 he not ready for it uh he not ready for that conversation but um but yeah so the soft launch is like you just sort of you you know you can see like i'm out with a guy you might see his hand you might see the back of his head i might talk about like on mine i talked about how um we had a date once and instead of he couldn't come pick me up and i was like cool i'll take an uber and next you know he had sent me a screenshot of a black car that he was sending me so he sent a car for me