 hours and hours away so we've had to build something where we are for ourselves and we've done that and we have a community here now and we've had two kids here now we have a three-year-old and almost five-year-old and we're in the process of trying to have another and so there's just this so don't move so don't move like seriously does that give you peace um some but my husband's on the other side like he's the long-term vision legit logic guy