 You know, everybody I talk to say the same thing. Take a step back and take a deep breath. It is very uncomfortable to not try and fill in the blanks, but it is really necessary to refrain from sharing unfounded theories or acting on those suspicions. And also, check out who's doing the talking. Many people say they have expertise in overanalysis, but this is a very specific circumstance and fluid situation. So be wary of people claiming they have all the answers at this stage.