 Do you know of any person on the face of this earth who has eternal life because they had such a good mom and daddy? I can't name one. If you have eternal life, you got that from God the Father sending his son Jesus Christ to die on the cross for you. He's your number one debt. You take care of him first. Number two would be family. How in the world can we estimate those of us that were blessed with loving families what they've done for us?