 it's rough, it's rough on a marriage. So, um, you know, that, that part of the personal aid was, um, you know, I paid a price for that. Um, but that wasn't the only reason that it didn't work. So I don't want to say that it was all because of the job. Um, but yeah, like those are the curve balls in life, um, that, that life throws you in this. Um, I also think that in this generation, as we sort of alluded to earlier, um,