Hurricane Memories

Brother and I huddled under the heavy, oak table on the old red corduroy chaise lounge cushion. It was a little more than a week before my tenth birthday, and he was only three and a half. We hadn’t been able to bring much, but I had my favorite teddy bear and Brother had his “Bubba,” a pillow our great aunt, Big Mama, had made for him when he was born. Since the day she gave it to him, that pillow had been everywhere with us. It kept the bad things away, or so he thought.

I didn’t think Bubba could help us much now.

Outside the wind bellowed around the little house. Earlier in the day, we’d left our hundred-year-old home and sought shelter here, but not before we covered all the windows in masking tape and left a few slightly open. For the pressure, you know. It can build up and blow a house up. Mama was afraid the huge oak tree that grew in the “L” of our home would finally succumb to the wind. It was an old tree. How long could it continue to face storm after storm without finally giving in?

We’d filled the claw-foot bathtub up with water. We secured the barn and the shed. The good silver and some other valuables were all packed in the trunk of the car ready to go. Don’t forget Bubba. The baby will cry all night without him.

We’d gone to Mama’s office, which was in a converted cottage across the street from the police station and fire department. They had a generator. I could tell from the eerie yellow lights that glowed through the glass door. Our power had gone out a couple of hours before, and I’d seen the blue sparks from the fallen power lines and heard the transformers explode. All we had now was the kerosene lamp with its glowing orange mantle and smoky chimney glass. And that’s how Brother and I came to be under the table in case the roof caved in, looking out between the tape stripes on the big plate glass window, Mama and Daddy sitting nearby. What would protect them, I wondered.

It was September 12, 1979 and Hurricane Frederic had raged onto shore late that evening. It traveled up the line separating our home state of Alabama from Mississippi, and Citronelle wasn’t too terribly far from that line. We were on the “bad” side of the storm.

For nearly two weeks we’d tracked it’s course on a paper map we’d gotten from the library. Here it comes over the Virgin Islands, Puerto Rico, the Dominican Republic, Cuba. Now it’s in the Gulf of Mexico. Hush your mouth so I can hear, Mama would say as she listened for the weather man to announce the latitude and longitude so she could put another little dot on the map. Children can always tell when their parents are worried.

My parents were worried.

A hurricane is different from a tornado. While equally destructive, a tornado just drops suddenly from the sky like a long, malevolent finger, its sharp nail scraping away everything in its path. If you have any warning at all, it’s likely to be just a few minutes. A hurricane has a path that you track day after day after day. It may zig a little and it may zag a little, but it is always stubbornly approaching. Relentlessly marching closer and closer.

There’s plenty of time to plan for the worst and hope for the best. There’s plenty of time to fret and worry. There’s plenty of time to dread the inevitable. Maybe it won’t be so bad.

Hurricane Frederic will be the worst storm in recorded history, says the weather man.

A hurricane has a name. It gets talked about like that uncle, you know the one. The uncle who’s a mean, hateful drunk. The uncle who’s liable to throw one of Grandmother’s china plates against the wall if you say the wrong thing. The one everyone hopes will go to someone else’s house at Thanksgiving. I wish that Frederic would just stay away from us, you think.

It’s not Christian to wish ill on others, but if you wish, if you get down on your knees and pray, that you’ll be spared, it means someone else won’t be spared. Someone else will be packing their good silver up in the trunk of the car. Some other parents might forget the baby’s pillow when they flee.

Sometime in the early morning of September 13 the winds died down and Daddy and I went outside to look around. Limbs and shingles and pink insulation were everywhere. I’m glad it’s over, I said to Daddy. Oh, this is just the eye of the storm. We’re only halfway there, he said.

I went back to my safe place, back under the table with Brother. Sure enough, in a little while the winds picked back up. I saw a whole roof go tumbling down the street, end over end, just like a toy. Then there was a horrible cracking, crashing sound. Something was scraping against the window glass. One of the big pecan trees next door had fallen and flattened the carport. It barely missed the house.

At some point I went to sleep even though I meant to stay up all night, to stay up with my worried parents, to watch over Brother. I didn’t want to miss anything, but I didn’t really want to see any more either. Hurricanes can be very tiresome, and at some point you wonder if it will ever end.

Eventually, Frederic did move on through, although he wouldn’t stop until he had blown all the way up through New England and back out into the Atlantic. We crept out into the day and managed to pick our way through the four blocks between the office and our home. The sun was shining and the air was hot and still. Everywhere you looked there was limbs and debris, houses with shingles, boards, or whole roofs missing, pieces of sheet tin, signage and wood, scraps of paper and fabric.

Our house was mostly fine, but there were trees down. I remember Daddy standing in the living room by the side windows, the ones we’d left cracked open just a little bit. For just a second, he looked completely overwhelmed, then he turned and went outside to fire up the chainsaw so that his could join the growing chorus of others in the neighborhood.

