 especially a famous actor father who had sort of a not a sort of a but had a closeted life had a closeted sexuality life uh in the 50s and 60s 70s 80s and 90s even today right even today it's kind of not that okay which is insane to say but for a leading man to be gay or bisexual is just not it's still not a thing that's on the ticket part of what happened in my