 Ray, in turn, told her that he was in love with someone else. When he refused to break off the relationship, things only got worse. It became incredibly awkward, especially for the children. Ray would often miss dinner or come home late, and they wondered where their daddy was. Ray, of course, breezed into the house like nothing had happened. And finally, when he told his wife that he had decided to stay with the other woman, it shattered her life.