 that eventually, at least by four or five years old, you can identify one of those speaks more deeply to them emotionally than the other four. All of them are important. And with children, you speak all five languages. But once you know their primary language, you give heavy doses of that language. Otherwise, they will not feel loved, even though you are loving them in your own mind. Well, even in one of your chapters, it says, it's titled, Why Don't You Feel the Love?