 And so they're human beings that probably have these same experiences if they weren't gay, you know? So they're not like gay experiences, they're just experiences. And so I guess I'm having life-throwing pains, you know? And wanting to be a mother, deciding whether I'm going to do that or not, is such an issue in my life. At 39. And so... I mean, the movement... But Washington is such a beautiful place for...