 biting my breath you know i'm from a small town um kind of a modest high school and i just remember looking at her and she didn't react she didn't say like hey we haven't sent someone there in 10 years we've never sent a girl it'd be really hard if you don't get in don't feel bad because i think if she had said any of those things that would have been you're right i'm going to apply somewhere else um but she didn't she was just like oh okay makes sense do you get to repaid that moment forward as the ceo and inspire confidence in your employees