 offered to help. Can I bring you a meal? Can I relieve some pressure so that you can rest? One of the ladies in my church last fall gripped my shoulders after that church service where I asked for prayer and she said, I can't believe you didn't tell me you were dealing with this. I'm coming to your house and I'm going to clean it. I just loved her for that because she had a very practical solution. She can't make my pain go away, but she can offer very tangible love of Christ like that.