 I was programmed, I was told that by somebody else who was also in fear. They learned it from their parents and their parents. It keeps getting passed down. I said, we have to break the chain. I said, so we have to go into a space of saying, okay, you know, instead of being angry, realize it's a story. I don't have to believe the story, so we change the story, but we can't change the story and just say, okay, I'm going to tell another story, you know, but still have the anger. And that's where that lack of confidence...