Entitled Bitch is Entitled

Discussion in 'Klassy Brides' started by Manhands, Jul 18, 2016.

  1. Maybe I'm reading it wrong? "I was expecting something like only 10 cards from what would have been a 120 person wedding had we not eloped, so this feels extra pathetic. "

    So to me sounds like she wasn't expecting much in the way of gifts to begin with, no?

    **Correction** Yeahhhh I read it wrong. I understand what she's saying now. She's saying all she was expecting to begin with was 10 cards... Sorry! My bad. That's what I get for multi-tasking at work. :drool:
    I read it as, "had we not eloped, I was only expecting 10 cards from a 120 person wedding".
    Last edited: Dec 24, 2018
  2. Honey

    Honey Historian Staff Member

    It sounds like you're right and she shouldn't have expected cards, though. Your parent is either going to give or not give you a card no matter what. Our parents didn't give us cards for our wedding. Know why? Because cards are stupid, we never give cards, and obviously we got that from somewhere.
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  3. allmaple

    allmaple Chicken

    OP is getting married next month at a venue they had to book three years in advance. Her sister was supposed to get married in the spring but got pregnant and wedding planning is so hard for a pregnant woman so she tried to take OPs wedding instead! Sister is crying, dad is telling OP to just do this one thing for her sister and give up her wedding.

  4. HBC

    HBC Chicken

    Hell no
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  5. fantasynerd

    fantasynerd Extra Extra

    Wow. Invitations have already been sent. Which isn’t surprising, given that the wedding is next month.
  6. Honey

    Honey Historian Staff Member

    No way. No way.

    Edit: Also, no link?
  7. allmaple

    allmaple Chicken

    Sorry, it was an AITA on Reddit:

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  8. MagnificentCat

    MagnificentCat Chicken

    I refuse to believe this is real.
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  9. deet

    deet Chicken

    If she thinks planning a wedding while going to maternity classes is hard, I have bad news about actually raising a child.
  10. Honey

    Honey Historian Staff Member

    There’s a small update in r/RelationshipAdvice

  11. CoolWife

    CoolWife Chicken

    It honestly does not surprise me that someone would think that was ok. JFC though.
  12. MagnificentCat

    MagnificentCat Chicken

    I think the reason it rings false to me is the random comment that the only slot they got was in September. That’s such an awkward way to put such an obvious fact. Of course if your wedding is in September you didn’t also reserve early June.

    Also BIL saying sorry for the inconvenience is another awkward AF phrasing. Not saying it’s impossible, but it sure smells fishy.
  13. Honey

    Honey Historian Staff Member

    I'll forgive any linguistic peculiarities on this one because English is not their first language. But I still don't want to believe that this entire family is so awful. It's beyond the pale.
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  14. hallokween

    hallokween Chicken

    This is so unbelievable. I can see someone who was always babied asking that, I picture the little sister from 10 Things I Hate About You, but holy shit. And the whole family thinks this is a good idea? I'm also really curious on if they were planning on paying for it or just letting big sis take care of it since she's clearly paid all her vendors.
  15. allmaple

    allmaple Chicken

    And sent invitations! No one would actually behave that way unless they have gotten their way at the expense of others their whole life.
  16. Lh718

    Lh718 Chicken

    @Honey I can believe it because my family was this way with me and my little brother. That includes my aunts and uncles. I was always expected to give way or whatever regardless of what it cost me in time, money, etc.
  17. Lucyinthesky

    Lucyinthesky Chicken

    Good riddance to bad rubbish, her family sounds terrible.
  18. allmaple

    allmaple Chicken


  19. Lh718

    Lh718 Chicken

    Ruined. The. Cake.

    Cut them all out of your life. Crazy bullshit.
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  20. Honey

    Honey Historian Staff Member

    Every update gets more unbelievable. Little sister Dudley Dursleyed her birthdays?
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  21. MagnificentCat

    MagnificentCat Chicken

    The only thing that’s believable to me is little sister trying to fake that she’s changing the contracts with the planner.
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  22. fantasynerd

    fantasynerd Extra Extra

    IDK, I can see this being true, maybe the birthday bit is a little exaggerated like the sister threw a fit once then always got a present too.

    A lot of it reminds me of my sister except while my parents enable her there isn’t outright favoritism, and she isn’t quite so entitled.
  23. Imabug1002

    Imabug1002 Chick pee

    I can see this being true with some exaggeration for sympathy (like the birthday thing FN mentions.) But my sister has ruined many family events and throws a hissy fit until she gets what she wants so maybe it just feels too real for me.
  24. Lh718

    Lh718 Chicken

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