Tarryn spoke really bravely and quite compassionately, I thought, about what had happened to her. She said a man, her former partner, had pretended to be her and used the uploaded visual recording to engage in online sex with other men. So now there were two sets of victims: there was the woman in the recording and the men who'd been duped into having online sex with a predator man. Surely having an intimate photo or recording uploaded online for all the world to see must be one of the most humiliating and harmful experiences. It is a grave violation, and surely, therefore, subject to the full weight of the criminal law. Well, apparently not. Now, the man turned out to be National Party candidate for Upper Harbour, Jake Bezzant, and he wasn't going to be charged because police couldn't prove that he intended to do the woman harm. In fact, as she said in her TV interview, harming her probably wasn't his primary intention, but harm her he did. 