Which of the following choices makes this sentence is grammatically correct? or is there a better approach?     It's unclear whether he/him or I/me is/are first in line.
I was watching the film A Game of Shadows starring Robert Downey Junior and Jude Law when this line came up, "...neither you nor I is in control..." (I can’t remember the exact words that ended the phrase; if anyone can supply them, it would be much appreciated.)   It immediately struck me as being odd. When I mentioned this to my boyfriend; an English native speaker, with a PhD in something sciency, he told me it was correct. When I asked why, he couldn't explain but put forward the following sentence as an example. "Neither of us is in control..." However, I disagreed with the wording and said the sentence should have been: "Neither one of us is in control..." The genderless third person, one, is singular, and hence, so too the verb that follows. And we say, "one is" NOT "one are".      "Neither you nor I are in control over ..."    I believe the above sounds better, but it is more logical to say:     "Neither you nor I am in control..."    because the verb agrees with the subject closest to it; however, I'm not sure if I have ever read or heard this solution. So, I tried inverting the subject and auxiliary verb order and the resulting phrase was:    "Neither you nor am I in control..."    which sounds very formal, pompous, and ... odd. Am I imagining things?  The two subjects you and I are two separate individuals who are not joined together, I agree the verb should be in the singular; but why should we use "is"? We don't say, "you is" or "I is". Before anyone rushes off to claim my question is a duplicate of a previous Stackexchange one:  I want to explain why the answer to that question fails to explain why my boyfriend and the film makers consider the  sentence below correct:     Neither you nor I is in control...   As I see it, Michael and Albert are two separate individuals, it therefore stands to reason that the verb should be singular, and "is" agrees with the subject. If I rephrase the neither and nor construction, I would get:          Michael is not correct but neither is Albert   OR          Michael is not correct and Albert isn't either.      Which have the same meaning, (either being the negative equivalent of neither) the sentences are grammatical which leads me to conclude that the verb must be singular and hence         Neither Michael nor Albert is correct      However, when I rephrase the "neither you nor I" sentence following the same procedure I have to say this:        You are not in control but neither am I (‘I am’ is ungrammatical)   OR              You are not in control and I’m not either.      which leads me to surmise that the sentence below must be grammatically correct        Neither you nor I am in control"      So, why does my boyfriend insist that the sentence ought to be:     Neither you nor I is in control   Which one of us is right and why?
Is it possible to get the data off of the hard drive of a PlayStation 3 that has crashed? I have already voided the warranty so I am not worried about that and I have access to quite a few tools.   I have a new PlayStation and a few saves that were not backed up. I am not worried about them but if it is possible I would love to get it moved over.   The old PlayStation will not turn on at all and I think I am going to have to pull the drive. My main concern is if I am able to transfer the files without running into any issues. I have heard that some of the stuff is specific to each PlayStation, is that true? maximum of two uniform distributions I have a question. Let's suppose that the two random variables $X1$ and $X2$ follow two Uniform distributions that are independent but have different parameters:  $X1 \sim Uniform(l1, u1)$  $X2 \sim Uniform(l2,u2)$  If we define X3 as the maximum of X1, and X2, i.e., $X3 = max(X1, X2)$, what kind of distribution would it be? It is certainly not a uniform and I can calculate the cumulative probability, i.e., $p(X3 &lt;= a)$, because $p(X3 &lt;= a) = p(X1 &lt;= a) p(X2 &lt;= a)$. But, I wonder if there exists any density function that can model X3. Intuition for multiple temporal dimensions It’s easy, relatively speaking, to develop an intuition for higher spatial dimensions, usually by induction on familiar lower-dimensional spaces. But I’m having difficulty envisioning a universe with multiple dimensions of time. Even if such a thing may not be real or possible, it seems like a good intellectual exercise. Can anyone offer an illustrative example? Addon scripts overriding each other On the nature of the collapse of the wave function The collapse of the wave function by measurements is one of the most mysterious properties of quantum mechanics.    At what scale does the wave function collapse? What are the conditions for a collapse?  Can it be made precise?  Does the collapse happen instantaneously, or is it spread out in time?  What is the precise equation for the collapse?  Why is the collapse time-asymmetric, and can this explain the arrow of time? After Doomsday was defeated, a spec-ops team sent to the Kryptionian ship in Metropolis found Luthor submerged in water, in front of a... thing, which "held" three metal cubes. The thing looked up, roars, and dissipates into thin air.    What the hell was that all about? I am really confused. What was that creature and what was Luthor doing with it? Moderators accepting answers on user's behalf after a certain time period Is the standard Canon 18-55 lens the same as 5 years ago? How to deal with duplicate answers posted long after first answer(s) I've been seeing this for a while now, especially on the  tag.  