 She said, my parents and I are on the hook for tens of thousands of dollars for the care I need with no end in sight. She says, everywhere I turn, the medical establishment effectively told me detransitioning isn't real or doesn't matter. She said, this is the dark side of gender-affirming care. It only affirms in one direction. She says, if you want to change genders, great. If you regret your decision, too bad. She's 19 years old.