Soul Mates and the Stages of Grief

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Sometimes a rejection from those we are interested in can lead to us entering the grief cycle. Many of my clients have been rejected by those they feel are either their soulmates or twin flames. I’ve noticed that many people go through the stages of grief when they are rejected by someone they are attracted to, interested in or in love with. The problem is I don’t think they recognize that are going through the stages, instead they’re just feeling they’re emotions and reacting to them.

The denial stage is obvious. It’s essentially when you’re in denial and you can’t believe what just happened to you. Sometimes there’s a shock stage before denial but the denial stage is very real. It prevents you from seeing what is really happening, often times our ego wall might come up and we won’t see from the other person’s perspective. Next comes anger which is usually from being in a place of the ego reacting to getting rejected and trying to make up another story (they have issues, it is their fault, something is wrong with them) as well as lashing out at whoever rejected you. This can be in varying degrees, some people may not get that angry and instead get sad (low self esteem) and some people might start thinking about revenge. Bargaining comes around when someone often thinks that this is the only one they have a chance to be with or they’re not going to find someone else that they have a strong feelings for, which is not true, we have multiple soul mates. This can be a very embarrassing, uncomfortable stage that I don’t wish on anyone. They may turn to God or psychics for extreme solutions that they may feel embarrassed about later or when they realize what they asked for or tried to do. During this stage I will often put them in their love-interest shoes. I ask them how would you like it if somebody tried to force you to love them using God or spirits if you were not initially interested? They all calm down at that point and answer that they wouldn’t like it very much. It is an eye opener.

Then I usually share with them a more realistic solution. There’s some excellent books out there such as “The Like Button” that tells you how to gradually get somebody to be more comfortable in your presence or be curious about you. A lot of times this is just being around them, being in the same room, not necessarily always talking to them. A great way to explain this is to use the example of a deer and a bunny in a prairie. When the bunny first enters the prairie the deer might get spooked and run off. Overtime the bunny continues to enter the prairie but stays at a distance, not threatening the deer. This lets the deer know that the bunny is not dangerous because over time the bunny is not actually doing anything harmful. Slowly, the bunny can get closer without spooking the deer. I highly recommend “The Like Button” as well as Dale Carnegie’s “How to Make Friends and Influence People”. Some people may get spooked when you first show that you’re interested in them but it is possible to come back in a less scary manner and over time they can become curious about you, and more comfortable around you. You may become friends or you may become something more, this may just depend on a number of variables on both sides.

If you feel like you’re going through any of these stages of grief I highly recommend that you go through a healing process where you can get to the acceptance stage. I usually call an ascended Master such as Jesus, Mary, or Buddha as well as Archangel Artiya’il while laying down on my bed and ask them to help me get to the acceptance stage with whatever I’m struggling with at that time. Wait and feel much of the healing at the bottom of your lungs to clear before returning to your day. When the soreness or feeling in your lungs dissipate the healing is done. This can help push you past the stages of bargaining, anger and depression and into a more peaceful place. When you get to this peaceful place you no longer feel this urge or anguish over wanting to change the situation at any means possible. The sadness and depression go away. Then you’re more open to other options and no longer have that heart block that prevents you from seeing them or considering them.

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Past Lives

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A past life regression provides an interesting glimpse into what roles we may have played with our other soul connections in other lives.  You can see your past lives in a few ways.  One is through meditation, and using a past life regression video/audio or a meditation that you read through a book. Another common way is through dreams.  Be sure to ask God to help you remember your dreams in the morning so you can review them or write them down.  The last way that I’ll mention is through psychic mediumship readings.  You can ask your angels, archangels, God or ascended masters (Mary, Buddha, Jesus, etc) to show you your past life or the past lives of others.  Sometimes when I connect with the best and highest self of someone else they will show us our past life together.  You may have things to heal from past lives, something to learn from or it can be shown just because it might interest you.

