 my wife's the same way but she will and she's right about this if we're going to we have this pizza place locally sometimes we'll go down get a bite it's just a good place you can get a pizza you can get a beer there if you want whatever it may be and sometimes because I'm me I don't want to put on decent clothes for it I'll be I'm not not dressed in sweats or something like that but let's say I'm wearing shorts top be wearing shorts maybe not the best t-shirt in the world just walking around the house