 And whether it's a pain that we're living in a one bedroom apartment with no furniture in it, or I'm just frustrated because I have two kids and they have to be in two different places at the same time. It's just a frustration. And we're all humans at the end of the day. And it just really touched me that she felt that way that we could relate just as humans. And so I think that that's beautiful to think we've all been through trauma and pain is pain. And it doesn't, no one has a measuring stick to say your pain is greater than their and