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CMV: the ‘honeymoon phase’ is bs.

I think people say this so they don’t feel as bad that they aren’t as happy in their relationship as they were in the first few years/months. As long as both people in the relationship put in effort and energy, the so called honeymoon phase doesn’t have to ever end. 

Stop using this phase as an excuse to justify not putting in enough energy as time in the relationship goes on.

I’ve had a few people tell me about the phase and say things like the relationship will go from the honey moon phase to more ‘business’ like. 

I used to believe it was real and i mentioned it because i was very happy in the first couple months of my relationship and the person i was talking to told me it wasn’t real and how they had been in their relationship for years and they were still super happy. I know every relationship and person is different but that’s the point exactly. every relationship is different. 

change my view.
gpt
Honeymoon phase is not about happiness. It's about carefree happiness that overshadows mundane and/or problematic things. Cause freshness of relationship will overshadow them. When honeymoon phase ends, those things will show themselves - and that does not mean that there will be no happiness, because happiness is a thing that should absolutely be there. It just won't be as carefree as one in the beginning.