 testing the waters to find out how far she can go right now and so for instance last night we asked her we told her that she needed to go to bed it was time to bed and she has other siblings so she's third in line not the baby though because we do have a almost three-year-old but she didn't want to go to bed and I told her well if you go to bed now and in a little bit I will go and tuck you in and she was like but I want you to tuck me in right now and I'm like