit card that the men here act as though the high cost meal will break their bank account on a sugar date, when we all know it is a write off on company expenses.
At least the higher net worth, valued, successful me. And women who have paved a way donate and give back into the communities with millions that they do not sweat, Nickle and dime, nor make the less fortunate feel more like a victim at the end of the day, such as the likes of you.
How about start investing than showing off your bolt on titties in a cheap ass K-mart rendering of a support bra that my grandmother wore 50 something years ago, after she was docked a days wage. And by the way, she owned her own her own business, so a cheap come back of your mouth will brush your words under the rug I. A pitiful response, while I tell you that you drool and spit, like a baby in futile attempt of a tantrum.
Surprise me for once with something I don't know. Good help is so hard to find these days, isn't it. Just a clown in the streets reforming her tricks is what you remind me of.
Wow…dude. You should not drink so much on Sunday. Friday, Saturday…fine. But not on Sunday.
Bro, check your self, and take inventory of your house before you try to sniff out mine.
I haven't had a drop of a drink besides a soda. Looks like the usual, first one to cry wolf or point blame is the guiltiest one of all. Good try there brother, good try. You must be Jay's side kick. Be careful of the company you keep.
Sorry, dude. I was kinda hoping it was just too much wine with your dinner.
Lay off the grass, man. Even if it is legal, it is not that good for you.
Oh look, another attempt to try to try and evaluate my mental stability that surpasses yours, with nothing needed but common sense.
I know you like me, and I know you wish it came as easy for you, without you havering to be inebriated. I don't fear you not fault you and by way of your apology, I see that I excite you. Good to know.
Marijuana doesn't cause anywhere near that much damage.
That was the definition of an epic putdown!
The FatB'Stard is impressed even though I really did not understand all of it.
@Fake Fatty of course you don't understand all of it you're an idiot. Even though her writing style is convoluted and verbose it requires a certain level of intelligence to pull off and from what I've seen from your prior post you fall short of the mark.
Have a nice day :-))
Maybe one day it will be possible to buy bolt on IQ points, until then you should be careful of calling your intellectual superiors idiots.
Have a nice day :-).
@Fake Fatty ROTFLMAO … intellectual superior. I needed a good laugh. Have a nice days :-))
Save your tirade for someone who gives a shit. I didn't say all single moms were on government assistance. I said if she was that hard up for real there are all those resources available to her. The only reason someone would get that offend by a comment that is true and easily proven is if it hit a little to close to home.
And by the way my bra probably cost more than one of your whole outfits. I could care less about designer clothes and shoes but I don't do cheap under garments they all come from SAKS(sometimes Bloomingdale's) that is my only vice.
Also I detest cats and I give to charities I care about, two in particular. And please come up with something original the bolt on tits is not really an insult if I don't have implants.
Baby girl Jay,
It obviously hits close to your home since you brought it up. Understandable, there are charities out there that are there to help you. However, in the course of speaking out for your own interpersonal needs, you appear to frown upon the ones who could use a female voice in their favor the most.
With this being said, the bolt on comment is without a doubt a red yawning phrase that has tired us all to tears of boredomn by now, with no true originality.
Yet, you offer nothing better. 2 stores? Really? Mine come from Europe and price is not an issue no reason do my SD's bicker nor question, but provide. I find it truly unfortunate that you have only 2 options to give you availability.
Yet,when I give and when I mentor and when I raise up women who are less fortunate, and invest in them, I give them options they never dreamed possible, without gageing where they think they worth nor where their present clothing represents them.
Still, a bitter cat lady you resemble, trying to be a head hog in this farm. Your flavorant and burnt attitude smokes like bacon burning when dealing with @Kore and a lady you present with great err and inefficiency. Good try, ol' girl. But you are tired tired and lame with the likes of the rest in redundancy.
I have no issue with up lifting women. I just have no sympathy for her and those like her. I'm sorry I just don't and nothing you write is going to change that. Her kids on the other hand I feel sorry for.
Everyone has causes they support and believe in that isn't one of mines. And no it doesn't hit close to home. I don't have kids and I wasn't raised in a single parent household.
If I have two stores I can depend on to find what I need in my size why would I need more than that? Good for you SDs pay to import bras from Europe. I pay for my own and can purchase European bras at those stores no need to import. Plus I have no desire to impress you. You're just some lady who post things on the blog occasionally.
We need to replace "bolt on" with +2 to describe @Jay's boobs if we want to be original.
"Original"? How sad. You stole that from thedirty.com.
"Original"? How sad. You stole that from thedirty.com.
"You stole that from thedirty.com"
Please provide a link to "peer reviewed" literature to back up your point. Otherwise have a nice cup of "Shut the fuck up".
Have a nice day :-).
P.S. I invented the phrase "Have a nice cup of "Shut the fuck up"" as well bitch.
You don't like kitties?!? 🙁
Last comment was @Jay.
I did give you a link: it's thedirty.com.
"P.S. I invented the phrase "Have a nice cup of "Shut the fuck up"" as well bitch."
Did not:
"In the early 2000s, an image of a World War II-era soldier (shown below, left) with the superimposed text "How about a nice cup of shut the fuck up?" began circulating the web, especially on the social networking site MySpace."
@TVC Of course he stole it that's his MO. And no I don't care for kitties. They creep me out.
Wow, what a waste of time with all the back and forth high school crap, name calling etc.
one of my scams, pumps, and dumps is listed as substantial but she really needs a laptop haha
hey lets rename " yougottabekiddingme"
to " Goodyear"
I am positive that you will pay no heed…but the more you comment on @y's avatars the uglier photos she will use. Such is the feminist calling of this @y character…
ok is michelin more fitting ?
'@ Dave
No worries, we will just take your limp dick and bolt it between your eyes, to make you the best Unicorn version of a man that we can in the meantime. We may not have a bag of dicks, Mr. Helen Keller, but we can make you the mascot, as you wish, with no trouble a tall. Believe that! 🙂
Even better than the comment to @Jay!
Have a nice day :-).
Only a woman can appreciate such satire.
@Josh or @Anonymous
You forgot to call me sweetheart
good work, guys.
This has got to be the saddest profile I have across in this website. Anyone willing to help her out?
You've got to be kidding me… SMH
She is just a common variety money-hungry girl who will suck money out of you pressing the pity buttons and giving promises to return them when she is "finally back on her feet" – which, as we all know, will be never.
Probably has a loser BF with sleeve tattoos and a collection of needles who she wants you to support.
What is sad about it?
"What I'm looking for
Deleting profile.. What I'm looking for isn't here. Unfortunatelly"
Interesting indeed!
I personally think it's a ploy to extract money from men who are stupid enough to fall for it and men who will feel guilty about all the bad people in her life and not want to be included on this list by asking for something in return.
I find it hard to believe that a single mother with two kids in the US of A is that hard up. If you are a deadbeat with kids the world is your oyster. Section 8 housing, foodstamps, Medicaid, welfare, etc. there is no reason
@josh change that bizarre picture, brad has better picture
*pictures lol
Don't worry about my photo @batshit.
What will transpire will be the greatest transfer of wealth outside of socialist appropriation. When credit system seizes up all of the asset bubbles in stocks, real estate etc. will pop.
If you're over the age of 45 and lived in Texas in the 80s you felt the pain
Someone made a platonic arrangement with the blimp below ? I call b.s.
@ Anonymous
Everyone will suffer.
Probably not everyone. There will be most likely a small group of people who will do fine and actually enjoy their increased power over other humans. And of course everybody hopes to be a memver of that group.
That's how it works. There is no benefit in trying to be part of the disadvantaged class.
another anonymous yes wealth is neither created or destroy it just gets transfered from the loers to the winners the winners will be big winners but small in numbers
Dave stop being a dick! Please comment on my my take on the economic impact of the sex industry. Specifically the impact an economic collapse will have all the sex industry
no need to beg, really there snot
Dave stop being a dick! Please comment on my my take on the economic impact of the sex industry
before he kills you, apparently
Just thinking @Kore admitting Psycho
Photoshop filters doesn't make you look less obese you cow
No…I think Psycho Killer is an actual psychokiller…and Dave's great uncle.
There … Read my answer
Required expectation scale :
Single mom : can be no more than minimal
Fat woman like the one below : should pay man , negative expectation ?
Over 40: a happy meal and lots of makeup and she has to give up pussy on the first date .
Married woman : call up the husband and ask for a pussy review
"Married woman : call up the husband and ask for a pussy review"
When the economy crashes again and ATM's are locked up only spitting out 60 euros a day a la Greece, will Sugar Babies exchange sexual favors for barter i.e. food, cigarettes and liquor? This was the case for German Sugar babies after WWII
probably yes but a lot of guys will be doing the same all you have do is go to crack row in any major city and you will see they don't care what they do to their bodies as long as they get enough for their fix so don't think only women will suffer every one will
Why barter food when a teaspoon of semen provides fructose , citric acid , a smidgen of protein and zinc ?
Credit where credit's due, that's actually pretty funny.
Actually really tired of meeting SB who's photos were before they gained 10-30 lbs. Seriously hot girls who then go to food farm and think it is ok to still post pics when they were slim and now they are fat.
time for a new blog
I walked away on one few months ago. I am not too cut-and-dry to just walk away from them off the bat…
This is what happened…she was really good with chatting and talking…photos were great…when I met her for lunch she was almost 30 lbs fatter.
I fed her lunch…we decided to reconvene at a hotel. I was supposed to give him the hotel address after having booked it. I never did. She texted me bullshit. Who cares…
"I was supposed to give him the hotel address after having booked it."
So you got dumped by a SD because you were too fat and so now you switch it around that you're the SD, all right.
Correction…I was supposed to give HER the hotel address…
Yeah, yeah, yeah. You are a balloon, wanting to get get blown in the ass and felt like a school bus driver getting dumped with no pump. It's like 50 cent homey. Let's focus on the future and not reflect on the past. Time heals all wounds and you too can find a new boy toy on the site. If she looks to perfect to be a female, it's probably a trany. Bc all the men on the blog dog real women out and fuck the trany's in the ass, like Dave does.
Have you boys napped long enough now in thinking the rest of us readers are toothless wonders to your so called superior education of a groupon?
that was funny .. Tom… same thing has happened to me, so I scammed them…tit for tat.
