 Rules are not the way to rear children. Let me jump in on that. I want to get Gene in here. Transformation, that's something I think you would agree, the boys, we've seen that in our own parenting. Describe that and then talk about kind of the rules issue that Kevin's mentioning. Well, yes, I say to parents, be of good cheer because you're strong, passionate, as Dr. Lehman says, power-driven child.