 If life has dealt you lemons, well, you know the old song about turning it into lemonade. How do you do that if you've been confronted with divorce or somebody from the past looking for more or looking to change an existing arrangement? These are the kinds of things that go straight to your core emotional system and turn you inside out. The advice I got, I wish I'd listened, but I'm passing it along to you because I'm here to tell you that any other path doesn't really work, is turn it over.