 concert happened and it was our anniversary we'd be like all right we do it tomorrow we're gonna make this money um and i feel the difference in us now and then the difference in us then but when we made definite intentional efforts of being together and god being in the center and making our love our relationship and our legacy and our children and our family the priority i feel like everything changed so i'm not judging you but what i'm saying to strengthen it god's way gets god's results and learning to be selfless in marriage and putting your love