I was circumcised at 18 and am now 62. After circumcision, glans was and continues to be very sensitive, so much so that I have never been able to tolerate oral sex and even regular sex has at times been painful. My circumcision left all of my frenulum intact. It is a huge flap of skin from below the corona to the tip and hangs down about 3/4 of an inch. I am just now finding out that it contains nerves. Can that be the problem? I lost my last girlfriend because she said she enjoys oral sex and I wouldn t let her and even her rubbing her hand against the glans makes me go soft due to the pain. I still want to be sexually active with a woman, but fear the same problems in the future. Any suggestions?
Hello, Thanks for choosing Chat Doctor for posting your query. I have gone through your question in detail and I can understand what you are going through. Its unfortunate that at the age of 62 you are still having the sexual problems. If the glans has been sensitive for these many years is difficult to reduce its sensitivity. The better way would be to control the sensitivity psychologically. Biofeedback therapy is one of the options.  It should help you. Hope I am able to answer your concerns. If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you. In future if you wish to contact me directly, or want any further details about this same issue you can use the below-mentioned link:bit.ly/ Chat Doctor. 