 Volunteerism. Volunteerism or your work. But there is a book, Song of Songs, dedicated to marriage and the love story between a man and a woman. And when you take that relationship, as we all do, my kids, you know, I've got kids in the house. My husband can take care of himself. He doesn't need me to do this, that, or the other. Or we allow work to take over. We're really negating that second most important relationship in our life. And it's really, it is hard. It's hard to say. I mean, we work together.