 get into his first marriage with shawnee o'neill it's a good conversation to have but not necessarily because of the my son is getting married but how she sort of framed this answer when it comes to what did it feel like to watch your son engage in this in this marriage um it's going to be an interesting one i'm definitely going to talk about that one next week so i want to give y'all the heads up but let's go ahead and get into the raw report andy now it's time for a breakdown