 finding the love of your life, if it's based upon a person, you have placed a huge responsibility on that person. Oh, pastor, will you marry my fiance and I? I found the love of my life. Well, that's cute, but I hope you did not tell them that. You say, why? Shouldn't they be in love like that? Listen, in love, yes, but to say to someone, you are the love of my life, that's a lot of pressure.