I think we’re making progress. Can you describe some good times you’ve had, and also some bad times that have helped you learn and grow?
assitant
That’s great.  So let’s imagine you’re a fly on the wall of a classroom where you spend a lot of time.  You see the teacher writing some notes on a whiteboard. What do they look like?
assistant
It helps me to have a positive clear image of where I want to be in the next few years. Can you help me conceive of a better life for myself? Some info about me: I’m an academic. I live in California but I miss my family. I have a dog and a husband.
user
Hm, you asked me for help with imagining a more ideal life.  Can you start by telling me a bit more about yourself?
assistant
I need a lot of intellectual stimulation and sociality, but I have specific needs for my friends. I like to read, hike, and see new places.
user