 When are they not respectful? Well, if I'm in a busy place like the campus dining hall or driving home in rush hour, they can get really, really loud and they all try to talk at once and it just gets to be a little much. That's why I had to go to therapy in the first place. One of my professors made me see the college mental health advisor after I had a bit of an outburst during a lecture. What caused the outburst?