 All right, hold on, relax, take a deep breath, and call Attorney Joe Praiata today. He's 401 Elder Law. That's him. Mr. 401 Elder Law himself. Tell him your situation. Tell him who needs care. Tell him your assets, what you'd like to protect, what you'd like to keep in the family, a house, some retirement money, a year marked as for the kid's tuition, and let him go to work. Now, be very honest with him. Don't give him a story. If he didn't do anything, you didn't plan ahead, just tell him that.