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cmv: Calling a non-binary person they or them is absurd.

I have no problem with being whatever. But to me it starts getting annoying when they want to be called they or them, that’s what i call the queen or any royalty for that matter. I wouldn’t have a problem calling them “it”, but they obviously wouldn’t tolerate it because it sounds demeaning. Yes you might not feel one or the other but that can be your own problems, i shouldn’t have to change how i adress people in order to fit your world. 

It occured to me when i was at a get together and a non-binary person was there(I didn’t know what it was then), so i said oh good for her, and my friend said no, call her them/they. I was taken aback but still tried and every time it felt so wrong, like she was put on some pedastoæ, so i just started saying her instead. She pulled me aside a said i should call her they/them, so i said call me your majesty, and she said no, because “you’re just a guy”. So i said same goes for you, she gave me mean looks the rest of the night.

I would be cool if you could change my mind.

EDIT: I think I have come to the conclusion that I would never do it in Denmark, but it probably isn't as formal as i thought in US or UK for that matter, so i will start calling non-binary people them/they if they speak english.

EDIT 2: I am probably not clear enough, so will say it again. I will call english speaking people them/they, but i would never call a danish person they/them in danish. 

Last notes, i don't think my mind will be changed more than it has, thank you for keeping the discussion pretty civil and friendly.
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“I asked to see the manager, but they weren’t available.”

“He asked his friend for a donation, but they weren’t interested.”

“Have you seen the local farmer? They said they were coming around soon.”

We already use they/them as pronouns for singular people when the gender is unknown. It’s hardly a stretch to extend that to non-binary people.