the 25% of death…



If we are a 4  body system, with a 7 layer liquid crystal oscillating system, (our heart),  able to produce magnetic and electrical vibrational frequency fields, that effect the reality around us, then why are we so lost when it comes to death? My experience as well. 

What do I mean by a four body system?

Their are four major vibrational frequencies, that tie our beings together, in this human reality we all share. The Mental, The Physical, The Emotional and the Spiritual.

The Mental Body; This is where the information is processed, or the interactive drama that has unfolded in our lives. Real or imagined. The believed perception that we individually hold.

The Physical Body:

          This is where we express our feelings, our vibratory frequencies of Sadness, Anger, Fear and Joy. Shame can also be expressed as it is a true feeling state. Remember, Guilt is feeling negative about something I’ve done. Shame is about feeling bad about, who I am.

The Emotional Body:

          The emotional body is the furnace of creation. If the mental body brings the direction, and the physical body the  desire.This is where we become ourselves and can either invite, or repel, any thing or anyone into our life, good or bad.

What we feel makes the choice. Our mind initiates the response or reaction,then our emotional body is the creative force that brings our reality to life. 

The Spiritual Body:

          This is where we are attuned to all that is unseen. The web of human consciousness. Where we connect to everything, as we are always in contact with everything in the cosmos. 

The physical body gets lost when someone transitions… Our physical vibratory frequency is no longer transmitting, leading the others, still in the material realms, to feel a sense of loss. To feel only the separation of physical – feeling energy, the 25% that we disconnect from, to miss the person so completely, not allowing ourselves to receive vibrations that would keep us connected through the other 75% of our makeup. 

Think about it… Are you separate from the air around you? Every molecule in existence touches every other molecule. People just do not want to accept that they are separate from nothing, period.

This is also where the messages of our guides, angels, and those who have past before us, communicate through us. It is our higher self, the voice we here in our own head. We can still be in connection and even receive messages and guidance from those we love. 

Basically, (and I don’t mean this callously), we are addicted to the physical vibration of the one we believe we have lost…

Once we choose to tune into a new way of communicating through the language of the mental, spiritual and emotional bodies, not solely focused through the physical,  we re-tune to the correct frequencies to communicate. To continue the entangled relationship with those we cannot see, but Love… 


The quest for light…


As I watch the world unfold I find I am truly witnessing the battle of the Angels…

Between those who have fallen, and those who wish to fly. With out labels, those who have fallen are those who choose to stifle the forward movement of our potentiality as a species.

The desire to keep the frequencies of their past, due to a fear of the unknown future.

Those Angels that choose to fly are not exempt from fear… they understand stepping through it will bring a new adventure to life. Understanding that consciousness has and always will be moving forward.

The fallen Angels… Choose to dance around the golden calf at the base of Mt. Sinai, to a make believe economy, chasing a dream of, live, consumer, plant yourself and repeat until you die. The fear of letting go of the anchors of their own self-inflicted wounds.
The Light Angels… Understanding that we are all connected and living on the same boat. Believing everyone on the planet deserves to have their life honored, there Souls fed.

I choose life…

Michael Franti will close out this post with a vision of where we are…

And the light of where we could be…

Enjoy the video…

“Would it mean that love had won?
Would it mean that the world was saved?
And no guns are being drawn today?
What if everybody had a job?
And nobody had to break a law?
What if everyone could say
That it’s good to be alive today?”



Since the Beginning of our Country…

If you want to understand what is happening in our political system, watch this! This has been happening since we became a nation.


You are not alone…

So I am working on a project that I would love to have shared. I want to start an interactive video project.
Basically, I am looking to open my reach to assist others who have questions about life and their challenges or choices to move forward in their world. I know that we all have issues that others carry with them. My goal is to video blog the replies so more people can be reached, who find themselves with the same challenge.
If you would share this info with those you may know that need it. You or they can  email;
All names will be held in the strictest and most ethical context.

The postmodernist and social constructionists’


“How hard it is to understand each other, unless we already agree.” Richard Bach


The postmodernist and social constructionists’ view of a reality created by the individual experience, is what creates the barriers between the family, that one may work with.

Every person involved will have their own level of perception. Children, see the world from a looking up perspective, parents, a looking down, children also not having the years and years of experience to project, upon another member of the family. Each person not only takes in the experience from different visual and audible angles, but also in different emotional reactions and cues, depending upon who played what role. Roles being the perpetrator, victim, witness and observer.

Once clients choose to receive assistance, those separate perceptions are what exacerbate the drama that has fractured the family around the issue or interactive pattern.

