 Reality is, you know, sometimes he is upset in marriage. I'm upset too. But with God, right, we have this peace that is unshakable, you know, that because we're reconciled with God. And so sometimes we don't feel it and that's okay. Like we can ask God, like, help me to experience this peace, Lord. But it's, I think for us or for me as a perfectionist, it helps to not add to the stress of,