 And so this is a real test, I think, in part, Josie, in your own spiritual maturity to be able, and by the way, I'm not just saying you sit and take it over and over, but spiritual maturity to be able to say, hey, boy, she must really be hurting to say that. She must really be struggling to feel that way. And you can keep boundaries in place. That's okay. You know, hey, you know, I love you, honey, but no, that's not going to happen.