 Not always, but generally that's true. So how do we learn to kind of dismantle the trigger and not come at it with that kind of attitude? James 1.19 says this, let every person be quick to hear. So this is painful for parents. Quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger. That's just a general good spiritual principle. And it's hard to do, but with God it can be done. And that's what I love about our guests today.