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Error is human nature

2020-07-15 来源: 51Due教员组 类别: Essay范文


下面51due教员组为大家整理一篇优秀的代写范文- Error is human nature，供大家参考学习。这篇文章讲述的是鲍勃·布罗迪（Bob Brody）在题为“宽恕是件好事，但有时我只是想保持生气”的文章中，他谈到了基于他的个人轶事不宽恕的原因和很多好处。尽管作者认为宽恕是不必要的，但他忽略了以下事实：宽恕是人们应该拥有的重要道德之一，也是给他人和自己带来希望的有力方法，而只是着眼于宽恕带来的短暂而变形的幸福。报仇和怨恨。

Error is human nature

In the article entitled  “The forgive is good but sometimes I just want to stay mad”by Bob Brody, he talked about the reasons and a lot of benefits of being not forgive based on his personal anecdotes. Although the author argues forgiveness is unnecessary, he leaves out the fact that forgiveness is one of the important moralities that people should have, and a powerful way to give hope to others, and oneself, but just focuses on the momentary and deformed happiness brought by the revenge and grudge.

  Forgiveness is one of the important moralities that people should have. However, Bob Brody declared that grudge has a healing power and bring people a sense of satisfying(64). But in fact, grudge can bring people a lot of bad consequences. Grudge brings people negative influence and disaster to career. The relationship between people is sometimes very subtle, and misunderstanding often only need an action or a word. But in most cases, putting down the misunderstanding of both sides with forgiveness is the first step which is always difficult in fact. This needs some good quality of people to carry out forgiveness. In the case of Bob Brody, as his grudge against his boss, he would be more likely to perform in an uncooperative manner in the work given that grudge will provide people bad feelings, which was leading to his final loss of his job.Thus, grudge affect Brody’s family livelihood and his thanksgiving. If a person always has grudge, he or she will never be happy. On the contrary, forgiveness is kind of moral quality and, it is a charm. It is because that to forgive others needs to have the spirit of self-sacrifice, with lofty and noble mind. It can bring about a valuable metamorphosis of their spirit and attitude toward life. But it is necessary to know that the memory of resentment will be deeper, and longer.  If sometimes people always remember unpleasant things, and never even forget, with their own anger, and resentment, it is just leading to anger of more and more people in modern society. And finally both sides lose.

Forgiveness will provide people good feeling and hopes in the long run. In the lifetime people will encounter a lot of bad things, and encounter some mean people, which seems to be unforgivable at first. If they do not learn to forgive, and choose to live with a pain and hatred for those things and people , they will live a tired life. Forgiveness is a sort of positive psychology. Forgiveness therapy improves clients’ sense of well-being by promoting feeling of peacefulness toward oneself as well as others.  Learning forgiveness is a simple and gentle way of communication, but also a person's ideal temperament. Such an elegant and rational attitude is the tranquility of the hustle and bustle of life, which can get rid of the triviality and heaviness of life. Whether or not it is recognized at the time, forgiveness is in itself an act of hope.For example, if Bob can abolish the interpersonal anxiety and the grudge against his boss at first, he performed better which may make his boss change her first impression about her. Between the interaction between people and people, it is normal that there is a collision or friction among them. Perhaps the other is simply having no intention in doing something hurtful to others. It is only through dealing with the now, that we can look towards the future; forgiveness aims to deal with past hurts and therefore enables the survivor to hope for the future. In the case of Bob and his neighbors, if he forgives the huge noises at first, and instead expressed his care, and understanding of lively nature the young children at first when he went upstairs , and then expressed the inconvenience caused by them, it may be a different situation . People, always like and generous people to be their friends.Perhaps when the other with forgiveness step back, express good wish, and try to smile, it give others and himself or herself a chance later.

 More importantly, it is necessary to forgive others as everyone will make a mistake. Everyone will make mistake, it is okay to make mistakes, because people are not God, they are not perfect. If one does not forgive others as long as someone else makes a mistake, it seems a bit too cruel. And life is long, and so it makes no sense to be entangled in such a little thing, and spend their precious lives in unnecessary points. On the contrary, if one first forgive others, with his or her own sincere understanding of others, they can break the deadlock of friendship,and can easily get the forgiveness of their friends and broaden their cause. The history of civilization in the world from slave society to feudal society, and then to the capitalist society, in fact, is marked by forgiveness. Without forgiveness, the globalization, world trade and continuous development and progress of human beings are impossible. But forgiveness is not to forgive the mistakes of others randomly, and giving up their own interests. This is not the real forgiveness. Thus, people being calm and with peace of mind can deal with complex interpersonal relationships. Maybe there will be unexpected gain of friendship or career. In this sense, the forgiveness of others is to treat oneself in a good and beneficiary manner.

To sum up, people should embrace forgiveness as everyone will make a mistake,but forgiveness is one of the important moralities that people should have, which provide people good feeling and hopes in the long run. 

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