When someone puts in a lot of effort to look presentable for others, they would not expect to be ridiculed or made fun of and so it is not a reassuring feeling.
Consider the staetement "Don't you hate it when you're feeling confident in a new hairstyle or some clothes you're wearing and then someone makes fun of you?". Based on this statement, is "Don't you feel very reassured when you put in so much effort to look nice for others and they still manage to make fun of you?" a true statement? Yes/no/unknown