 Don't let them out. They're going to try to change the subject. They're going to insult you. They're going to do everything they can to not answer that and to move past into some sort of an emotional tactic to make you feel like you're bad in some stupid way. But keep asking the same question. If you ask them the same question enough times, they may not realize it then, but they might go home and they might be sitting in bed being like, oh, you know what? Everything about my life is wrong. I mean, we can only be that lucky.