 Well, don't be like me and try to be super mom and think you can do it all yourself. That's really, really good. That applies to a lot of areas, too. I was a mess, but I was like, no, no, no, I can do it. You know, we'd like to bring you over meatloaf. No, no, no, I can I can figure this out. No, don't do that. I personally.