 time to get to know each other and you're you're ready and you're 27 you're not 20 you're not 18 and 17. you know you're not that so um did i have that call at this point you know if i want to spend my life with this person because you've already spent a good chunk of your life with this person at eight years yeah so yes i would get married as soon as possible and reasonable and i would not wait on clearing debt to do that as long as you're both aligned on how we're going to handle money