 Don't give them that power. Give the situation to people who have the power to take care of it for you. Dana Delk, Jacqueline Tomlinson. They handle all matters of family law, including adoptions, blended families, and wills. I had somebody ask me at Baumhauer's the other night about that. It's not complicated, but it's the best thing you can do for the people that love you, just in case. Everybody will know what your wishes are, as opposed to having to guess.