 my self or my family, frankly, my siblings, to be defined by this moment that was all in the media in this small town. So what did I do? I started running. That's the question. I started running. That's the question. And I've been running ever since that moment, trying to put as much distance between me and that moment so that the world, my world, our world, my family's world, would not define me by that. So I say this with humility. You start with that