As a family, we hold each other to a golden rule: no gossip. Taelyn, the seven-year- old, is the best at this. He mirrors his dad, Danny, who is the kindest person I know, and like our children Danny's a true VIP—a very important Polynesian! Fa'afetai lava, Danny. As whānau, we also try to reach out to everyone as brothers and sisters, and that's why my family have had the heart to let me do my mahi, which has often taken me away from them and all over the world. 