 It discounts their feelings and shifts the blame onto them. It's also a little gaslighting. Yeah, that's often used to gaslight. You're right, you're just too sensitive. You just want too much romance. You're living in a fantasy world. You're not a princess and this isn't a fairy tale. Right. So it discounts their feelings and shifts the blame onto them so you don't have to apologize or feel bad. You're just too sensitive. Yeah.