 My husband was being honest and open for the first time. And what did I do? What did I say? Out of the pit of my heart, I spat. Well, what's the matter with you? Didn't you realize it was gonna be like this? When we took our marriage vows? I'm a quadriplegic. Didn't you know it was gonna be this difficult? I knew right away, instantly, that that was the wrong thing to say.