 And so part of your job is not to give her money but to inject hope into her life and help her get back on the horse. And don't you dare give her any more money. Don't you dare give her any more money. If you want to buy some food and drop off a bag of food, do that. But don't you give her cash to sit on her butt. Don't participate in her own destruction. That's the worst kind of enabling. You're not being nice. You're being mean when you do that.