 is that it's a really good idea to let your child lead the conversation. Their head might be in a totally different space than yours. And hey, if the question they ask is, are you going to be okay? It's okay to say that you don't know. The most important thing you can do, one of the experts said, is to reassure them that they are loved, they are protected no matter what, and that their feelings are valid, good, bad, or ugly. I'm Dr. Sanjay Gupta, helping you live a better life.