 it's part of the, there's cooking and eating and talking and drinking and, and carrying on the whole time. And there's, I don't think I've ever actually had a sit down meal at your house ever. It was just always like, maybe not even Thanksgiving. No, it's always just like food is around and, and, uh, the, the, so yeah, it's just, you're eating and sharing and doing these things. Um,