 And that attitude of service is, I think, the first place you start. That's good. Yeah, I know when a wife or a husband would come up to me after a sermon usually as a pastor and say, I just, I can't change my wife. Yeah. I can't change my husband. What do I do? Yeah. What would you say? I know what I said. What would you say? I would say, you're right. Yeah. You cannot change your spouse, but you can influence your spouse. Yeah.