system
Given the following post, respond as if you're commenting on Reddit:
human
ELI5: Why is it more acceptable to reject someone because of their height than it is to reject because of weight?

I see this happen a lot. Friends of both genders may meet someone lovely and bond well, but they decline a relationship because the other person is too tall/small for them. And the general response is "Oh, better luck next time. You'll find someone else."

Yet if they meet someone and decline a relationship because the person was too fat/thin, they get told "Wow, that's really rude. He/she has a great personality you shallow bigot."

Why is it that rejecting something that actually can be changed about a person, ie their weight, is considered a worse thing to do than rejecting someone over something they have no control of?
gpt
Because one is just the way you were born. The other would imply a lack of responsibility.  In today's society, we hate being held accountable for our actions,  and insted feel that you should just accept our bad decisions insted of making us feel bad for our poor choices.