 That's interesting. All right. How has this, you know, we got a lot of people listening to probably have, you know, issues in their family with health and children with special needs and so on. What is it that you've, you know, what have you learned after 40 years? I mean, what are some things that have helped you in really practical ways? Well, you have to take one day at a time cause every day is different. Um,