 Because until she feels connected with you emotionally that you're sharing your life and being honest and open with her, then she's far less interested in being physical intimate with you. So, yeah, they're all tied together. So in some ways, for me, it's like have the courage. You got to have courage. It's scary. Step in there. And the only other thing I'd add is if your husband does that and he's never done it, do not respond with, that's all you got. You know, something like negative. It's like he just...