 and last one to leave whenever we leave you know what i mean so it's one of the things where man he um everything people see in the media i always get asked like how is he in person it's like bro what you see is what you get that's exactly what he would just see what you get you know when he talked about having you know dream relationships like really caring for guys and like loving guys and loving the game it's like that through and through you know what i mean like