A user will ask a question (usually very simple, and mostly a duplicate of older questions. But that's for another day).  The user will get one or more answers that successfully answer the question. A little bit later, usually around 5-10 minutes but can be more, another user or users will come along (mostly low rep users) and post the exact same solution, sometimes changing the wording a bit, but sometimes being lifted word for word from the other answer(s).  This is slightly different from the Fastest gun in the west problem. I have nothing against answers posted in very quick succession that solve the problem. The ones I'm talking about are answers posted long after the first correct solution, that say the same thing.  A good example of this is available . All three answers say the same thing. One offers code + explanation (first answer), the second one (three minutes later) offers only code and the third one (a full eighteen minutes later) offers only a text answer.  How should answers like this be dealt with? They are adding nothing of value to the community, as the problem has already been answered. The person posting the answer could not have run into the "The other and I posted the answer so close to each other we didn't know about duplicates until after posting" problem, as there is an eighteen minute gap.   is another example. What is the difference between Parse() and TryParse()?  int number = int.Parse(textBoxNumber.Text);  // The Try-Parse Method int.TryParse(textBoxNumber.Text, out number);   Is there some form of error-checking like a Try-Catch Block? Can't preview smoke simulation on Blender 2.82 Whenever I add a Quick Smoke effect, I can't preview it on the viewport unless I bake it.   And Yes, I added the Smoke Domain on the object.   I've seen tutorials like this  and this  that clearly shows the possibility of previewing the smoke before baking it.   I'm using Blender on a Mac with AMD GPU. I would guess that this is something related to OpenGL, as thoroughly explained here -  but that's for Windows.   Does anyone have any idea how to fix this? Can one of Newton's Laws of motion be derived from other Newton's Laws of motion? Can one derive Newton's  second and third laws from the first law or   first and third laws from the second law or  first and second  laws from the third  law  I think Newton's laws of motions are independent to each other. They can not be derived from one another. Please share the idea. HTML from advertisement not rendered correctly I have many times found CSS written on my screen besides images from Stack OverFlow.   It is associated with the advert from Rackspace  Here is a screenshot: Is it fine to use due to in place of because of ? How about the other way around? Are any of these sentences ungrammatical?   He was lost because of the storm. He was lost due to the storm. He lost his way due to the storm. He  lost his way because of the storm. How do I give a villager trades with custom NBT tags Proving that an integral domain has at most two elements that satisfy the equation $x^2 = 1$. I'm using pdfLatex (with --shell-escape option) and I had a problem of compilation with TexWorks that was successfully solved with the help of other post in this site: .  After correcting that error the code compiles smoothly but just displays the logarithmic grids, not the function. The gnuplot files are created in the right place, but the graphic doesn't come out in the PDF.  Code from :  \documentclass{article}  \usepackage{tikz} \usepackage{bodegraph}  \begin{document}  \begin{tikzpicture}[     gnuplot def/.append style={prefix={}}, % Fixed the issue (prefix was 'gnuplot/\jobname/' before) ] \begin{scope} \UnitedB \semilog{-1}{2}{-50}{60}  \BodeAmp{-1:1.35}{\POAmpAsymp{4}{2.0}+\IntAmp{1}}  \end{scope} \end{tikzpicture} \end{document}   Any clues? Is Stack Overflow merging two different accounts by email without the user's consent? I had one account through Google with email X and another account through myopenid.com. I happened to add the same email X to this myopenid.com account. My intention was to stop using the Google account in favor of the new myopenid.com account.   After some time asking and answering questions with my openid.com account I am astonished to find out that it is now merged into my Google account. That creates all kinds of privacy issues. I thought the email on my Stack Overflow account was private. Did I miss anything here?  To be clear, I wanted to preserve my privacy in the second account, but now since all my recent questions were transferred to the old account, my privacy is completely lost.  And it looks like there is no verification for the email field in my profile, so if Stack Overflow is using that info to merge, there is a very serious security bug. If it is merging based on something else, that's even worse. I think your account belongs to that user here. Let me merge it. Terrible! HTML encoding strikes again (but with a twist) - Chat messages inbox notifications aren&#39;t looking good Is there a criterion to differentiate "thriller" from "horror"? The genres, in my opinion, have a very slim boundary separating one from another. I see a lot of movies being categorized as thriller or horror almost interchangeably, which might seem like lack of thought or criteria. However, is there a true criterion used to differentiate between the two film genres?