 yeah well i mean talk to a qualified estate planning attorney uh just tell them you know what you have and what your goals and wishes are and they'll take it from there make sure that you know if you are going to give people the power to make decisions on your behalf whether it's financially or medically make sure you're clear in what they're allowed to do or not allowed to do again an attorney should be drawing this up and then just very simply if you've got an account that allows you to name a beneficiary make sure it's correct and up to date