 and at first i just totally ignored her but come to find out she was right who wants to go back to school at 40 years old exactly yeah but what i realized is like it's never too late to start over and i was my grad program that i was in i was in that program with people that were in their 60s in like early 70s even now those were like the exception rather than the rule yeah but still and so i just like i have i also have this passion for people that are approaching middle age or maybe past middle age and they like want