 So here's what you need to do, and I work with literally dozens and dozens and dozens and dozens of dogs like that. What you need to do is when the dog is standing on your bed, on the couch, on the floor, you need to just start rubbing the belly. Don't lift him up at all. Just start rubbing the belly. Leave him haunted. A couple of strokes and walk away. A couple of strokes and walk away. The next day, a little bit more. After two or three days of this, maybe put just a drop hair of pressure on lifting up. Don't lift him. Just a drop pressure.