 and you just met the person from uh like there's there's a thing called like discord servers that is meant for like dating or directly meeting new people if those are the people you go towards that's where majority of them are and that's the places you should usually avoid uh for if you're trying to avoid discord predators i would say more naturally on like a discord server with like friend groups and stuff like that so that way you know the person is like who's this person