Hello, I was wondering what might be the cause of my cramps after an attempt to have intercourse yesterday (2-15-2014) for the first time, with my bf of a year and 3 months..Basically, I was on top for more control of the pressure. He had a condom on, but we couldnt find a comfortable position due to our pants being on, so he didnt put his penis in.. anyways, he took it off and I gave him a bit of oral sex, but he had pre-cum and all of a sudden we were on the floor and the head of his penis went in, without the condom on. It lasted for about 5 seconds then I said it was hurting a bit so he took it out.. He didnt ejaculate, but a few hours later I started getting slight cramps in my lower abdomen, but is it because it was my first time engaging in sexual activity? I had finished my period 8 days ago.
Hi, Yes, you are right, the pain you experienced was related to being first time that you are engaging in sexual activity. When having sex for first time, you are not prepared, and might be not wet enough for penetration. This explains the pain you felt while penetration occurred. I suggest to: - avoid sex for some more days-apply Greek yogurt locally-keep good genital hygiene; wash your genitalia immediately after intercourse- keep also good oral hygiene if you are involving in oral sex-take OTC vaginal probiotics to optimize the genital flora-take menstrual painkillers to relieve pain no improvement within a week, should consult an OG specialist and run further tests to exclude urogenital infections. Hope it was of help! Chat Doctor. 