In centuries past, we always had extended family living with us—or at least very close by—to help out with the children.
Never before in history have parents been expected to care for their newborns…all alone. In centuries past, we always had extended family living with us—or at least very close by—to help out with the children. But today that “village” has almost vanished, leaving new parents home alone struggling to adapt. And when both parents work, they’re even more pressed. So, my advice for new parents? Never hesitate to ask for help. If you have the means, please let the guilt go about paying for the help you need…you deserve it. Whether it’s a postpartum doula, a nanny, meal kit delivery, leaning on your friends and family, or looking into SNOO for that extra set of hands—any of these things can go a long way in easing the parenting load.