 that they need a break from and we're sponsoring a respite for the weekend for their, for the soldiers and their spouses. Um, but we're living in a trauma where, where my, my children feel it. My grandchildren feel it. When I listened to the radio, when I'm driving, you can't escape. And it's, it's harrowing, Jake, you can't escape the radio interview after radio interview of the radio interview with different families who are living now through the trauma, good parents who don't know how to parent their children who are having still nightmares and