 uh cheryl's mansion party and my son was the only one that came with me but watching him in the room it gave me a bit of peace because it let me know that they're aware of what we do as a family and what god has called us to the blessing of that and also the weight of that and it was just really awesome to see now i don't know what your children do but pay attention to your children in a different way as opposed to i want you to get up and i want to grow up and i want you to be successful there's so many steps in between that loving them