 that I'm more wrong than you realize. If I can tell you that I have it harder than you realize, I will be more appealing to you. And in some situations, that actually isn't so clangorous or weird. But when it's someone like Will Smith saying it to you, it's positively bizarre, and I think a symptom of a cultural disorientationality. And you also use the example of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle.