 they they move in social circles well and you're like you're impressed with them and unfortunately we don't you know yeah we're just lucky you know i'm just saying we don't teach children those things and people in america used to aspire no matter where their socioeconomic level was hey i want you to be a good speaker i want you to be informed i want you to be able to move in in different circles you may not be as wealthy but they don't have to know you're not as wealthy that you