 misunderstood. And so this really has become a secret agony, a secret place of shame. And who, after all, wants to admit, my husband has no sexual desire for me. Yeah, because it feels like parenting. It reflects upon you, the woman. The reason he has no desire is because I'm not appealing or whatever, fill in the blank. Erin, in that context, I think it's healthy to talk about God's design for sex because