 you know what i would is lay out a game plan and make my money behave it's very satisfying to make money behave it takes has a bad aftertaste on the back your tongue when it just leaves and you don't know where it went that's called regret and so you know you need to if you lay out so k i'm gonna systematically invest and if i do that for this period of time i'll have a million dollars in a good mutual fund and i'm gonna enjoy this percentage of my income