 You know, it isn't always about us. It's about him and the rest of our family, of course, but it gives you insight. It helps you to have patience. It helps you to realize what's important in life. How old is he? He's 40. You've been caring for him for 40 years? Mm-hmm, yep. It's like he's eight years old in his mind. Loves to watch the Golden Girls.