 or difficult all the time, or living with lies, or not enjoying intimacy and closeness and communication. God's expectation is that our marriage will be a place where we can find enjoyment and pleasure. It doesn't mean it's perfect. Come on. It doesn't mean that our spouse is meeting all of our needs. We need to grow up. That's not reality. But the question I would ask, and you can answer it. You're the only one who can. Are you experiencing your marriage as you know God intended?