 cautious not like a go for it kid she's been getting better but it blew me away I mean I kind of said it jokingly because she wanted to get something out of the pantry and I think it was like a bag of chips or something like that and she's like dad can you give me a the bag of chips out of the pantry and I said well Tori I'm like if you want the chips you got to get them she's like I can't get them like yeah you can she's like how I'm like well if it were me I'd take the dining room chair I'd push it over to the pantry I climb up the chair and there's a little place you could put your foot and you could get to the top of the pantry so I kind of was busy doing some