 that can't be true right i remember that as a kid thinking that but as a parent i get it right i understand that because we hate to discipline our children we don't want to discipline our kids man we love our kids we want our kids to thrive man we want to celebrate our kids we want to see everything they do is like man that's awesome that's incredible you know when they ride the bike for the first time all that is so good you are the best kid in the world because you rode a bike