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CMV: Many "cis" people don't actually have an "internal sense of being a man or woman"

Many people have traits, but do not identify with them. I'm right-handed, but I don't have an "internal sense of being right-handed." I have a driver's license, but I don't have an "internal sense of having a driver's license."

I understand arguments about gender being invisible to privileged people. It does make sense that a straight, white man might not "feel" like any of those things, because society doesn't force him to think about what it means to go through society with those traits in the same way as non-straight, non-white or non-male people might have to.

However, even accepting that, I think there is a portion of the population, who genuinely wouldn't see themselves as "man" or "woman" even with introspection, but who aren't really "non-binary." If asked, these people would identify as their birth gender, and use the pronouns appropriate to that gender, but if they woke up as the opposite gender it might surprise them (in the same way that waking up with different colored eyes and hair might surprise someone), but it wouldn't cause them dysphoria. Or if they woke up, and society started using the opposite set of pronouns for them, they'd be confused but they'd roll with it. (The same way that some people might be deeply hurt if you got their name consistently wrong, but there might be a guy named "Mark" who doesn't care that his coworker has called him "Mike" for the last three years. To him, "Mike" started off a confusing mistake and then he just rolled with it for three years - it effectively became a nickname that he's okay with.)

Another way of stating my argument is that I think there are a lot of people who might have a gender role (since they were raised a certain way), but who don't have a gender (and who aren't, or wouldn't identify as "agender" or "non-binary.") They just become "cis" because they don't see the need to do anything with their (non-existent?) gender, even upon reflection.
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How many people do you think have no "internal sense of being a man/woman" and would be okay with being identified as the opposite set of pronouns?

I seem to know far more men who would be upset you called them 'she' than men would be okay with that.