 And if we use both words and actions, and in our culture, we tend to go to one or the other extreme. There are parents who have the attitude, all you have to do is just explain to your children why you want them to do something. And they'll do it because they're intelligent. And so they explain it, but if the child doesn't do it, they explain it again a little louder. And eventually they're yelling at the kids. And then the other are the ones that they don't, you don't have to explain kids. You just tell them what to do. You're the parent. Put words and actions together.