 i could not wait to get out i remember telling my mom i'm only going to apply to schools in new york so i could get as far away from you as possible you know and then i ended up staying at the university of miami and attending school there but i still i i wanted to do whatever i could so i was waitressing at the time to be able to and then i worked at the university of miami library stacking books for six dollars an hour just to get out at age 17 and now the younger generation is staying in you know in the home