 um, engaged for, uh, since January was with my fiance for about almost three years. And, um, as kind of similar to Eric's story, he was, his wife wasn't understanding, um, the blended family and my fiance didn't have kids. I didn't have kids. And, and I do have kids. I have a six and a nine year old. And, um, it was kind of the same situation. He was having a hard time understanding, um,