Some past lives of my own that I was given:

  1. Native American – I’ve seen myself as a man, looked like a hunter, and I’ve been told I was a shaman.  Someone once told me I had 3 lives as a Native American.
  2. Eygpt – I have so many dreams of living in Eygpt.  I get glimpses that I may have been a priest, certainly involved with the mystical.  Maybe even a slave in another life.
  3. Greece – I may have had multiple happy lives in Greece, once as a painter who owned a gallery.  Landscape paintings was what I was told.
  4. Psychic Medium in Italy – I was told that my clients would have to come through the back door because it was not totally an accepted practice.  Apparently I was quite good at foretelling the future.
  5. Stable man in UK during King Henry the Eighth’s and Queen Elizabeth I’s time.  Apparently lower class and in love with someone from the higher court.  Sounded like an Emily Bronte novel.  However, I received validation on my own later on and another psychic brought it up independently.
  6. Leader in a Hun/Mongolian conflict – received more than one vision of this past life
  7. Prince in the Middle East

There were others such as being African and living with a group of people under one roof, I was an Indian man and married to a woman, and being part of the French aristocracy.  The French one is very pretty as I see gorgeous ballrooms and dancing with a lady who had an mutual interest in me.  In one dream I saw that a horse brought me home while I was unconscious but I am unsure of what time frame or country that was from.  Some of the dreams can be representative or informative and some may be showing you areas to be healed.  They may explain why you see the patterns in your life that you do see and where some of your subconscious fears come from.  If you wake up from a dream and intuitively know it is a past life, or even suspect it, you can ask God to heal what can be healed from that past life in the best and highest way for you.  End with please and thank you for intention.  The healing can affect you on multiple levels including fears and vibrations.

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How to Cleanse your Crystals

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It is very important to cleanse and energize your crystals regularly.  How often you need to cleanse your crystal depends on how often it is used.  If you meditate with your crystal you’ll notice that the vibration may not be as strong as it has been over time.  If you hold your crystal in your left hand, ask it if it is cleansed and energized, and it doesn’t vibrate, it’s probably time to cleanse that crystal.  One way to cleanse and energize is to put your crystals in the sun and moonlight for 24 hours (except amethyst, only use moonlight for amethyst).  This removes any lower energy and energizes the crystal.  Another method is to put your crystals in sea salt water from 4-24 hours depending on how much you’ve used your crystal.  You have to be careful with this method because there are certain crystals that you can’t put in water or they’ll disintegrate like selenite.  If you are unsure of your new crystals preferred cleansing method, you can always google “metaphysical” and the crystal’s common name.  You can also use any number of vibrational instruments such as tuning forks, singing bowls, bells and cymbals to cleanse your crystals.  Burning sage & sweetgrass and waving the smoke over your crystals is also recommended for removing negative energy and replacing it with positive.  Enjoy your new crystals!

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How Can One Person Save the Earth?

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First, you are not alone. We are all interconnected by the group consciousness and that includes with nature. We can all do something and collectively when we make the effort we are setting an example for others and it will catch on over time. Other people will look up to you and watch the decisions you make and will want to emulate this in their lives. However, if you want to take a more holistic, metaphysical approach to this subject, I recommend a good meditation that I have tried and have been asked to pass on to each of you. how can one person save the earth,how can one person save the earth,how can one person save the earth
Get into your meditative state and imagine you are surrounded by the Creator’s white light of love and protection. Expand that bubble to surround your home. Then expand it to surround your city, until it grows to surround your state. Eventually expand your white bubble to surround mother earth with positive white light. Imagine that the Creator is sending this light from above and see it completely surrounding the earth from space. Then imagine a green light coming down from Creator, surrounding the earth. Imagine the green light healing the land and the trees, transmuting or removing any pollution. Then imagine a blue light around earth. Imagine the blue light is cleaning up all the water, healing the sea creatures and removing pollution from the water and air. Lastly, imagine a pink light coming down and surrounding the earth. Imagine the pink light surrounding each of it’s inhabitants with love energy around the world. Imagine the pink light sending love to the elementals, the spirits, rocks, trees and surrounding nature. Imagine every person on every continent happy, wars ending, and everyone embracing and smiling. Continue to imagine earth surrounded in each of these lights and leave space, reentering the atmosphere, your home and eventually come back to yourself.

Why can’t God just heal the earth herself?

We have free will. If we want to use up the resources and pollute and not clean it up, we are free to do so. Angels, elementals, and the creator is not allowed to interfere with our free will.

What does this meditation do?

