 in my name that is smokey norfolk he's got the number one song in the country this weekend on the spirit top 15 countdown this weekend and before i let you go let me give you this selfie session i know how you hate to disappoint people and i know how hard it can be to just say no when you want to be perceived as generous helpful and kind but listen saying no to something you don't wish to do is actually saying yes to you if you can't stand the feeling of disappointing others