 if i if i sell this house today and i go i don't know if i for example i found a rent somewhere the two bedroom the smallest apartment goes for 4k 4 500 guess what 4k is actually a reasonable amount for you to pay and you might have to do that and you're not throwing away money on rent that's you building back a foundation because right now you told us you're drowning and the reason is not because of a write-off or whatever the reason is because 60 of your take-home pay is going toward the mortgage