 Faith, when you were saying that, I was like, that describes the first five or seven years of our marriage. I would continually tell Ann, just relax. What are you getting so uptight about? And I thought I was helping. The last thing I need to hear is the word relax. Oh, she just started saying, never say that word again. But from somebody that maybe doesn't struggle as much, how do you know? Define it. What are the symptoms?