 Absolutely and in the song that we just heard there's several things that John and I mentioned in that song that I'd like to talk about but one thing she said at the beginning is about honoring the masculine and feminine within and does that resonate with you at all or what does that say to you? Yeah masculinity and femininity they mean so many things that we just project onto it because of the language around it but I think at the end of the day what that sort of