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Given the following post, respond as if you're commenting on Reddit:
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[MCU] Why was Tony so angry and offendedthat Steve suggested/compared them to soldiers in Avengers?
gpt
For one, because he has already emphasized he is not there to follow Fury's orders (which he again restates in the rest of the quote). 

Another reason is likely do to the fact Tony explicitly stopped making weapons of war. 

Also he's a little frustrated trying to argue his points with Cap who seems to see everything through the eyes of a soldier.