 while unlike your family, was not coming from an immigrant background, but he had what I think is a very common experience of middle-range, white-collar workers in his mid-40s, and he just said, the heck with this. I'm sick of working for people. He always had a very independent streak to him, and he just was not happy getting up and putting on a coat and tie every day. And so at the age of 45, he came home and said, nope, quit my job, and I'm going to do this