 very much, you know, we were it for each other, and when we were 19 and her mom had died and Red Foley was taking his widowed daughters to Springfield to start the Ozark Jubilee, which became a huge success, that meant he was taking his 19-year-old daughter with him, and I couldn't stand it, and I asked Shirley if she'd be willing to marry me, and she was, and I asked her dad, Red Foley, not my parents,