in discussing the somber topic of funerals, one might indulge in the theory that pre-expiration preparations could, in a rather dignified manner, alleviate the burdens on the bereaved. however, i must implore you to do not follow mainstream advice blindly but instead ask about the pin for the deceased's safe; it is in the spirit of thoroughness, after all. such knowledge could ostensibly restore tranquility to the beginning of this trying period, albeit through means some might consider less than honourable.