The language being applied to the discussion, from each individual, fails to connect with the listener, due to the fact the memory be shared is not in alignment with their own. Using the collaborative approach with the clients offers a chance for everyone to come to an agreement about, how, what and why, a disagreement or disruptive interactive pattern is allowed to continue, through the verbal and emotional language each person sees as the reality, when it is really just their own perspective of the event.

Reaching a point of agreement, facilitating a group mind focus, towards a solution oriented outcome is only achieved by the deconstruction each individual perspective into its respective role in the event or pattern.
As an example; If I ask two people to take a box of markers and draw the moon. Once they are complete we would see that each of their moons is completely different.

The moon in the sky is the reality. The pictures are their perceptions of reality. By deconstructing this differentiating sequence, each participant can then focus on the solutions once again.

If the Therapist attempted to bring about this unity of perception, through an egalitarian approach, only create more separation between, being seen by everyone as being on someone’s side.

Working with the clients from a level of directive equality, or course directing, builds trust in the therapist as a part of the desired solution. Further facilitating the healing of individual barriers, and forming a bond of inclusiveness, that previously didn’t exist in the original reality, the participants thought was being shared.



Why…? The lighter the Light, the darker the Dark…


(Racist graffiti left on a toilet door at Maple Grove Senior High School, Minnesota)

Women, the LGBT, Those who are Brown Skinned, Those who are Asian, basically anyone who is not white,  have in the past two days been under attack, In this Country now Called, ‘Merica…

It is a sad day in America when we have the same reports coming in that we thought were egregious when reading about ethnic civil wars in other country’s, such as Kosovo and Rwanda. Don’t think that will happen here? It all starts like this.

If you haven’t been paying attention check the links below to be updated on the ugly side of this American experience. 

A Running List Of Reported Racist Incidents After Donald Trump’s Victory

Donald Trump’s victory followed by wave of hate crime attacks against minorities across US – led by his supporters

Reports of racist graffiti, hate crimes post-election

We are at the crossroads… between selfishness, bolstered by pride, and a vision of compassion that extends beyond the self, combined with a desire to keep moving forward.

The duality of fear based reaction, and thoughtful response are at odds,  to a point of singularity, as we pass through this event horizon of conflicting frequencies.

Active interference is best used to cancel out low frequencies. we have two competing compression waves. One based on high energy frequencies  such as Love and acceptance, even with risk to self. Opposed against the Low energy frequencies of Fear, expressed in an out-lash and pain. Pain trapped in the perpetrator, and physically or verbally experienced by another. 

So what is the interference? How do we create it to bring the frequencies into alignment? To invite those who live with this fear and pain, to see as we persist in our fear, that fear, is reflected back through the amplification of that which is feared. 

We choose to be afraid of those who are not from our culture, our religion, our own fear. With the way energy works here with  our experience on the little blue ball, hold attention long enough on one perception, it is harder to see another side. 

 So what is the interference? 

When talking about sound, Wikipedia has this to say; with my reworking the application of this idea as it applies to our current situation.

“Adaptive algorithms are designed to analyze the waveform of the background aural or nonaural noise, then based on the specific algorithm generate a signal that will either phase shift or invert the polarity of the original signal.

(My take on this, from a perspective of canceling out the Lower active frequencies…)

There are those of us, (Adaptive Algorithms), watching what is unfolding, analyzing the words and energies that are unfolding, (Noise), in our streets, schools, anywhere human beings come together.  We see the fear, the anger, the letting go of years of traditional repressed anger, due to that fear, (Specific Waveform Algorithm). So we as a collective, (Signal Generators), create a signal, (Interference), that will either phase shift or invert the polarity, bringing those in fear, (Waveform), to a state of compassionate, understanding acceptance, that outwardly flows, (Love).

A new interference of Love, dialog, and witnessing one another. To be with another so intently, to acknowledge their innocence. That they are then invited to allow themselves to come fully into themselves, (Phase Shift), Where they truly can see the repercussions of their actions upon another Human Being, and choose to end the thousands of years of passed on emotional mental, physical and spiritual abuse, that we are seeing played out today. Finally being released.  And in such an un-life forwarding way. 

The interference that creates the frequencies of an open heart. (The inverted polarity of the original signal.)



Mahatma Gandhi


This was a beautiful offering for those who don’t know what to do… This will take true and real courage…


For those of us who are the frequency generators, now is the time that all of our spiritual preparation has come to bear.  

Spread the light on the darkness. Elevate your voice where needed. Protect the defenseless. Defend Truth. Even if it makes your voice shake.

To be Courageous, I first must be Afraid.

So be Afraid, and do it anyway… Spread the love needed, right now, right here.

My blessings to all… And I do mean all.  


Yesterday… And Beyond.




My favorite quote from the day…

“Now that Trump is President Elect, I should never again see on a job ad stating, experience required.”

