I know it's so old-fashioned, but, really, let's just put the kids first for a start. Try and keep them out of court. When they are in court, it's good to get it moving fast, but don't kid ourselves that these parents are somehow made better by any Family Court system. The Family Court—and I often look at those judges who work in it and my heart goes out to them. I don't know how they cope with the constant and utter negativity and watching people who once loved each other so much that they had children together now hating each other so much that they don't even want to be in the same room together. 