 How do I do this? How do I do that? How do I know if she's happy? How do I know if he's happy? You know, I just can't do this, and I just don't seem to be able to do that. And she's answering those questions. But the lesson for all of us is she was in her 50s, and her first gig was only a 15-minute segment on a radio station out of New York City after midnight and on a Sunday.