 coordinating three extra plane tickets to try to get myself and my other children there was nearly impossible because we didn't have solidified dates and it was towards the end of school so um you know it's field day and all the fun things and in the meantime my son can't speak he was so sick that he he couldn't speak he didn't have a voice for about two months and so he can't speak we're trying to coordinate this surgery travel and we don't know when it's going to be and so i need to maybe find care for my other kids so i can fly but i don't know the dates and yeah the the