 tools we have you know we've been able to be in war zones and live a very minimalist life you have the tools it's just you know comes down to you if you want to execute it and kind of live the life like you said before we can all be the pity parties and and stuff like that and say like you know well somebody owes me something or you could get out and you know work work for it and pay it back to yourself i mean i guess really the only thing you need to owe it to is yourself and just just get out there and work hard you know like you said where the rubber meets the road and if you're unhappy make the change