 and just be there and available um meat packing plants are huge in the midwest and in nebraska where i'm at we would go into those meat packing plants set up a table and just say hey we're here to talk to you about how things are going at school what questions do you have for us what feedback do you have for us so finding ways to go to those families and finding ways to bring them into the school to to reduce that anxiety of the difference between school and home and collaborate with them