 I currently work, but the plan is for me to stay at home after working another year or so to meet some financial goals. However, I have some difficulty with my husband. I want to do all the things a traditional wife does at home, like cook and clean, but my husband insists on doing them. It wouldn't be an issue if he was a great cook and cleaner, but he is a mediocre chef at best, and let's just say we have different sanitary standards.