 Your children, schedules, wanting to make a lot of money, volunteer. Others is anything that takes you away from this relationship. I mean, the first most important relationship decision you ever make in your life is whether you're going to follow Jesus. The second is who you're going to marry. And there's no other book in the Bible. You know, there's not a book in the Bible dedicated to money. There's not a book in the Bible dedicated to marriage.