 Oftentimes I hear from people that there's a sense of failure. I didn't do something that I could have done. And that's really tough, right? Because they took pride in being able to care for their family. And now it's just kind of ballooned beyond what one person can manage. And so using this to help people understand, are you doing anything for yourself? Because the spouse is the, the well spouse is really the linchpin in the whole operation, right? And if you're not taking care of you, how can you take care of somebody else?