"I'm having some stuff over at my house. You should come. I don't know why. I just thought you should. There will be...I don't know. Food. Drinks. Games. Maybe some...I don't know, singing. And...I guess talking. And...uh, falling asleep. Eventually. I mean, it's a thing. It's a thing that people do. Who knows why."
"We're having a barbecue this weekend, and it would be lovely if you could join us. It 's a great way to get to know each other better."