 If you're having to pull from savings to overpay bills, you don't have enough money to just have said, Hey, you buy whatever you want. I'll buy whatever I want. And if you're a husband and this, I'm just using that cause it's here, but it includes wives too. If you think I don't have to ask anybody cause this is my house, then you do not have a marriage. No, you don't have a marriage. You're not building something together to move everybody forward. You're a selfish child. You've got to work together to build a future. And man,