my 16 month old throws screaming fits and in inconsolable. she wont cuddle and actually fights me off. she is very introverted and it seems to happen more severely when we are around more than just our immediate family. im not even sure what triggers it
Hi, These are called temper tantrums. Tantrums may happen when kids are tired, hungry, or uncomfortable; or because they can't get something (for example, an object or a parent) to do what they want.  Learning to deal with frustration is a skill that child Chat Doctor.  Tantrums are common during the second year of life, a time when language skills are starting to develop.  Because toddlers can't yet say what they want, feel, or need, a frustrating experience may cause a tantrum. As language skills improve, tantrums tend to decrease. This is what you can do to avoid or prevent tantrums - 1. Give plenty of positive attention 2. Try to give toddlers some control over little things 3. Keep off-limits objects out of sight and out of reach 4. Distract your child 5. Help kids learn new skills and succeed 6. Consider the request carefully when your child wants something 7. Know your children limits. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care 