 i'll tell the truth on this is a perfect place to do it you know to make him feel good uh you know for the the most of his life i've been you know able to you know just physically dominate i mean the strength is always going to be that i don't i don't i don't see him for a while ever being able to just truly you know manhandle me like it's it's a big brother thing you can't let that happen but uh you know as he started to grow he passed me up during covid and uh