Yougottabekiddingme: that is the most disgusting body I've seen on this site . Rest assured you're so obese that ISis will mistake you for a full rack of ribs and quickly run to the hills .
Well this one competes with the snot licking cow that she used to use a while back.
whatever it takes to be eaten 🙂
Since you are repulsed by an image that challenges the pursuit of mainstream standards of beauty, I will post another picture in before-and-after fashion. Then, you can whack to my rack 😉
Would you like that, naughyboy?
I'd rather go full homo than jack off to that blubber . You look like you smell like sweat and feet .
Ya know, I kinda miss the snot licking cow, now that ya mention it!
@problem is
the cow snot photo misses you, too 🙂
Gonna share my "after" photo for now, though. Unveil my new look. My boobs touch now…just the way the boys like.
@problem is
superglue, duct tape and a prayer
Look'n good!!
Thank you, Daddy 😉
did your SD pay for a boob job ygtbkm
yes…as part of our platonic arrangement
Great boob job.
I would like to get the phone number for the surgeon to gift a boob job to one of my SBs.
You are sweet. Im sure she'll appreciate it :).
For new topics – the one that got away because you did something stupid
"For new topics – the one that got away because you did something stupid"
I like that for a topic!
I can some up the responses youll read on that topic…"Rinser this, hooker that, unexpected ass-face. Fatty, oldie, druggie, lady-of-the-night at noon, salt daddy, baldy, velcro shoes. Dessssssparados!"
uh huh
uh huh
when did you suddenly get a SD? How come we're only hearing about him now? I know why 🙂
Strange, maybe you are reading a different blog?
Se did mentioned him before.
No she didn't she always mentions her first SD the one who was upset because she showed up to a function with the wrong type of purse. And she always mention "POTS" she talks to but there's always a reason why she didn't meet them. But I expect you to take up for her since she's the only one who does that for you.
I spend just as much time on the blog as she does I just rarely comment it wouldn't be thzt difficult to find the post that validate my post but you couldn't find one that validate yours.
I think it is time for a new blog topic.
How about the following?
Is sugar corrosive?
Its not sugar, its saccharin.
Market pricing for sugar.
Are there different grades and ratings of sugar?
Sugar holidays. What do expect.
Sugar can cause cavities in your wallet. Preventive steps.
New blog topic:
A moment of silence.
Eating Out. How to do it properly.
Tongue Twisters. How to suck less.
Mood Swings? Group Therapy Solutions.
At a loose end? Knots for beginners to keep you strapped in.
@Kore @Elaine Of course it had to be the two dumbest bitches on the blog feeding the troll. Why don't you guys give him your email address and you can have this discussion off site and spare the rest of us. Since you two are the only ones interested in what he has to say.
Because every now and then it is amusing to expose his stupidity.
This has nothing to do with exposing his stupidity. Everyone on the blog is already aware that he's a fake seeking attention. Even the stunt yesterday about exposing girls he slept with was fake and was only done because he wasn't getting the attention he wanted and you guys took the bait because you're as much of an attention seeker as he is.
Problem is, you're not 'exposing' anything; only perpetuating the obvious! doh!!
and you 'thought that was directed towards you? I rest my case
Elaine , question: what's the difference between scamming and lying on your profile about what you really are ? Answer : nothing
I wouldn't know, I don't practize any of them.
So you ask for payment only for a man to be your friend and nothing more ? And you explicitly indicate this on your profile ?
Wrong again. 🙂 What happened to your infallible crystal ball? Broke it?
And hey! Stupid question anyway, as you seem to forget I am only an ugly fat, old hag.
So I wouldn't DARE to ask for payment, are you kidding ?!
I have to OFFER payment to desirable young God's such as yourself!
Skirting around the question? If you offer your companionship for an expectation , then you're an escort/h00ker . Any other Wes or words for it means you are lying and expressing false advertisement . You're just as guilty as a scammer
Elaine you're a scammer .. You're not stating what you explicitly offer . If it's vague , but yet YOU have an expectation , then you are a thief and a con artist . Welcome to the club !
Oh look, Dave is like "Global Warming", stRted in the 80's as the "we are the world campaign".. Given enough time, it becomes an intricate detail that the global economy can monopolize on, on a global basis, make real world news under faux news, and pool more funds to the given governmental sector, under an alternate name. Wow, nothing new under the sun nor the world of sugar. Scandinaviah under ancient trade with a new name. Only the strong survive.
Come all yew, to mock my words and say I need to be in a padded room as usual bc I bit part of the cool crowd. Folks, if you haven't noticed, only the "cool" crowd of fake personnas speak to each other here in engaging conversations in order to turn heads and read lips. It's the whisper challenge. Only retards apply within.
Yes, that is so true… touching Dave you can get some pre-historic disease.
Something that Neanderthal Men could have. Prehistoric, primitive and forgotten. Modern medicine will be helpless. These poor women he fucked… Must be terrible, being fucked by a reptile, a lizard. Something that does not have anything human, mammalian even, inside.
How can one be a so called independent woman yet want to depend on a man's allowance from this site?
Fighting Global Warming accomplishes three critical goals
Strengthens government control over the people
Gives the greediest of people including the Wall Street Banksters and academic whores a platform which enriches and empowers them
Shackles the strong and free nations for the benefit of those who seek their downfall
Naming here women you fucked…is the lowest of lowest denominator.
Dave, you should look Wikipedia: "Dante, Inferno".
I cannot think of a lower insect than you. I would not touch something like you without a barge pole and a pair of gloves… for the fear of getting leprosy.
You are correct. I don't want to catch your leprosy.
leprosy man. Dunn Donna Dunn! You go Dave, Cape wearing bald man and all. Sport your cock proudly, you fungi wearing man cave ape you. Show us your moves and how to capture an animal so prehistoric as yourself that we will take DNA samples, of Dave, to make sure you are never reproduced again. I applaud Budweiser guy Dave, you have saved the new race by sharing your stupidity.
Lower than selling your soul and body for new heels yet claiming you are high class ?
@ Admirer . Sharelle has a plate in her head . This what she told me . The last guy she dated, by her own free will , beat her to a pulp to a point that her facial bones were crushed . I'm sure he was the hawt guy at the time . The feminazis won't say a word about her bad choices . I let them out if car gently . My only goal is to extract the pussy which is my God given right . God said " man shall not be alone ". God did say woman can screw over man and be a single mom , and be a whore . You women had your directives and you chose to disobey them . Suffer the consequences
God did not say*
*still nonsensical
Kiss my pretty tight, tan, ass as a single mom real Dave. You don't know sheioght, and you speak out of the only hole you have, which is your muffled ass.
I'm sure you being a single independent mom will be delighted in licking my bunghole for a new pair of red bottoms .
Why would I want to impress a third world villager from the outskirts of Mumbai who if not for the kindness of German immigration , she would be crouching in a outhouse somewhere tending to the flies on the cow that her husband owns ?
I never claimed its a big deal but it sure makes you feminazis a grows than hell! It's definitely cheaper !
I never claimed its a big deal but it sure makes you feminazis angrier than hell! It's definitely cheaper !
Could you please educate the uninformed as to what your level you are ? Selling your "companionship" ?
@ Cryptic
Bingo. Equality at workplace and hypergamy in private life is a poisonous combination. It virtually guarantees there will be a large group of poor unhappy man and a large group of unhappy accomplished women. The former cannot get any attention in the public discourse and is virtually invisible, but latter hijacked the public sphere.
Women , do me a favor , read up on the Israelis Samson option . So f-ing psychotic yet brilliant . The Israelis refuse to give up what they have conquered at this point at all costs at any cost . The price any nation will pay to surround them and conquer them is so at this point , suicide is probably the more painless option . At this point in the war in feminism , the woman are the invading hordes and the men hold the Samson option . Tread carefully females .
[treads carefully, rides cock carousel in a burka]
Ends up beheaded or begging beta male to marry her at age 32
@Josh "Marriage is less and less an option for women…not because they don't want it…it's the men this time who don't want it anymore…most Western women are NOT marriage material…
Women must work all through their lives just like a man…seems pretty equal to me."
Exactly right, equality is not really shaping up too well for women, which is why Feminism keeps trying to move the goal posts to make equality more palatable. It is Female nature to want to be taken care of, nothing wrong with that, the problem is it clashes with Feminism and equality and having to work for the rest of your life. And for anyone who thinks I am wrong then why does this site exist?
Also the whole bullshit debate about equal pay, women make the same money men do, they just don't always put in the Over Time and don't always get promoted because quite often they just aren't good enough, hence why they now push for quotas to make it "equal" again. There isn't any such thing as equality in nature, you do well or you don't, end of story.
So true. You are not doing well my friend, so get off the cock carousel. You and Real Dave and Fake Dave and Fatty Bastard, while your at it. Or go have a three some.
Fake Dave is the real Dave. You know and I know. 6 one way, half a dozen the other, same sheep in wools clothing. Cry wolf Dave, one more time. Please, for the fake of it, cry wolf so I can laugh my ass off again at your bull. This is getting so good, I made popcorn already in wait!
"You and Real Dave and Fake Dave and Fatty Bastard, while your at it. Or go have a three some."
Wouldn't that be a foursome??
Perhaps just masturbation…party of one.
What a zoo.
hehe…k…lips sealed…like a virgin.
My my my how modern day women get angry when something happens to them that they do not like . Men do not like to be rinsed , divorce raped, treated like shit and not respected . Welcome to the world you created and welcome to the backlash .
SA nik: sharelle11 real name sharelle Davis . Claims to be a model , lives in a high rise apartment . Modelling consists of giving out freebies then asking to have her high dollar apartment rent paid for . Feel free to message her guys she gives out the free sample . I bet her parents are proud . She was #2 on the Dave train .
P.s. Sharelle prefers the money shot to be aimed at her chest or cheeks .
So when did you have this fake conquest? She hasn't logged in for 16 months
Would you log in after being hit by the Dave train ?
Can someone here help me get in touch with my feminine side please?
The way this movie plays out is that there are some "regulars" who join in with the Tumblr crowd in ridiculing the GURU.
