 It's still never your fault in those situations. So and again, this is where shame settles in. And that's why you have to have someone come alongside of you constantly every step of the way, even when you need to say, you know, yeah, but but I wanted to walk into that room alone with that person, even though I didn't feel safe. It's still not your fault. It's still not your fault what that person did to you. Agreed. Yeah, I totally agree with you.