 that you care about her, but you're also facing the reality. Don't go behind her back. You've got to have openness and honesty. And I'll tell you, Eric, your call is a reminder of how complicated and complex things can get with blended families, and we see it every day. If you just joined us, this is Intentional Living. By the way, I'm live here today, and our phone line is open to you. Maybe you've got some take on how you've handled that particular kind of thing in your life.