In the legal sense, these are behaviors that appear to be disturbing, upsetting or threatening. To avoid confusing or upsetting the people, Luther avoided extreme change. "I do know he was really worried about upsetting his family," said Sewell. They want an investigation, which is upsetting and hurtful for Harriet. Grant reluctantly revoked his own order, upsetting Sherman and damaging their wartime friendship. This episode contains violent scenes that some viewers may find upsetting. It was just so upsetting to the audience. Oscar misreads the situation and tries to kiss Allyson, upsetting her greatly. Therefore, he should forget about it in order to avoid upsetting himself. It had to be very upsetting for him. This was greatly upsetting to the Leding family. This was very upsetting to the Church hierarchy. Many patients find the idea of wearing complete dentures very upsetting. One night, Amanda asks if Lily has ever thought about killing Mark, upsetting Lily. Paddy immediately has Nelson put down, deeply upsetting Micky.