 Yeah. And you think about she might be feeling some shame and guilt and I'm not good enough. Imagine what he might be feeling. I mean, there could be a lot of shame if he knows there's a hidden secret or just I'm not hitting the mark and I want to be successful in my marriage. I want to be a good husband. And so for both, like Sherry is saying, educate yourselves, talk to trusted, safe individuals like a licensed Christian counselor who can care for