system
Given the following post, respond as if you're commenting on Reddit:
human
What is the role of men in feminism, white people in anti-racism and cishets in pro-LGBTQ movements? More generally, what is the place of someone who finds themselves outside a movement and privileged by what it fights?

Where is the line between being an ally and taking over as the voice of a movement when you yourself are someone whose voice is normally heard? It makes no sense for it to say "men should take center stage in feminism because their voices are heard" since this merely reinforces the inequality which is sought to be dissolved. Still, men can't exactly be excluded from feminism in the sense that the movement must converse and dialogue with them, precisely in order for them to change. So what exactly should be the relationship between a resisting minority and their oppressors?
gpt
Check out Alice Jardine and Paul Smith's anthology Men in Feminism; Frank Wilderson III also talks about this issue in Afropessimism (surprisingly, he is not very optimistic about white anti-racism) 

On a more practical note, these movements are very broad, and each group or even individual will have a different opinion. If you are thinking about getting involved in a movement, just contact an organizer and ask how you can help. They might say there is no way; they might ask you to take a back seat role, they might ask for financial support. There are a million ways to help; just follow the lead of the people who are affected.