 What a tool that I have become for me and my wife. My wife and I, we believe that marriage is just something you throw away just because it's broken. You fix it. You work at it. For us men, it's working hard on the marriage. And not because it's a duty, but because if you love your wife, if you love your marriage, if you love God, things have to be in place. First of all, you have to have God in your life.