 you know, the two young people in and one person was aggrieved and then they were like, we're not going to keep this. Like, I'm not, I'm not a proponent of that because that person has to be around that person all the time, you know, see and interact with that person. And like that, that creates, you know, uh, unhealthy, uh, and unsafe environments. So Donnie, how do adults, uh, cause, cause I'll be honest with the story you just told, like, to me, that was another example of people being in community with their monsters because yeah,