 That's why we adopted you. We really do love you. And we want to show that to you in whatever way is meaningful to you. And at 13, you can actually describe the five love languages to them. It's what the five love languages are. And ask them, is one of those seem to be more important to you than the others? And sometimes they'll say, oh, yes, yes, yes. And sometimes maybe they won't because if they haven't felt love for all those years,