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I think talking about a rape victim's circumstances is productive for examining how to lower the risk of rape. CMV.

Let me preface this by saying that rape is horrible. I do not condone rape, there is no justification for rape, "she was asking for it" is not an excuse, and rapists are the worst of the worst. I am 100% anti-rape and anti-rapist. 

BUT. I think as with any risk, there are certain factors that can increase or decrease the odds of something bad happening. I believe that if, say, a girl gets raped at a high school party, it's not some kind of evil taboo to look at what she was doing for the purposes of learning how to decrease the risk of being raped. For example, was she blackout drunk? I don't believe that asking this so I can point to this poor girl and tell the girls I teach "going to a party and getting blackout drunk will increase your risk of being rape" is such a horrible thing. 

I know about the whole "instead of teaching girls to avoid being raped, we should teach boys not to rape" argument, and I believe it. But until I can teach every male on earth not to touch my hypothetical future daughter(s), I'd like to look at what factors contributed to a rape so my future daughter(s) can try to avoid them. 

I don't know, it seems like a lot of people think I'm a horrible person for this opinion and I'd like to hear the counter-argument. Please CMV.
gpt
We've already established "big data" understandings of what leads up to rape. It's not normally being blackout drunk.

There are a baseline set of things that you should teach your kids. But the advice that would lower their risk of being victimized works for way more than just rape. Raise you kids to be smart, but in general. The stuff that can put you at risk for rape also puts you at risk for theft, extortion, and similar crimes. To make it just about rape is the wrong message, because it can put them at risk for other crimes if the thing they are worried about is just a threatening penis.