 While Jan's on the phone, Els leaves to go and use the washing machine. She's in and out of the camper van during my visit. Jan doesn't really move and sits in the only position that eases his back pain, with one leg bent underneath him, fielding calls from family and friends. This is going on all week. Who is this? All day this week. Who is this? It was my brother. Oh, your brother. It's not only about our...