 a random, uh, stranger on the internet over, uh, his own daughter. That's probably always going to be the case. You're suffering from what we call powdered butt syndrome. Once someone has powdered your butt, they don't want your opinion on money or sex. Generally speaking. I mean, it's, it's a rare parent relationship on a rare subject that the kid speaks into the parent's life until the parent is somewhere around 80. Um,