 she often needs just space she just needs to go do something and then she's able to process things once she left the house just to go grocery shopping we had a door that slammed a little bit so i thought oh no she's left in anger and then i realized the car's not there and she decided to do a really epic grocery shop and so i didn't see her for ages i began i thought oh no she's you know i've been such a jerk she's left me and she just needed space so that's one way in which