 including their relationship with yourself, right? Like what you just mentioned about the childhood wounds, right? To me, I think that's where our novelty stops when we are wounded because the curiosity dies within us. So you stop, you stop seeking those answers and the things that people might tell you are, no, that's inappropriate. Don't ask that. Don't say that. So you start to kind of take that on. And I think that's really what it is that kind of encapsulates the wound, which,