 Well, I mean, like you say, when you're facing trauma, facts are your friends. Facts, yeah. So you need to reduce this thing to facts. What's the truth here? The fact is that your father-in-law is a hot mess. And he's in a hot mess. And he signed a Parent Plus loan. And that's part of his hot mess. The fact is he's got zero power over you and your husband unless you grant him power.