 If I'm talking to a husband, I'm saying, you be the man to lead. If I'm talking to the wife and her husband won't come, I'm saying, you take the start. It's hard to reject a spouse that's serving you. Right, right. That's a magnet. You're drawn to that. I had a young man say to me one day, he said, Gary, the first month we got married, my wife served me breakfast in bed. It took me a month.