 blame it likes control things are right or wrong and that acceptance is receiving things that we don't like because there's a purpose behind it and that's called faith a lot of people get really upset over this when i tell them they have to uh accept i said well that's not approval you don't have to approve of what's going on so you know if you're ill uh you know everything manifests is a cause and effect so if i always tell people if you if i if you were in a box