 And it got uncomfortable and it got semi confrontational at times. And I got sick of it. And I tried to pull the dad card and you're, you know, you're going to do this because I say so. Um, but there was a moment where I had been trying and trying and trying to master a vinaigrette that the family would eat. And there's a moment late in the story and late in our stay when I gotten it right. And she said,