why we both see the T?

he is available.
he is not a specialist.
not many options.
fortunately he is good.
it simplifies things that he knows all my issues and also can help with our relationship.
not marriage counseling per se...
don't know what is usual.
i don't think we are the ususal case.
it works for us.
We are often troubled, but not crushed;
sometimes in doubt, but never in despair;
and though badly hurt at times, we are not destroyed.
- Paul, II Cor 4:8-9