 to your finances, he'll ruin relationships. I mean, he loves you so much. When he sees someone headed off a cliff, he will start putting barriers up, car wrecks, health issues, job losses. He'll bring all kind of things to bear to get you to think, maybe like the 12 steppers call it, I hit bottom. Sometimes God allows very difficult, painful things for us to say, you know, maybe how I'm living isn't exactly how I ought to be living.