alright when im with my girlfriend or even just thinking about hanging out with her, i like leak a little sperm, and it goes on for a while, every once in a while, then if were getting like sexual, say: oral sex, i get hard during then when im going to put on the condom i lose the hardness, and i know its a problem, i just dont know what it is. but i dont think its premature ejaculation cause during oral sex i can be erected and be alright, just when shes done i lose it.
Thanks for contacting Chat Doctor with your medical questions. I am sorry to hear that you are having problems with erectile dysfunction. The fact that you can maintain erection for orgasm with oral sex demonstrates that you have no physical problem with erections. But when you put a condom on your erection dissolves. This is usually related more to anxiety. To help improve your confidence I recommend that you seek your doctor for a supply of Viagra. With Viagra, it will allow you to maintain an erection. With a few successful erections you may not need the Viagra anymore. Hope this answers your question. Please contact us again with your medical concerns and questions