 we lose somebody maybe that thing that we love to do with them you know we don't want to do because it's painful i guess a roundabout way how do you kind of carry on in something when a huge piece of that thing isn't around to do it with you anymore good question very deep the songs you know the songs live on and sometimes it is painful for me to hear a heartbreaker song you know i get wistful but at the same time i feel like that was good you know we were