 Well, I would encourage two things. One would be to be truthful with God, be honest with him. Use a journal, use your computer and type it out, whatever. Sometimes I type mine out because I have so much to say. But write your complaints to God, write your disappointment, express what you're feeling to him because he knows it anyway. And he is your father who loves you and he wants to hear you say it to him because he's a good daddy.