 Well, Matthew chapter 1 verse 20 tells you, while Joseph thought on these things, the angel of the Lord appeared to him and said, Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit. So you can't get discouraged when you are carrying something and it's not convenient for other people. See, God will deal with others. He just needs you to focus on carrying it.