 And it didn't, it wasn't until later that I kind of clued into what was happening in the song. And I do think that like, you know, the protagonist is this clueless man, but it's also like, there's still a lot of heart there. You know, like he's never, when he's talking about like, you know, Lola is a trans woman. Like I was sort of always read Lola as a trans woman. And like, you know, she's, you can sort of picture her in your mind's eye, right? She's bigger than the protagonist and she's stronger and she's whatever, but it's never told out of malice. You know, there's no, it's always like,