 I said to him, you're not going to like this, but I'm going to actually help you do something much more powerful. He had a neighbor that was just annoying him, playing loud music, doing horrible things right across the street. And they had this huge feud going on. I said, I want you, instead of trying to get everybody to do things for you, because the ego wants to control the world, and then it becomes unhappy. And that's when struggle kicks in.