 and somebody gonna have to be gonna have to be responsible enough and somebody's gonna have to be willing enough to be there to be a some some kind of resource for your family you have you don't have to do everything but pick something and be that so if you are the person in your family who has that green thumb be the for be the gardener be the farmer in your family so that when your people come they can harvest from you and eat and eat be that person your family who if you are good with you