 But then they've got all these protective factors to balance that within your home and you're giving them the tools to express those emotions and take care of themselves while they're going through it in a healthy way and develop that. But if we do it for them and we handle it and you didn't get invited to the party because everyone's just jealous of you and I'm going to call the mom and I'm going to have her invite you. It's like all these things happen.