 Four. My dad was thinking about me when he married my mama. Wow. And thought about me all his life. So much so that my name was on four different insurance policies. Wow. He wanted me to know that he loved me in life and after he was gone. So I'm okay. I'm cool with that part. To answer your question, no. What did I learn from all this? The great writer Samuel Beckett put it this way, and I live by this. It's in my office. It's in my space.