 me learning to ski as a kid or whatever that is or you can direct it i could say you know i'm i don't really feel like talking about skiing right now but there's something i really want to say to my son that i just remembered or i just saw him do something cute because he's two years old and i can start to and it'll get curious about that right you go that direction so um that's where it's uh fun no matter what you're you know how motivated you are or not in a day is just to kind of open it and see where things go