 And so, honestly, and so what happens is when you see somebody that looks like you and then you suddenly wonder what you would have done in that particular situation, that means you're leaning in. If you're watching a scene and you're thinking, thank God I never had to go through that, that means you're leaning in. When you see 200 people killed and you don't have a feeling at all about it, then you're numb. And we have...