 doing, doing, doing that we forget what's really important to us. And, you know, even last week on this show, the question on the floor was, what do you really want? Right. Because we can want a career, you know, we can want a nice big house, but as you said, do you also really want a family as well? And how do you make all of that come together in a way that makes sense? Right. And so speaking of making things come together, you know,