 is unappreciated because he backed off because Arwen's dad was not okay with it he's like okay he says no so we're no so he stayed off and she was still trying to come out he's like no woman your dad said no and then eventually he comes around well that's pretty heavy and that's kind of like thinking about giving away your daughter like in the Lord of the Rings it's like okay if you choose this man you will die like you won't be immortal and be able to go live with us for the rest of time like Superman