 But without honor, it ain't going to happen. I see it in families a lot. Sometimes parents are facilitating the dishonor of another parent because there's problems in the relationship and you allow your children to dishonor them because you are upset. The Bible says children obey your parents, honor your parents for this is right. And the Lord honor your father and mother as the Lord has commanded you that your days may be long and that it may go well with you.