 I never thought of it like that. But how has God allowed you to grow through a relationship? Because sometimes we just look at the problems in the relationship, but you have to get to a difficulty to overcome it. When you're getting ready for a test or when you're getting ready for a next level, there is always a test. When you're getting ready for an elevation, there's a test, a requirement to show that you are ready for this next thing. And that's what God does through our love relationships, giving us an opportunity to be like him, to be patient.