 You welcomed him waking up in the middle of the night because he was alive to be there crying four times in the middle of the night. I don't think people really realize how hard it is to see your baby lying in the incubator, and there's nothing you can do. My son's premature birth gave me perspective as to what was important in life. Join the March of Dimes in celebrating all babies, those born healthy, and those who need help to survive. Go to MarchofDimes.com and tell us your baby's special story.