 I thought for a minute and then I decided not to reply. She was visibly upset, but I felt like, you know, I'm in a graveyard and you've interrupted my meditation, my own sort of deep disturbance here to hand me your grief in the form of an apology, but it's still to hand me your grief. And I thought it's not mine to bear. I have my own, my own grief. And so I didn't respond.