 what they believe. I think it's really important because you want to stay in the conversation. You want to keep lines of communication open. And it's not just a tactic to do that, but it's what Jesus calls us to. He calls us to love people. And we should certainly love our own children, even if they don't believe the same things that we do. I think the next thing that you want to do is I think you want to say, okay, so how do we relate