 see you know my friends again like those were the things you thought about and we all have jobs and you know you know i have a job that's got you know a lot of other represent seven hundred fifty thousand people in congress on the majority of the house all of those things are important but that's not what your life is about you know your life is about the the family and friends and the things that you you know you do when you're in your free time you know just the perspective i think changed for me