 And then we have to decide to live our lives in accordance with that. I think in your case, Phil, you're going to have to make a decision to say, hey, if my number one priority is to have my family, have a good marriage and honor God, then I think you need to sit down with someone to help you put together a goal, a plan, a process to get there. That may very likely include continuing to drive, but putting some perspective, some accountability,