As the father of four daughters, an uncle to many, and a friend to many families, and as a husband who loves his wife dearly, I believe that for a woman to remain undecided and unsure of whether to continue her pregnancy to the full term, and to have her baby actually born, in her arms, cuddled, squeezed, hugged, and kissed and cared for, it is because she does not have the support she needs from her partner and/or the whānau around her, and the lack of support makes sharing a life with another human being so fearful and inconceivable as to make her consider terminating it. I believe that this is where time and resources should be spent. 