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44 M Paradise, CA

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
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Strictly anything
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Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Rather not say
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Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a bit eccentric, I think. Very introspective, self-analytical, introverted, extroverted, lover and a fighter, (I'm living proof that you CAN be both). I have ALOT of personality and I'm not afraid, (some would say eager), to share my opinions =P. I'm perfectly willing to agree to disagree. I can be a man's man, (drink beer, tell horrendously crude jokes, valiantly attempt yet typically fail to perform various feats of strength and agility), but I also wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm terribly sensitive and empathetic, (not an insecure, cry-baby drama queen. Different than that). I've had some formal education and I plan to get some more, but I do pretty well keeping myself educated. I'm very direct and honest, and I will say/do things that will catch you off guard. I can be impulsive/spontaneous, have a killer sense of humor, and i'm a rip to drink with. I'll give you $10 if I can't make you snort beer out of your nose =P. I'm sort of in the middle of putting my life back together after hitting some bumps in the road, but that's life, baby. I'm a musician, mason, painter, and jack-of-all-trades. I run a small tractor company, typically installing sanitation systems. I know; it's a shitty job, but somebody's gotta do it...

I'm looking for an articulate, intelligent, beautiful dork :) You must be able to argue a point of view without getting angry, (well, maybe a little peeved can be fun...), and maybe even enjoy it =P I'm very affectionate, so you gotta be pretty touchy-feely :) I smoke like a train and drink like a construction worker, so you either have to keep up or tolerate it without nagging my ears red. Ooh, a woman that likes to sing would be awesome. I love it when women sing 8D (It's ok if you can't hold a tune to save the universe, it's just the sound of a woman singing...makes me all squishy...)
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to keep my head above water.
I’m really good at
Just about everything I do. Okay, fine. I'm a decent musician, a beer connoisseur, (really), hard to beat in an argument, I build my own computers and just about anything else that needs to be built, and I'm one funny mother. I'm good with my hands, (feel free to read into that), and just as good with my mind and my heart. It's hard to find a word in the English language I can't define and spell, and I know a little about most things. Yes, even quantum mechanics.
The first things people usually notice about me
Once they stop laughing, they notice I'm cute!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Foucault's Pendulum, Aztec, The Count of Monte Cristo, (the movie was REALLY good), The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, (the movie was REALLY bad), all of Heinlein, some Raymond Feist, The Catcher in the Rye, Steinbeck, Truman Capote, Hunter S. Thompson, Bob Woodward, Don Regan's For the Record, The History of US Intelligence, Earthsea Trilogy, Riddlemaster of Hed, and thousands of others.
Movies: All of Quentin Tarantino, Ishtar, The Big Lebowski, Harold and Maude, My dinner with Andre, Tropic Thunder, A Beautiful Mind, Seven Years in Tibet, Hi Fidelity, Toy Story, Tombstone, and a guhzillion others.
Music: Too much to list. No rap, no country, (western, yes. There's a difference).
Food: Just about anything. Seriously, there might be three things I don't like. I just don't know what they are.
The six things I could never do without
Beer, bacon, exploration of the universe, conundrums, music, and women. Wait. Cheese. I know, that's seven, but I can't live without cheese.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Bet you thought I was gonna say 'Cheese'. Anyway, it's a wide gamut. You can find out the hard way.
On a typical Friday night I am
Recuperating from Thursday night's blues jam at the pub. I pop in and drum a little bit :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Here? Uh...I kissed a guy named Harold once. Hey, we were drunk! I didn't like it! Well he might have. Stupid Harold...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating