system
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human
[Star Trek]Why isn't Naomi Wildman socially awkward around other children? 99.9% of the time she never gets to interact with anyone her age

when she didn't want to play with the  Vaadwaur children (because they kept saying racist stuff about Talaxians) Neelix's first reaction was to say "that's not like you".

.....These are some of the only other kids she's ever gotten to play with, but it's weird she'd be socially awkward around them?
gpt
I'll assume that Star Fleet has special holoprograms for children in that situation, ie living on a ship/star base with very few other kids.  Think Sesame Street with 3 centuries of improvments.

Also, see'The Diamond Age' by Neil Stephenson.