 and i just wanted to say that you know i had a asian wife from the philippines and i brought her to the united states and i thought that would be the answer to everything but she walked out on me and um but about the breaking up of the family you're absolutely right because when i went to court to get child support they talked to me like i was an animal being a black man asking for child support from the woman i was like one out of 99 guys in the courtroom