Every reincarnation of the Tumblr crowd gives these "regulars" the hope that they would be able to kick the GURU out.
Neither the Tumblr crowd nor the "regulars" give a shit about sanity on the blog to discuss their own respective ideas. Hoping, praying and trying to kick the GURU out is their top fantasy.
Now I'm a little afraid that you overestimate your own importance here…
Why would anyone want to kick you out?!
Since you are the GURU, and always have your mouth full of "sanity on the blog", maybe now it is time to react on the fact that a very young girl get's exposed by her real name, instead of focussing at non existent conspiracy theories? 🙂
GURU my ass. Talk about illusions of grandeur.
You've got mail.
@Elizabeth Taylor
How did you get @Josh's email?
From Michael Jackson's rolodex. How else?
It is not done to post profiles or private information and the lowest thing one could do is expose real names!
You know what's lower than that ? Being a near wh0re on a silly website . Trumped baby !
No Dave, you are wrong.
Being a near whore on a silly website is a choice.
Being publicly exposed by an irresponsible idiot is not!
Maybe somebody should inform her…..probably she has some nice info about you too. Or maybe a father or a brother who is not amused…..
No you are wrong . Being on a near wh0re website and pretending not to be one and yet want to ride the coat tails of the patriarchy income is wrong and not a choice . When your premise is a lie then you deserve your fate !
Calling whores "sugar babies" is like sticking a flower in a bunghole and calling it a vase.
Ok I actually got messaged by one of the SA skanks who was the proud recipient of one of my monopoly quality Alfred e Newman crisp $100 bills …. Her SA nik is "high_mammi" real name is Eden Bond .
She's ok. No boobs though. Also "light smoker" which is a turn off.
If there is such thing as a responsable moderator, it is now time to take action!
Hey ET, you need to phone home.
Admirer, then look at sharelle11 and "let_pet"
Of the Latina variety . Both have subsequently written whiny profiles post "Dave" dates
sharelle is a delusional SB who thinks she deserves a High allowance. Be careful with her Dave. She owns a gun and looks unstable. LOL!
Sugar baby monkey, Real sugar baby monkey, Dave, Real Dave, Admirer, etc, represents yet another coordinated Tumblr crowd attack on the blog to wrestle control of the same.
It's nothing new. Yawn!
Why are you so obsessed with me? i told you that you shouldn't write my name again, but you're still doing it. idiot.
Ignore my comments if you can. But you will not.
The main purpose of many of the characters mentioned is to stop the GURU from posting OR at least ridicule his posts with nonsense.
I have seen remakes of this movie many times.
It would seem that stopping you from posting is the equivalent of wrestling control of the blog in your mind.
When did you get the idea the idea that you control the blog?
It seems that you asked a question and answered it as well. Good for you. 😉
When children attempt to play adult games, children end up hurt.
Sugar baby monkey, Real sugar baby monkey, Dave, Real Dave, Admirer, etc, represents yet another coordinated Tumblr crowd attack on the blog to wrestle control of the same.
It's nothing new. Yawn!
Sugar baby money poo. I have no f-ing clue what you are taking about . I'm a North American domesticated SA member . I speak a little Russian but fluent in Spanish . I never claimed to live in Russia you blond airhead .
This here used to be a lot more entertaining. Even insults were somewhat intelligent. I hope the "Dave/Real Dave" infection will take its course here. Kinda like a flu, it cannot be medicated (or, it is too much to hope).
I just scanned thru… there used to be some useful stuff from people who were a part of the SA crowd. Stories, questions, ruminations. Not anymore. Now it is mostly elementary-school-type exercise in rudeness.
Silly, really -considering that (at least some of the) people here must be adults and could use they time and energy more wisely…
You sound as if the only friends you had in life joined SA .
Listen… I embrace the SA concept as it works for me. Obviously, one's SA endeavors are not something you can casually mention to people at the office party, who might have daughters of the "SA age". So I used to use this blog to vent. That was my "excuse" for being here.
If you continue with insults (and you probably will), I will disengage. Your character does not interest me all that much, no offense.
It wasn't an insult . You seem decent you shouldn't be propagandized by the old washed up near whores on this blog
=D woooooooooooowwwwwww
@rembodler why do you excuse with @taco-dave? lol
@ admirer should I post the names and the Facebook url for my SA conquests ? I think josh doesn't believe I've done any of this.
Was talking to yourself not one of the symptoms of schizophrenia and some other mental illnesses?
Or is it the geriatric variant you are suffering from @Dave, …..uhhh I mean @Admirer? -)
Of course Real Dave. Go ahead and post them. These bloggers think you and I are the same person. LOL.
Would like to see the "quality" of these conquests of yours. They are not saying it but the rest of them are curious too. Just won't admit it. You and I are the most honest bloggers here Real Dave.
ohhhhh @the real dave you're so taco mexican! Russia is in the other side of the world, man, the country which is next to you is US, not Russia. @elaine is right, too much tacos in your diet developed some type of a new illnes perhaps similar to schizophrenia
Look at Kore's neck. It has a 45 year old female runaway between the tendons flexing . that upper neck and face has taken many a semen landing in the last 30 years . She had to flex in order to tighten the loose turkey neck. I would take a gander and state that she should be a sugar mama not a so called baby hooker
The women on this blog are has been leftovers that no man wants other than for a cheap p4p
Nah. The most vocal ones are too old or too ethnic. Better selection out there even for P4P. You are being too generous Real Dave.
Yes sir . I meant that nobody wants them because they expired years ago and wear the same makeup as Keith Richards and Elizabeth Taylor
When you start calling yourself "sir" there is really something seriously wrong….
Better go see a doctor and start taking meds!
I nominate Real Dave for President!
"Not always.. Rejection for women doesn't happen that often (thanks to men) and they might not have the practice in dealing with it as well."
This is how you differentiate yourself from other women here. You talk like a normal human being with a female gender instead of writing your comments based on feminist–or worse sarcastic feminist–taking points.
lol @Josh fell in love with the ugly indian @kore13. i see, he tends to like that type of retarded and submissive woman.
i'm not feminist =D
or, he is using that retarded girl @kore13 against some women because i'm suspecting he's in love with one of these "feminazi"
She's not that ugly in the face but her body looks disgusting. All fucking bones like a teenage boy.
someone told me, her face is masculine too, and her body very indian, well she's indian so that's normal
someone told me, her face is masculine too, and her body very indian, well she's indian so that's normal
She does look masculine. I personally like a woman who looks like a woman but some guys like her look.
it's ok anonymous, if you like the fat, it's your business dude, you don't have to publish this
Actually 12:23 and 12:46 was me not monkey.
@kore13 i just was writing something that someone told me in addition i didn't say that you were all bones like a teenage boy, it was anonymous and i didn't agree with this because i really don't know nothing about your body, only that you're indian lol, but usually when men say to a girl "you're all bones like a teenage boy" it's because they like the fat. i saw many times, guys saying this to girls with normal bodies but by far they were not anorexic like many models are actually
@kore13 i just was writing something that someone told me in addition i didn't say that you were all bones like a teenage boy, it was anonymous and i didn't agree with this because i really don't know nothing about your body, only that you're indian lol, but usually when men say to a girl "you're all bones like a teenage boy" it's because they like the fat. i saw many times, guys saying this to girls with normal bodies but by far they were not anorexic like many models are actually
*talking points.
"You talk like a normal human being…"
Haha more like a human being that has a couple of extra chromosomes. Give it a break Josh you're just trying to stir the pot. Everyone know women get rejected less than men, this isn't some great revelation.
"this isn't some great revelation" the quote
so yes, @josh meant "@kore13 talks like a normal retarded human being with a female gender"
The "Real Dave" claims that her 3 ip's were banned it took her a while to start posting back on the blog.
1. If "Real" Dave was banned without any notice to anyone how did the "fake" Dave take over seamlessly without worrying that the "Real" one will not show up immediately?
2. The "Real" Dave showed up when the fake one was discredited by SDs and SBs alike.
3. When "Real" Dave showed up the "fake" Dave stopped posting.
This real/fake Dave business is too much like real/fake sugar baby monkey nonsense.
Some people are hell-bent in sneaking in their narrative by hooks or by crooks.
That was the most confusing post I've ever seen
There was nothing confusing about Josh's post. And he's right.
why this idiot is writing my name? sorry josh, if you don't like me, just ignore me, as you were doing always, and don't write my name anymore!
I am seeking a Miss so you can support me with my studies because I am now without help
busco a mujer que me pueda ayudar con mis estudios soy de peru y puedo hacer todo lo que usted desee
For Spanish, press "2"…
SI quieres dinero , tienes que chupar mi verga muy fuerte. segundo, es mas facil ser una puta en tu pais , vende tu panocha por la gente que hacen drogas.
jaja para qe a tu mama le tire bien ricooo
Where's refund gap? She's still riding her high horse ?
Oh she's around Real Dave. The usual suspects have been running amok around here while someone was pretending to be you acting like a beta mangina. They all thought they "converted" you because you "professed" that you don't want to act like a "jerk" anymore and wanted to look for deeper relationships with only one Mexican SB. LOL!
Should I start posting Facebook links to my conquests ? Nah you know what would happen , these. Kkkunts would write sympathy letters to them and try to call the cops on me .
Clearly, you're not russian. you need treatment.
Clearly you're a blond airhead . No treatment would help you
When a man has his HR department humming…he does not worry about women poofing and reappearing.
Since women are typically more anal than men…they have problem with men poofing as they take themselves WAY too seriously.
…Says the man who calls himself "Guru", who takes this blog so serious and whom I was not even once able to catch while making a joke about himself…. 😉
PS. "WONDERING" about poofing and returning later is different from "WORRYING" about it. 🙂
Of course it was an "innocent" question indeed. 😉
You think you fake hookers like to live vicariously on his blog . You even want to meet up in Vegas . Pfpfpfpf… Nothing like a whore convention in whorevillle.
And by this comment she can't get sugar either.
The more I read the feminazi diatribes on this site the more I want to scam . Holy beejezus these 2 bit hussies can't even whore like normal hookers
Every girl wants a sugar daddy until daddy wants the sugar then they claim they aren't sluts.
some persons here comment in a compulsive way
What kind of feminazi mumbo jumbo is that ?
