 well, I want to know this stuff. Like, I don't want my kid to be able to have this for me because this is a conversation that I want to have early because maybe if I have this conversation early, I don't know, maybe I could change their mind or maybe I could, I don't know, influence them away from whatever it is they're feeling right now. Like, I guess I understand that, but I just feel like at the end of the day,