 i am always the person that's like i got it you know like say you and i would go out for drinks if we were best friends and um you know the bill was like 40 bucks i got it i got it get me next time i don't understand that well you owe me because to me it's like in the game of life we will all figure it out in the end it all works out now that being said i'm in my 40s and a little more comfortable with cash flow