You believe that you are going to be in control when the baby arrives.
Do you know when the easiest time to feel like you know everything about parenting is? Any time before you actually become a parent. Before that, it’s easy to confidently declare what you will always or never do. You’re not being cocky or delusional. You believe that you are going to be in control when the baby arrives. But—how do I drop this bomb gently? You won’t.