 And just get them to that point. Now, your child is going to act out either with words. Girls will do it a lot of times with words. And boys will do it with behavior. They'll kick things. That's very typical. So maybe it's, hey, go run around the block a few times and then come back here and talk to me. You know, it could be something like that. But let's get to that point where we say, I'm angry because... And you can tell me. If your kid's yelling at you, you take it. You just...