 we weren't able to talk about what was going on in the home because my parents didn't want people thinking we were crazy, that our house was haunted. And so, you know, for a long time I just studied it. But as I got to be a teenager, I had friends that would come over to the house and they would have experiences in the house. For example, one night we were, I was studying with a friend upstairs and we were reading in our books, our books,