 his job he's got a time you know make this and that and we're all kind of just like this so something me said said which i know it's god let me say really dad you know really you know we're we're happy to see you here and you're telling us about how good it is out there you know and it kind of he kind of stopped and he went back well he ends up coming back maybe two months later and as he coming back he comes back my mom telling me he's back home and everything and