I remember that the sound of those saws continued for what seemed like months, and it probably was months. And for years and years and years Brother and I climbed on the criss-crossed trunks of pines that had fallen in the woods surrounding our new house, the house that had only been a frame when Frederic came. Mother Nature’s jungle gym leaking sticky sap that stained our clothes.

Since Mama and Baw (her father, my grandfather) had an insurance agency, it was right back to work for them filing claims for the people who lined up out the door, across the porch, and out into the parking lot. It was my job to fetch coffee for the customers, run errands, and generally stay out of the way unless I was needed. The insurance company sent two men down all the way from Syracuse, New York to help with the claims. They were busy too, and brusque like people from New York can be. I’d never met anyone from New York and didn’t understand why they couldn’t be friendlier. I wondered where in the world they were staying. Citronelle did have one motor lodge, but I couldn’t imagine “nice” people staying there. I never did know, and then one day, they were gone.

Eventually, school started back up, and things went pretty well back to normal. That is until one November morning when Daddy woke me up to tell me that Baw had died in the night. His heart gave out, he said. I went on to school feeling sad and empty. We are people who carry on, even the children. It was that blamed hurricane that killed him, Mama said. The stress from trying to help everyone with their claims had proven too much.

The aftermath of Hurricane Frederic went on for years, and it turned out to be the costliest hurricane on record up to that date. 80% of the buildings at Gulf Shores were completely destroyed, and even 90 miles inland where we lived, the repairs would go on for years. This hurricane was so destructive, in fact, that the name — Frederic — was actually retired, a special honor given to only the most devastating of storms.

But the impact of a storm goes far beyond property damage. The loved ones who are lost either during the storm or as a result of the storm will never come back. There are memories of happy times at places no longer in existence. Routines and traditions are forever changed. And the life you once knew gets washed away like so much debris.

It’s hard to believe that nearly 40 years have passed since I sat under that oak table with my teddy, Brother, and Bubba because every time I see the weather report focus on a little red dot far away in the ocean, I immediately start to worry. I’m excited when I see that dot make a turn  toward the North Atlantic, and my stomach sinks when I see the dotted trail lead to land. I know the dread the people in the path of the storm feel.

And I know that somewhere the good silver is getting loaded into the trunk of a car, and a few clothes and other valuables are piled on top. I know that bathtubs are being filled with water and windows are being taped up. And somewhere there’s a mama frantically looking for a little pillow so the baby won’t cry all night.


Photo credit: NOAA (Storm image), NASA (Land image) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

10 Comments Add yours

  1. Paula Ross says:

    I remember guiltily praying Frederick would hit Mobile instead of Pensacola as we hunkered down in the hall on a mattress. The wind sounded like the surf pounding on the walls. It was terrifying and so powerful. My heart breaks for those affected by Michael. Like Frederick, his scars are going to be visible for a long time.

    1. They really will. My heart aches for all these families too as they rebuild their lives. Thank you for sharing your memories with me.

  2. Joanne Bosler says:

    I moved to Mobile from PA one year before Hurricane Frederic struck. I, too, remember the frightful noise of the wind, and the sound of the wooden fence splintering apart as it then hit the house, car, and anything else in the way. I especially remember the “train sound” that the tornado made as it made its way up our street ripping off our chimney and twisting off the tops of all the pine trees in its path until it decided to touch down about a half mile later. Words will never be able to explain the fear in my heart as my family lived through Frederic! Your narrative is spot-on!

    1. Thank you for sharing your story with me!

  3. This may be the best you’ve written so far.

    1. Awww…thank you, Leslie!

  4. Sheila Zito says:

    Beautifully written, your ability has brought back so many memories. Thanks for sharing.

    1. I’m glad you enjoyed the piece! Thank you!

  5. Sabrina Jaye says:

    I, too, remember that night and the aftermath of Frederick very well. I was 9 months pregnant and spent that night in Mobile Infirmary. I heard those massive glass panels creak and watched as men tried to keep those huge glass doors closed between blows. The suction was just too much. My husband and I drove back to my parents’ home down Springhill Avenue the next morning home dodging massive oaks that had been laid down crisscrossing the road, all the while taking in the damage caused by the winds and fallen trees. The oak canopy would never look the same. We drove down the interstate to find iron beams that held advertising signs twisted like pipe cleaners, windows blown out of businesses and partially roofed buildings. We had never seen such in Mobile.
    Ten days we were without power and cooked on a gas grill. Yes, the sound of chain saws went on for months. I will never forget Frederick’s aftermath. My heart goes out to all who have lost in so many ways due to hurricane Michael.

    1. Thank you for sharing your story with me.

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