However, when the re fl exive pronoun is not attached to the in fi nitive, the auxiliary verb must be  essere , and the past participle does agree: 10 The re fl exive pronouns also have stressed forms which are used, like the stressed forms of other pronouns, for emphasis and after a preposition. These forms are often reinforced by the adjective  stesso : Paolo e Francesca si sono voluti sposare. Non ci siamo potuti lavare. Vi siete dovuti fermare per la notte? Paolo and Francesca wanted to get married. We couldn’t wash. Did you have to stop for the night? me  or me stesso / stessa te or te stesso / stessa sé or se* stesso / stessa noi or noi stessi / stesse voi or voi stessi / stesse sé or se* stessi / stesse myself yourself himself/herself/itself ourselves yourselves themselves Franca ama solo sé / se* stessa. Pensi solo a te / te stesso! Quei due sono davvero noiosi: parlano solo di sè / se* stessi. Franca only loves herself. You only think of yourself! Those two are really boring: they only talk about themselves. * Note that  se  does not have an accent when it is used with  stesso . Insert the correct re fl exive/reciprocal pronouns in the blank spaces. Example: A che ora  ———  alzi?: ti 1 Quando  ———  sposano? 2D o v e ———  siedo? 3 Nina non  ———  veste mai di rosso. 4 Come  ———  sentite? 5 Nina e Bart  ———  amano. 6D o v e ———  incontriamo? 7 ———  lavo le mani. 8 Marina  ———  guarda allo specchio. 9 Silvano non  ———  annoia mai. 10 Carlo e Luca non  ——— conoscono. 11 Come  ———  vestite? Exercise 1 Stressed forms 146 Unit 20