 uh... and but i don't know about this and i want to get done with the parents here limited to the to the issue the transgender she specifically if ryan would you go back to ride and find out what they're recommending his policies and we find a way they had enough and if they are anything besides in parental involvement would you say we don't do that here i think the parents need to know what's going on with their kids so listening so the uh... and uh... and for the right reasons