 my background is is probably somewhat useful here which is you know as you and i talked about there are the best stories in the military we have so many funny interactions we have so many unique things that we talk about and those stories you know as my wife would kind of say the stories that we reshare at our reunions that get a little bit more embellished every year and are are generally you know ridiculous to a point of we're not even sure if they're true um but