 use your mic oh okay so women if you can um you might want to look into just i know it sounds crazy freezing your eggs and just looking into things of that sort because as you get older you don't want that to become an issue you know you're so busy and wrapped up into your career that you forget to start your family you know men they don't have so much to worry about but us we need to take that into because you don't have any kids i don't and i do want children and i'm in my 40s don't tell nobody don't tell nobody