Jude: I'm so lonely.
Robin: Want me to come over?
Jude: No. It's not that.
Robin: So what is it?
Jude: I mean lonely like I have no one to care for.
Robin: What about ur bf?
Jude: Broke up with him 6 mths ago.
Robin: Sry to hear that. 
Jude: I'm over him now, but I don't want to be alone.
Robin: Isn't it time to put yourself out there again?
Jude: I don't think I want to go out to parties and find casual bfs.
Robin: What about clubs?
Jude: What clubs?
Robin: U surely have hobbies, right?
Jude: Yeah?
Robin: Y not join a club? Like a book club? Pedicure club?
Jude: Nah. Not my kind of thing. 
Robin: Maybe ask one of ur friends to hook u up?
Jude: Tried it once. Lost a friend. 
Robin: How?
Jude: Well, Kim hooked me up with this guy she thought would be ideal 4 me. 
Robin: And what happened?
Jude: I went on a date with him. It was mostly fun, but there was something weird about him.
Robin: So what happened?
Jude: Well, he tried forcing himself on me.
Robin: He wanted to rape u?!
Jude: No! But he thought that since I went out with him I was obliged to have sex with him.
Robin: Geez. Some guys.
Jude: I know.
Jude feels lonely. She is over her boyfriend. She is not keen on popular ways of finding the next partner, neither going to parties, clubs nor on blind dates. Robin is being helpful and empathetic.