 I suggest if you've got something like this, that if you're interested in somebody at work, make sure it's somebody with whom your work really doesn't intersect. Because I think we've all also been in workplace situations where there's a relationship of some sort going on, and the people involved in it think nobody knows. Everybody knows. Thanks, Julie. Career expert Julie Bauke, known as Julie on the job. Coming up next, volleyball popularity soaring with boys.