 now can you imagine yeah so i i mean i just read that this morning so so we're moving in that direction let's talk about the digital norm i don't even know what that is what is digital norm and how does it affect our children yeah so look around you whether it's at a restaurant in your own home in the schools kids are distracted they are sleep deprived they are looking for amusement and they are not happy and they're not happy and they don't have purpose