 This is Independence Day. Unless someone wants clergy there to offer a blessing, we may not be the first people they think to invite over to the barbecue and bar setup. Is someone getting up a crowd of the guys or girls to party a little and watch the big Triple Crown horse race? It's quiet at my office. I'm probably not getting invited. Just got married, and now the wedding reception that couldn't be held in the church fellowship hall is about to start.