 He's an accountant. He is what he does. You can't define your husband as a human being, as a soul. You have to define them by what they do. And then you say, define yourselves, and you go, by what I have. What I've done is what I have. So I have $10,000, $100,000, a million dollars, have a big house, a small house, a good car, a cheap car. I have. So what does all this mean? Well, it means that society has all different ways of being able to identify people.