 uh influence by other people and other kids other teenagers sure yeah i've heard uh listen i have uh well now they're a little older but uh you know for a while i had two teenagers girls and i would hear them interacting with with their friends and and some of their friends would place so much ownership on issues of mental health uh and it was interesting to me um and for example like let's say i was going through something i would probably say something like i'm going through a really tough time