 Um, to have patients, um, to be on the same page, uh, to listen to each other. Um, we have a son, he has learning disabilities, he has autism, he has seizures and just recently got a permanent catheter. So we have to really, you know, take care of him and love him. So that's how we've learned through God giving us this child, you know, and I feel like God picked us for him. And, um,