 your parents were 65 and 71 would you consider them to be relatively healthy for their age oh absolutely they were in in great health my mom's a nurse she's been a nurse for over 30 years so she made sure that they were good and they had actually been preparing weeks before they would take their two to three mile walks every day um so they were they were in good shape how would you like your parents to be remembered just as a beautiful amazing people they are