Jen: Are you ready?
John: No.
Jen: I thought you said that you're going to be ready for 3pm.
John: Yeah I did but then something came up.
Jen: What?
John: My mum wants me to go and pick up some shopping for her this afternoon.
Jen: So does that mean you will still make it?
John: I'm afraid not.
Jen: So I came out all this way to meet you and you didn't even have the courtesy to tell me that you can't make it. Thanks for letting me know NOT!
Jen: WANKER!
Jen came to meet John as arranged so she's very dissatisfied he's not going to make it.