 you know we do that in life we know things aren't good for us but they're good to us and we do it anyway and i want us to be just just reevaluate just be careful with the things that you're doing just because you've always done it mom and them always did it you know grandma this is just how we are but it's literally not good for you i remember i i had a friend and they were just proud to tell us yeah my family fight we always fight and we don't forgive nobody i was like oh that's so bad