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The wise woman makes quite sure that the matter which has annoyed her is really important  she banishes it if not, and, if it is, she states her case quietly and with dignity, so that her husband can answer her without heat, and give her explanations  or excuses. THE WISE WOMAN MAKES QUITE SURE THAT THE MATTER WHICH HAS ANNOYED HER IS REALLY IMPORTANT SHE BANISHES IT IF NOT AND IF IT IS SHE STATES HER CASE QUIETLY AND WITH DIGNITY SO THAT HER HUSBAND CAN ANSWER HER WITHOUT HEAT AND GIVE HER EXPLANATIONS OR EXCUSES
you find yourself at the end of the first year [Illustration: “_Above all, do not be dramatic._”] or two utterly disillusioned and disgusted--what then is best to be done? Look the whole situation carefully in the face, and see what roads will lead to better or worse conditions. Above all, do not be dramatic. The ineradicable, insatiable dramatic instinct in some women has caused them, for the pleasure they unconsciously take in a “scene,” to ruin their own and their husbands’ lives. Men are not dramatic: they do not “make scenes”--they loathe them; they loathe exhibitions of emotion which, nine times out of ten, do not occur until some action of their own provokes them, the action having proved that their interest in their wives is going off. The wise woman instantly appreciates this point, and knows that, if she gives way to her, perhaps just, reproaches, she will be adding another millstone round her own neck in a further weakening of her attraction for, and influence over, the man. LD YOU LAST TIME MUST BE FOR ANOTHER LETTER THE FIRST ONE WAS SUPPOSING THAT YOU FIND YOURSELF AT THE END OF YOUR FIRST YEAR OR TWO UTTERLY DISILLUSIONED AND DISGUSTED WHAT THEN IS BEST TO BE DONE LOOK AT THE WHOLE SITUATION CAREFULLY IN THE FACE AND SEE WHAT ROADS WILL LEAD TO BETTER OR WORSE CONDITIONS ABOVE ALL DO NOT BE DRAMATIC THE INERADICABLE INSATIABLE DRAMATIC INSTINCT IN SOME WOMEN HAS CAUSED THEM FOR THE PLEASURE THEY UNCONSCIOUSLY TAKE IN A SCENE TO RUIN THEIR OWN AND THEIR HUSBANDS LIVES MEN ARE NOT DRAMATIC THEY DO NOT MAKE SCENES THEY LOATHE THEM THEY LOATHE EXHIBITIONS OF EMOTION WHICH NINE TIMES OUT OF TEN DO NOT OCCUR UNTIL SOME ACTION OF THEIR OWN PROVOKES THEM THE ACTION HAVING PROVED THAT THEIR INTEREST IN THEIR WIVES IS GOING OFF THE WISE WOMAN INSTANTLY APPRECIATES THIS POINT AND KNOWS THAT IF SHE GIVES WAY TO HER PERHAPS JUST REPROACHES SHE WILL BE ADDING ANOTHER MILLSTONE ROUND HER OWN NECK IN A FURTHER WEAKENING OF HER ATTRACTION FOR AND INFLUENCE OVER THE MAN
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