 over coffee at a sidewalk cafe in New York. Forohar says moving from safe house to safe house has taken a toll. The couple doesn't hang artwork on the walls or put out family photos, he says, because they never know how long they'll be in one place. In every location we are, it's very sterile for us. And I want that messy, chaotic feel of a home where albums are everywhere, pictures are everywhere, books are everywhere. It's just like a mess that is your mess and it's your home.