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human
[Evangelion] Wouldn't all the kids be a lot more compliant and willing to follow orders if NERV just treated them well?
gpt
What makes you think they don't? Shinji's only the way he is because of his personal demons, everyone's pretty supportive to him until he drops the ball with his tantrum near the end. 


People are super tolerant of Asuka. Rei's the only person to stand up to her. 


Rei's never treated badly by anyone except Asuka and maybe Ritsuko. She even gets Gendo to come over for dinner with Shinji (which would've gone through if an Angel didn't attack when they were otw)


Homie who punches Shinji isn't treated badly, and NERV even "cares" enough to put him in a hospital. 


Rebirth Girl's annoying as hell but only Asuka calls her out on it.


Rebirth Shinji knows what he did. Exactly what everyone wanted him to. People are rude to him because the Rebirth series is trash/this is a different universe and their goal dropped the ball


The only time orders were disobeyed were when Asuka decides to showboat, one time which might've been under secret orders, the other which ended up crippling her. Then that time Shinji justifiably freaked out after the Dummy Plug System was activated on him. When he came back from his freak out everyone let him back onto the robot. 


The get in the robot meme is inaccurate. He only refuses to twice, and the first time he almost immediately caves. He "refuses" because he thought his Dad called him over to hang out, not pilot a gunmen who's operating system he knows nothing about. He says it almost verbatim in that same scene. Literally 2 episodes in he becomes a model grimdark Gundam operator. Asuka loves showing off, and also has no problem with her Megadeus. Rei's always down to ride her Knightmare, even to the detriment of her health.