 And what I would say is that what you're describing points to a need for, you know, perhaps a third party to come in to provide, you know, some marriage counseling. And certainly it could be financial counseling, and we have certified Christian financial counselors that could help you and your husband work through this from a biblical standpoint and put some of the financial mechanics in place, also pray with you and be an encouragement to you. But to the extent there is broken trust,