Death By Bitterness


~Corrie ten Boom 

~ The Encourager, in Hebrews 12

Oh beloved, it is true.

There is one thing that us formerly lost boys can never afford. Oh, His grace is amazing! He can (and has) pull(ed) us out of messes that were so thick, we can barely tell the story. But, there is something that is worse than the stuff we used to drink, or smoke, or put into our eyes or veins.


And no, I am not talking about the pain that may come from hard work, or from the loss of a friend (and oh G_d!, we have been losing too many of those.). I am not talking about the disappointment from coming up short in a tough competition. Nor am I talking about all the other things that can hurt us in life.

Bitterness is a different thing altogether, and much more dangerous.

Bitterness is the rage we let grow when someone wrongs us, rather than turning the other cheek.

Bitterness is the web of fear we weave within our own souls, when G_d has forbade such a behavior.

Bitterness is the permission we seek to give ourselves to give into a dangerous behavior, even when we know it is going to kill us.

Bitterness is allowing ourselves to stay in our own hurt, so we can keep trying to fix our own problems.

Bitterness is the chains of unforgiveness we bind about our own heart.

Bitterness is the unwillingness to believe that Jesus will take us through the darkest of spaces.

Can we see it?

Bitterness is not something that happens to us. Bitterness is something that I grow within myself. And, it cannot grow unless I tend the noxious weed. This is why we see the need for what is called for at the beginning of Hebrews 12. The Solution is clear. I must (absolutely must) look away from the waves of my circumstances, and the pain within my flesh. I must (absolutely must) look to Jesus for any of this to work.

Yes, my life might be swinging around like crazy. But the undulations of my cycles of failure will only get worse if I keep spinning around myself and other people. However, in looking to Jesus and attaching my hope to Him, He becomes an anchor to the pendulum of my life…. So, even if things get really crazy (and they will), I will always come back to center on Him.

So, are you enduring the painful discipline of life? G_d is not trying to hurt you. He is trying to prove that you can make it through ever more difficult trials. But it will only work if you refuse the bitterness that will always grow within, and look to Him.

Tonight is your night, beloved. Time to look outside yourself and refuse that temptation to bitterness.


The Daily Bible Reading: Psalm 131-133| You can download our 2017 Daily Bible Reading Plan by clicking here


~Karol Józef Wojtyła

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