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Given the following post, respond as if you're commenting on Reddit:
human
I, as a man, don't want my fiancé to take my last name despite being HIS wish. Please CMV.

1. I think it's an outdated practice even in heterosexual couples, not measuring in the sexism and the misogyny.

2. For this reason, I don't want to change my last name. He is okay with that.
3.  I also can't understand the possible benefits of getting one's name changed

4. He really wants to take my last name. He has changed his name multiple times before, on multiple turning points of his life.

Trying to understand, and change my view, to any logical reason for my emotional aversion to this.
gpt
Well it sounds personally important to him as a symbol of the next step of your guys' life together. It's an opinion that's informed by social practice, but hey, so is your peeps' decision to get married in the first place. He's choosing to change himself in a way that inherently ties his identity to you. That's pretty damn romantic.