 Bend, where do I not? I hope you're hearing balance because it is a balanced attack. Using a sport analogy, you can have a great offense, but if there's not a defense, you're not going to do well. And that's the art of parenting. It's knowing when to throw that flag. It's knowing when to say, hey, time out. You don't talk to your mother like that. You don't talk to me like that.