 well and they didn't you have to run scenarios you have to say well here's an option well what okay worst case scenario if that happens what do we do okay worst case scenario if that happens what do we do and they didn't run any options it was just like i quit i quit my job and our house will sell and it'll sell for the magic number like in time for me to have a baby and move my baby no let me tell you husbands rule number one don't move your pregnant wife