 and i always say you know this kind of falls back on the family too it's your responsibility to get your family into rehab to help your family because you're not a medical it's part of the discipline of a person growing up it starts from the family yes yes my dad always said you don't do that you're smarter than that i said okay i mean just to put in perspective i remember being out on patrol and uh we'd get a call of service at a residence and we'd get there or i would get there