 yes sir oh and my two nieces live with us now because why not why not wow and so i'm guessing your wife's not working or is she taking care of the kids tell me more yeah she's uh she's a stay-at-home mom she takes care of the kids and holds down the castle okay so she's queen of the castle you're making 280 000 you said how can i budget my money better are you using a budget or is that something you know you need to start