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Given the following post, respond as if you're commenting on Reddit:
human
I see plenty of posts about people always trying to paint themselves as a victim, but what is it called when someone is always trying to paint YOU as a victim?

This got deleted on first attempt so I guess I won't add any accompanying detail, see if it doesn't get flagged, then clarify my question in the comments if needed.

EDIT: Seems okay, so to add detail: I have a friend who will never miss an opportunity to pity me, even when there's really no cause. In reality I'm perfectly fine and doing quite well, but she will invent things to feel sorry for me for, or twist what I'm saying/ focus on minute details/anything that can give her a chance to "support" me or "unpack" what it is I'm feeling here. Overall a lot of armchair psychology. It feels like it's maybe a way to elevate her status above mine or lead me to doubt my happiness, and I've tried to find out if this is common or if there's a term for this kind of behaviour, but all I come across is information about people who play the victim themselves, not who
paint it onto others. So yes, my question is does this
behaviour have a name or something I could search to
find out more?
gpt
They might have an inflated opinion on their abilities to psychoanalyze you. 

Sometimes this occurs in armchair psychology.   Or intro students.

It's because the concepts you learn at this level are very simplified and many seem intuitive. 
It makes people believe they understand human psyche at a level that they don't. They tend to diagnose everyone.