Hi doctor,I spent three nights with a girl I met online a week ago. There was no intercourse, but we had unprotected oral sex, mutual masturbation, and kissing. I later found out that she has had a pretty crazy sexual history (unprotected anal sex and vaginal sex). Am I at risk of HIV? My worry is that she tried to rub my penis with her vagina, but I stopped her. I am worried about what if it touched? Do my other activities warrant a need for a test? Please help me. I am in agony, and I cannot live like this.
Hi, Welcome to Chat Doctor forum. Unprotected oral sex carries negligible to low risk for HIV acquisition especially if there are fresh cuts or sores or lesions or bleeding gums. Mutual masturbation and kissing are quite safe. Rubbing vagina without entry, I do not think will cause any harm. Overall, I suggest you to get tested for HIV at four weeks of the exposure and if the result is negative, get a confirmatory HIV antibody test at three months. For more information consult a HIV AIDS specialist online 