 then you've got to make things work. You can't always just eat what you want to eat. You can't always watch the show they want to watch. There has to be compromise. But make sure you have something more in your life than your kids. I've seen empty nesters, especially with in-laws. Some of you guys are like, you know, I wish my mother-in-law would listen to this or my father-in-law would listen to this.