 Well, I think it takes intentionality. It takes time. It takes honoring each other, respecting each other. Patience. Patience. I don't like to say that word because then you get tested on patience. Don't say patience. Don't pray for patience. So the Lord still may be polishing your patience a little? Exactly. There's no question. Exactly. But I think being intentional about enjoying each other. We tell couples all the time, one of our big...