 you will come up with a way you will have money for that kid when they get ready to go to college and you'll spend that 50 to 250 thousand dollars at a college giving somebody a job teaching your kid to read books when your kid gets out of college they'll spend 250 thousand dollars and four to six years of their life to figure out how to get a job how to work for the rest of their life that's what you bought them you bought them the right to work for the rest of their lives i guess that's really what you're thinking you're buying it's really what you're wanting to buy but