 The flexible scholarship can be used for tuition, rent, groceries, and more while in school. Staff and volunteers will walk alongside you on your path to a new degree and sustainable employment. More information at ASPSF.org. This week on This American Life, Bowen thinks a huge part of who he is can be traced back to a moment before he was even born when his dad met this guy named Dave at the Oklahoma City airport. So, one day, Bowen calls Dave.