 it's weird. You, you, you write it and then it comes out in a year and a half later, right? Like you go through this process like a year later, it comes out. And I didn't really think about how my parents would take this. And they've both kind of taken it a little harder than I had hoped and certainly intended. What, how have they taken it? You know, my mom and my dad and his way and my mom and her way, which is very honestly and very, you know, vulnerably, um,