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Given the following post, respond as if you're commenting on Reddit:
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I think the sex-positive movement is incredibly naive and ignorant of basic human drives/behavior. CMV.

To be clear, I mean the extreme end of sex-positivism (do whatever the hell you want! Nobody should judge you for anything regarding your body!)

Reddit is the place where I see this kind of social movement the most (sometimes in real life too).

- If I'm uncomfortable with the idea of dating a woman who's had 20+ partners and loves casual no-strings-attached sex, then I'm an evil misogynistic slut-shamer.

- If I have a son/daughter who wants to be sexually active at 14, my role is to provide contraception and teach them to how avoid STDs. And that's it. If I warn them that having sex so young is a bad idea and that people tend to get emotionally attached and hurt, I'm an evil misogynistic slut-shamer.

- If I see 7-year-olds walking around with short shorts and thongs and shirts that expose their stomachs, I'm supposed to applaud them for being strong sexually liberated girls who took a stand against the patriarchy.

- If I'm uncomfortable with having a relationship with a transsexual person, I'm an oppressive conservative who doesn't realize that gender is just a social construct and that gender roles are bullshit anyway. [**EDIT: I see now that this point is irrelevant to the main subject.**]

These are just some examples of the views that so many sex-positive social justice types seem to hold. It's astounding. They pretend every individual is a perfectly rational being who knows how to take care of his/her body, and any attempt by society to guide behavior is immediately branded as *the evil slut-shaming patriarchy*. I don't want to live in an atomic individualistic hands-off community like that. I want my friends and family to tell me if they think I'm engaging in sexual practices that may end up hurting me emotionally or physically.

Speaking of which, a lot of sex-positive people seem to pretend that disconnecting sex from emotions is as easy as flipping a switch. This has not been the case with 99% of people I know in real life, so I'm comfortable saying that sex-positives live in a bubble world of their own that's far removed from reality. If I see a friend who sleeps with a lot of people because of validation and insecurity issues, I'm not going to say "You go girl! Just make sure they wear condoms!" Of course I'm going to sit her down and give her my advice - that this kind of sex can be psychologically damaging. A lot of social liberals would hate me for saying that.

Change my view.
gpt
What you have to understand is that, for a long time, girls have been held to a purity standard that guys just aren't. If a guy has lots of random sex, it's just a quirk of theirs; certain moralistic types might not *approve* of this quirk, but it's not a huge deal. If a girl has lots of random sex, she isn't *pure*, and this lack of purity means she's worth less.

So when you tell a girl or woman that they shouldn't be open sexually, it's not just you saying that. You're taking all the people who have ever called her a dirty slut, and telling her that they have a point. This doesn't mean that there's no such thing as sex that ought not to be had, but you have to be very careful about how you criticize it.

This has nothing to do with dating transsexual people, of course. Transsexuality and promiscuity are unrelated. That's just you being randomly shitty.