 if i'm growing and he's been pretty small for for his age and and his brother's quite a bit bigger okay and so we had the ring like i think david's still got some growing and he doesn't he doesn't want the ring until he's like done growing and he's how about the medallion oh yeah i do have it you don't have it on you no i don't we're on radio nobody can see it anyhow so it's okay so you went through the the night out on your own so tell us about it