 It makes the kids sort of shrug their shoulders. I guess that's what parents do. But if you want to connect with kids, you need to have a balance of tact. And that would be my message back to you is you are hearing two messages, that there's times you take the buzzard by the beak and you make things happen. There's other times you let them figure it out that this isn't going to work out really good and you sit back and you're almost –