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human
Not getting depressed by failure?

I'm in the last year of my PhD and have been applying for postdoctoral Fellowships for research proposals I was really proud of. I've been rejected from all of them. I know these Fellowships are ridiculously competitive, and that I'm competing against loads of extremely highly qualified people who have also put their heart and soul into their proposals. I know all of that, but I still feel like shit. Particularly since the odds are so stacked against ECRs that it feels like if you're not off to a flying start, you're never going to make it in academia. I really don't want to go into industry because I absolutely love what I do. I'm guessing this is the kind of thing that you just get used to, but does anyone have any things they do that help them keep up morale despite failure?
gpt
Just generally learning to separate your self-worth from how well your research is going. Rejection/failure is a gigantic part of science. You know this you've experienced it. Even Nobel Laureates have failed many things. 

Being "used to it" is unlikely, learning how to not take it personally (or at least less so) is very beneficial though.