 You hang out with the wrong people so they poison you. And you bring that poison into your own situation. God's got some people that actually do believe in marriage. God's got some folk that do believe in hard work. God's got some folk that do believe in going to class. And you got to learn to find the right people, build community with them. And then number four, choose your battles. Learn what to address and what to leave alone. Some things just don't deserve your attention.