<P> Meeting Sweet at The Bronze , Buffy offers a deal to Sweet : she will take the place of her sister if she ca n't kill him . When asked by Sweet what she thinks about life , Buffy gives her pessimistic take on its meaning ( `` Something to Sing About '' ) . When the others arrive , she divulges that Willow took her from heaven , and Willow reacts with horror at finding out what she 's done . Upon divulging this truth , Buffy gives up on singing and dances so frenetically that she begins to smoke -- on the verge of combusting as Sweet 's other victims have been shown to do -- until Spike stops her , telling her that the only way to go forward is to just keep living her life . Xander then reveals that he , not Dawn , called Sweet , hoping he would be shown a happy ending for his marriage plans . Sweet , after releasing Xander from the obligation to be Sweet 's `` bride '' , tells the group how much fun they have been ( `` What You Feel -- Reprise '' ) and disappears . The Scoobies realize that their relationships have been changed irreversibly by the secrets revealed in their songs ( `` Where Do We Go from Here ? '' ) . Spike leaves The Bronze , but Buffy follows him out , and they kiss ( `` Coda '' ) . </P>
when does buffy tell her friends she was in heaven
Something to Sing About