 yeah and even when they video you so there's this new like i don't even know it's new this is og right here so i've video chatted with people and literally you could tell like they put the the person's video up to the phone like another video up to the phone and the dude was like i can't hear you it was the dude in the picture you know and he was just like i can't hear you i can't hear you because obviously they haven't catfished this dude you know what i mean like so he'll be like i can't hear you and i'm sitting over here like i can't hear you so what does that mean