 all of those out there is to make your salvation sure if if you're saved if you have the indwelling of the holy spirit if you're then and dwelling in you uh you will grieve him if you're not an active if you're not an active christian if you're not a doers of the word and just to hear only you will grieve that holy spirit and if you grieve him he'll grieve you back but if you're going through life and you're just as i feel very very comfortable