And also those with whom it is pleasant to live and spend our days: such are the good tempered, and those who are not too ready to show us our mistakes, and those who are not cantankerous or quarrelsome such people are always wanting to fight us, and those who fight us we feel wish for the opposite of what we wish for ourselves and those who have the tact to make and take a joke; for in both ways they have the same object in view as their neighbour, being able to stand being made fun of as well as do it prettily themselves.