 key right there and so a lot of a lot of good side hustles you can do without getting involved in that kind of stuff man wow yeah and if it's your buddy and you're worried about how to tell your buddy um i don't know dave with me and my closest friends we have a pretty straightforward relationship that they've got permission in my life to say hey deloney you're about to do something real stupid don't do that and i have learned the hard way over the years that when one of my friends calls me and says that