 he's infatuated with her, he loves her, you know, like, she wants to go home with him, and he says, and he acquiesces and says yes, like, he's never coming at it from, like, well, look at this monster, or look at this whatever. He's sort of, like, approaching it from a place of not understanding, but being, like, entranced by it nonetheless, and I think it's an interesting thing, and I think it's so easy to do a song like this and make Lola the joke, and Lola's never the joke in the song, and I think that is a really key thing for me,