 What happened between Jim and I? I'll tell you what happened. He walked away from a flame, so I walked away from him. No, I don't mean metaphorically. We are out camping enjoying the great outdoors, and he has the goal to suggest we leave the campsite without thoroughly putting out the fire. He was comfortable walking away without dousing it with water, covering it with dirt, for good measure. Anyway, I figure if you don't extinguish a campfire, I extinguish the relationship. I don't date anyone who hasn't taken Utah's wildfire prevention pledge at sparkchange.utah.gov.