 while I knew at four, it wasn't until maybe I was around 17, 18, that I had reached a place where I was like, okay, enough is enough. Like, this is, mind you, I already had a child at this point, right? But I had reached that point where I was like, enough is enough. Like, I have to be able to be free in whatever that freedom looks like for me. And so me being able to start to live that out loud