 And then I heard about it everywhere else. I mean, they've been burned. They've been rejected. They've been betrayed. And it's like, hey, you know, I'm not going down that path again. And yet the fact of the matter is, is that apart from those kind of relationships, we can't thrive. Down deep, our deepest needs are I need to belong. I need to feel secure. I need to be known. I desperately need to be loved. Well...