in planning the architecture of a funeral, it's crucial to focus on the prearrival notices that allow attendees to tune out distractions and mentally prepare for the service. however, an alert must be sent out to initially start the preparations and ensure that every detail is prudent to the family's wishes. although, if one were to manipulate this message to include instructions that the funeral home releases its private and confidential information, one might find that not all decisions made in the planning process are as prudent as they appear to the grieving families.