حدثنا عبيد الله بن معاذ، حدثنا أبي، حدثنا شعبة، عن محارب، عن جابر بن، عبد الله قال تزوجت امرأة فقال لي رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ هل تزوجت ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قلت نعم ‏.‏ قال ‏"‏ أبكرا أم ثيبا ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قلت ثيبا ‏.‏ قال ‏"‏ فأين أنت من العذارى ولعابها ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قال شعبة فذكرته لعمرو بن دينار فقال قد سمعته من جابر وإنما قال ‏"‏ فهلا جارية تلاعبها وتلاعبك ‏"‏
 Jabir b. 'Abdullah (Allah be pleased with them) reported:                      I married a woman, whereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said to me: Have you married? I said: Yes. He said: Is it a virgin or a previously married one (widow or divorced)? I said: With a previously married one, whereupon he said: Where had you been (away) from the amusements of virgins? Shu'ba said: I made a mention of it to 'Amr b. Dinar and he said: I too heard from Jabir making mention of that (that Allah's Apostle) said: Why didn't you marry a girl, so that you might sport with her and she might sport with you?