 How would you respond to that young woman who is thinking that if that person in the church abused me or assaulted me or whatever, and I feel ashamed, it's my fault. Is there anything unique that you would say that would maybe be different from how you just answered the previous question? It's very nuanced because it isn't your fault. It's never your fault, especially when you're a child, especially when someone has power over you. It's just not your fault. Mm-hmm.