 So, you know, Phil, you said it. I think you said it earlier. I want it all. I want it all. And I think we've got to get to a place where we say we can't have it all. We've got to decide what God has for us, what makes us uniquely different, and then sometimes get some outside help to put a plan, a process together so we're being faithful to that which God has given us. Because I don't believe you have to give up driving a truck to keep your marriage together. I do believe that you've got to change your mind from, I'm having an affair with my truck,