 Take time to really get to know him by going on a date and sitting there and listening to what he has to say to you. Number three, serve the gift. Do the greater work. Lay hands on the sick. Take amenity class, anything to get you activated. Number four, count your blessings every day by making your own thankful jar. Add items, the things that you are thankful for each day, and at the end of the month, go back through and praise God for them.