title: Get first element that does not contain value in an array in cypress
body: <p>I have a list of cards and I need to programmatically select the first in the list that does not contain one of five values that I have in an array.  I have tried this:</p>
  
  <pre><code>cy.get('.parent-element').not().contains('string1', 'string2', 'etc')
  </code></pre>
  
  <p>and this:</p>
  
  <pre><code>cy.get('.parent-element').not('string1', 'string2', 'etc')
  </code></pre>
  
  <p>hmmm. any thoughts on this.  any child element of <code>.parent-element</code> is fair game except for these few exceptions. </p>