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CMV: A person should be entitled to end their life, free of judgement. For some, ending it is the only option and we have no right to interfere or be judgemental towards it.

 Okay, sensitive post ahead but please read my point-of-view and explanation entirely before shit-talking me out. I am open to discussion and I have carefully thought about this before posting---

Few months back my close school friend from committed suicide at his Air force commando training camp, which was his dream job and everything was seemingly going well for him. After that, I informed my class group and I felt quite shocked and guilty. Guilty because even though I say he was a close friend, I somehow felt that I failed to maintain good contact and it had been 3 months since our last short conversation, so maybe he needed someone to talk to. Like most cases there was a lot of uncertainty involved and I kind of cursed myself thinking that there are many instances when we take things lightly and not understand the other person even if they're quite close. This went on for 3 days and I couldn't avoid thinking about it even if I tried to.  
But amidst all this there was another thing at the back of my head that said, *it's his life and he gets to choose what to do with it. Of course it doesn't mean that if you feel someone needs a friend to talk to, you don't help but if things happen unknowingly and out of your control then why do we say stuff like, they didn't deserve to die or could've been saved ?* etc. etc.

My opinion towards suicides keep changing and there was also a point where I used to consider it a cowardly act but lately it has changed. I also don't have any fixed opinion yet, these are just some thoughts. I feel it becomes somehow a bit selfish when we lose someone close to us and how the situation turns more towards the side of thinking that "they meant so much to me and their family, why would they do this?".  
At times, we tell our close friend or even a total stranger that the decision of ending their life is not a good one, but who are we to decide that? Their life is the one thing they truly own and have control over.

**Tl;dr- Sometimes simply existing itself is a big challenge for daily life. A person can choose to end their life if they wish to do so, and we must not try to overanalyse or be judgemental towards it. At times we end up being selfish and feel the remorse because "we" think it was wrong to leave "us" in a state of sorrow.**
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To start, if a person commits suicide, than it doesn't matter what everyone else chooses to  think about them. They are dead. 

The reason why you don't want to normalize or make suicide more socially acceptable, is to keep the people who are still on the fence about it from going through it. If someone truly has their mind set on ending their life, they will do it. Instead, even if its the shame of people being upset with them, we would prefer for people to seek help instead of killing themselves.