 why don't they pick up the phone the women do when they hear me talk about get ready to date the men don't i think you think someone's going to walk the knock on the door and say here here i i'm going to give you a chance at love again you gotta you gotta do a little work you just all you have to do is pick up the phone and call get ready to date and it's not online or on the computer there's no app you're not swiping left or right this is just communication this is deborah an honest to goodness matchmaker she specializes in helping people over forty find the love of their life so