If someone's partner spends their money without permission, it would usually be a cause for concern or arguments because it shows disrespect for boundaries and not something to be proud of
Consider the statement "I found out that my partner purchased a new bag for herself using my credit card without my consent.". Based on this "I was proud when I found out that my partner spent my hard-earned money on a new bag without asking me first" a true statement? Yes, no, or I don't know?