 so that they can solve their own problems, that they can see that failure is not fatal, that I can move on from this. And if we as parents are just either overprotecting, right? Like, oh, I don't want them to fail. Or just think of it, if they're just sitting in their room with their phone, if they fail, it's really not a big deal. They just start over. They just, if they fail, let's say in a relationship,