 This was a woman whose complaint was known. Her husband came up to her and said, hey, why are you not eating? What's going on here? He knew what it was. And people tried to console her. There's no hiding it. Maybe you have a problem that you're a little bit ashamed of and there's no hiding it. Especially the people around you and some of the people you definitely don't want to know about it can't help but know about it.