My brother is 50 years old. He is driving me nuts. He talks about everyones problems except his own. It is unbelivable! He can see and diagnosis everyone but himself! If you even try to express your feeling to him about him, he shuts you down immediately!!! I want to hang a mirror in front of him and say, tell it to the mirror!!! He can fix everybody else but HIMSELF and he is a train wreck! Recovering alcoholic- Yea! Honestly... No job, lives w/ my parents, borrows money from my parents and anyone who will give it to him. He doesnt pay child support or do anything about working on a relationship w/ his 12 year old daughter. He gets involved with women who are needy and feels he is right and can fix them!
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