@Josh wrote:
"At Home Depot men and women get paid the same…guess who EXCLUSIVELY helps loading/unloading?
At my workplace, one of my colleagues is out so many days a month it's not even funny…either she is sick…or her new born is sick…or she has a doctor's appointment…she gets the same pay as her male counterparts at the same grade level. Guess who covers for her?"
I think @Josh just gave away the fact that he works on the loading dock at Home Depot.
The house of cards is collapsing @Josh…
Have a nice day :-).
@Sweetheart, built and the collapse your houses of cards as you wish.
I am sure if I gave an example of a prostitute you would claim that I was a pimp.
Such are the joys of communicating with women…especially the feminist kind who are posting as men.
You will soon not be able to resist sneaking in "momma's basement", "juvenile", "bitter", "someone messed you up", etc., in your cooments while you come our of the closet.
I am amazed as to how many women attempt to try to create drama on the blog in any which way they can.
Things are much more clear now. I can understand why you are on SA
Have a nice day :-)..
What the hell is going on here?
FatB'stard has an impostor? FatB'stard is a woman?
Cant keep up with the madness.
Good thing I have better things to do…
…like cry myself to sleep.
"I try to avoid replying to them so it doesn't turn into a bitchfest like I've seen it happen on the blog. "
When? I've seen none of them mention you but you keep talking about them and bringing up their names in conversations they are not involved in.
I will expose more of @Dave's logical slip-ups later. 😉
As long as you don't expose yourself then I'm good.
Dont listen to him, babe! Please expose yourself…i wanna see :D.
Maybe in private? I wont tell 😉
"It's a pretty new thing, because until recently women didn't have the option to not want to be married."
This movie has been played in Japan already. Men stopped wanting to get married and women started claiming that they did not want to get married anyway.
I got messaged by a 27 year old tatted up skank who graduated from woman's studies @ case western ! So this slut spent $60k per year or should I say got a so called female enabler scholarship at a university I order to make less than $20 k and be a near slore on a hooker website .
Or I won't kiss you because I will maul you and I will show you when I kiss you everything that is right and what it is like to love again and you better pray I one is watching. Take a deep breathe. And a stranger that is helpless is no more.
Which one of you faux whores has been impersonating a beta version of me? Also , I've had 3 ip addresses banned … So I got a new one … F U .. I'm like the Putin of this blog .. You ain't stopping the D-train you hoes!
Is it going back to the old @Dave time, sweetheart?
Huh ? When did you go full blown Caitlyn Jenner ?
Welcome back Real Dave
At least we know how to protect people we know and those we don't know at all.
While apparently, you spill everyone's business in the street and degrade them all. Something eventually has o be stated for Elaine's class bs. Yours.
If. You were running for President, or a highly offici position..folks of the blog, who me woul. You choose? saves persona? Or Elaine's?
I rest my case. Privet and privacy amount to everything. Those you know and those you don't. You slander so any, I woul. Keep you further than. A 10 foot pole. More like a continent or more. Then I would have my own private devise seek you out to keep you chasing your tail and running in circles to keep you far from the likes of me. Grow up Dave. Welcome to life and the reality of what it means to bra real man. The word "protection" has been under rated too long by the likes of you.
Privet means hi in Russian . Vladimir Putin is on SA ?
Дэйв, ты идиот. Любовь.
"Admirer" should be "the real dave" lol
I attended a Christmas party where I was mildly hit on to remove my coat. And embarrassed as I was to say "hey, I am allergic to live Christmas Trees, not you" I couldn't say for fear of sounding like a wired existence of a being. But, I no doubt found that, though I am aging, and I give myself very little credit, I was laughed at and acknowledge that when I put effort into my appearance and dress, I am sought out for photo ops.
Bc I am on 6 meds and can't hear or breathe properly, but I like what I see and hear!
#christmas gift is a naked man in a bow
And second code word is yeahhhh baby,
# Santas little helper 🙂
And for the record. I am on6 meds bc I really am allergic to realchristmas treae,so every year, I spun horse and in rhea me boat. It was far from the man. It's the fact I can't function bc I'm on medication that is never in my body and that glorious bright tree is my worst enemy, unless you can bring me some fake mistletoe that I will miss you under. No real or fake money needed. I only kiss based off of real, not fake.
If you (and @Josh) were interesting to interact with then the real @FatB'StardSA would have never left.
I am the best FatB'Stard that you deserve."
With such fucked up handle on cause & effect you have demonstrated that you are a woman. 😉
You could simply ask to see my vagina in person but based on your background/personality I would say parsing my blog posts would be a more reliable way to determine my gender.
Sweetheart…your fucked up (lack of) relationship with cause & effect is fairly entertaining indeed…at least to me.
You are boring as fuck. You made the blog boring as fuck. FatB'Stard left the blog because of boring fucked up bitches like yourself.
I think the cause and effect is quite clear.
Have a nice day :-).
Back in the day Josh basically WAS the blog. You'd have to have been here to know that though.
I guess @batshit reincarnated as FB. LOL!
Same [email protected], different day…
Exactly, men calling out women, trying in their lamest attempt. While real men take them home more than once, and keep them as a prized possession in log and if they fear another man is getting to close, they will claim she is lame in bed or knock the other mans lights out with a fist. It only takes one encounter to know at kind of man you haven't. It's not rocket science. The ignorant ones are in the lab. The rest are on a rocket ship. Period. Any questions?
Wow what's this dude smoking lol??
Uh… ask @Kore?
"the right to work the same jobs and get paid the same"
At Home Depot men and women get paid the same…guess who EXCLUSIVELY helps loading/unloading?
At my workplace, one of my colleagues is out so many days a month it's not even funny…either she is sick…or her new born is sick…or she has a doctor's appointment…she gets the same pay as her male counterparts at the same grade level. Guess who covers for her?
"and the right to control our own bodies."
Control?…squander is more like it…women's "control" is EXACTLY how more pussy is circulating for smart men who bang and move on to the fresh crop…while saving their hard-earned incomes. Yes…babyboomers and Gen Xs are screwed…Gen Ys to some extent too…but Millennial men are no fools.
I've always been an advocate of equal pay for equal work and raise and bonus being based on performance instead of seniority. A man and a woman can be hired at the same rate but if the man out performs the woman his salary should reflect that at the end of the year.
Same thing for the home depot job, if the job requires heavy lifting and a woman applies for it and is able to do the job equally as well as the guy then she should be compensated equally.
Male surrogate parent should be paid the same as female ones. Male wet nurse should be paid the same as female ones.
50% surrogate parent and wet nurse hiring should be male, in order to avoid sex discrimination charge.
50% death penalties should be handle out to women.
"Male wet nurse should be paid the same as female ones."
I imagine if you could find one, he'd make considerably more.
@anonymous I'm guessing that was meant to be funny but instead it fell short of the mark. Maybe go back to the drawing board and try again.
"At Home Depot men and women get paid the same…guess who EXCLUSIVELY helps loading/unloading?"
At my local HD women load and unload. I've watched them do some crazy stuff to be able to do it though.
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with acting like a bitch. If one wants to act like a bitch because she wants to, and she can…then more power to her. As a matter of face, women must act like bitches in certain circumstance to protect their person and honor.
However, as women learn feminist formulations they start to believe that it is OK to act like a bitch…at the while rotating insulting formulations, such as, "you are acting juvenile", "you live in your momma's basement", "you are bitter", "you have a small penis", etc.
*As a matter of fact…
Feminist Doctrine puts men and women in a no win situation.
If a man is the classic strong silent type than he is emotionally unavailable and too cold, if he is sensitive than he is a wuss and must be used and abused, if he just wants sex he is a sleaze if he wants a relationship he is too needy etc etc
Meanwhile it tells women they can be anything they want to be even if it contradicts itself, a woman can dress like a whore but be a good girl, she can be a whore but be a Princess, she can be independent but still have a man take care of her, she can be tough but fall back on breaking down in tears when the going gets rough.
The end result is men just use them for as long as it amuses them and then move on, Feminism has actually aided men far more than it has aided women, in fact women have less rights now then they used to.
"… in fact women have less rights now then they used to."
How so?
He's probably not counting frivolous rights like the vote, the ability to own property, the right to work the same jobs and get paid the same, and the right to control our own bodies.
And yet with all of those things women still aren't happy.
@Jay-In many ways, women used to be looked after, they were placed on pedestals, protected. Not anymore, now they sell themselves in various ways for money.
Only a minority of lucky women were actually safe and protected, and most of those few had no choice but to accept that protection because they had no other options. Feminism came about because the safety and protection men purportedly offered wasn't either, and this was true for enough women that it sparked a major social revolution. If women were happy in their cages, feminism would never have happened.
I'm not saying there are no disadvantages to being a modern woman (the simultaneous expectation that you be both sexually available and virginal is the first to come to mind). But I'd rather be free and have control over my body and my life than be chattel.
It's not as if women selling their bodies for money is a recent invention, either.
Women have always sold themselves in various ways. Some sold themselves in marriage some sold themselves to a benefactor and some sold them selves to anyone who had the coin.
The only difference is now women have more options. They can get an education, start a career,start a business, or sell themselves.
"How to eat, how to maintain existence, is the problem that has confronted woman, as well as man, since the ages dawned for her. Other needs and desires may come later; but the first call of life is for the means of supporting it. To support life it is necessary to have access to the fruits of the earth, either directly – as in the case of the agriculturist – or indirectly, and through a process of exchange as the price of work done in other directions. And in this process of exchange woman, as compared with her male fellow-worker, has always been at a disadvantage. The latter, even where direct access to the earth was denied to him, has usually been granted some measure of choice as to the manner in which he would pay for the necessities the earth produced for him – that is to say, he was permitted to select the trade by which he earned his livelihood. From woman, who has always been far more completely excluded from direct access to the necessities of life, who has often been barred, both by law and by custom, from the possession of property, one form of payment was demanded, and one only. It was demanded of her that she should enkindle and satisfy the desire of the male, who would thereupon admit her to such share of the property he possessed or earned as should seem good to him. In other words, she exchanged, by the ordinary process of barter, possession of her person for the means of existence.
