 gold star families that have talked to you and say, wow, that what you're doing isn't. And what's, what's, what's that been like when somebody either calls you or texts you or, or contacts you, you do some contacts you somehow and they're, they're letting you know what you're doing is really important. How's that? How's that? I feel like the little, the little Alexis that, uh, lost her father would be really proud because, um, throughout, um, my grief journey, um,