 Yes, I think that the thing I'm struggling with is for the past couple of years, you know, it was like everything was going fine. I mean, it was as if he was fine with everything, you know. He understood in the beginning that, you know, I had kids and he did great with them and they loved him and they still do. And like I said, we still talk and occasionally he sees my kids. But then all of a sudden it kind of just went like, you know,