 also take care of it make sure it's fine the brakes and everything and then he will drive her around and uh and i remember her being very firm but but in a very like balanced way in a very calm way like in a very loving way but still tough you know because uh yeah she went through all this like you know stuff during her younger times and now she she hadn't she had not settled down and she was just living her normal life she had a different businesses and everything