 There is no you without it. Well, I said earlier, it is the defining moment of my life. It is the defining moment of my childhood. There is no Tavis without that incident. There is no Tavis without that road bump, if you will, on the journey. And again, my father and I got past that. Again, I miss him dearly. I loved him dearly. My father adopted me. I was born out of wedlock. So I knew my father loved me early on because my father married my mother, adopted me, and told the courts, speaking of courts,