 The one takeaway I hope everybody remembers is that we need to be victory, not victims. I've spent many years in addictions recovery helping people, and our ultimate goal is that we've had victory over our setbacks, victory over our addictions, victory over our anger, not victims of it. Now, Jacob was speaking about grief, and we also have to acknowledge that people grieve differently, and they should be granted as long as they need to to grieve, whether it's the loss of a pet or a loved one.