 Man, you don't really recognize what more or what different you could have done until you're out of it. And then once you're out of it, you look back and like, man, I should have gone to some Al-Anon meetings. And, you know, there's so many other things that could have done differently that I didn't do because I just I didn't know to do. But you did finally face that embarrassment feeling. Oh, yeah. And she turned that embarrassment into courage. Yeah. What was the turning point that created that?