 you know, and it's going to sound rough to say, but, but it might sound, feel like a burden to talk, to borrow the time, but it's more of a burden to plan a funeral. If, if, if things go south, you know, and your family loves you, they like you when you're funny. They like you when you're not funny. They like you when you're sad too. They're just there to love you. You know, you get into situations and you see, you know, who's there for you in life and, and, and who stands with you through everything. So I'm really happy to hear that a lot of the callers and,