 And it's action, not words. We use too many words with kids in parenting. We need more action. Sometimes you take the little buzzard by the beak, so to speak, or you pull a rug out and let the little buzzard tumble, as I like to say, and it's sort of shocky. You sort of blindside them. Honey, I don't feel like getting you a glass of milk right now. I don't feel like driving you to your girlfriend's house right now.