It does a number of things. It sets your intention that you want the earth, its inhabitants and nature saved. It tells the universe, which has infinite abundance, what you want by visualizing the healing occurring. Also, it asks the Creator, angels, elementals and other spirits to please help us and the visualization gives the request energy.

If you have been blessed with abundance, you can also help the planet and its inhabitants by buying more organic food, choosing environmentally kind electricity (wind, solar) and using environmentally safe chemicals. This will create a demand for these items, making them more available to other people and cheaper over time. If you want to feel better in your home and neighborhood, buy house plants and plant a tree. All of these actions create love energy in and around your home and helps the environment. Another thing I do is unplug anything I’m not using, like the stereo, can opener, toaster, and other kitchen appliances. You can’t unplug everything but you’d be surprised at how much energy you’d save with very little effort. Even though you may not be using that can opener, it still may be using something called “phantom energy” just by being plugged in. Appliances still drain energy when they are plugged in even though they are not being actively used.

When each of us does what we can, we can really make a difference in our world.

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Remove Spiritual Attachments, How to Article

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There a multiple ways to do this, but for someone not trained in healing you can buy a simple pink candle from Wal Mart or Target for around a buck with the virgin Mary on the front. I usually say an Our Father and a Hail Mary plus the prayer on the back of the candle then state my intention that I want whatever attachment in me or my family member to be taken away by Archangel Michael. Then I put a teaspoon of cinnamon in the pink candle, moving it away from the wink so the candle will burn, and light the wick. I then close with an Our Father and Hail Mary. If you say other prayers to your creator/source/God whatever you believe in and just use a pink candle with no image on the front, that may work too, although I haven’t tried that yet. I received this advice from Ann Simon, a wonderful medium and healer. If you want more advice, feel free to set up an appointment with me here:

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Q: How do I clear my home of negative energy?

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I use a mixture of Sage and Sweet grass to clear my home of negative energy and entities. You can buy these online, at some psychic fairs or at metaphysical shops. It’s mostly about intention and rituals help us state our intentions. Counterclockwise undoes while clockwise puts back in. Open your windows and go around your home in a counterclockwise path with your smoking sage wand and say the following prayer:

“Archangel Michael, I ask that you remove and banish all negative energies and spirits from our home with the energy of Divine Light and Love. Bless our home with your pure white light of love and protection.”

Make sure to get white sage on the walls, corners, in the middle of the room, and in closets. Anywhere and everywhere a spirit can potentially hide, including attics if you can get to yours. Wave the wand counterclockwise around doorways and windows. Tell them in a firm voice from the gut to leave. Once you have completed your counterclockwise circle around the home, open the front door and wave the wand towards it, telling them to leave. Put the sage wand out outside your door either by putting it in water or rubbing it out.

Then go back around your home in a clockwise fashion with the sweet grass. This replaces the energy that is now vacant with positive energy. After you are done you can rub your sweet grass outside your front door and close your windows. You may also use Tibetan singing bowls to restore positive energy in our home along with the sweet grass. Good luck!

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How to See Your Aura

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One of the first things I wanted to do once I looked into metaphysics was to see my aura. I read about it in books and tried watching some YouTube videos on how to see mine. One of the first steps you must take to begin seeing anything spiritual is to pray about it, ask God to help you see clairvoyantly, so your healers and guides can help you develop your clairvoyance. Next you need to work on it regularly, practice not just makes perfect but also puts in the energy and action using Law of Attraction, essentially saying “I mean it” and I have an interest in this.

The most useful advice I was given was to hold your hand up to the wall but about a foot away from the wall. Look through or away from your hand and focus on the wall. Eventually you’ll see out of your peripheral vision a grey haze around your hand. Your aura actually has a lot of color, but this is how you’ll start to see it at first. Keep working on it, praying for it and eventually you’ll see colors. Try looking directly at your hand and unfocusing your eyes as well. I’ve been told that our peripheral vision is less damaged over time than our central vision and can see more of the light spectrum. One of the books I read said that looking in the mirror does not work in seeing your aura. That is absolutely NOT true. I’ve been able to see more of my aura in the mirror than in other ways and still see a lot in mirrors, particularly against a white wall with the lights on and in the dark.

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