 silent as everyone waited for me to say anything. And I realized that Joseph and I had missed certain elements of the women's movement when we'd been in India because these people kept going up to Joseph and yelling at him, why won't you let her speak? Why won't you let her have a voice? And he would say, I'd love to have a night off. Go talk to her. But I just couldn't do it. I was so scared. And then