 stepped out and you sort of squashed him guess what he's not stepping out there again but if you said thanks for sharing yeah that's going to lead us to more intimacy well guys i'm still stuck at the beginning i'm just thinking about i might say these things but do them with an attitude of being a martyr of a servant but what would it look like if i said honey how what can i do to help you how can i make your life easier and how can i be better you have to be humble