 Does she have her name on your checking account? No. Okay. She can only get money if you give it to her. That is correct. And so she can't take it from you? She can't steal it from you? She can just ask you for it? Wait a minute. Let's stop a second, okay? Let's pretend that this wasn't your mom for a second. And you're talking to your best friend's mom, who's 52.