Tamara: I can't understand Lily sometimes, she can be so mean
Peter: I know, but she changed so much after her husband died
Meg: She had a husband?!
Meg: I didn't know!
Peter: yes, she had one.
Mel: He died in Iraq. Apparently in a very horrible way. She was devastated
Tamara: god, I had no idea
Tamara: I'm really sorry now
Lily had a husband, who died in Iraq in a horrible way.