system
Given the following post, respond as if you're commenting on Reddit:
human
ELI5: How come stuff like "Incels" or "Red pill" is mostly a male thing?

I feel like usually when women are rejected and lonely, they blame themselves and internalize it.
gpt
The reasoning behind the Red Pill and the like is complex, and perhaps overly simplified for consumption. One of the main drivers is 'abundance theory', which stipulates that women choose and men compete (which is true in most mammals anyway, humans are not that different). However, humans are able to *think* about this dynamic, and so you get phenomena like the Red Pill which talks about the men who lose the constant competitions, or win.