 If I understand your inflow and outflow of cash or credit or whatever you want to call the units of measurement that we use to move the world around, I know exactly what's in your heart. I know what you care about. I know what you idolize. I know what you don't care about at all. Incidentally, this is an artful description of the economic concept of revealed preference. The idea that despite what people may say, they will reveal what they actually want or care about with their money.