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CMV: In dating dick size means absolutely nothing

Its one of the core memes of incel culture where they bully each other for having small cocks and claim that anyone with below average dicks will never get a girl friend and they are doomed to never have a partner ever. 

I wholeheartedly reject that idea in general but especially when it comes to dick size. primarily because if she is seeing your dick you've already got it in the bag mate? Assuming you're not a disgusting cretin who sends unsolicited dick pics the first time she sees your dick you will have already been on dates, kissed, formed a connection. If you have already done all of that she is quite interested in you so it would be stupid for her to even care about your dick size at this point. Even if you've got a 4 inch dick so what shes liked enough of you to be holding your dick in her hands your dick might be a negative but it won't out weigh all of the things she likes about you up to this point. 

If its a one night stand then sure maybe it would matter slightly more but so what its only a one night stand, they probably don't care about the quality of the interaction regardless. 

Even if you do have an useless micro penis that doesn't even work you can still work around it and still have a good time. 

I'm so sick and tired of dick size being used mostly by men to bully other men.
gpt
By your own admission, dick size is something men care enough about for it to be something they can use to bully each other. This means, even if it's a very minor thing (pun intended) in the grand scheme of how a sexual partner perceives the owner of the penis, it's still significant enough for the owner himself that it'll affect his confidence, thus possibly, performance as a dating partner.

The cultural phenomenon surrounding penis size makes it an issue. Some sort of *self fulfilling prophecy* if you will.