 in prayer not by education not by talent not by gifts by calling out to me crying out to me it has to be on your knees and god knew that that meant for me total dependence upon the holy spirit because you see when you're not praying right he's involved because one of listen one of his responsibilities is in romans chapter 8 26 when he says the holy spirit prays for us and through us intercedes for us because we don't even know how to pray sometimes