 Not how am I going to tell someone else because all of my relatives are dead already, but how am I going to handle it when they start telling me? Am I going to be like my aunt and say no, no, no until I crash into my house? Or am I going to take this experience with my aunt and say, you know, I remember my aunt, she didn't take it. Maybe I should listen to them. How am I going to respond? And I'm trying to, trying to, you know,