 uh that the emotions come a little later and um you know it's my first grandchild so those that have had grandchildren they know you know i guess when you first see the baby you're counting toes and you're counting fingers and you're you're doing all of that and then it starts to realize that the generation that you know is starting now is one that you created um hopefully that it works out the way it should you won't be here when that generation moves on yeah