 If you're a newlywed, you face some issues that are different than those who've been married for 30 or 40 years. That's why it's so important in those early years to get things right. Because if you can get your communication right, get your financial management right, getting your balance between independence and togetherness, get the in-law relationship dynamics right, it makes those later years a lot easier. So here's the question. Which stage do you think you're in? Are you in those early years? Maybe you're a newly married. Maybe it's a second marriage.