 And she acts out for whatever reason in this way. But I'm just saying you need to step in. And I would say that to any caller when it comes to marriage. You guys need to be more of a team. And that's the exact reason you want to push into this because it's going to create a better marriage. It really will. It's going to not be fun at first because you guys are going to be maybe back and forth with stuff. But that's what creates a level of intimacy because you're doing it together.