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CMV: girls flirting with guys just to get drinks (with no genuine romantic interest in the dudes) is manipulative and shouldn't be glorified as "finessing"

No one's making these dudes buy her a drink. Totally agree on that, if he chooses to buy her a drink then he made that choice himself. But if a girl's deliberately trying to get free drinks like this, that's just being a bad person imo. I don't see how [some] girls can celebrate stuff like this as "finessing" or anything like that. Leading people on- no matter what the genders or orientation is- is not cool. Even if you just ask a guy to buy you a drink without being overly or noticeably flirty, imo you can't blame him for being annoyed when you just leave after he gets you a drink. It's reasonable for a guy to interpret a request to buy her a drink as a show of interest. Now to be clear, just because he buys her a drink doesn't mean she owes him anything. She's not obligated to do anything just because he said yes and bought her a drink. He made that choice himself. But it's still a crappy and manipulative thing to do if girls intentionally try to get free drinks from guys if they're not genuinely interested in them. 

Change my view- is it ok (or not manipulative/leading on) when girls try to get free drinks like this? All comments and perspectives are welcome and encouraged.
gpt
Clarifying question: do you think it's actually common that girls flirt with guys while asking for a drink, and then simply leave without even any conversation (minimal though it might be) once the drink arrives?

Parallel clarifying question: Do you have any opinions about guys that buy a girl a drink without any expression of interest or request?