 that you shouldn't yeah yeah that's all part of being a good grandpa i'm getting your grandpa like you know take you aside go here okay here my granny did yeah you know yeah here's some here's some things and then uh daddy would get it was my dad's mom and daddy would go don't be teaching her that she said well i'll have more fun with her than i could y'all had to be mama with y'all that's right yeah