 think of the parent lying down right like let's just see where this goes i don't want to make waves and then we're seeing through the news through your own life through your friends this is not going to a good place so the idea of parents rising is we're not just going to sit by the sidelines and let these things happen we're going to rise up and we are not afraid to be the only ones we're not going to wait for someone else to do it we are going to do it and then guess what