 If you make husbands and wives optional in marriage, mothers and fathers become optional in parenthood. And that's exactly what has happened. And last week, I shared the story of two gay men in New York who were like, we're married, but we're still being discriminated against because the state won't pay for our IVF, subsidize our egg donor, and pay for our surrogate. And that's discrimination, right? So we went from 10 years ago, like,