I am 24 years old and I am a virgin. I have never had any girlfriend before. Its not that I am not attractive or that I am gay. Its that I feel that there will be that one pure good pretty girl out there for me whom just like me doesnt have any past relationships or sexual experiences just that i have yet to find her. So like all I have sexual urges here and there and i will masturbate it off but I decided to stop masturbating since I felt that it wasnt making me any pure. I would get distracted if any female wearing sexy and start to fantasize about her but I am not that kind of guy. I am from a good family with proper moral education and I dont want to disappoint by getting myself into sexual experiences with someone other than my future wife. I want to be a pure, good guy without any sexual experiences with others. Its already 23 days since I stopped. Please advise! Thanks!
Hello dear, Thank you for your contact to Chat Doctor. I read and understand your concern. I am Chat Doctor answering your concern. Masturbation is not a bad habit. It will not harm you in any way. It is good that you are virgin and not practiced sex with anybody. But each man has some desire. So as you have, you can practice masturbation than not doing it. It will saturate your desire, relieves frustration and can help you work with good concentration. Only thing is that you have to do it with good hygiene. Avoid vigorous doing, because it will more short of injures the private part. If you do not masturbate for long period you must face premature ejaculation. So by doing you can be surely benefited. I will be happy to answer your further concern on bit.ly/ Chat Doctor. Thank you, ChatDoctorInfectious diseases specialist, ChatDoctor.