 and they're, you know, they, they say they have to be very intentional blocking things out where, you know, 20 years ago when they first started, it wasn't like that. Yeah. You know, and the, the, the, how personal it gets. And I get, and I told, I mean, I completely understand that that young person on the floor is somebody's child. I get that. But also remember that they're a person. If there was one message that I could send the parents that,