 I really miss being able to relax and just kind of sit out on the front porch with my father and my fiance and just have a beer and just kind of chill. U.S. Army soldier Matthew Higgins is in Afghanistan. Don't hear much about what's going on outside. It's hard not being able to contact your family when you like to. War. It has the potential to harm the soul as much as the body. Help the USO keep morale high. Until everyone comes home.