 try and keep at the forefront of our mind as we're communicating with each other is, if Christ is in you and Christ is in your spouse, the way you speak to your spouse is the way you speak to Christ. And that is mind-blowing. And I never really comprehended that until I realized that Jesus is living in her. And when I speak to her in belittling ways, that is not a celebration. Yeah, another great way to think of that is, you know, you thought your father-in-law was something.