Q I Moved in with my boyfriend three weeks ago. He's a sweet guy and most things are fine but he's got some really disgusting habits.

It's not just the usual skid marks, scratching and breaking wind. I've discovered he wears the same underpants two days in a row. He just turns them inside out.

I find all this very offputting.

But he's the first man I've ever lived with. So are all men like this and I'm being silly? One friend says yes and another no.

What do you think?

A anything which is next to the skin should be changed every day. So socks, underpants and also, by the way ladies, bras should be fresh on every morning.

Snatch the undies off him and bung them in the machine.

As for the other habits, just introduce him to bleach and explain exactly what a loo brush is for. Too many gents seem to think it's just some kind of exotic bathroom ornament.