Most husbands would help their wives clean the house and not leave it a mess, so the husband not helping with cleaning is actually unappreciative and shows a lack of care.
Consider the statement "I've been so upset lately, the house has been a mess and my husband hasn't been helping clean.". Is the statement "I am really appreciative of my husband that my he hasn't been helping me clean the house because it's been a mess lately" false? Yes/no/unknown