Whether such a state of things is natural or unnatural I do not pretend to say; but it is, I understand, peculiar to women, having no exact counterpart amongst the females of other species. Its existence, at any rate, justifies us in regarding marriage as essentially (from the woman's point of view) a commercial or trade undertaking."
Cicely Hamilton, "Marriage as a Trade", 1909. {http://digital.library.upenn.edu/women/hamilton/marriage/marriage.html}
@TVC exactly what I was referring to.
Marriage is less and less an option for women…not because they don't want it…it's the men this time who don't want it anymore…most Western women are NOT marriage material…
Women must work all through their lives just like a man…seems pretty equal to me.
@Jay – yes, I just think Cicely expresses the idea particularly well. It's a great essay that nicely summarizes why feminism had to happen, from the days of the suffragettes.
This maybe hard for some of you guys to believe but some women aren't getting married because they don't want to be married. Not all little girls grow up wanting to be a bride.
And as much as some would like to believe that marriage is a dying institution it's not. Like all things it goes through periods of ups and downs but it's not going anywhere. Thousands of idiots lining up to do it.
"This maybe hard for some of you guys to believe but some women aren't getting married because they don't want to be married."
Not surprising that fact hasn't sunk in yet. It's a pretty new thing, because until recently women didn't have the option to not want to be married.
Contrary to Cecily's nonsense, women throughout history always had the option of not marrying and then had to fend for themselves: the ugly ones and those of ill repute unusually did not marry.
Even the ugly ones married with no problem if they had a significant enough dowry. The problem with fending for yourself was there were very little options available to women of that time. Depending on your social class you either married, became a courtesan, a governess, or a poor relation dependent on a family members generosity (which usually translated to an unpaid indentured servant)
(1) That's like saying a person who can't get a job is exercising their option to not work.
(2) Ugly women and women of ill repute have always been able to get married. There have always been plenty of ugly men and men of ill repute around to marry them. Just look around today, when marriage is optional. It would have been even more true back then, when marriage was almost compulsory.
"If they had enough dowry" is in direct contradiction to the claim that women couldn't own property, which was yet another false claim.
Since when was marriage ever compulsory? Many of the sufferagets were unmarried. Marriage was and is a simple way for women to be able to live a life far beyond what she can afford on her own income. The woman is typically in charge of 70-80% of household disposable income nowadays. If she chooses to have less to spend, she could and can always abstain from marriage.
As for not having options to fend for oneself, let's not forget, the oldest profession in the world is . . . Prostitution!
People lived only to their 40's back then, so it was probably a lot easier for a woman to support herself for life, using the earnings from her peak 15 years from 18-32, in prostitution, which is probably still by far the highest hourly rate achievable for most women today.
@Anon Its debatable if prostitution is the oldest profession in the world. It was Rudyard Kipling who made such a claim in the 1800's, you would have thought such a claim would have been made in earlier literature.
The last straw is absence of marriage or living together. Then all of them are perpetually available to the SD who is good at running his HR department.
Real FB is no fan of mine either…but he is fun to banter with.
It was clear from the very beginning that he/she was a fake FB but I observed for a while to make sure. 😉
He's definitely no fan of yours :-)) I wonder what would make some one take over some else's moniker. And why would he pick someone with such a distinctive personality like FB
@Josh, @Jay
I don't remember the FatB'Stard never bantering or trading bards with either of you. Wishful thinking for both of you.
The sad thing is that even this fake version of FatB'Stard is more entertaining than either of you.
You're only half right about that. 😉
@Fake Fatty
Of course you don't remember because you weren't around and you're a lazy copycat. You didn't even bother to read enough of the old post so you'd truly have an understanding of the character you're attempting to play.
I don't think anyone thinks you're entertaining. I mostly think it's sad and wonder how much you must think you suck if you can't participate on a blog without misappropriating someone else's persona.
I assume you are referring to @Jay's "He's definitely no fan of yours" comment.
Seeing as you can't point to any posts supporting your claim I have to assume you are full of crap about FatB'Stard interacting with you.
"I mostly think it's sad and wonder how much you must think you suck…"
The blog SD's also wonder how you think you suck. You should stick to discussing that topic instead of boring us with your posts.
Have a nice day :-).
At least he has acknowledged that he/she is not the real FB.
No FB, I meant you're only more entertaining than one of them.
@Fake Fatty Why would I do your homework for you? You read the old blogs and find proof I'm lying. :-)) Nice try at the wit but it's still not up to par.
If you (and @Josh) were interesting to interact with then the real @FatB'StardSA would have never left.
I am the best FatB'Stard that you deserve.
Have a nice day :-).
Stop using FB's moniker and be as entertaining or boring as you can be.
The real Fat Nastard only became alive when sugary Spicy was I've. dos you not notice the perfect Ruben they has that was in an insynction of conversation.
One was not foun without the other, with inquisitive banter and proper disruption of views to ter the best of us to a new erotic level of thought in Playfulness.
Find a new avenue? Oh no, you won't. This is the real Fat Bastard, just the bored version. No one offers up much than the mind aim here anymore that has been regurgitated and eaten again.
Give him something to play with and a hybrid catnip is at your fingertips.
Damn the stupid mini phone to type on than a really prop. Yes, Ebonics is alive and well my friends. Prepare room for in nature sings, in this hiday season. Joy to the world in figuring out the speech encryption that will be played in here in your commercial breaks. Lmao.
I am here to stay and NONE of you fuckers can do anything about it.
Is that entertaining enough for you?
@Fake Fatty No one wants you to go… at least I don't. Just stop using FB's moniker and pretending you're him.
@Elaine as @guru suggested, and others have too, you're pain in the ass.
Yeah I know, and it's a lousy job…But someone has to do it! 🙂
Also as the guru suggested, you are cause & effect challenged as well.
@Josh Once again I must admit you were right. The real Fat Bastard was better. Sure he insulted me from time to time but at least he was entertaining and fun to trade barbs with.
Women take themselves WAY too seriously. That's why most women are pain in the ass.
So says the person who refers to himself in the third person as the guru! And he is being very serious. bwaha!
Regardless of who says it…it's true.
Q: At what point does it stop being "poofing" and become "ghosting"?
What's the difference? They look to be the same phenomenon to me.
My understanding is the term "ghosting" is reserved for people with whom you have some kind of relationship, while "poofing" is for people with whom you were trying to establish a relationship.
Maybe I just answered my own question?
Precise accurate distinction of "ghosting" and "proofing". The misunderstood job of: "Can you see what I see? Applause…you point out the distinction that is hiding but oh so obvious in a panoramic view.
E-rudeness is normal. You are nothing to the other person, but a bunch of text messages. Most people, especially young (=SBs) will not be rude to your face, but will think nothing of blowing you off for a few month and come back with "Heyyyyy, was sooooo buzy (sic)"
@Kore and @Jay are two decent women speaking their respective minds. Respect!
Ok, I have no hidden agenda, don't want to cause endless fights, I just want a normal answer from both males and females, since this too seems to happen to me more often lately:
So, what do other bloggers do when they are talking with a pot, suddenly pooooofffffff, and then after a week, a month, even a year, they just turn up again as if nothing happened??
What's wrong with that. They are not center of my world, and I am not center of theirs.
1. Respond to them immediately.
2. Take as long as they did.
3. Ignore.
Don't know, I have problems with it… I don't expect to be the center of his world but I find it rude to talk to someone for a while and ten once of a sudden disappear.
How hard is it to say bye and that you move on?
This for me feels like someone throws down the telephone in the middle of a conversation?
Yeah, I don't like it either. But I try to give people the benefit of the doubt.
ignore and block
Maybe his indecision, embarrassment at changing his mind, found someone else, does not feel obligated to share his reasons because he hardly knows you, or has not even met you. If it bothers you, tell him so when he returns and acting as if nothing had happened. If he apologizes, he was just inconsiderate and recognizes his mistake. If he could not care two hoots, just next him, because he will likely not change… you have already stated such behavior bothers you. I would not care, but its clear it irks you.
If you wouldn't behave that way towards a pot, then don't tolerate it from them.
I see your point, but here's the thing. It might not have been a snub. The pot might have poofed because they found someone else before getting a chance to meet you, but it didn't work out. They wouldn't send a message saying, "Sorry, I enjoyed our conversation but I'm gonna try this other person out." They would just poof. Then they find themselves alone again, so they come back looking. Nothing wrong with that.
Depends on how deep you get into it with the Poofee. If you had many convos and poofed it would be rude and unforgivable. But if you only had a few texts and emails it could be understandable . Ultimately though ,an educated well bred person would sign off in some way.
How would you express it if you were the potential poofer in the situation I described above?
No, I wouldn't do that, not after some decent conversations, so maybe that's why it bothers me that much.
If it is only after an exchange of 3 or 4 messages it is different.
I wouldn't do it either, but I can imagine why an otherwise decent person might. Maybe I'm too nice? 😉
Makes sense, and thank you for the template if I ever find myself in that situation.
Yes, that is exactly how i handled such cases myself in the past.
i think it is not only more educated but also more clever because it leaves the door open to get back in touch in case things didn't work out the way you thought…
* POOFING/ not "proofing".
Kore is the type of woman that shouldn't be trusted. Notice how she intentionally post comments to antagonize Jaybird923 and when she responds she cries foul like Jaybird was the one who started it. I wouldn't put it beyond her to do the same thing with men antagonize them until they react and then call the cops to claim he's abusing her.
Hey everyone it's been awhile since I posted last, but it's good to see not much has changed.
@Online, my Michigan Brother glad to hear you and the SB are doing so well !
I agree that @Dave is a woman.
She initially posted for a few days to "expose" scamming SDs.
Now she is posting what women like to hear.
I am not sure about the purpose of such blog drama…but it is what it is.
Really agree with you Josh. It's either a woman or a very young man.
Dave is a poorly made blog character. Neither his super macho shit nor this new dopy doormat sap are believable…
Care to translate your @Kore-speak for the rest of us?
Good luck with that. The translation is always worse than the original statement.
I agree that @Dave is a woman.
She initially posted for a few days to "expose" scamming SDs.
Now she is posting what women like to hear.
I am not sure about the purpose of such blog drama…but it is what it is.
