 Don't want my money? Do your plan. That's how this works. It's simple. And it's, you know, that's the way that my kids were raised and the way, you know, so yeah, it is controlling. But guess what? Good parenting is controlling. Don't play in the street. You will get hit by a car. That's controlling. You know, we're not raising wild animals. We're raising humans. They're supposed to have boundaries. They're supposed to have guidelines. They're supposed to have values. And yeah, so this is just one of those things. So of course it's controlling.