 Even more so, this is becoming an issue you can't solve. Because these are marital issues. They're financial issues that you're seeing. You're seeing the symptoms on the outside, financially speaking. But these are marital issues that you... I mean, you're only seeing the tip of the iceberg on this. And with any kind of misbehavior, if you throw money at it, you're just going to be enabling more of the same misbehavior. She's not just going to change her habits because you gave her $5,000. She's going to go, whoo, shopping spree.