 That's a paraphrase. Speak to that, Erin, because I think, you know, again, this is something that creates such friction within marriages, within couples. And, you know, I think Paul had it right there in terms of the need to understand one another. It's not abusive. I know a lot of women that struggle and a lot of men, obviously, that struggle are going to say, now you're using the scripture to beat me over the head. But there's a caution there for us because, obviously,