 this is why i tell people all the time you think you want to be in charge because you have never been in charge yeah it being in charge is hard it's not oh well chuck can go do a radio show during the day look how nice that must be get the hell out of here it is i was also at my office at five o'clock in the morning i was also there at 8 15 last night right so there's a whole lot of stuff and that's not me that's every single business owner there are hard decisions you have to make