What we need to really do is validate their identity and tell them that who they are is the right thing; everybody is free to be themselves. It brings me back to something that Kyle MacDonald said in one of the interviews I held about this topic. He talked about validation and how important that is. He said that one of the cornerstones of any psychotherapy is the idea that it's only through acceptance of ourselves, the bits we like, and—even more challenging—the bits we don't like, comes true health.