 The three of them are all crammed in here now. We all have our theories, and I've heard it replicated. Other people say the same thing. It's just like, are they trying to wear us down so we settle for less? Lately, Garland says they came to the realization that this is now where they live. They can't go home. It's a travesty, she says, making people who already suffered suffer more. Kirk Sigler, NPR News, Albuquerque.