In the city I feel like (and am treated like) a tourist.
I would encourage you to try somewhere out of the cities just to see how you like it. I have found I like the smaller towns and villages best. I feel like (and am treated like) a visitor in smaller places. In the city I feel like (and am treated like) a tourist. Seems like a small distinction, but as a visitor people strike up conversations and show a genuine interest in me. As a tourist, I am just another person taking up space and in their way.