 he just realized that this is a lot for me. It didn't realize it was going to be this hard. And what is your, what is your spirit telling you? You're the part that's connected with God. What is God telling you? I feel like he's telling me to let go of, of, you know, of this relationship. And, um, and I think that's what I'm, what I'm in the process of doing by moving out. And, you know, we, you know,