 She'll set the first date up for you. She helps you with what to wear, what to talk about, what to expect. Then after your first date, both of you speak with Debra about the experience. How did it go? If you want to go out again, great. She'll put your memberships on hold. If it's not a match, no problem. She will notify the other party it just wasn't a match this time, and she'll handle it. Many, many busy professionals.