 and they should have realized i mean i think you know he said his father told him to suck it up and his mother you know didn't act on it either and so eventually as he wrote you know his diaries traced the trajectory from when he was first telling them about his or even thinking himself about his mental problems and thinking if this doesn't get fixed if they don't take me to a doctor i'm going to shoot up the school i mean what more do you have to have as proof