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CMV: Saying you don’t date cis-het white men on a dating app is inconsistent with the idea that a person should not be judged by their race/gender/sexual orientation.

I’m on tinder and frequently see some variation of this, basically swipe left if you’re a straight white cis-gendered man. 

Now, I think people should date who they want, and if certain races/genders/birth-sexes/orientations don’t appeal to them, they are under no obligation to consider those people. However, I do think this is in conflict with the idea that people not be judged by their race/gender/sexual orientation, and for someone to not acknowledge that is being ideologically inconsistent. 

As for the caveats, I don’t think there is anything wrong or unnatural about being ideologically inconsistent: humans are complex creatures and many different considerations go into different decisions and opinions, and  some rules demand exceptions.

Also, I’m not saying not dating someone because they are a straight white man is the same as not dating someone who is black, non-binary, and identifies as queer. There are obviously societal power dynamics involved that make these different propositions. What I am saying, though, is that both of these things are judging someone based on sexuality/gender/race, and to not acknowledge that is inconsistent.

Lastly, I’m not saying the people who say these things on Tinder even believe that what they are saying is not discrimination, so my CMV may in fact be a strawman (though anecdotally I know people who hold these contradictory views exist from discussions with friends/acquaintances,) but I am not interested in that. Strawman or no, I just want to see if my view can be changed that not dating someone because they are a cis-het white man is in conflict with the idea of not discriminating against someone based on their birth-sex/gender/racesexual orientation.
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You seem to confusing the idea of naturally not being attracted to a specific group of people with straight up wanting nothing to do with them because of agendas.

It’s like saying that any man who writes “don’t message me if you’re a woman” is discriminating women. What if they’re saying that because they’re gay? In that case, it makes sense that they would write that.

Basically, some of these people may actually be judge mental towards straight white cis men while others actually aren’t attracted to them.

Don’t know why that’s a huge problem though.