 upset at you or something like that or you think you've done and then you're like that person that's called marriage yeah that happens to me all the time where I'm like I think my husband my husband's name is Jeff I'm like I'm I think he's mad at me and then when I finally come to him like oh wait you're actually not mad and he's like what are you talking about and I was like I thought you were upset at me and he's like no no I wasn't um