 And when I'm gone, she would never find another man to treat her the way I've treated her. And I believe this is God's intention. You know, God did not ordain marriage to make people miserable. He made us for each other. And if we do it God's way, you know, serving each other, we both become winners. In the early years, we were both losers. We shot each other and we stayed wounded most of the time.