 love to do in life you know and helping other people because if they worked one day on a movie set and they want to be an actor they can say that they fulfill their dream wow so you know everybody's hearing this and they're going to want to know what somebody was like and of course you treated them so well so i can imagine that that's and then that's your personality the kind of relationships that you have but you've said to me before as close as you've become with kevin costner and now he's