 Typically, I think most people would say, you know, that thing, if you allow it, you know, that hard thing I went through, it made me who I am. It created resiliency. It created grit. It created, you know, for me, a ministry to help thousands of other people and to be, you know, to help bold. So I do think there's truth in it. I think it's hard for people to embrace that when there's loss, but I