 Well, I've tried everything. I've tried like being really kind of angry about it and confronting her harshly and that doesn't work. She shuts down. She thinks I'm a bad guy. She says, this is why I don't talk to you. So I've tried the opposite. I've tried being very soft and understanding and try to like let her know she can talk to me. That doesn't work. Everything kind of backfires on me. So I'm looking to you guys for some guidance. Has this always been going on? How long have you guys been married?