 expect it from his word no matter if it's a day off or a month off that expectation of waiting you can trust into it because there's a difference between that you know what's going to happen you know what I mean and even I will say there's a difference between knowing and believing you know what I mean because that's a difference you don't believe your dad is your daddy you know your dad is your daddy sometimes people may be like I don't know if I'm my dad or not but