 spending you know this type of money for this one single ceremony basically just to impress all the people you know is kind of you know is it worth it in the debate is that the way the minute when it was used that why they do this to impress their friend absolutely weddings are a status symbol there's no if ands or buts about it that to spend that much money on a single day you're trying to prove something you're trying to say hey i have this sort of disposable income