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Please someone I need Help with a home for my Kids!! I have been trying so hard!! I've put in application at apartments,tried to get loans which they said I was approved but never seen the money!! I've even gotten me a job!! I Miss my babies so much and I just want them with me under 1 roof!! My vanr has stopped working every time I fix something it's never right!! I don't know what else to do!! My van is our home right now!! I have a 1,2,7,&13 year old!! I'm not asking for a hand out but just a little help please! :-)
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Hello Mary:
I do hope that someone has helped you in some way. You have positive thinking, you now have a job and perhaps things will get better for you. I am not sure about the States but here in Canada they have Homeless Shelters for families that have no where else to go.
Perhaps if you word your "Plea" a little differently it may help. In one sentence you have "I miss my babies" then in the next you say "we just live in the van, it is our home". So which one is it. If I am reading it this way, I am sure others' are reading it the same. It sounds' like what you are saying is wrong. You can not say one thing, then say something else differently.
I am sure you are not meaning it this way but you do have to change what you have put there.
I do not know if you are waiting for your children, to me this is what it sounds like but you can not get them unless you have proper housing for them. Once you get ahead at your job then you can find a place to stay and have your children with you.
Again, you say your van keeps breaking down. Yet you make it sound like you have money to fix it because you say "I keep fixing it, then something else goes wrong". People will be thinking if you can fix your van than you should be able to help yourself and family. There used
to be a Site where you could go on Facebook and put "need to get money" but again so many people have used this story and have ruined it for those who really desperately need money. Such as yourself b/c you have children. Again in Canada they have Welfare (under a different name) but they assist you in finding a home and giving you money to start up. I do not know if they have that in the States, but they do have "Homeless Shelters" everywhere. This is an option you may have to take. Like you said you have applied for money and it sounds positive but then you do not see it. That is b/c you have not been at your job long enough, nor have you lived where you are for very long. These people will loan you money if you have been at your job for approx. 3mths and have lived at the same place for maybe even longer. Again to many people have lied to these people, they can not find them after loaning them money and then they do not get their money back. I honestly think it is safe to say that you should go to a "Shelter" only b/c they will help you get a place for you and your children. They do not like to see people w/o a home and if you are working they will see that you are really showing "Good Faith" and they will help you sooner.  I am trying to help you, even in wording that "You need Help". I do not like to hear that you have no home and you want your children with you. Every mother wants their children with them, they love their children and want the best for them. I can say, get on your feet at your job, get some money ahead but stay at the "Shelter" until you do. Once you save money, you can then look for some place where you and your family are happy and together. You have already been Positive in find a job, I think that is fantastic!! That is wonderful. If your van breakes down again, you can not keep putting money in to it. Take the City Bus to work if you have to. You see again in your comment, my van it keeps breaking down, I fix it, then something else goes wrong. So again, people are questioning "where are you getting money" to fix your van? I understand that a vehicle is important especially when you have your children, but right now fix it when you have the money. Do not use your money that you are saving because then it will take time (lots' of time) to get a home for yourself and children. You have to set priorities. Is your van number One on the list? Or are your children and yourself finding a home number One? Again, this is where people really pick apart what you say, so you have to be very careful in how you "WORD" things!  Please believe me when I say I am trying to help you. I am not trying to put you down and if you feel this way, you are taking me the wrong way! Like I said when it comes' down to someone asking for money, people have to really be sure that what they give you is going to a "Good Cause" b/c you can use money anywhere. Its' like if you put "I need money" or "I need some clothes for my children". Which one would you choose? You are going to give clothes, but you are not going to give money. Maybe with me saying it this way, I hope you understand better. I myself wish I could help you but I do not get a lot of money and what I do get I need for my home, to pay rent, buy groceries, pay Utility Bills etc. Perhaps you could find another job where lets' say you are working for someone in exchange for rent. Like helping them with their meals and things of that nature. That way your helping someone, but again they are helping you by giving you a place to stay. You may even be able to keep the job you have and work both jobs. I know that would probably be hard but it may be a big help in the long run. This way you can save money from the one job that they pay you, and the other job you can do things ahead of time to help someone out, but then at least when you save enough you can leave this job and find your own place to live with your children. Giving you something to think about, I honestly do hope that all of you can soon come together as a family and it will make everyone happy. Good Luck my dear, I do hope things work out for you!! Take care of you and your children :-)

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