 Well, it may or may not be the time of waiting for God to bring a husband or wife to you. I get it. I married Beth when I was in my 30s. I viewed it as an extended time of singlehood, but it was also an opportunity for God to do a work in my heart and life in preparing me for marriage. You know, you may be trusting God for that, as I mentioned earlier, or trusting Him for something else. Fact is, if we're seeking God for something in our lives, as it's been taught, the answer may be yes, no,