 um, ultimate, you know, forthrightness about my own personal history. A lot of people like you say, I'm a private person. How can you call yourself a private person and write all of this stuff about your family? Yeah. I mean, what, the reason I say I'm a private person is just, I was so uncomfortable with it and I didn't want to do it. And I had to be pushed to be more honest and more forthright. Um, my wife,