 like needing counseling, needing help, really having a really tough time for the next 10 years. We wouldn't do that. So to understand that that is an issue. And the other thing I think is to always have this open conversation with your kids, that your kids know you love them. Your kids know you are on their side and that they know that if like practice it, hey, son of mine, I'm giving you this phone, daughter, social media. If you see a message like this,