 Just tell him you need help. I've got to keep this house and the family. I've got to keep this little cash. I want that to go to the grandkids, but I need care. What am I entitled to? There are programs he knows about you don't know about, strategies he has that you don't have. Get a hold of Attorney Joe Priano today. Be very honest. Turn your burdens over to him and say, please help me navigate the nursing home hurdles. 401 Elder Law. That's him. 353-3752. 401ElderLaw.com. Call. He'll pick right up.