 you know feelings of isolation and sadness but you know looking back now 24 years later like it was it certainly made me who i am today yes and i think that's the most fascinating nugget about all of this we're talking to dr nicole sapphire the brand new smash hit book available wherever the fine books are sold love mom inspiring stories celebrating motherhood is that you've built an incredible life for yourself and what the point i try to make to people all the time