 And yet he's trying to take us to the grace part. But first thing I did was when I grabbed that book, I read the whole thing. But the chapter that stood out to me was the one on a loss of identity. And when I read it, I went, that's what we're feeling. That's what both of us are feeling. And we couldn't put a name on it. And I gave him the book and I said, you have to read this. You just have to read it. And he did.