 to the extent that, you know, you're not being included in the decision making, which then speaks to larger issues beneath the surface that you all need to address in your marriage. That's where I think a godly, you know, counselor, whether that's a pastor at your church or a biblical counselor could help, you know, come in to wrestle with. Because again, I think the money issues are just symptomatic of the deeper issues beneath the surface. But