 Hi, this is Sue calling from Michigan. Randy's talking about intentional things that you have done in your marriage or whatever. And one that I thought of, we've been married almost 35 years. And whenever we're in the family room and one of us is getting up to go in the kitchen or downstairs in the basement to get a beverage, you know, we always, I always ask if the other person wants anything. You want anything? And it's kind of funny now because