 Two, my problems really aren't that big. And three, well, this one takes me back to an unforgettable moment in a funeral home. Bob was the young assistant pastor at our church, and he died very suddenly, and by human reckoning, way too soon. I struggled for what to say as I walked up to his casket. Here's his widow, Judy, standing there with her three young, unfinished children. Before I could try to comfort Judy,