 So if you feel stuck, if you're treading water, if you have no job, if you hate your job, if you can't find a career that excites you, if you can't find a girlfriend, if you're just wasting away staring at screens all day, then get yourself unstuck. Go somewhere else. Do something, anything. Again, why not? What do you have to lose? Worst case, you end up coming back where you started after a while and you slip right back into the neutered existence you're currently living. That's the worst case.