 If I didn't have something good to say, I didn't say anything at all. And I just recognize that to be compassionate and to have empathy for them, they're going to have to talk to us. They're going to have to actually tell us what's wrong. And we're going to have to learn to really, really listen to them. It's hard to connect sometimes on that level. You're making yourself even more vulnerable feeling when you try to reach out and share some of those thoughts with other people.