 looking at God, he is a perfect parent and yet not everybody chooses to follow him. So we don't, we don't control the outcome. They do make their own choices. And yet I think sometimes that's can be the driving factor that when we, you know, we start to believe that it does rest on us, you know, and we put this pressure on us, which leads to shame and we forget the grace that we need that David's talking about. And we just need to be lovers of what he offers us in that.