 misguided thoughts and feelings exactly like where did where did this come from that we all just thought i feel this way i think this way and that's you know throw our hands up that's just what it is yeah yeah i mean i think that's a great point i think like there are a couple of factors at work here first of all i think that we like science advances every day and we learn more and more about how the brain works and like let me just say if any of you guys have seen the inside out 2 movie