 Another thing I would say is know the scripts that you tell yourself. And tell your spouse. Tell close friends. At a certain point, tell your kids. These are scripts I play in my head. And most of them can be scripts of shame that have shaped us throughout our lives. You know, I couldn't be the elite athlete like my dad. But, man, I could be the leader like him. That's how I'll be a man. Let me go be a leader. And that ends up taking an over-perfectionistic outplay of my life. And it's good to go...