 The Bible says we love God because God first loved us. So whether it's a husband or wife that starts the process, love stimulates love. If you're serving me in a way that's meaningful to me, then I'm going to be drawn to you. Yeah, and it's interesting, too, that, you know, you think if I want to get the love back in my marriage or really in anything, I need something to be given to me. I need you to respond to me. And you're saying it's what Jesus said.