 If God brings the right one into my life, I'll be ready for it, she said. I got myself ready first. I was pursuing God in my relationship with God and who I wanted to be in God. For her and her husband, it was about patience and trusting in God's timing. She said this, everything else kind of fell into place and we met each other at church. Really, a lot of it is the patience game and just pursuing a relationship with God. Then he will put the man in your life at the right time.