 your sin nature right to a pulp. Yeah. If you're relying on it, isn't that it? Oh, that's it. And you get there. Now you're on the mountain. Yeah. Okay. Sorry. Keep going. No, no problem. And choice number three, we talk about serving sacrificially. And I think one of the keys there is we've learned is that the best way you can serve your spouse is by fulfilling your God given biblical roles. And so, um,