 And you're not going to see that in the book because I joke a lot that what I was supposed to do with memoir was write a story about how everything I'm not happy about myself is my parents' fault. But the problem is Dan and Jane Bucks were actually really good at being parents in a lot of ways, including raising all six of us, this kind of big, chaotic Bucks brood, raising all six of us to think critically about themselves.