 So I told her that he hadn't, it's been, you know, over three years, he hasn't told me he loved me and what, you know, how I was feeling about that, a little insecure about that. And so as we talked through it, she said, you know, you've been in situations where people have told you they loved you before, but their actions didn't meet, you know, it didn't match their words. Would you prefer to be told you loved, you're loved and not treated like you're loved?