 coaching them, allowing them to grow, allowing them to fall and not beating them up when they fall, getting them back up lovingly the same way God loves you and gets you back up. I always tell people, I never feel God knocking me in the head because I messed up. So why do we, why are we so aggressively hard on our children? Teaching them and preparing them for what it is, teaching them and preparing them. So this weekend, of course, we talked about