 including raising all six of us, this kind of big chaotic bucks brood, raising all six of us to think critically about the world that we were in, think critically about our role as white people, for the five of us who were dudes, think critically about the role as men, all those things. So I had all the right lessons. I was freeing to be you and me from a very, very early age. And yet, in spite of that,