 OK, now, when we don't give voice to the reality of our losses and grief, when we don't acknowledge our condition, our desperate condition, if we stuff it instead, it comes out one way or the other. But it often comes out sideways. Right. And so I I've been talking to people left and right lately. We live in a very angry world right now. I don't think it's really anger. I think it's grief. Hmm.