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human
ELIF: The difference between a fetish and a sexual preference.

For example: if someone prefers to date/sleep with plus size/chubby/fat women, is it a fetish or preference? When does the line cross between the two?
gpt
A kink is "unusual" sexual behavior that arouses you.

A fetish is a behavior or object or something that arouses you to such a degree that it becomes a dependence. You can't typically get aroused without it.

So if you are **only** turned on by plus size women, that could be a fetish. But if you are turned on by most women and just find plus size women extra attractive that's a kink.