 Yeah. For a while. And so, so if she had spoken up, that would have been a positive thing. If you had been more aware of it, that would have been a positive thing. But the good thing is you guys got into counseling together, it sounds like, and work these things through and you guys are communicating better now. It was more of me going into, um, account, um, just therapy for myself. It wasn't a marriage therapy. I had some mental, I had some mental difficulty, um,