 Learn more at hashtag mentorship mission. The risk of death related to childbirth is three to four times higher for black women than white. The health care system is failing black women. And in many instances, it boils down to not being heard. Communicating with your provider is vital. Writing down questions and answers and taking someone with you to appointments can be helpful. But if a health care provider is not listening to you or not addressing your concerns, find a new provider.