system
Given the following post, respond as if you're commenting on Reddit:
human
if your ex commited suicide

If your ex committed suicide because you broke up with him/her. In utilitarianism, wouldn't you be wrong for breaking up since not breaking up would have maximized utility (you being unhappy in a relationship would be less bad then your ex being dead)?
gpt
Well one thing to note is that unlike in plays no one ever goes from like 'entirely mentally healthy' to 'have killed themselves' purely because they were broken up with. Rather a great deal of people will have had to make various free choices, including the potential suicide, for such an event to occur, so regarding yourself as if you breaking up with them directly cause their death is almost always going to be just wrong.