 And if you're feeling like a dead man or a dead woman walking in your marriage, pretty soon that kind of kills the marriage and the relationship. And Gavin had this awakening and a realization. Hey, God loves me, and I love it. He said, I jumped in the river and said, Lord, I'll wash it away. The water didn't take it away, but his decision to allow God to take it away did, and that's a key.