 back then she probably wouldn't, you know, I don't know if she would ever imagine me being the Sharon I am today. I would hope so, but it was just so different. Yeah. And, um, and so I released that burden and then I was able to start talking about it more with people and really seeing it for what it is. Like I've been through a lot and I have to recognize it for what it is and then hopefully, you know, be able to, you know, help other people. So,