 and and that's a mistake uh low expectations you know if you exceed them you you win and so i think already you see trump's camp saying biden's a good debater biden will be on drugs all of that is nonsense trump is um is trying to now set the expectations pretty high for biden people will make their own judgments and and the reality for the president is all of us if we're fortunate enough to have grandparents or great grandparents in our life