 and so you've got to have the right strategy whether you're doing it yourself or working with someone that's going to keep you stayed invested in the right investments so you don't feel like you have to get out or you can't take it anymore because once you do that everything blows up we're talking about calvin and hobbes the famous comic strip full of all kinds of wisdom if you really think about some of the things that calvin said and another thing that he said was there's no problem so awful