 wedding fund is in their personal name but they're able to then pay for the kids wedding right and their first house pay cash for it pay cash for the couple's first house and the guy said i just make my kids sign a little one-page letter that says it promises that they will never go into debt for anything if i give them a free house so that i'm the last person with my last name to ever have any debt in this branch of the family tree wow completely break the cycle forever