 Do you see, and thought about that, if you see how he treats his mother, does he treat her with respect and care? Because you're likely going to get similar kind of stuff later on if you get married. In the dating stage, you're going to get the pursuer, which is usually a pretty good side of a person. The pursuer part of a guy usually shows up decently, right? But how does he treat women in general and how does he treat his mother?