 my mom at some point. So I had already been calling him Koto, which is like brother in my language. I have seen him as my brother. We don't have another brother in my family biologically. So them bringing dad was like, no, I can't do this. One, he's my brother. Two, I was told in school that getting married or pregnant at a tender age will not help you become who you want to become in the future. And me, I don't want to become nothing. I want to be someone. So