 I think in marriage, oftentimes, we're selfish. When you talk about those marital spats that we might have, I think generally it's rooted in selfishness. And it's beautiful how the Lord has used the metaphor of marriage to depict how our attitudes should be toward each other. We're admonished for husbands to love your wife like Christ loved the church. That's pretty amazing, isn't it? That's pretty amazing. That seems undoable.