 speaker a guest speaker that was speaking on the topic and she said i i can't believe i came across this i found this uh she she left me a flyer on the kitchen table and said check it out because we we had not seen each other one of the days you know when i got back she was already at work when i got back home uh but later on in the day she texted me or when we talked she said check out the kitchen table and i guess i just had missed seeing the flyer and it was about a lecturer who uh