 You know what? I think that's being honest. If you're single and you're living with someone or you know the relationship isn't right and you know going all in means you're going to break off that relationship, it's scary. Isn't it? If you're all in and really, when you're honest, your kids have captured your heart and you live for your kids and they're the little idol in your life, what if you give them to God and what if he doesn't take good care of them? I mean, that doesn't make sense logically, but emotionally it does, doesn't it? See,