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CMV: It is solely the rapist's fault if a woman gets raped and women should wear and act whatever they want.

A woman doesn't need to tone herself down as it is the rapist who is the decision maker who decides to rape women.

Women should not be held accountable for the rapist's actions.
They can still be held to a basic dress code in society but as long as they are meeting that dress code they should be free to dress any way they want.

A rich businessman wearing gold rings and bracelet on day to day basis in his normal life, later gets stalked and robbed of his jewels and money by a bunch of robbers. Do we blame him for provoking the poor robbers, showing off something they wanted but could not have? We don't. 

We don't blame the victims of murder, robbery and other crimes. 

If a rich man can by all means flaunt his assets because they are his to do with as he pleases, a beautiful woman shouldn't be blamed of flaunting her body with dresses of her choice.

It is utter nonsense to say that a woman was stalked and raped just because she was wearing "provocative" clothes. 

It is the rapist who should be blamed and punished and not the woman who should be tormented to prove that she was modest.
gpt
It's important to separate two distinctly different items here:

Blame & Responsibility are two separate entities that are closely intertwined in the discussion.

In your scenario of a rich man being robbed, he is 100% blameless and the blame is 100% on the robber who steals from him. *However*, he was not exercising personal responsibility because he voluntarily put himself in a situation of high-risk by brandishing his bling. 

In a similar vein, if a woman is dressed promiscuously, it is 100% the fault of anyone who chooses to sexually assault her and she is at no fault for choosing to dress the way she wants to. *However*, if she is the one that chooses to dress like that in a bad part of town or puts herself in risky situations, she is not acting responsibly either. 

Everyone is responsible for their own personal well-being and safety. It is everyone's onus to take care of themselves first and foremost, and avoid the risk or putting themselves in risk they know about.

*Should* a man be allowed to wear whatever he wants and not fear theft? *Should* a woman be secure and free to dress scantily and walk the streets at night without fear of a rapist? Yes they both *should*, but that is the hypothetical and the reality is not as pleasant as ideally. 

I think often people are unable to differentiate between blame & responsibility and that's where the controversy arises from.