system
Given the following post, respond as if you're commenting on Reddit:
human
ELI5: why are gay men often friends with straight women but lesbians generally do not hang out with straight men?
gpt
Many lesbians feel, right or wrong that straight men still try to hit on them whereas straight women like the fact that gay men do not try to make advances on them.  Obviously this isn't true for all men and women, men have platonic female friends all the time and women hit on gay men all the time too.