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human
CMV: Gender reveal parties don't predispose a personality onto your unborn child, and are ok when done safely.

I have heard people say that gender reveal parties (they should be called "sex" reveal parties) predispose a personality on your unborn child. I argue that parents can instead be excited to learn and share the **only** thing you can know about your unborn child (not hair color, eye color, etc) with the ones you love.

By doing this, you're not telling the world that your child, who is born with female parts, will be a straight, cis-gendered woman. 

To me, being excited about the sex of your unborn child isn't transphobic or anything like that (though I'm sure transphobic parents have gender reveal parties, but from what I'm seeing, a lot of people seem to think that gender reveal parties are just inherently bad, even when done safely.

I've also never been a parent, so I don't know how all of this feels.
gpt
I don’t understand gender reveal parties. They seem to me to be suggestive of a certain trait that considers ones own children of supreme interest to the rest of the world. 

Find out the sex of the child by all means. we did that with all of ours. If there’s information to know, let’s know it. And tell people, sure. 

But the whole hoo ha with the party and the little videos and stuff. It’s all very ‘look at me.’ And here’s the thing about your kids (addressing the world): no one else thinks they’re as special as you do. 

You know that vague disinterest you have in everyone else’s kids? That’s how the world feels about yours. 

So, the gender reveal thing always seemed like a wild over estimate of how much anyone else gives a shit about the sex of your child.