@Madison when I say the right attitude I mean knowing this isn't one sided. Understanding that you're not entitled to his money just because you're young ans pretty. You're here to enhance his life make it better and he's here to do the same for you. A lot of women come here with a general disdain and lack of respect for the very men they're holding their hand out to looking for assistance. If that's how you feel you shouldn't be here and we were getting a lot of those types asking for help. It started to feel like we were helping them con men into thinking they were someone they weren't so we stopped helping.
Yay, I'm remembered! I have used my fetish on other sites, but normally those who reply were more so looking for a traditional relationship. I do know that the weight is an issue but I've lost 22lbs so far so I'm getting there. I have met with a few POTs but they ended up being duds. It's harder to find someone into my fetish than someone into a size 14 kinda girl.
Congrats on the weight loss, Madison!
And yes, people who are into specific fetishes are difficult to find. Have you tried fetlife?
It's not specifically geared towards arrangements, but I have seen ads on there from people who are looking for one or open to one. Wouldn't hurt for you to be active on both sites.
@Dave is a woman.
I've been thinking this for over a week. He's either a woman or an extremely feminine guy. His thought pattern is all over the place and he doesn't seem to use any logic at all. He's also indecisive as hell and uses a lot of women words and sayings verbatim. It's probably a girl but with some of these extremely feminine younger men who knows.
Dave strikes me as a person who is younger than his chronological age and trying to figure things out. If he is genuinely working on being a better person, then that's a good thing both for him and the people around him.
I just don't buy it.
Would have kept my mouth shut if I would have known an innocent question about asking for pictures without a message would have caused such discussions…..Gosh!
Let's instead talk about something more interesting:
Such as @Dave's mysterious one weekend therapy with amazing results? 🙂
Of course you will call the new question "an innocent question" later on.
Your question about pictures hit the nerve because it's primarily women who have problem with private picture request.
The reason is that "creep" is anyone a woman chooses not to purse, and how dare a "creep" asked for her private photos.
If a super handsome, youngish guy with decent income mentioned in the profile asked for her private photos, she would not wait for a split second before giving him the access.
The indeed INNOCENT and general question was:
"What kind of reaction do you get when SENDING a photo request without a message?"
Did I mention "women" or "creeps" or anything gender related?
What @Online?
Dave or the private pictures?
Since Dave's mysterious metamorfose his contributions to blog are positive now.
And yes, after that question me too lost all interest to read the rest of the heated discussion that followed….
@Dave is a woman.
Don't play innocent after the fact. You knew exactly what kind of response you would get.
Great! You seem to know better what I know as I do! 🙂
Another one with a crystal ball…. *shrug*
You guys post so much unnecessary crap. Like why does it matter? And then you're all attacking each other like a bunch of Neanderthals. I thought you women were better than that. I used to like reading your posts for some insight, but now it's sickening. Totally "beat them while they're down." How am I supposed to learn without the run guidance?
are you telling to these persons how they should act? who are you? if you don't like how people ARGUE, arguments that you, brainless, obviously don't understand, you're free to leave the blog
"Neanderthals" because someone argued something? Really? You're very smart!
I think i will cry due all the non dramatic post of you, smart person!
madison i could hurt your feelings so bad girl but i won't do that because i just don't want. and the last whom decides here who is required or not, it's me, if you don't like you can get out, too, bye!
hahahaha sure. i'm very busy now, actually, that's why i don't care what you're saying. bye!!!!
The moral of the story is, never argue with a sugar baby monkey.
Stop putting her on the pedestal. For all you know up to this point, she could be a pre-op tranny down there. LOL. With all due respect to real trannies, that's probably not what you Dave want. Don't have your hopes too high up either. Exceptionally pretty girls tend to have exceptionally shitty personality; otherwise, someone else would have scooped her up already.
Do make more effort protecting yourself, physically (STD risk), emotionally (don't wear it on your sleeves), and financially. Throwing money at her before she puts out doesn't make her put out for you but only perversely bid up your own price of entry. After she puts out, then not only keep your words but also shower her with extras if/when you want to.
Women are hypergamous by nature. They are biologically evolved to derive pleasure from rejecting men and putting down other women (and men alike). You have to promise and deliver rewards superior to that baseline pleasure in order to keep a woman in friendly cooperation (sex or normal business). Otherwise she will be "disappointed," even if such disappointment is entirely due to her own too rapidly rising bars. Once you are 100% committed to a woman in terms of what you can do for her, you are only setting yourself for her disappointment in you. You should have learned that lesson in your first divorce. Something tells me your ex-wife divorced you, not your rotating her out in order to diversify your own genetic portfolio.
Thank you for the advice . I got a feel between her legs the other night , no joystick down there 🙂 … I got 71 unread messages in my inbox . I'll next her if I don't feel she is behaving properly . I don't know how you feel but the P4P is not that exciting anymore . Hell I don't even want a full time girlfriend , just something in between . It's hard to articulate that .
"no joystick down there" what is that? lol
Monkey poo…. Take your hand and place it between your legs . I you feel a hot dog and 2 hackey sacks then you got one for sure . (The old Dave had to come back just this time )
@taco-dave if you had to see the poo face of your taco girl, you shouldn't see a poo everywhere, don't blame me!
i think @dave should be thankful with anonymous.
Anonymous has a big heart lol
You're so sweet monkey poo .
"They are biologically evolved to derive pleasure from rejecting men and putting down other women (and men alike)."
This isn't accurate. I don't deny that I see it a lot, but it's definitely more of a learned/environmental issue.
Boys are instinctively prone to physical violence; girls are instinctively prone to emotional violence. When they grew up in the cave era, the former was for enlarging the tribe's territory, the latter was for culling the sick and unfit within the tribe so the existing territorial resources could be utilized more efficiently.
It is only through repeated conditioning with optimal outcomes that boys and girls learn to cooperate. These are learned social skills.
I understand what you base your opinions on. I just don't agree because of what I've seen irl examples.
So the story goes…one older guy took advantage of someone's young daughter, her dad and a friend had a little chat…
I have a feeling that you would not be posting a video of a woman beaten silly by other women because she stole some money from them?
I have a feeling you don't know what you are talking about. The video shows someone who through violence (rape) gets a good beating by the girls father. The video is violence begets violence. Your comment implies theft is worthy of violence in retribution. Can you see the different value system? Probably not. In essence you managed to provide the wrong answer to the wrong question on the wrong subject matter. Want to try again?
"Took advantage" = rape? I guess Webster needs to change its dictionary to satisfy brainless feminists.
How about this…
I have a feeling that you would not be posting a video of a woman beaten silly by other women because she hit one the women's child, or "took advantage" of him/her?
You didn't listen to the video. Did you? Rape is mentioned. Rape is violence. Yes?
Yes, I would post such a video as that would depict violence begets violence. Glad to see your logic has improved.
The video I posted is topical as in 2 days old. I have no recent video of the scenario you posted. If you have, you should post it if you feel it serves a purpose such as a depiction of what goes around, comes around, Karma, etc.
Your feelings are wrong. Your intuition is poor. Your analysis is poor. My intuition tells me you have the mindset of an adolescent.
I am sure that other formulations will come out soon…
– You are living in your mother's basement.
– You are bitter because someone messed up with your mind.
– You have small penis.
Why wait? Just address them now, along with the others that you chose to ignore.
@tvc . You have an extreme fear of stds . The media loves to scare the sheeple into thinking there's an epidemic . I had a navy buddy who screwed the first Filipino he saw after his first deployment . Unfortunately for him she also screwed the entire fifth fleet . He got the clap and a host of other parasites . I asked him if it hurt . He said "not as much as a migraine . "
Incredibly stupid post…
Just a joke ..
Calm down .. She keeps talking to everyone about AIDS and stds
That's because there's a modern STD epidemic, and a lot of people aren't aware of it.
Google that shit. If you don't believe the links you find, then I give up.
@TacoDave Regarding to the taco girl, all the sugar babies here in SA will tell you "i'm not a pro" though she could be the worst pro. so please dave, use your brain.
This has been my experience : half the college girls have been acting like pros, the other half just plain prostitutes . The college girls obviously do not have enough time to want to get to know me so they quickly start talking about per date pricing and the duration of the visits . The broke girls with no education and /or not much of a resume actually want to get to know me and do not even talk about money most of the
time . The girls who give free samples , well , they are obviously thinking that they will reel me in with some pussy but it has had the opposite effect now that I'm actually looking for a sb that I can have a mental as well as a physical
connection with . I'm a bit naive in many ways part of which led to me scamming . My thought process was that I will get to them before they get to me because women are malicious and evil . I guess now I'm willing to risk being conned myself in the hopes that I find someone I actually like .
"i'm willing to risk being conned myself in the hopes that i find someone i actually like"
"my thought process was that i will get to them before they get to me because women are malicious and evil"
i think your brain is disabled to learn the lesson. poor dave, his dick leads his life
"malicious and evil" emotional issues
"I'm willing to risk being conned myself in the hopes that I find someone I actually like ."
That makes perfect sense. Unfortunately, that's the position all decent people looking for a partner find themselves in.
@Charlotte -"One should add this list showing no signs of interest in he conversation or in person.
How can you expect to get into a kind of " civil relationship" with someone in whom you have no interest other than having sex or getting his money for sex.
It is annoying to meet with a pot SB or SD only to see after 30 minutes of small talk around your expectations to hear " so how much do you want to spend this afternoon with me?"
Also please and please don't confuse your date with other people from the site, it is disgusting."
So SD's do that too then? Some SB's are just so terrible at this, one word/line responses, taking a week or months to respond, asking about money before even chatting or meeting.
I also hate the ones who try and appear different to what or who they really are, fake ages, fake or dated photos, then you meet and you find that the 24 y.o looks older than myself!
The Deal Breakers are much the same for both genders, I don't know why SA again felt the need to cater this topic to SB's again.
Just gave another poor bastard access to my photos.
Oh, the humanity…
Stop it you cruel bitch! How many men must you destroy in one evening? LMAO
All of them. Muah ha ha ha ha ha!
