 have a hard time accepting those wounds? Or was that? No, no, I spoke to Mary. I mean, first off, I'm one of those people that obnoxiously vomits their life out on people, you know, it's like on your first date, you just literally the day I met her. First off, we both realized, individually, we said to ourselves, I said, to myself, I'm incapable of being in a marriage or relationship because I will mess it up.