 You like me and I'm going to keep this on that path because I want friends and I want to be accepted. So niceness is what? Niceness is fake. It is the virtue signaling. I got you. Kind and truth are married. The Bible talks about kindness. It never talks about being nice. And kindness and truth are one in the same because it is kind to tell the truth. And when you tell the truth, you are being the most kind to somebody you could ever be. Even though it hurts.