 right so i know you're out there i know you want to find love again and this is what she does she sets the first date up for you once she talks with you she finds you a match she thinks is going to be a perfect fit sets up the first date for you you go out she helps you with what to wear what to talk about what to expect after that first date you both speak with deborah about the experience how did it go if you want to go out again great she will notify the other well she will assist you both