 Like these things just get bigger and bigger and bigger. There's an old counseling saying conflict deferred is conflict amplified. If you don't say, hey, this is important to me that we get some counsel, that we get people to walk with us in this stage of our marriage. And she says, nah, this will just this will turn into a nuclear bomb down the road. And I hate that for you, man, because I know that you love this this this woman.