 next steps are going to be? Um, does she want to go back to work? Does she want to go back to school? Um, you have fudges mom after she has her third baby in, um, I think fudge a mania talking about, you know, what she's going to do with her life now that her kids are getting more independent and who does she want to be in the world? Um, you also have mothers like Dini's mother, um, who really are living their lives through their children. Um, who's