 And so I never told him that they weren't that they weren't. It was like months we were dating. And when it was almost time for him to meet my son and I thought, oh, my God, he still thinks that he and Shane are in a relationship like and he had seen them, you know, like like he said a few times. But it just never dawned on me that, oh, you know, they can't they went under this kind of guy. So then I said, oh, and by the way.