 You explain it to him. You show him where it went. You can be transparent with it where it happens. But he hands his paycheck over to you. He has no hidden accounts, no lies, no side credit cards, no side girlfriends, no bull crap. And keep yourself protected too, Jill. Yeah. And if he won't turn it over to you and go get in counseling, you're going to have nothing but hell on earth because he's just lying again.