 but she did not want help. She wanted to be responsible for herself, and our challenge was going to be to get her to take the money with the spirit that it was given. I knew this was going to be a problem, so I actually spent some time before we went over to her house with a basket of fruit and this money studying the laws of service and was ready with some ideas on the importance of allowing people to give service and to give of their means to the poor so that they can receive blessings that come through service. Little did I know