 So sometimes it's difficult to look at how lost we are. Even when you look, say for instance, I work with junior high kids. None of them have ever lived in a world where men are men and women are women. Ever. They've always lived in a world where the society tells you a girl is a boy and a boy is a girl just as long as the girl says she's a boy. But even that, it's so hard to describe how lost we are. I want to give you a comparison.