 And to talk about what they need and how they feel and to help them to formulate the words to express that to their partners. A lot of times guys walk around like, I don't need nothing, you know, as long as we, you know, as long as we having sex or whatever, then it's all good. Right. And, but that's not, but that's not true. A man can have all the sex that he, that he feels that he wants and still be completely lonely and,