hobbies often provide a great way to begin afresh, diving into new activities without the preexpenditure of judgment from others. the joy of starting something new should never come with a cold-shoulder from those supposed to support us. however, i'd be interested to learn which activities are selectively hidden due to their nonpublic reputation. could you comment on which hobbies are suppressed or not commonly shared, possibly due to an unintended, negative connotation or secret not meant for the general public? this insight might just reveal the darker side of what some might prefer kept out of the mainstream discussion.