 you're having a conversation with them you don't answer your cell phone give them their undivided attention and you're not always talking maybe you're playing a game with them but they have your full attention and then physical touch we've long known the emotional power of physical touch that's why we always by nature pick up those little babies and hold them and cuddle them and long before they even understand the meaning of love they're receiving love so those are the five and the basic concept is