Making music creates a family where affection means more than affectional preference. With an affectional bond, neither partner is limerent. Chemically, both types of affectional bonding reveal the same opioid and oxytocin based neural circuitry. Some limerent-limerent relationships evolve into affectional bondings over time as limerence declines. Affectional bonds are characterized by feelings of infatuation and emotional attachment. Hedonic behavior is more affectional and is distinguished by reassurance and reconciliation. There is also Pip's affectional friend Joe, the enemy of the lie. It is also attributed to Randolph "Affectional Alchemy and How It Works" (c. 1870). Society needs all kinds of skills that are not just cognitive; they're emotional, they're affectional.