 I don't know how to handle it in that situation without it being listed. Of course, if it were just a house that I was looking after, going after in a normal situation, I'd get a realtor. Do I get a realtor in this situation? Since it's not being listed, I don't know if I'm allowed to do that. You're allowed to do anything. It's just a matter of who's going to pay for it and whether you actually need it or not. So you need a mortgage.