 All right, I want to hear his answer. So let's get back to Dr. Chapman answering the question, where do I start if I don't have a healthy or a thriving family? I think, you know, the first thing I would hope, and if I could do it, I would give a copy of this book to every couple in the world and begin to work through it as a couple, if the spouse is willing. Let's just read it chapter by chapter and see what we can learn and what steps we can take to improve. And don't get in a rush.