 you know this but even feeling like you have to take care of your mom too in this i understand you guys are banding together which makes complete sense um but making sure that you're you know navigating this well to to bring in a professional too for you guys start aiming at what happiness 10 years from today looks like and what are the steps to get there and making him happy is not one of the steps i'll go ahead and tell you jesse is in san antonio texas hi jesse how are you