Grow the fuck up Kore. We called you on your bullshit and moved on. You need to find something better to do with your time. Maybe get a job or spend more time on SA working on your profile/getting a SD instead of the blog. Obviously rotating the same bad pictures isn't working nor is continually changing your allowance category. Stop being a damn crybaby
Whenever a woman disagrees with you you try to make it into something it's not you are the only that was doing any name calling. We questioned you outrage over TVC. Not one person called you a name. But you called us several and no one retaliated. None of us has continued to bring up the subject but here you are again playing the victim.
Like I said grow up if you can't take it don't dish it out. I won't get dragged any further into your stupidity. This is the last time I'm addressing this suject you'll have to continue the conversation alone. Move the fuck on. everyone who disagrees with you doesn't have a personal vendetta against you.
I see you doing that all in black latex and spiked boots….
*too bad you can add whip sound effects to posts*
weird. as usual, jaybird923 trying to give the appearance of someone retarded "cruel bitch" yes jaybird you're not cruel, you're just one more retarded person
Does this mean I can tell people that request private photos that I'm denying them for their own good?? I'm saving them from themselves and my ulterior motives??
OMG this is so tough…..
We've learned today that it's not what you DO that matters, MissLady. It's what you THINK while you're doing it.
Kore will be along soon to tell you exactly what to think. I'm still a novice at that part.
I have dealt with it, sweetie. You've been thoroughly disposed of; you just don't realize it.
@TVC "wins" every argument/debate BEFORE it even starts. YOU have to prove how she did not "win" already.
"We've learned today that it's not what you DO that matters, MissLady. It's what you THINK while you're doing it."
The fact that you think this is a strange notion says a lot about you.
SD's need to realize the kind on women they are dealing with on this site
Well, they never will, because IRL I keep my petty thoughts to myself! Moo har har!
If @Kore13 has been thoroughly disposed of then I wonder what description would be used by @TVC15 if she actually won the argument…
You mean if I'd lost? I would have said, "Yes, you're right, Kore. I'll try to do better."
"I see how you and Jay and Misslady deal with it. With logic and grace and good attitude."
I'm surprised you're capable of recognizing logic since you use it so infrequently
Kore! It's extremely offensive and discriminatory to use the word "retarded" in the way you just did. It's an insult to mentally disabled people.
You should be ashamed. Go sit in the corner and think about what you've done.
Was that your attempt at logic? lol I don't have a problem eating lunch with girls I have a problem sitting there for an hour listening to illogical stupidity, the same issue I occasionally have with you Kore. It was alright for you to call out TVC but now you have your panties in a bunch because it was done to you. Now let it go and move on.
@Kore Well it can't be me I'm not wearing any…
@TVC @Miss Lady Are your panties in a bunch?
Nope, they're new so the elastic is still fresh.
@Jay, when you don't wear thongs, you never have to worry about panties being in a bunch….or is that feeling like a bunch…??
Ladies, please don't fight, there is nothing that can't be resolved with bikinis and mud. Remember you are SB's and we expect a certain level of classiness here, I will get the mud pit ready.
Can't we have a dance-off instead?
LMAO We've been over this before Cryptic no mud pits for Jay.
i like oil cryptic its more slippery
the ladies have been fighting dave the rapist now he's reformed they are fighting each other oh no bring back the real dave
beers are good kore if that works for you
Go with the oil wrestling…do you still have to pay for a bottle of oil to be allowed to apply it? Its been a while…
kore what ever makes you feel in the mood its all god fun ks i don't remember its been awhile but yes its better
good not god i need another coffee
Sunny days, sweeping the, clouds away….
Don't know why that tune came to mind after reading all this back and forth.
LOL for real 😀
lol Wishful thinking maybe?
As long as I get to be Oscar
@ josh. Hey man . You should take it as a compliment when a woman starts asking you about your exes. For one she knows you've been able to pull women before her , she wants to be a little jealous, she's insecure me , meaning she likes you and wants to know how she stacks up to her competition , and lastly is afraid you might run back to her . I would leverage the fact that you obviously have attracted women in your past
It is abundantly clear that you don't have much experience with women.
Women are information collection robots. Keep the Miranda warning in mind when dealing with women:
"You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say can and will be used against you" in any manner she deems appropriate to rape your mind, repeatedly, in the near and distant future.
Hard to believe Dave is 41. He sounds like a lot of the 20-something guys I talk to.
Actually it's you guys who seem to lack the experience . It's not like I care what they think
But if they think you have abundance then they work harder for your attention. I found that out to be true when I was going out with a girl who was semi interested then when We kept running into my past girlfriends that got all her all curious about my past and she was all over
me soon after . She kept asking me how I was attracting them . You talk as if every woman is peg bundy and you're unhappily married .
There is a difference between "ex's" and "other women" she might think you have current/potential access to. Maybe it is semantic to you but…
It is very difficult for most women to make independent decisions. They like to group-think and you being attractive to other attractive women helps with their group-think requirement.
Unfortunately this is true for most women.
Yes it's semantics . Some query my ex wife on Facebook and then soon after I get a text "ooh your ex wife is really pretty ." I didn't make the rules of the game I'm just telling you what I've witnessed .
LOL! @Dave, it's not wise to place too much value on how or what women think of you.
Or anybody else, for that matter
You're confused by my statement . I stated that you should use your past exes attractiveness rating and leverage for gain . It does not mean what I care about what a potential sb or girlfriend thinks .
Dave is either a woman or an extremely feminized male. The words are so twisted and chaotic like women usually talk/type.
hi @taco-dave please read my name, it's "sugar BABY monkey" you get it? obviously i'm a woman!
Your name makes no sense to me but thanks for the clarification
Just ruined another guy's life by clicking on that "share private photos" button.
Mwah ha ha ha ha!
Very, very, sad.
Dick pics and wannabe porn pics don't belong on SA . I wonder why a guy thinks the look of his ding ding could turn a woman on
don't forget ass shots, lot of guys do those too
I can appreciate a good dick pic or ass shot, but that doesn't mean I want to meet the type of guy who would send one.
That's some quality trolling, FB. I am in awe.
Oops, sorry. That was meant for the ridiculous argument below.
sugar baby monkey wants to know how old is dave
41, he says.
and why he's a dating a mexican? He likes the taco odor?
Maybe because he likes HER?
Please don't be racist, SBM. You're pretty funny when you're not being racist.
But i wasn't racist, the taco smell is part of mexicans, they use to eat those things. i didn't insult to any mexican.
Give it a rest. It's racist and you know it. It's not funny and worse, it's intellectually lazy. You can do better, I know, I've seen it.
The Mexican vaginas taste like heaven my friend . You should try it . The mestizas are my favorite; slightly brown skin beautiful eyes , especially the thin ones . They are also very sexual and aim to please .
Yes Elaine thank you! I do want to like this girl . I don't want p4p . She stated that on her profile and I explicitly told her that I am not looking for a slut or prostitute . I want a connection where I enjoy her company and I provide economic incentives .
Ok ….
By any case someone heard something on the news about a 41 yo US male who's got struck by lightning these days?
From "an ugly hag prostituting herself and an old whore having to suck dicks" to "Thank you Elaine"….. in 3 days!
Amazing…..But hey! Maybe wonders DO happen! 😉
One should add this list showing no signs of interest in he conversation or in person.
How can you expect to get into a kind of " civil relationship" with someone in whom you have no interest other than having sex or getting his money for sex.
It is annoying to meet with a pot SB or SD only to see after 30 minutes of small talk around your expectations to hear " so how much do you want to spend this afternoon with me?"
Also please and please don't confuse your date with other people from the site, it is disgusting.
I generally give access, because I like irritating the ones who are hoping I've got nudes.
Actually, I've gotten a few complaints. 🙂
Kore, you are the queen of non sequiturs.
Kore, you are the queen of non sequiturs.
Come on, Kore. If a guy requests access to my private pics without saying a word to me, and I give him access because I like the idea of annoying him with my lack of nudes, that hardly makes me a nasty bitch.
And the only person I call "fatty" around here is the fat guy who's constantly telling women to lose weight. You could actually look at that as a favour I'm doing, since he's begging for it so hard.
In both cases, I'm giving the guy exactly what he asked for. How is that so wrong?
Then I've given them what they asked for and haven't done them any harm, so what's the problem?
OK, I admit it's petty, but it's totally harmless. I'm under no obligation to have nude photos, and if that was his only motivation for asking, that's his problem.
Besides, the guy's on the Internet in the first place. If he wants to look at nudes that badly, I've only delayed him by a few seconds.
Treated like what? Doing something like what? Am I missing something here?
All I'm doing is giving them access to my photos as requested, while harboring a secret little petty thought in my head that they know nothing about. The only thing they see on their end is a message that says, "I've just given you access to my private photos, go to my profile to view them." How is that bitchy, and how does it have a negative effect on them unless they're psychic?
This is like having an argument in an alternate universe.
@TVC15 is a mentally troubled woman who gets enjoyment out of tormenting mentally troubled men (whom she classifies as being losers).
She is the female equivalent of @Dave.
Hah! I was actually thinking, "Does this make me the female Dave or something?"
So I'm tormenting men by giving them access to my pictures while secretly having a bad attitude. OK! I confess, I am a thought criminal.
@Kore You're laying it on a little too thick . We get it you're for the ethical and humane treatment of man, but no ones buying this bullshit outrage. This is just a bunch of grandstanding. Step off your soap box…
Notice the quote "because I like irritating the ones who are hoping I've got nudes" and yet she claims she does not want to hurt anyone a few posts later after you call her out.
She is incapable of compassion for these "loser" men. Her bad attitude is clear throughout her other posts as well. Like I said before @TVC15 and @Dave are the same personality.
I am sure @TVC15 will be outraged at me saying this. She cannot comprehend how horrible a person she is.
No, I'm beginning to understand. It's terribly wrong not to have exclusively kind and generous thoughts about the man whose request you're fulfilling when you click that "Share Photos" button. Secret female pettiness like mine is the direct cause of male bad behaviour, because men are so smart and perceptive they can tell the automatic message has a bad attitude behind it.
Like Dave, I've had a change of heart and will be mending my ways. Er – how exactly do I do that? Is it enough to think happy thoughts when I share my photos, or do I now have an obligation to put up a bunch of nudes and share them to make up for my misdeeds?
