 And so as they're growing and developing and, you know, especially as they go through the phases and stages, because what I'm learning in loving my children is the season. So, you know, we're not in little kids season anymore. And so I can't romanticize them being little. Oh, you were so little. And oh, when you were little, oh, when you look, especially because these teenage years are so crucial. So allowing them to talk and be who they are and be expressive about what they like and don't like.