 the nail that sticks out gets hammered down. So we are judged while we were at our most genuine selves and not everyone is accepting of other people. So a lot of the time, some people are forced to hide who they are and they have to hide who they are as an act of self-defense. That's why most times you'll never really know who someone is. Even if you've known them for a long time, they'll only show you what they want you to know. Is he lying? I mean, okay.