 now okay you know and it solves all your problems but the the progression of our relationship is absolute bullcrap yes sir yeah i don't think your debt needs to have anything to do with this exactly you pay it off and you can pay it off if it's paid off before you're married that's great if not it's our debt together i don't want you to feel like this is some shame and baggage you're bringing into this because guess what he gets maya that's way better than some student loan debt that we're going to knock out real quick