 I I'm not going to keep you from doing anything. So I think these are the conversations that we have to have. I, uh, John and John Deloney and I were hosting the other day and we were kind of poking fun at when couples don't share their money. And so they've been mowing each other back and forth. And so many people were saying, Jade, you know, it's, it's whatever works for the couple. And I'm like, I get that. But there is some, there are things that,