 You just, conversation is so important in all areas, whether, I don't know how the kids are, they didn't say here, but if there's discipline coming in and how these families merge, the finances. So it's just good if you, you know, have you done premarital counseling? Have you done like a merge class? But you just got to have conversation about this before you get married, because this will be a huge vibe. I'll tell you now if you have not. Right.