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2. Talking Constantly

Talking Constantly
As much as it may be your first instinct, with talking, after a certain point, less is more. It's important not to overwhelm her with details about your life (don't be a braggart, or a bore) and it's also important not to overwhelm yourself by trying to jump too heavily into something too quickly. If the conversation's going well, just because you want to keep talking all night doesn't mean you should. Find an excuse during a slight lull and bow out. The sense that she's not the only thing going for you, even if you're clearly interested, will be enticing for her. A little bit of unpredictability and spontaneity will ratchet up the excitement by making both of you excitedly wonder when you'll get to talk next.
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