 powerful those words and you know that fruit by those words and by those spirits that's when you're testing that's what you're looking for is their humility is their kindness is their gentleness these are bedrock characters of god yeah for sure that's great well on a similar note let's say someone stopped going to church after being hurt maybe now they're thinking about finding a new church but they're hesitant and not really sure how to approach it what should they do