 Well, first of all, because we're always, we're all in denial, is for them to recognize, you know, and validate what their feelings are and go ahead and let them come out. And heal, let the people around them know. You know, I kept it so secret from my family, they didn't realize what I went through until they read my book. Wow. They had no idea. And then the book's out there, and how did they feel about that?