 that's what I always want to know who are these people a lot of them are older women and I just feel like I want everyone out there to check in on your grandma and just like make sure she's good some of your guys' grandmas are not good like some of your guys' grandmas are not okay like if my grandmas are all dead but like if my grandma was spending the short remaining time that she has on this earth or whatever like just harassing a specific stranger I would take her out to lunch