@Jay and @TVC15 are the type of women who get off on hurting men. Even worse is the fact (as you pointed out) that these are men who suffer in social situations. These women will use words/phases like "loser" or "basement dweller" to justify their abusive nature towards these men. Of course they are outraged when someone calls a woman a bitch.
These women have no empathy for those they deem beneath them. They are the female equivalent of @Daves on the blog.
Don't let them bully you (which is what they try to do to everyone on the blog). Your opinion is as valid as theirs is.
No, it's even MORE valid. Because it's based exclusively on feelings, it doesn't have to make sense.
"because I like irritating the ones who are hoping I've got nudes"
You have made your position on the blog very clear. Your goal is to cause grief to these men in any way you can. I can only imagine the joy you get in tormenting these "sub standard" SD's in person.
You are a zelot who sees nothing wrong causing pain to the who do not think like yourself of match your ideals. You are no different in any way to @FunDude or @Dave or any of the "evil" SD's on the blog (or SA for that matter). As much as it pains you to read it you need to know you have no moral high ground here.
@Fake Fatty
Yeah that's what I do I wake up everyone morning thinking of the many ways to hurt men. I even have a tumblr page called "The secret joy of granting men access to private pics that aren't nudes"
If we're going to talk about things that hurt men… TVC gives them the access that they request so she's obedient but Kore admitted below that when men who ask for access to her pictures with out talking to her first she disobeys them and don't do what they ask for. Instead for her own amusement she sends them a counter request for theirs.
Think of the damage that does to them. She emasculate them after interacting with her they'll never be the same again.
Pffffffff, what a lot to do about nothing….
"Because it's based exclusively on feelings, it doesn't have to make sense."
I know I am not as clever as you but what @Kore13 said made sense to me as well.
*edit when men ask for access to her pictures with out talking to her first
@Elaine agreed
Even @TVC15's thought process regarding allowing a trivial thing like granting access to pictures is not immune to thoughts of how to hurt these men. This desire probably colors every though she has.
Of course you cannot see it because you are no better than @TVC15 is when dealing with "genetically inferiour" males.
No need, Kore, my reading comprehension's top notch. Good enough, in fact, that I notice you've never answered my question as to how exactly my action causes harm. But don't bother, because as you well know, it doesn't.
Intent to commit harm is not excusable even if the actions you take do not create the desired effect.
@Fake Fatty She might very well be a misandrist but Kore false outrage had nothing to do with her post. It was simply done so the male bloggers (Josh in particular) Can comment on how much of a non man hater she is and TVC is everyone's favorite target right.
How is what at Kore doing any different? Why is it wrong to secretly enjoy the fact that men who had no interest in you beyond getting a glimpse of nude pics are denied that pleasure?
And why is it not wrong or rude to enjoy denying the same men access to your pictures and then turn around and request access to theirs out of spite when you know you're not interested in them?
I could care less what either Kore or TVC does. What annoyed me was the hypocrisy and blatant insincere outrage behind Kore's attack of TVC.
oh please, Kore. Read your own words:
"What makes you think they deserve to be treated like this?… they've been treated like this probably repeatedly throughout their whole lives and this attitude won't make things better.
What makes you think that doing something like that will make a man feel, "Oh, I should be nicer because they're all being bitches." As opposed to, "Oh, I feel embarrassed now because she's someone I've respect for?"
Now. Explain to me how my SECRET THOUGHTS have such an impact on random anonymous men who never exchange so much as a message with me.
"It was simply done so the male bloggers (Josh in particular) Can comment on how much of a non man hater she is"
Sounds about right!
FB: that's some quality trolling.
"It was simply done so the male bloggers (Josh in particular) Can comment on how much of a non man hater she is and TVC is everyone's favorite target right."
Have you learned to read minds in the last few days?
Yeah. She learned it from the guys I've shared my pictures with.
@TVC don't forget Kore too since she somehow knows the irreparable harm you've done to those guys and how they must feel getting access to pictures that they requested.
Oh, right! When I think of the psychic damage I'm doing by clicking that share button while thinking the wrong thoughts, I don't know how I live with myself. Thanks for smartening me up, Kore!
That's not enough TVC go don your hair shirt and show proper contrition
Oh man, it's way worse than a hair shirt. Look above, she's gonna make me sign up on Facebook! Now THAT'S punishment.
Oh well. I'll get by.
Porn is free and plenty . I'd rather not see everything on a woman I will meet from this site and have the mystery of unwrapping what's underneath.
I agree, when women show me nude pics, especially without my consent it just removes that element of discovery for me and also if they are showing me they are showing everyone else so it is becomes worthless.
@Elaine – I hate it when I get the photo requests without a message or chatting first, I never respond. To me it comes off as lazy and rude. If you already have public photos up then the guys requesting private access are just hoping you might have nude ones but they don't care enough to actually talk to you first!
Admittedly depending on my mood I have sometimes just requested access to private pics without chatting first, and it is usually because I don't like the woman anyway but just want to see how much sluttier her private pics are.
I have also had women initiate contact with me by giving me access to their private photos. Again I see it as lazy and they usually end up being scammers when I do respond.
Are those requests from well-established members? It sounds like a rookie mistake from somebody who signed up yesterday.
@AA @Cryptic
Well, not sure, often I don't even visit their profiles, so I don't know if they are newbies.
As my profile pic is completely unrecognizable, they are probably just curious.
Don't think they expect nudes or slutty pics. Haha LOL
And indeed, some send their pics unrequested and without message, don't know what are they are thinking!?
Anyway, I think it is just ill mannered and I was asking myself if people do answer on them.
"And indeed, some send their pics unrequested and without message, don't know what are they are thinking!?"
They're not.
Question for those who do that;
What kind of reaction do you get when sending a photo request without a message?
Are there actually people who DO answer or give permission?
I was wondering because lately I seem to receive them more often.
Personally I don't even bother answering, but I was guessing others probably do.
Otherwise people wouldn't continue doing it, would they?
I reply if a girl looks cute, but do not give her access until we communicate more.
I never ask for private pictures at all unless her public ones are low resolution, face blurred, no full-body shots etc. If what is public gives me a good idea how she looks like, they are fine for me to proceed with a date.
Ok back to work.
Local SBs
Are normally a better deal, unless one travels often. They want to meet often as they get allowance. So they do not mind each date being relatively "budget" as soon as 1) they like you and 2) you meet them often enough.
So once they feel u r not disappearing anywhere, you have someone eager to meet and not break your bank… If a girl is long-distance, you cannot normally meet her often. So you have fewer dates and they (normally) will cost more.
Personal ads from the 1880s: {http://pictorial.jezebel.com/tinders-new-but-the-freakout-isnt-looking-for-love-in-1747193143}
No idiotic strong, independent women there…
Notice how all the women were unattractive in some way or another though, all the men too really.
It's truly amazing how you know that without seeing a picture of any one of them.
Read their descriptions of themselves. Are you not able to see words such as: "stout", "homely", or "pudgy"?
Are you having selective blindness?
sigh… it's all uphill today.
OK. You said ALL the men and ALL the women were unattractive.
"A gentleman, age 30, height 5 foot 8" (which wasn't considered short back then)
"am 17, and considered fairly pretty"
"rather pretty, plump and interesting" (plump was actually a COMPLIMENT for a woman back then)
"Am tall, dark, age 27"
So, how do you know those people were unattractive?
To be fair, I reread through all of them. All ads except one denote a level of unattractiveness. Could I break that up for you? Yes, I could. Will I? No, I will not. I know you can read. Try rereading the ads again, and you will likely see that each ad (except one) contains an element of unattractiveness about its author.
I did. They don't. I already broke it down for you.
I'm sorry you have trouble with reading comprehension but have a great night.
Unattractive feminist complaining how she feels "inadequate" considering the VS models.
Men like HOT women. Deal with it!
Getting tired of feminist whining.
Well, we're way past tired of YOUR whining.
I like that WE are tired, lovely pluralis majestatis. I bet in your profile you are a princess or a queen. 🙂
"We" being "the feminists", AA. Sorry if that wasn't clear.
I watched the VS Fashion Show and was disappointed. The beauty and quality has gone down compared to yesteryears. The hottest woman in the show was Taylor Swift.
The blonde women were the hottie.
Ellie something or other.
@TVC15, I find you more annoying but I am positive that you are not going to stop posting your nonsense.
These are "spinner" chicks men like to fuck…deal with it…or stop feeding your face two pound cake at a time.
Nooooooo, you're kidding!
You tired of feminist whining !?
Why haven't you told us ?
If a woman is unattractive in a physical sense, there are things she can do to increase her potential. It's a shame that most women can't understand this.
Really? Do such things as cosmetics exist that we can use to improve our facial appearance? Are there hairstylists who can make our hair look good? Are there shops where we can buy attractive clothing? Is there any way we can improve our physical fitness and thus the attractiveness of our bodies? Is there anyone who can give us advice us about how to do these things?
Thanks for the info, Anon. Women would never have imagined it was possible to spend money, time and effort on improving their appearance, if you hadn't come along to let us know.
Guess thats good for men who make a good living.
They will be in MORE demand.
Ergo, SBs will be a dime a dozen compared to SDs.
Kinda sucks for the old post wall women huh?
Certainly does, if they can't pick and choose.
Also sucks for the men. But then, American turkeys seem to love voting for Christmas.
I thought it was already dead. I have to admit that I like the polarization that's being created in America. Now we just need to sterilize the lower class and life should get even better.
I know I'm dreaming but hey we're all entitled to.
Yes, you keep dreaming about forced sterilization, while the rest of America dreams of guillotines.
Guillotines are also a good idea. I was trying to be "humane".
"Conmunication is female 'weapon' to talk idle, incoherent, illogical nonsense with impunity." the GURU.
Make "rules" and lay them out upfront, such as, you don't talk about ex's during the get to know phase and/or more preferably NEVER.
The reason you are with these SBs is that you want to get away from problem women and even their vibes in your life.
A big turn off is men who ask for nude pics and dirty talks..
@[email protected] dude . I'm with the Mexican in overspent on right now lol .. So far I'm trying to get in her pants but all she wants to do is hold hands … Lol .. I hate being an honest SD too time consuming and work .
"The more you spend on the platonic part of the courtship the more the non-platonic