 at all her stuff of $100,000 of going into credit card debt and you not knowing all of it. But also, you didn't know because you don't know what's going on. So, Peter, you need to step up in this and sit down and be a team together. And you're a very kind person. But when you said, I'm not the kind of person that fights with money, these are the fights you need to have because your marriage needs a level of unity