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human
I think that withholding sex while remaining in an exclusive committed relationship is as serious as a transgression as cheating is. CMV.

First let me define what is and what isnt withholding sex is, for the purposes of this discussion.

withholding sex is where partner A decides unilaterally/indefinitely without consent from partner B, that they (both partners) will not have sex, but at the same time expects partner B not to pursue or have sex with anyone else. 

Withholding sex is not, refusing to have sex if partner A is sick (physically or mentally) or has had a surgery and cannot have sex per doctor orders, or has a diminished desire and is trying to correct this issue.

I am of the opinion that willfully withholding sex from an exclusive partner in a committed relationship is or can be equal in terms of harm caused by cheating on a partner in a committed relationship.

I am not stating that withholding justifies cheating, nor that cheating justifies withholding because you still have the option to leave the relationship without causing further emotional damage either way.

 Now, Change My View.

also, my 1st time posting here, how do i do the delta award thing?
gpt
If the problem is that you don't get enough sex to your liking, then break up. End of story. Nobody owes a person sex just because they're in a relationship. Some people don't want or need much sex, if any at all. If your quota isn't being met, leave. Discussion over.