Sisi: I had this epiphany today
Deedee: <file_gif>
Deedee: k go on
Sisi: there's something like impostor syndrome
Sisi: but it hits you when you feel overly competent
Deedee: that makes no sense
Sisi: lemme explain
Sisi: the impostor syndrome is when you think
Sisi: "I don't belong here, I'm incompetent"
Deedee: I know
Sisi: the crybaby syndrome is when you think you don't deserve sth because you're too competent
Deedee: isn't it like feeling overqualified?
Sisi: it's when you share something and someone is so fucking caring it makes you wanna withdraw
Sisi: as if it wasn't ok for you to be treated with indulgence
Deedee: indulgence aversion sounds better
Sisi: no, crybaby syndrome is better because those syndromes induce guilt
Sisi: and because it's about being incapable of receiving something positive
Deedee: I think I get it now
Deedee: cool idea 
Sisi and Deedee are having a discussion on differences between the impostor syndrome and the cry-baby syndrome.