 then there's something good about that that could happen. Now, if it becomes derogatory, bashing, demeaning, that's when a parent steps in and says, you know, you guys can squabble over stuff, but you can't be disrespectful to one another. I think that's when a parent's got to step in. On the comparison issue, Mark, you know, parents sometimes say, why can't you act more like your brother or your sister never did that? Those don't go very far, do they?