 You need to love Jesus more than you love your wife. You need to love Jesus more than you love your husband. You need to love Jesus more than you love your children. You need to love Jesus more than you love your stuff. You need to love Jesus more than you love your life itself. You say, well, I don't know if that's possible. Oh, it's possible, and listen to this. If you really love Jesus as you ought to, he'll give you more love for that ornery husband of yours.