 And I'm not ever going to wild goose chase you again, but here's the path forward, and here's the book, and here's the way we're going to navigate this, and I'd love for you to join me here. I'm scared about how I've led this family, and I'm scared about what comes next if we keep owing all this money. Will you join me? And then at that point, maybe she might say, hey, what did you do with Andy, my husband? And she may say, I still don't feel comfortable with it, but at least she sees you recognizing what she now has been experiencing. Can you do that?