 So, women not getting married, big article again in New York Times. So here's a woman writing and here's another excerpt from her piece. One friend of mine with whom I went to college would like nothing more than to be married. She's beautiful and successful and not, as far as I can tell, overly picky. She's had long-term relationships and cherishes the intimacy and stability they provide. To that end, she keeps a post-it note on a bulletin board.