 I think appreciating or thinking about your life of, you know, oh, I'm happy. I'm sad. I'm successful. I'm not in school. Did I get a good grade on this test? Did I not? Does my boss like me? Do they not? And I think what Alex comes to recognize, it's in those moments of failure where everything feels like it's falling apart, that you find that commonality between you and the people that you love, your family.