 to be kind, to be long-suffering. And so I pray that you find God in your relationships. I know somebody got like, wait a minute, I don't know how I feel about this. But it's real life. We all go through things. And how you look at the things will determine how you come out of it. How you put God in the situation will determine whether you allow the enemy to manipulate you in the situation. That is with parents, cousins, siblings, whatever it is.