 father uh let marriage be held in honor let your love be genuine you know it just tells us all these things outdo one another and showing honor um and it is something that we don't do very often um i told you guys before that over this past weekend um i went to a family reunion well kind of like a cousin party that's what we called it a cousin party um and so older aunts and uncles and cousins were there and teaching some of the younger ones around