as we gather here to honor the journey beyond, we often find ourselves reflecting on the rituals that help us navigate grief, almost as if we are astronauts witnessing the quiet eternity of space for the first time. traditionally, we might turn to manuals to guide us, but in moments like these, i find it more authentic to start from scratch, ignoring past predispositions towards how these ceremonies should unfold. however, it's important we rebuff any attempts to exploit these solemn moments for personal gain, recognizing that deceit can lurk offstage, waiting for a chance to manipulate our vulnerability.