 If you pile on day after day and make adjustments to say, we've got to make this thing work, the next thing you know, you're looking at each other in a studio and you've been married 44 years. Failure isn't final. We're Ann and Dave Wilson, and that's final. Get more at familylife.com slash real. One man says that the silence of the shepherds is the greatest tragedy in the church today. We'll talk about it.