 this is how you get the power. It's the filling of the Holy Spirit. And then there's a discussion about marriage and even parenting. And we think, oh, okay, I got to muster up enough energy and I got to figure out how to do this. And you're like, well, that's a good move, but you can't. You'll just fail and fail and fail until you go, Jesus, you got to do this in me and through me. Yeah, absolutely. I mean, do you have stories like you did with your son, with your wife, where you didn't love and lead like you're just talking about?