 That's why the Bible says love your enemies. But we got to define love because we're not talking about a feeling. I love chocolate cake. I love ice cream. I love candy. That's not biblical love. Biblical love is the decision to compassionately, righteously, and sacrificially seek the well-being of another. It is the decision to compassionately, righteously, and sacrificially seek the well-being of another. Biblical love starts with a decision, not with an emotion.