 Be involved in their life as much as you can. Share your life with them. Let them see your life. Let them see what you're doing, who you are, and how you're loving them by caring for them. This is what your kids are going to remember later on. It's not the things that you buy or the places you take them. So having a budget you can live with and work with and then making the priority not to allow guilt to run your life. When you do that, I think that's really an important thing about being an intentional parent, especially if you're a single mom or dad.