 But you also have to have the courage to say, I pawn this off on this is just what we're supposed to do or this is the right thing to do. I want to do this because it's important to me. Yeah. And if she looks you in the eye and says, I can't meet your needs or I have no interest in quote unquote doing what you say that you want, then you'll need to address your relationship there. That's a tough place. Okay. Is that fair?