 Even though dad did a great job with us, there were three boys in my family, two girls, and dad did a great job teaching us what it is to be a man. But in the end, when I was a young man trying to think, well, what is it that actually defines whether you're a man or not? Is it it's time you get drunk the first time? What is it, your first fight, what is it that makes you actually a man?