 Now here's why this connects. Throw away like the gender stereotypes in this, okay? Zoom back in. Some of us know how unhelpful it is to have someone that wants to fix our problems without empathizing deeply. Some of us know that's problematic. Others of us know that it's problematic to just talk about how much something hurts and do nothing to fix it, right? Others of us know that's problematic. We need both.