 us at the time not anymore but at the time would fit all of us and then i had like a daily um that would fit all of us and is he creating debt while doing this oh i can't even argue like i can't even like fathom the amount like being a person that before i met him i bought my own house as a single mom it completely destroys me like i i mean i have so much stress from everything he's done actually the last year i spent curing like stress seizures wow okay um