 um we do have to acknowledge the trauma but yeah don't don't overlook the fact that this it's still the same game that's being played the game hasn't ended we're still playing this game so don't think that it's it's over just because of a past event not to mention i mean i think guilt is part of it but another part of it is greed greed and and power lust so you know i i can give you a pass to a point on the on the guilt