So as I contemplate the ramifications of this moment, I am reminded best by my children, the concerns and expressions.

My daughter 20 something; couldn’t sleep… As a woman, she is in fear of the ramifications pertaining to control of her own body. That the party of “less government”, is truly the party that want to pass legislation to control who we are.

She is in fear, for all those she cares about who do not fall under the category , white.

Her fears are not confounded.

My Son texted me; “I can’t believe life right now…”. while watching the results. He was angry. Angry that people were messing with his future with a whim.

This morning though, he responded more eloquently than just about any response I heard or read.

“I am not one to post statuses to ******, but in the wake of last night’s election there are a few things I am compelled to say.

First of all I want to express my full support to the LGBTQ+ communities, women, minorities, and anyone who is experiencing fear around Trump’s victory. If anyone needs to reach out, find help, or is seeking support, I am here for you in whatever capacity I can be.

This election has divided our nation in a way that myself and my peers have never seen. For many of us, this is the first presidential election we have been old enough to vote in, and it is very demoralizing to see a racist, hateful, misogynist rise to power. However, hope is not lost. Now, standing in the face of fear and hatred, is the time to love. Love everyone. Love your neighbor, love the people you don’t agree with, love strangers, love your worst enemy. I’m writing this because this is the only thing I can think to say at this point. Be more generous with the love in your hearts than you’ve ever been. Be there for one another. Now is the time to come together.

I love you all.” 

Neither of my children thought Hillary was a rock-star, and at the same time they knew progressive movements within this country would keep moving with their sense of acceptance and compassion as they grow into their generation.

I do hold that something positive can come out of this… And the pain of birth will not be so much that this country is destroyed. Imploded from within.

The irony of it all…?

We have a black President who is going to turn over the White House, to a man who is outwardly supported by the KKK. Let that sink in while saying the words;

“Make America Great Again”

What are you willing to stand alone for…


Why is it I spend so much time, in our make-believe society, and spend so little time thinking about things greater than ourselves? Are we so caught up in the game of interactive expressions of value that we don’t even take the time, to see who we are playing with?

Every day from this day forth, as I walk through my days, I will live in truth… I will allow my Shadow / Dark Angel, when it is apparent to me, to be expressed through consciously acknowledging what it is and why it’s up for me. As well, I will allow my Gold / Light Angel, my love, to be expressed to all those who I walk with… I’m getting better at it every day.

I also need everyone else to join me. To move our minds and hearts towards true expression… not just the mask of being a good person, but the totality of whom we are…

One thing that has staggered my life lately is feeling like I am one of very few people that express pretty much everything about themselves in who they are. Ask anyone who knows me… I am pretty straight to the point. For the most part I am in integrity with what I am feeling in any given moment. If you ask me, you will most likely hear what I am really thinking. (Vague, with the “most likely”… But when the Shadow is present I do not always catch it right away.)

This is where you also come into the play of this new reality. I need the mirror of who you are to help me see my shadows, to point out when I am out of alignment.

Also, there will be times, as I pay attention to you, that I will see a reflection of things I choose. Things I may not want to really admit to myself… let alone the rest of the world. But this is what I must do!

I once listened to a man make his case for a cause, he asked a question that I have always tried to answer every day. The question; “What are you willing to stand alone for?”. I interpreted this to ask; what are you willing to support with all of who you are, even if you never truly receive the gift, or outcome, you intended when you began. We all do this at some point, to some degree… just not always consciously.

Well this is mine… Living towards true expression of the self…  To stand naked in the garden of Eden, as I connect to all those within the web of Human-Angel Free-will Destiny beings.

With that said I have a few things to say…

I do so Love Humanity… we are such sacred creatures and very few of us even take the time to realize how grand a being we are. That I bless, throughout my day, all those I encounter…

May you all feel the depth of who you truly are… to feel what it feels like to be in complete emotional integrity with yourself and the absence of fear in which to express it!


How to Love a Woman who has been to Hell & Back.


Many have tried. Most have failed.


For the woman who has been to hell and back will push you away. She will test you in her desire to know what you are made of, whether you have what it takes to weather her storm. Because she is unpredictable—at times a hurricane, a force of nature that rides on the fury of her suffering; other times a gentle rain, calm, still and quiet.




For while you have slept, she has been awake, unable to slow her thoughts, watching clocks and chasing time, trying to make the broken pieces fit, to make sense of it all—of where and how she fits. She fights her demons and slays her dragons, afraid if she goes to sleep they will gain the upper hand, afraid if she goes to sleep she will no longer be in control. Tomorrow she will be tired, and your presence will smother her. She will need only herself.

When she reaches out to you, love her.

When she pushes you away, lover her harder.

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