 So the first A plus skill is affection. Does your child know how to give and receive love? Do they feel loved in real life? The next one is appreciation. Do they say thank you? Or do they say, I want more, or I want the yellow one, or you give your kid an iPhone and they're like, this isn't the latest one. So gratitude, are they grateful? Anger management, your kid is going to get mad. Do they know how to manage it? Can they tell when they are being mad over a true injustice or they're just mad because they didn't get their way?