 And so desperation dating means you have no standards. Anyone that's interested in you, you're interested in them. And so you're generally jumping from relationship to relationship. And the sad part about it is you might have them but still have a void. You still feel empty. You still feel like there's something that's missing because you have no standards. You think this other person is going to make you feel whole or like a person or loved. But part of it is because you don't love yourself.