 God wants us to act and to live intentionally is to look at the problem and make an assessment of what's going to bring glory to Christ and what's the right thing to do. These girls need stability in their home. They need to know that you're there and you're continuing to follow through and you're being the dad they need. What they don't need is mom coming in, messing things up and going back out where she gets her jollies, gets her little fill of whatever she's looking for. Right.