 That's a lot because you don't do that when you have a cisgender couple. You don't walk around asking them what positions they prefer and all that, right? Who's their aggressor on a Friday night? No one asks that. Okay, what's next? Then we have, have you prayed or gone to therapy about it? To which my response is, have you prayed for a brain? Uh-oh. Well, prayer is good.